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If you miss the signs, then you miss the signs.

I know this had to happen for the story, but I really blame Maddy's parents for causing all of this. Her parents just assumed that all of her symptoms were caused by her period.

That's a bit harsh, but I feel the vibe.  I actually wrote a piece a long time ago that touched on catheterization causing temporary incontinence.  This one is actually *way* more realistic than mine, because there's a whole other component here regarding kidney and bladder damage from the infection.   Is she going to still be struggling with incontinence after she gets discharged (because really, all they want is her to be clear of the infection and be able to get around on her own before they send her packing)?  Not sure.  Also not completely unrealistic.  Is it going to be permanent?  Well, now we're getting into self-insert and wish fulfillment, and I hope the author doesn't go there. 

While both scenarios are very possible, I think the socio-political ramifications of the discovery of a portal to dimension Zeta Gamma behind her cat's litter box in the basement a much more likely situation.    But seriously, poor girl! At least she's finally getting the help she needs! And luckily, not getting reamed out by her parents! At least not yet anyway lol. Looks like she'll be stuck in diapers for the foreseeable future. Maybe she'll rediscover their happiness as she recovers. And maybe she'll feign not recovering to stay in them permanently.  It's just fun to speculate!

I know no one wants to wait for this section, so here is the next bit about Littles and Chrysalis. ______   Littles and Chrysalis     Littles are individuals who undergo Chrysalis transformation resulting in smaller physical stature, heightened emotional sensitivity, and reduced executive function capacity. They are asexual and aromantic—experiencing no sexual or romantic attraction—and are sterile post-Chrysalis. Despite these characteristics, Littles maintain full cognitive capability and can contribute meaningfully to society across numerous fields. Critical Understanding: Littles are NOT intellectually disabled. Think of Classification like a game character's stat distribution—Littles have high stats in empathy, creativity, emotional authenticity, and often specific skills, but lower stats in executive function, stress tolerance, and physical independence. This is cognitive specialization, not cognitive decline.   GENERAL LITTLE CHARACTERISTICS Chrysalis Effects: Physical height reduction (3'0" to 4'0" depending on level) Reduced or nonexistent bladder/bowel control Heightened emotional sensitivity Reduced stress tolerance Increased need for structure and routine Asexual and aromantic orientation Sterility What Littles DO Understand: Safety Awareness: Emergency procedures (fire alarms, evacuations) Basic dangers (hot stoves, traffic, strangers) "Don't take candy/items from strangers" "Fire means evacuate to safe area" Ethics and Social Rules: Right vs. wrong Basic social norms Consequences of actions (appropriately for level) Manners and politeness expectations Crime Among Littles: Exceptionally rare When occurs, almost always accidental: Pocketed item and forgot to pay Broke something while playing Wandered somewhere they shouldn't Intentional crimes virtually nonexistent Cause-Effect Chain Processing: Key Difference from Neutrals: Neutrals automatically chain: "If I run into road → might get hit → could die" Littles understand each piece but don't automatically connect them in the moment: KNOWS roads are dangerous KNOWS cars can hit people In the moment: "BALL!" runs after it This creates need for reminders and supervision,not because they're stupid, but because impulse/immediate goal overrides consequence prediction.   Mental Load Redistribution: During Chrysalis, mental processing shifts to: "Caregiver handles X → I don't need to actively think about X anymore" This FREES cognitive energy for other pursuits: Maya designs complex diaper products (highly skilled work) Professional gamers compete at high levels L-4s hold leadership positions Littles work in research, art, technical fields They're intelligent, capable people with different executive function architecture. PHYSIOLOGICAL BASIS OF INCONTINENCE   During Chrysalis Metamorphosis, bladder and bowel control diminish as a direct consequence of biological restructuring: Neurological Remodeling: Peripheral nerves undergo demyelination as resources are reallocated Enteric nervous system (controlling digestive tract) undergoes massive reorganization. Signal transmission between bladder/bowel and brain becomes unreliable Voluntary control circuits are deprioritized as neurological resources redirect Cardiovascular and Fluid Management: Massive cellular die-off produces excess metabolic waste and water Hypervolemia (excess blood volume) would risk