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There is nothing better than a loaded diaper. Lately I’ve been using a condom catheter and because of that I don’t have to change a dirty diaper as often because it’s not wet. It can stay poopy all day long.

The third option is definitely my choice. I’d be hard pressed to come up with the money but I’d figure it out. It would probably be a simple surgery with a couple of days to recover.

When I first became urinary incontinent I would get spasms all the time and it wasn’t comfortable at all. Since then the spasms have gone away. It took a little time.

I believe Megamax are being overpriced & their sales will suffer

I use diaper suspenders so the increased weight I can feel on my shoulders. But I always change 3 times in a 24 hour period at the exact same time (generally). I’ve got it timed when diapers reach a limit.

Wrong forum? This is incontinence desires

Great replies here!

My guess would be that in the back of your mind you are afraid you’ll mess the bed from leaking. My suggestion would be to wear a condom catheter & large urinary bag. Then when you have to go you’ll feel more sure there won’t be a mess in the bed. Over time it’ll get easier & you’ll eventually just go. At that point you’ll need to use a diaper you can trust along with a plastic covering with long legs to catch what the diaper cannot hold. At that point you’ll probably at the point of no return.

George has a huge desire to be incontinent and several years ago really wanted to be at all cost it seemed. I fully understand that need. That’s something that most people cannot understand. It’s been a long time but I had several conversations with him. He’s a very decent person

I’ve never interacted with this particular mod or any mod for that matter. I’ve also been around here since 2007 or 2008 so I don’t want to be removed as it seems this particular mod may be quick to push the “ban” button and I don’t want that to happen to anyone unless absolutely warranted. The mod stated that he is against the subject so let the mod out in his 2 cents & let the mod move on so the rest of us can continue the conversation.

I usually do #2 two times per day around the same time of day so I’ll know when to expect it. I’m very regimented in my diet & eating habits so I can always stayed prepared. There are times I’ll be doing something different and may be out & about when it happens. Rarely will I seek out a bathroom to change as I’ll just wait until I get home to change & clean up. I limit myself to 3 changes per day because of cost so if the unexpected happens shortly after a change I’ll just wait until my regular changing time. That doesn’t happen often but it does happen. I really don’t mind it. when I change it’s always standing up and just prior to taking a shower. I always wear a plastic covering in the event of leaks & it helps with odor control along with the use of Nullo. I always bring cleaning supplies & a change of diaper with me but it’s rarely needed. Generally it’s something I don’t think about much while I’m out & about. It happens and that’s what I wanted to have happen. I’ve been in every situation imaginable so nothing that happens is a surprise.

In my mind it’s definitely not a kink or fetish. It’s a deep seeded need. I never sought any kind of surgery knowing it’s almost impossible to get. But the original question was if we could get it would we? I definitely would have if I was sure it would be as safe as surgery could be. Despite popular opinion continence was wrong for me. Now that I’ve lost continence I am not conflicted and have no regrets. It was a simple question which should have not sparked such a argument.

You said it all. Thank you!

Sure… I became urinary incontinent due to a accident years ago. Never had a desire to be and didn’t have good insurance to be practiced on. After learning how to live with that the desire for dual became stronger & stronger. The first time I just let go it was like the weight of the world was off my shoulders. From there I just kept letting go whenever the feeling struck. Each time was just as good as the first time so I kept doing it until it just started happening automatically. That took better than a year as I remember. Today it just happens 1 or 2 times per day and it really doesn’t cross my mind unless I think about it. It is just normal now and I don’t stress about it like I used to.

Thanks for the information! I can safely say that it doesn’t interfere with my life. It enhances it.

I read all the symptoms & I’ve never had symptoms like that. I can say that had I never allowed myself to become dual incontinent I wouldn’t be productive at all due to the compelling desire which was constant. Today it’s just a part of normal life. It’s nice not to have any nagging desire. I’m sure that there are many that have no understanding of this particular desire. It’s not just a surface itch. It’s a lot deeper than that. It can and will be consuming. It became abundantly clear to me when I became urinary incontinent that I needed to be bowel incontinent as well. I fought that for a couple of years. Then I decided I’d just cave in. It was better than a 1 year journey to get to a point where a BM was no longer voluntary. It became involuntary. If I could have had some type of surgery to make that happen faster I most certainly would have. I’ve no regrets. That’s the beauty of Daily Diapers. It’s a place where like minded people can converse hopefully without attack.

Isn’t the extremely powerful desire to become incontinent a disability of some sort?

Some people do not like being incontinent. Some people do. Who are we to judge? So let’s not judge. If people cannot reinforce each other on a incontinent desires thread it’s just best to say nothing at all.

@eido You said it far better than I ever could. Thank you!

Well I answered the poll as to how I feel and won’t be swayed. I enjoy life how it is now. I don’t think it’s glamorous or cool. I certainly will not try to sway others. I just replied to a question and things sort of blew up. If the poll would have stated that if you don’t answer the question with a answer that others don’t like then prepare yourself for backlash then I would have never replied to the poll to begin with. I know better now.

You do throw some accusations out here that are not based on any type of fact about me don’t you? We must see it your way because that’s the only way right? Sorry that life is bad in your shoes. I’m sure you can find a thread with others that think along the same line as you. Find them. Embrace them. You won’t find it on this subject.

People constantly asking you why you wear diapers? In all my years I’ve never been asked. Do you have a little exhibitionist in you? Clearly you have a problem wearing diapers as you described reasons for not wanting to and you felt the need to tell us all how hard it is to manage…… all on a Incontinent Desires thread.

I voted yes on this subject. As someone who was urinary incontinent but want to be bowel incontinent it would have been a lot easier to achieve if it were done with surgery. It took a long time of training to become incontinent and I have no regrets other than I wished I could have done it sooner. If incontinence is something a person truly wants then I believe they should be able to through surgery. Most don’t understand the need but I do.

Welcome back Ginger

Good point here. There is a big difference between need and want.