John73

As a person, who have been incontinent for most of his life I would never take it. Well, I kind of grew to like being incontinent, but I would prefer life without this issue definitely. Especially at the beginning, I was struggling greatly with my incontinence. I didn't know what to do and how to live. To put it shorty: I was a mess, both mentally and physically because of incontinent. I managed to get up on my own feet though by just wanting to live and to be honest I don't know if I could achieve what I did if it wasn't for incontinence, because thanks to that I have realized extremely valuable foundations in life, but I would definitely be happier in my twenties.

I stopped shaving clean down there since like my early twenties. Now i always trim, it's much better feeling even when you go around. When I cleaned shave it was always quite itchy and vulnerable to any infections or stuff like this. Thing is that maybe if I used like electric shaver like those that are available now I wouldn't have this effect, but like 15 years ago I only used a razor and it left my skin clearly itchy and vulnerable. Not to mention, that every single girl that I've been told me, that she actually likes trimmed hair than cut clean shave. It has boosted my ego back then a bit I remember as I always trimming or even making some kind of pattern a few times when I was bored.. hah, great times. Nowadays of course I still keep trimming - and my wife loves it, so I'm never getting back to clean shave anywhere, but my face

One thing I have learned recently in life is just to do things that you enjoy. So you are addicted to your folet catheter - why not? If it's so pleasant for you just do it, why fight with things that you love? Especially as you are an older person -

I know this problem very well. When I was younger I also had a lot of problem with and had to put a lot of thought into this. Well, I never released it into my diaper as they were quite expensive - especially when I was younger I wasn't doing it. Now that I'm older and I have an stable job, I don't personally see a problem with releasing into a diaper, but I don't masturbate anymore and I always take it off for sex as my wife knows exactly about my problems and she doesn't really mind it. I still remember having this big urge when I was younger - I literally had to masturbate like twice day. Sometimes, when I don't have enough sex it happens to me as well a bit, especially as I use comfy diapers like those from hexa&co the urge is quite significant, but they key is to just have a lot of sex now. It wasn't nearly as simple when I was a kid as it is now

I prefer semi-thick diapers both in public and at home. When I was starting with diapers I liked much more slim diapers, but to be honest the reason for that may be that I just simply hated them and I didn't want to use them at all so I subconsciously used to pick those that are thinnest. Now after some years and trying out most of the diapers brand I tried very thick ones and semi thick ones additionally and even though I liked the warmness and delicacy that thick diapers provided I found the biggest comfort in semi-thick diapers and for two years already I'm using only semi-thick diapers, both in public and at home. They are not visible at all in public, basically they look perfect to my jeans and my build so there is nothing suspicious even when people would stare closely below my waist

Hello, that's an interesting thread. I started to vape some time ago already. To be honest from just health point of view it is definitely much better choice the analogs but in terms of getting addicted to having a puff and nicotine intake it's definitely much worse. I'm having vpark 150W TC - a mod not quite popular, but produced by a new company in SoCal. Pretty good, elegant and cheap. Anyway, thing with vaping is that I feel like I have been more addicted to puffing now than before - I definitely vape much more than I have smoked, I cut some nicotine - I'm at 3mg/ml now, used to be at 12mg/ml on 60W at the beginning - and that's a lot. Currently 3mg/ml at 100W and I'm having a great taste, but I'm just vaping too much. When I did some maths and counted my puffs to puffs from analogs I'm vaping over a pack of analogs per day!! And I used to smoke only half of a pack, sometimes more, but rarely.

Well, this is a good question. At the beginning I was putting them while lying on bed, but that was then I was a total beginner. Now after a lot of practice I don't have any issues while putting them standing, just leaning against the wall - I have found this method to be much more comfortable now to be honest, although at the beginning I never though of this and I kept lying on bed to put them on, matter of practice. Not to mention that a lot depends on the used diaper, but now that I'm basically using the same brand for most of the time I don't change the way of putting them up

I can't exactly relate to the topic as I'm forced to wear diapers due to being incontinence, although I have been visiting therapist pretty often back in the days when I was feeling depressed and frustrated because of people learning that I'm incontinent and mostly because I was sure that I will be fully incontinent for life. This thing really got me in a pinch, but my therapist helped me get out of it. We talked about diapers a bit back then, she said that by the way she find people who wear diapers even if they doesn't as interesting. Truth be told she said that any of her patients wasn't wearing diapers, although she heard about it from her colleagues so she asked me questions if I like it etc. Back then I said that I hate it, but after getting used to eat and letting my frustration go, I would probably say that it's actually a really nice feeling and maybe even mildly suggest to try this as well