cardiac arrest or stroke if not rapidly eliminated Urinary system becomes primary waste elimination pathway Body prioritizes survival over continence - excess fluid must be expelled immediately Frequency increases dramatically as cardiovascular system downsizes and recalibrates Gastrointestinal Restructuring: Digestive tract scales proportionally to new body size Enteric nervous system's 100+ million neurons rewire completely Transit time and waste processing capacity fluctuate unpredictably Bowel control follows similar neurological disruption as bladder Permanent Cognitive Redistribution: Continence requires constant executive function monitoring - a mentally expensive background process. During Chrysalis, mental processing shifts: "Caregiver handles X → I don't need to actively think about X anymore". This redistribution frees cognitive energy for other pursuits rather than wasting it on toileting awareness. The result is cognitive specialization, not cognitive decline. Littles are intelligent, capable people with different executive function architecture. Continence doesn't improve post-Chrysalis because it's biologically unnecessary given Caregiver support. The prevailing medical perspective is as follows: "The body treats continence as expendable overhead. Redirecting that mental energy toward creativity, skill, and emotional intelligence produces far greater individual capability than maintaining toileting awareness."       DIAPERING - GENERAL INFORMATION All Levels: Caregiver handles changes and cleanup across ALL levels (L-1 through L-4) Littles can assist with setup/positioning, but not wiping/cleaning Being wet/messy isn't a priority—current activity feels more important Don't like being interrupted for changes Privacy Behaviors: L-2s and L-3s: Sometimes hide or go to separate room for bowel movements (more common in L-3s) L-4s: Usually go to separate room for privacy during elimination (standard behavior) Caregiver Response: Loving/affectionate teasing is normal Caregivers DO call out understatements warmly Never done to shame, always part of bonding "Kinda wet? Sweetie, you're soaked!" warm smile L-1 (LITTLEST) - DETAILED PROFILE Height Range: 3'0" to 3'1" PHYSICAL CARE NEEDS Diapering: 24/7 diaper dependency (no control) Zero awareness/warning before elimination Doesn't notice being wet/messy Doesn't care—keeps playing Caregiver checks regularly on schedule May fuss when interrupted: "But I'm playing!" Frequency: Every 2-3 hours or as needed Comfortable being changed in semi-public settings Feeding: Primarily bottles (warm milk, juice, nutritional drinks) Pureed/soft foods, small portions Needs to be fed most meals Can hold finger foods but makes mess High chair/booster seat standard Sippy cups with assistance Cannot use stove, knives, or prepare food Nursing: Common but not universal comfort and regulation behavior Serves bonding function between Little and Caregiver Provides some nutrition but cannot replace regular meals Non-sexual, purely comforting May occur multiple times daily or only when distressed (varies by individual) Caregiver discretion on when and how often   Bathing: Can bathe alone in smart bath with safety systems Voice-controlled temperature: "too hot" "too cold" Will mostly play instead of washing Bath toys, bubbles, splashing Caregiver checks in periodically Caregiver finishes actual washing Dressing: CAN dress independently IF no fasteners Simple pull-on clothes: sweatpants, elastic waist, t-shirts WILL put things on wrong: backwards, inside-out, or both Doesn't care about appearance—wants to get back to playing Takes considerable time (5+ minutes) Caregiver helps when schedules matter Caregiver still selects outfit COGNITIVE/EXECUTIVE FUNCTION Cannot plan ahead beyond immediate wants "I'm hungry" not "I'll be hungry soon, should eat" Decisions limited to simple preferences Cannot weigh consequences Memory is present-focused Cannot manage time or appointments Gets confused in new situations easily Needs step-by-step guidance for tasks EMOTIONAL REGULATION High baseline anxiety Overwhelmed by changes in routine Meltdowns common when overstimulated/tired/uncomfortable Cannot self-soothe effectively Needs Caregiver presence to regulate Pacifiers used frequently (comfort tool) Comfort items (stuffies, blankies) are necessities Separation from Caregiver causes distress within minutes SOCIAL FUNCTIONING Communication: Simple sentences, sometimes childlike syntax Expresses needs clearly but not complex feelings "Tummy hurts" not "I think I ate something that disagreed with me" Understands more than can express May use simplified vocabulary when stressed Caregiver Bond: Primary attachment figure Source of all security and regulation Seeks constant reassurance Physical affection essential (hugs, being held, cuddles) Non-romantic/non-sexual but deeply intimate Constant physical comfort needs Wants to be held frequently Cuddles