My last partner was very supportive of my bedwetting and it was her that suggested that I wear a nappy to bed every night. She also got me a washable bed pad just in case of them leaking as we didn't know a lot about adults wearing nappies. Our only concern was that the children to her previous partner would find out but we kept it from them for over 7 years. She would sometimes change me but I told her that when she did I didn't want to her to treat me like a baby as I wasn't one and my intention wasn't