stevewet

Sorry I just couldn't resist that one it was the way I was feeling at that moment in time. Any way if someone got a smile out of it then it is all good.

Absolutely

Incontinence feels wet

I l9ved being a bedwetter growing up and never made any attempt to become dry at night. My folks thought I was dirty and lazy to be honest they were right but just didn't care. The perks for me were that it was just expected I would wet the bed so I never dissapointed anyone. I just peed in my bed if I woke in the night and went back to sleep, though most nights I just peed in my sleep. I never saw bedwetting as a problem. I realised most k8ds were dry at night by 6 or 7 and some maybe 10 or a bit older but so what. My cousin didn't get dry at night until he was 17. I had a great uncle who wet his whole life and they were my role models. If it was OK for them it was fine by me. My folks just gave up trying to get me dry at night although they did go on a bit when my cousin finally stopped wetting the bed. I know all about the vivid dreams once wet. I subconsciously know during my dreams

I don't mind being urinary incontinent one bit but couldn't cope with messing my self.

Making wetting at night a habit whether in your sleep or deliberately if you wake is the key. I always slept deeply as a kid and just peed in my sleep. I do now.

I suspect you are right

I recently had a vascular appointment at our local hospital hospital nothing to do with my incontinence and didn't expect to have to strip off. I was wearing a tena maxi slip, padded in co pants and some drylife plastic pants. The guy had a young student nurse with him. They were both very professional and only at the end of the examination did the doctor mention my protection. He just matter of factly explained to the student nurse that being diabetic I was most likely incontinent. I just told him yes for almost 12 years. Nothing more was said.

Best thing I ever did was going 24/7. All most 12 years in nappies and couldn't be happier.

12 years almost in nappies 24/7 as I am incontinent.

The main thing is are you happy you have become the bedwetter you wanted to be.

Wearing nappies does just become normal after a while

I have that feeling all the time

A fitted plastic cover

Totally agree sleep is more important.