Hey, that's very good that you have an understanding wife - that's very important, because trust me - nowadays not many women or people in general are understanding. My wife is understanding too, although I wear diapers due to medical conditions so I'm forced do it, but even if I wasn't I'm pretty sure she would be understanding - because this is the type of women she is. I asked her to wear diapers with me and try this fetish, but she openly told me she doesn't like it so I never asked her again. That's one of the traits that I love in her as well, I love open and honest people. I don't hide my diapers from the world - maybe I feel more secure than you because I actually have to wear them, but self-confidence and focusing on yourself is something that wasn't granted to me either. I've been struggling with hiding this thing quite a lot in the past, so if you feel strong enough you can try being more open to society about it as well.

First of all, we are living in 2017 year. Soldiers don't make wars anymore, atomic weapon does, but let's put it aside. I know the OP's question is pretty old but for anyone still wondering how to cope under those circumstances I could advise a certain trick that I have recommended to a friend of mine. Firstly, you should start training your kegels - although to see proper effects that can help you fight your minor incontinence you will need to put some time into that. For me it's hopeless already, but I still do train my kegels

Probably a lot. People rather don't report this thing nor they go to doctor with it. I personally know a few people who wet the bed from time to time, they are not incontinent or maybe just a bit. Really in those cases it's hard to say, one friend of mine only wets the bed when he drinks a lot of beer - could be because he is falling into a deep sleep after getting drunk and the signal coming from the brain is not strong enough to wake him to urinate, so he is sleeping and waking up with wet bed out of a sudden. One guy only leaks a bit when he is very stressed, so it's really hard to take exact statistics as it's pretty hard to narrow it under the circumstances. Although I noticed that people that knows that I'm incontinent are more open to talk to me about any kind of problems they have. Like even those two guys I've mentioned would never tell me otherwise and now they praise me from time to time saying things like: Hey, bro those diapers you recommended me from hexa & co fit my needs in 100%. Funny how your perspective changes in different situations and what people know about you

Well, I stopped sleeping with bears when I was like 10 years old and never tried even once since then, so I doubt it is true. Obviously won't brag around about this but I really do not think this is the case, they just don't sleep with bears. Probably girls are more keen on sleeping with toys so they will make a higher % of society, but definitely the number of 40% is not even remotely close to the truth. My wife doesn't sleep with bears, nor does her sister and to be honest nor does anymore I know, but maybe I just have a broken social circle.

Well, I used to feel better when I was waking up wet, but it's not a case anymore, probably because as I'm permanently incontinence I already got used it. Better question asked towards me would be how do I feel when I don't wake up wet? Hah, guess I will never know, hopefully though I will as I would love to feel not wet in the morning even once, got to remember the feeling cause waking up wet was a good feeling but is definitely very neutral now

I have been incontinent since I was a kid and to be hones the most terrifying moments I had experienced when I was in my late teens/college because it was progressing and in my late teens I basically totally lost control of my bladder and had to live with my friends in the university wearing diapers 24/7 and trying to avoid any comments and them finding out. It was tough, because I was very scared of anyone knowing about my issues, but they still managed to know, but it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it will be, actually it was even comforting, when others have learnt about it I felt relieved like I have dropped some heavy stone from my chest.

$4 USD last year? God, how is that even possible, that shouldn't be allowed in the states in any case! Stakes like that should be prohibited, it's way below the minimum wage. I agree also that wages differ a lot depending on the state you are working with, but still it's not even funny to work for $4 USD, jesus. People earn more in third world countries pretty often, where cost of living is at least twice lower. I had times when I was in college and worked as an waiter, mailman etc and was pretty much heavily underpaid but it's nothing compared to the stakes some of

I had it happen a few times, but unfortunately it stopped. It occurred when I was under a heavy stress due to my problems with incontinence and on top of that my diet was totally not on point, I was eating basically anything that was in my sight. This was a pretty much big problem for me as I couldn't live with the though that I'm double incontinent, but hopefully I'm not, or maybe I only lose control with my bowel in certain circumstances , so either way you should think about basics now and try to eliminate unhealthy behaviors. I hope it helped, hang tight in there!

