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    • @Disk get yourself down to: https://www.weepadded.co.uk/ On 4th October, will be a great place to get to know local people and join a community,Ake friends, have fun.   Details from Twitter.
    • It's slow going, but I'm not giving up!
    • I've been following in @oznl's footsteps for a bit over 6 years now, and my experience has been very similar. I'm not incontinent, during the day. I never really set out to be - I just set out to wear nappies, and to see if I could navigate the waters I operate in, thusly clad, for a while, and somehow, more than half a decade has gone under the prow. But I can still hold it whenever I need to; I demonstrated that capability, this week, while traversing half a dozen airports, for work. I know that the nude-o-scanner's will show the security droids that there's "something" going on under my trousers, but, in the off chance that reducing the density of the goings-on down there will spare me greater scrutiny, and/or, that if I were to incur greater scrutiny, it might be easier on my soul if I were not in a yellowed, sagging nappy when such scrutiny did occur, I tend to hold it for a bit, while I clear customs and the TSA invasiveness. So, I can stay dry when I want to.  That said, I usually don't want to. I wear diapers all the time, everywhere, and I operate on the premise that diapers generally prefer frequent sprinklings, over infrequent deluges. So, I'm not used to holding it - I usually just go whenever I have the slightest inkling that I might need to do so, and if I'm distracted, it often happens on autopilot - much like trying to remember a specific time you blinked, or breathed, I can go for a few hours without noting exactly when I wet, but, that's not the same as wetting uncontrollably and unconsciously.  At night, it's a different story. I have made myself back into a bedwetter, and while I could probably fight my way back, via hourly bathroom visits, to not physiologically needing to wear absorbent underpants all the time, during the waking hours, I'm not sure I could go back to sleeping "commando". I wet myself luxuriantly while unconscious, at least a couple of nights a week. This is not new territory for me - I arrived "here" at least in part because I was an accomplished bedwetter, as a kid. But I had taken about a three-decade hiatus from that habit.  All of that said, from everything I have read, diaper dependency is very much a mind-over-matter proposal. I'm probably also not a great candidate for hypnosis; I've always operated on the premise that my observations were going to have their foundations in data, rather than wishful thinking. I read a study, years ago, about weaning bedridden geriatrics off of ill-prescribed, stupefying quantities of psychoactive medications, wherein the outcome was that some people with almost no agency, and severely compromised intellects, who had been wearing diapers, and marooned in beds for years, were still able to get back a level of control. So, if even those unfortunates never really lost all the muscle memory required to not pee haplessly and gormlessly, as the need arise, then, I reason, it isn't likely to happen to me, just because I let myself drain into my baby pants, every 20 to 45 minutes, when I'm awake.  However, your mileage may differ - again, mind over matter. There are people here who have left me in the dust, with respect to their untraining, and who say they are blissfully incontinent, after being at this for a year or two. I never really set out looking for that outcome, I just wanted to wear diapers all the time. I have what I want, and, so, seemingly, do they. So, if you want that, it may be within your reach, and if you fear that, then, don't worry too much about it (expect the bedwetting thing - that spectre will come for you...), and if you want it, but feel like you're not making much headway, then don't be too hard on yourself. You're asking your body to forget how to breathe. Don't feel badly if it doesn't go exactly as you'd hoped. 
    • Yesterday, I said to myself that I hoped Kat was doing well and that a new chapter would come soon. And lo and behold, the very next day, one arrived. Even though I hope that Amanda gets everything sorted out, I think it's great that you show her as a real person here, with everyday problems like running out of oil, bills, etc. And I stand by my opinion: I like Grandma.
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