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Never mind the cost of diapers. My issue was and had been fear of leaking when/if I wake in the night. If I could beat that I feel like I could make great strides in this. I am a side/belly sleeper which are horrible for leaking issue, lol. I think I should train back sleeping first and then work on the bedwetting training. -
This was precisely what I tried to do, and it did just that. It gave me OAB, but that didn’t make me able to wet on command. That training is basically allowing the body on its own to reach the point of release and not fight it or close off. My issue was that I would have large bladder capacity and would be fearful of leaking, so I would close off if I felt it start to leak, etc., which meant my body didn’t get trained to release on its own. This is why I went to stents to lower my overall bladder capacity and train relaxed state as basic.
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Relaxing this evening and ready for bed in a purple MegaMax USA v2 diaper, and already a little wet, but certainly not going to change a slightly wet diaper; I'll be fine, and so will my bedding. -
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By Little Sherri · Posted
If you don't mind me asking, @Stroller, how long do you typically stay in your overnight nappy? Is it changed when you get up, or only when necessary, and is the nighttime rig different from what you'd wear during the day? I'm not that fluent in cloth diapering. My process, if I have nowhere to be - which is often the case, because I work from home, 80% of the time, other than when I am travelling - is to just stay in the nappy I wore to bed (usually a disposable, although I have cloth nappies and plastic pants and do sometimes use them). If I had a dryish night, I might be in it for most of the day, or if it's seen some action, by the time I wake up, then I'll wear it until I think it's about to become unreliable, and then I'll change. However, I tend to wear top-tier diapers to bed, so it's rare for me to have to change again before midday, unless I have to go somewhere, where being in a soggy diaper, wouldn't be ideal. Well, I've had a rare meet up with someone else who's in diapers fulltime. No, not an ABDL munch, or another lunch with my business/diaper friend that I met here (although I do need to facilitate a repeat visit soon; he's retired now, so I am definitely the problem, not him). Victoria asked us over to meet her husband, whom I will christen Ben. I've been on the grounds of Victoria's house before - my dog once went AWOL and decided to make some social calls, and I've carried bags of dirt from her SUV to her garage, but I had not been inside her house, nor introduced to her significant other. I got the invitation while wearing a BeDry Night Premium that I'd had one for half a day, but it still had miles of life left in it, and I was wearing bulky cargo shorts, so I decided to just roll with it. My wife, Victoria, and the dog, all know I'm in diapers, and her husband... well, he's in diapers too. I had no idea what to expect, because I'd been told that he had had a stroke a few years ago, and was quite debilitated, although apparently not intellectually. I found that description to be more or less exactly the case. He's paralyzed on the lefthand side of his body, top to bottom, so he has zero mobility without assistive devices, or assistive people. He trundles around their house in an electric wheelchair, although he has a scooter that can traverse outdoor terrain better. But in the house, it would be like driving a bus in a mall parking lot. They have help come in twice a day, once to get him out of bed, and into his chair, and then again later, to help him out of his chair, and get him ready for bed, plus showering, etc. The "etc" part undoubtedly encompasses nappy-related assistance, because Victoria explained that she's not strong enough to move him around safely by herself, and that she'd been trying to do it, at first, but that it was then taking a toll on her mobility, because she is also in her senior years, and he is larger than her, although not by a lot. His puffy equatorial zone, under nice khakis, provided mute testimony to this, were it necessary. I had so many questions that I did not ask, such as, "Being essentially confined to one diaper for most of the day, and another overnight, what do you go with? Not sad, medical diapers, surely? If so, I could give you some advice - I'm frequently also in one diaper for the entire day, perhaps we could compare notes?" I'd have been interested in "interviewing" someone who relies entirely on diapers, as I pretend to do (at least when I'm awake). However, the etiquette of such a conversation presents challenges. I assume, for example, that this guy might know I'm also in diapers. He and Victoria seem like friends, and his affability circuit didn't seem to have been affected by his cerebral plumbing issue. She certainly knows what I wear under my shorts - she saw a good few inches of white plastic sunbathing at my lower back, the first time we met, and since then, I've been around her in "not trying to hide anything" clothing a few times, because she drops in on us without notifying me, specifically. She may notify my wife of these intentions, but if so, my wife doesn't then pass the news onto me. I have no idea if my wife and Victoria have actually discussed their husbands' foundation garments, but the fact that she seems fine with waltzing Victoria into my kitchen, while I'm wearing the diaper I slept in, under light athleticwear, suggests that she at least knows that Victoria knows. But her nonchalant take on the whole situation - me being openly diapered in front of a neighbour - makes me strongly suspect that they've chatted about it. I know my wife. She does not want other of our street-mates to know that I parade around dressed like a toddler under my dad-outfit of choice. Which leads me to believe that she's fairly sure that Victoria isn't the type to tell tales out of school. How would she know that? Probably because it was spoken. I rest my case. I'm sure it would have been evident to my wife that poor Ben was similarly attired, absence any confirmation, but with the amount of time she, and Victoria, have spent over tea, I wouldn't be shocked to find out that they're having an affair, so the idea that a conversation along the lines of, "My husband wears diapers, too" has occurred, is not farfetched. However, the fact that I know Ben knows about me, and Ben knows I know about him, because that equation is as difficult as adding two plus two, and that my wife and his wife both know about both of us, does not give me permission to broach an extremely personal topic with someone I've just met. Pity. Maybe I'll go over and have a beer with Ben a couple of times - apparently he likes it, and has heard that I make it - and we'll see if it ever comes up. The idea that I could have a "diaper friend" on my block, is hilarious, given that at one point, less than a decade ago, I thought I was perhaps the only person wired like I am, in the Toronto area, if not the world. Although Ben is more of a "diaper liver" DL, then a "diaper lover" DL, as far as I know.
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