Well, according to OP topic it's because you feel much more secure with such a diaper than without and when you are stressed you need this feeling of being secured much more than usual. To be honest, I have noticed this tendency myself, that whenever I'm stressed I go crazy with diapers sometimes. I mean I'm wearing them 24/7 anyway, but I tend to replace them more often, even if they are pretty clean and not worn off I'll just wear a new one because I feel insecure. It's some kind of mental thing, I don't know why it happens, but I do it anyway because my brain has already been messed with few times too much and I just don't want to cast new problems.

Like I have mentioned in another topic I managed to hide it pretty well when I was a kid, but it was much easier also as I didn't wet it as much as now or when I was finish high school - that's the moment when my parents found it and I felt really disappointed, but I don't even see the point in try to hide it now. I'm an adult, I have a wife, why would I hide it? I don't even hide it from my friends anymore, I don't especially like to brag about it, but they know - I know and I don't hide and well, it's pretty much impossible to hide it from people you live with in the long-run.

Yes, I have started wetting bed when I was 12 but this process was very slow, at the beginning from just small drops to later flooding the bed when I was 18. I did pretty good job hiding it I gotta say, well wasn't that hard when I was a kid, but later I managed to hide it until I was in college from my parents and then I also failed to hide it from my peers. Don't know what was more embarrassing for me back then, my parents learning about it or my friends from college, though my parents didn't make such a big deal from it, they know that thing like this happen. Also my friends from college didn't care that much, I'm sure they talked about it among themselves, but never once it has bounced back to me.

I have a tendency for my equipment to look small, but it's not the case at all, it's not - and mostly people who think their EQ is small are just not confident and insecure, I was like this. I can't blame you for being like this though cause often being incontinent can put some real scar on us, especially sexual frustration are very popular. I got rid of them hopefully, but I was there as well and couldn't crawl out of my hole and was afraid to have sex with girl because of "small" EQ and diapers though I would rather get caught in diapers than naked, not because I feel insecure, but because I wouldn't want anyone not "interested" to see me junk, just don't like it, guess I'm pretty conservative in heart and I don't care about other people opinions, so diapers all the way!

Hey, packing your stuff into a bag should get you going for a week or so, but you shouldn't worry as there should be enough of local shops to get you going. Depending if you know where will you stay and for how long, you can also order online to your address like one day before your arrival, so you can get your package when you are there immediately, if not then you should easily manage in Ireland, when I was staying in UK for a few months I had totally no problem with finding products suiting me and I believe Ireland's market is pretty much big as well, so there should be plenty of shops for you to choose from. Have fun on your trip!

I have never been spanked because of bedwetting or actually I was never spanked by anyone though I have spanked my wife pretty often. Maybe I should ask her to spank me as well as I have a feeling I may really like it though my close friend when were kids has been a bedwetter and he was spanked by their conservative and very closed-minded parents. It was long, long time ago and they didn't understand that it's not his fault in fact and he cannot do nothing about, but from what he told me he was getting spanked as a kid very often because of that and they give him plenty of limitations - like not going out to play football etc, kept him to study just because he was a bedwetter. I felt sorry for him back then.

Hey, nice post Angela! I'm not into playing AB in public as well, it is something that I try to keep exclusively for myself and my wife although I've been caught a couple of times in my life. Truth be told at first I was really feeling

Hey, I'm actually dealing with IT on low budget and that's not a big issue, really. I've switched to using products from HEXA & CO as they have really affordable for anyone prices, before I've used many products that were tad more expensive, but even then I didn't find it to be a big deal and I really got pretty much low budget. One thing that I can advise you to do is to make an journal where you keep all your expenses, earnings for this month etc. It has significantly helped me save on other things, that I need less and spend more on things that I need due to incontinence, though for anyone on average salary that really is not a problem. Cheers and good luck

Yes, I'm trimming them as well for a long time. First of all, trimming is actually superior to clean shave as it doesn't irritate the skin as much and also is safer for sexual relationship with many partners. Not to mention that whenever I clean shaved they just kept growing back faster and faster again, but after trimming the time of them growing back again isn't changing which is mostly caused by not removing hair bulbs and thus they are not growing again from the scratch. Anyway, I thought about an laser but I gave it up when I was complimented by my wife about trimmed pubic hair, that she actually really likes especially when going down on me. She says that it's more "manly" than clean shave, so I stick to it.