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Closing in on 6 years now I’ve never one time considered stopping. I’m doubtful I could. Those who binge and purge must be so conflicted about it. My suggestion would be to stop & just give in as you already know how good it feels each time it happens. For me the 2-3 times per 24 hour period leaves me with many hours with a filled diaper. Managing it is simple and nobody knows. I also do not consider it wrong but moreso the right thing to do.

Wearing a AB type diaper is probably a dead giveaway to the Dr that wearing is more desire than need I would think. If they see it they will at least think so. If you want to be “caught” by the Dr then wear them but be aware that they may quiz you. You’ll need to decide what your reply will be. It would be best to just tell them the truth. It’s all confidential anyway. Who knows, they may want to know more about your lifestyle. If so that’s the perfect time to open up. I think female drs would be more understanding of it than male just because of their more caring attitudes. You aren’t out of anything by being honest and you may feel a lot better also. Gay people spend a lot of their life in a closet. When they come out it’s like a whole new world for them. This is no different. If you truly enjoy your lifestyle don’t allow others to stop you. I’m dual incontinent. The difference with me is I don’t hate it. I thoroughly enjoy it and if I were asked (which hasn’t happened) I’d not be afraid to admit it.

When I think about it, it’s not unusual at all. Continence issues are in many families. It’s just something that’s not discussed much. The elderly for sure. Many, many women after childbirth have problems. Some worse than others. Then me, urinary due to a accident and then bowel due to desire. My condition would be the most odd but look how many people are on this forum. I’m sure it’s just a fraction of how many there are.

She uses a pull up style last I knew. Conversations are very limited really because there is not much to say really. It’s not like the subject comes up often

Enemas, I absolutely hate them but I’ll do a full enema whenever I’m going somewhere special like a wedding or a all day party or anywhere I want to make sure I don’t poop for long period of time. They are definitely uncomfortable. But I do them anyway for that reason. Usually 2 quarts twice does the trick and cleans me out for at least 24 hours, usually more. I use the type with a squeeze ball that inflates a ball much like a Foley catheter. Over the years I’ve found that the inflatable portion is either not large enough or no longer inflates to the size it once was because many times I find myself needing to hold it in place. And with 2 quarts in you it can be a huge mess. So while it’s necessary to do it from time to time it’s not a welcome thing for me.

I’ve learned over the years that it makes no sense to try & figure out why we as individuals are wired so independent of one another. It’s just more important to know that we are. Over the years I’ve become completely tolerant of others desires and needs as long as they do not mean harm to anyone. Personally my “wiring” has changed a lot and the things I do today define me and I’m happy with the outcome. So it should be that way for others as well. Because of that I’m able to just view others as human without judgement. Life, for me, is just more relaxing and rewarding that way...

I believe that every man has thought about doing it at some point in their life. I know I gave it a few thoughts over the years but never acted on it probably because it's never presented itself to me and probably never will & that's ok.

Your first paragraph was written well enough to make me want to try it. Reading on made me rethink it

They'd come to me if there were any questions for sure. They know I need diapers. It would be a easy conversation in my case.

3 members in my family for sure. Both my elderly parents & my daughter due to complications having her first & only child. It's far more common than you may realize

I see my Dr (GP) every 3 months. He knows well of my condition and will always ask if everything is ok in that department. I tell him I manage just fine & that's the end of it. He talks about the tests I should have at my age and always suggests masturbation twice a week for good prostate health. Beyond that he focuses on the reason I'm there to see him in the first place. Dr's are there to discuss the good, bad & ugly. Any busy Dr has pretty much seen it all. They want to solve whatever you have going on and move on to the next person. Never be afraid to wear in front of them.

You need to teach yourself where to potty or poo. When the need strikes just let go. No matter where or when. Keep doing this over & over again. Over time whe the brain senses the need to go it will start to be automatically done immediately at that time. It takes time. Sometimes a lot of time but you will train your brain to do it and eventually it’ll just happen any time or anywhere. It’s all about time and training.

It's perfectly fine for them to sell ABDL products. I honestly think that it is the ABDL community that forced companies to sell higher quality products.

I'm lucky in that I never flood. It's just a constant dribble or spurt when the bladder "pulsates" so while I fill over the same amount of time it seems to utilize more of the diaper between changes.

I'm not gay or bi but I would think that there would be no difference between straight or gay is concerned regarding incontinence

I love your take on the subject. Pooping isn't sexual for me at all. Having no control when it happens is what I enjoy. Like you I don't know why other than it does. I do it all the time and the result is great each and every time. Evelyn Dellcerro do you do all your duty in a diaper or is it just a sometimes thing for you?

A good diaper is very comfortable. Far more comfortable than underwear could ever be once you find a diaper combination that fits you well. And it's important that you can trust their performance also. After that's been figured out one can be completely assured that whatever happens in there you can go about your day without thought or worry. You just need to understand that everything has it's limits and don't push thing beyond those limits. Stopping for me is a non-issue because I can't stop nor would I want to if I could.

I have no memories of wearing a diaper as a child. My earliest memory was the new report that President Kennedy was shot & killed. My memories of incontinence were 11 years ago lifting a beam & peeing myself (been urinary incontinent since) & over 5 years ago deciding to become bowel incontinent which are the best memories. I love that part of incontinence. Not one time have I ever pooped in a toilet since. I'm a hopeless case in the eyes of some but I'm happy.

Age play is something I do not understand but respect those who do. I hope your dual incontinence is progressing forward. Keep at it.

I carry wipes wherever I go. I’m guessing I go though a pack to 1-1/2 packs a week. They work well

I hear ya! The cost is extreme. I change at particular times rather than what’s in it. And it happens to me a lot. I’ll change one full diaper only to go again shortly after a change but I learned to just stay in it until the next regular change. It’s not that often that it happens that way I will add. Over the years I’ve learned to not pay much attention to it. I atill think that premium diapers are way overpriced and there is still a ton of profit for the manufacturers even if the price were reduced. But they know that many of us are forced to pay the price because they know that many of us cannot stop doing what we do. At least I can’t!

Given that I do all my business in a diaper i’ve found that wearing overalls is by far the best when I want to remain comfortable. The longer crotch allows for sagging well. I also use diaper suspenders with Bloomer style PUL covering. I realize that I cannot always wear this but this is my normal clothing about 80% of the time. Tighter fitting pants or jeans forced me to change more often than I would like. How about you?

Having that large drop while out & about is pretty normal but when I get that unexpected 2nd drop as large as the first within a short time is when it gets interesting. Mainly when I have to sit in the car to get home. Gladly that doesn’t happen very often.

ConfiDry has been my go-to diaper for a long time. I hope that they don't stop making the other 2 sizes also. I really don't want to go on the hunt for another brand and have to fiddle around with what works & what doesn't. Northshore has the mega diaper they came out with but the cost is very extreme. I'd switch in a heartbeat if they lowered the price to be the same as ConfiDry but so far I've not seen any movement in price by them.

Finding a good diaper that works well for you is key. After you do you'll find that you can live a regular life no matter what it's filled with. Timed changes, because we are creatures of habit, is also important. After you create a regular routine you'll find incontinence is not hard to deal with at all.