are regulation tool Friendships: Parallel play common (near other Littles, not collaboratively) Can form genuine friendships Needs help navigating conflicts Prefers other L-1s or gentle L-2s Bonds through shared activities Community: Recognizes familiar faces Shy with strangers, warms up with Caregiver present Doesn't understand social hierarchies Everyone is "safe person" or "don't know yet" DAILY LIFE Being Alone: CAN be alone briefly (20-30 minutes MAX) Needs active distraction: "Watch your show while I shower" NOT prolonged absence More "nearby but different room" than truly alone Sleep: Crib with safety rails standard Bedtime routine essential Cannot fall asleep alone May wake needing comfort Naps common/necessary Eating: High chair for meals Routine meal times important Limited food autonomy May have preferences but can't articulate why Activities: Creative play: coloring, music, simple crafts Sensory activities Screen time (Caregiver monitors) All activities Caregiver-supervised Responsibilities: Can help with very simple tasks Cannot be given chores "Helping" is participation, not contribution Praised for effort, not results L-2 (VERY LITTLE) - DETAILED PROFILE Height Range: 3'2" to 3'6" PHYSICAL CARE NEEDS Diapering: 24/7 diaper dependency (limited control) SOME awareness/warning (seconds to a minute) May say "I have to go" but can't hold it Might feel pressure, recognize it, immediately go back to activity Denies needing change even when obvious: "I'm fine!" "In a minute!" Doesn't feel gross immediately—continues playing Will NOT seek out Caregiver for change independently Only asks for help if leaks and needs cleanup Sometimes hides/goes to separate room for bowel movements Gets supplies and lies down, Caregiver handles cleanup Beginning to understand privacy Can communicate when needs changing Frequency: Every 3-4 hours or as needed Response to Changes: Sarcastic/grumpy (varies by personality) "Oh great, just what I wanted to do right now" huffs "Fiiine" "Do I have to?" "Can't it wait?" "This is taking forever" Cooperates—just makes displeasure known Feeding: Bottles for comfort (before bed, when upset) Prefers sippy cups mildly over regular cups Proud when given regular cups at restaurants Can eat most foods with utensils (messily) Can prepare SIMPLE foods with supervision Regular table/booster seat Can feed self, Caregiver helps with cutting/cleanup Gets distracted, needs reminders to finish Nursing: Common comfort and bonding behavior, similar frequency to L-1s Used for emotional regulation during stress or upset Provides some nutrition but cannot replace meals May be multiple times a day, once daily, or occasional for L-2s (Dependent on individual) Often occurs at bedtime or when seeking comfort Individual variation in need   Bathing: Can bathe in smart bath with minimal supervision Will wash with reminders "Did you wash your hair?" Caregiver checks thoroughness Still enjoys bath toys Can regulate temperature Needs help with hair sometimes Dressing: Can dress independently with simple fasteners Pull-on preferred, can do buttons (slowly) Velcro, snaps, elastic manageable May need help with zippers Still puts things wrong sometimes but notices/cares Takes 2-3 minutes Can select from Caregiver-provided options COGNITIVE/EXECUTIVE FUNCTION Can plan simple activities: "After breakfast, I want to draw" Understands basic cause and effect Can make simple decisions with reasoning Memory extends beyond immediate Can follow multi-step instructions Gets confused in complex new situations Beginning to understand time (yesterday/tomorrow) EMOTIONAL REGULATION Moderate anxiety levels Handles routine changes better with preparation Meltdowns less frequent but still happen Can sometimes self-soothe with comfort items Needs Caregiver help for big emotions Separation manageable for several hours if prepared SOCIAL FUNCTIONING Communication: Full, complex sentences Can articulate feelings with some help Understands nuance better May use simplified language when tired/stressed Can participate in conversations Caregiver Bond: Still primary but less constant need Can entertain self while Caregiver does tasks Seeks affection regularly but not constantly Generally open to physical affection Loves being picked up and carried Hugs, cuddles freely given throughout day Physical touch is connection and comfort "Up please!" is common request Non-romantic/non-sexual but deeply loving Friendships: Cooperative play Can navigate small conflicts with coaching Prefers other L-2s or gentle L-3s Bonds through shared interests Can maintain friendships Playdates manageable (2-3 hours supervised) Community: Recognizes and greets familiar people Can make small talk Beginning to understand social roles Friendly but cautious with new people DAILY LIFE Sleep: Toddler bed with rails OR regular bed with bumpers Bedtime routine important but shorter Can fall asleep with Caregiver nearby Usually sleeps through night Eating: Booster seat or regular chair Routine meals, can handle small variations Has preferences and expresses them Activities: Creative: drawing, painting, building, music Games: simple board games, age-appropriate video games Can play independently 30-60 minutes Caregiver checks in periodically Can be in different room if house is Little-safe Responsibilities: Simple chores with reminders Put toys away, help set table, feed pet, water plants Tasks need demonstration Praised for effort AND completion L-3 (MIDDLE LITTLE) - DETAILED PROFILE Height Range: 3'4" to 3'10" The preschool-to-kindergarten transition from L-2 PHYSICAL CARE NEEDS Diapering: Moderate awareness: feels pressure building Limited control: might delay 30 seconds to minute Often hides/goes to separate room for bowel movements (privacy instinct) Initially denies needing change: "Not yet!" "I'm busy!" Doesn't feel gross immediately—continues playing Eventually discomfort outweighs fun (15-30 minutes) THEN seeks out Caregiver: "Okay, I should probably get changed now" Gets supplies and lies down, Caregiver handles cleanup Prefers privacy: designated changing areas only Frequency: Every 4-5 hours with self-advocacy Response to Changes: Sarcastic/grumpy (varies by personality) Similar resistance to L-2 but slightly more mature about it But cooperates Feeding: Bottles rarely (comfort during illness/major stress) Prefers sippy cups mildly over regular cups Proud when given regular cups at restaurants Can use all utensils properly Can prepare simple meals independently Simple stovetop with supervision Regular table/chair Less distracted during meals Nursing: Not typical for L-3s May occur when sick, injured, or extremely distressed Rare comfort-seeking behavior in crisis situations Should not be expected as routine care need   Bathing: Bathes independently with occasional check-ins Actually washes thoroughly without reminders Can regulate temperature Might still enjoy bath toys occasionally Can shower instead if preferred Manages own hygiene routine Dressing: Fully independent with most fasteners Slow with laces (can do them but takes time) Hook-and-loop shoes often preferred Rarely puts things wrong, fixes if does Can select full outfits with weather awareness Developing personal style Dresses efficiently (1-2 minutes, longer with laces) COGNITIVE/EXECUTIVE FUNCTION Can plan ahead several hours Understands cause and effect well Makes routine decisions independently Memory extends days/weeks Can use simple calendar/schedule tools Follows multi-step routines without guidance Adapts to moderate changes with explanation Beginning to problem-solve independently Understands clock time EMOTIONAL REGULATION Mild anxiety levels, mostly manageable Handles routine changes well Meltdowns rare Can self-soothe effectively Still needs Caregiver for major emotional support Separation comfortable for full day with check-ins More than a day would be upsetting even if understands why Can identify and communicate emotions clearly Thrives on praise and acknowledgment of effort SOCIAL FUNCTIONING Communication: Fully articulate speech Expresses complex thoughts and feelings independently Can advocate for own needs Holds nuanced conversations Understands sarcasm, jokes, idioms (mostly) Caregiver Bond: Important but less central to daily functioning Can go hours without contact comfortably Seeks affection purposefully when tired/sick/upset "Can I have a hug?" when overwhelmed Appreciates physical comfort but more selective Still enjoys casual affection (hand-holding, side hugs) Non-romantic/non-sexual but deeply meaningful More parent-young teen dynamic Friendships: Complex cooperative play and projects Can navigate most conflicts independently Asks for help only with major disagreements Bonds across all Little levels and some Neutrals Maintains long-term friendships Plans social activities Can hang out independently (with community escort) Community: Actively engages with familiar community members Can make purchases independently Understands social structures Comfortable with professional interactions Can navigate public spaces with community escort LifeNet check-ins DAILY LIFE Sleep: Regular bed (might have safety rail for rolling) Simplified bedtime routine, mostly independent Caregiver says goodnight, maybe reads together Falls asleep independently Sleeps through night consistently Eating: Regular table and chair Can handle meal variations Strong preferences, negotiates reasonably Can prepare own breakfast/lunch on weekends Caregiver handles dinners, L-3 helps cook Activities: Wide range: hobbies, sports, arts, gaming, reading Can engage independently several hours Self-directed learning Can be home alone briefly (1-2 hours) with check-ins Handles community outings with escort Enjoys structured activities (with accommodations) Attends Playgroup (see Social Life section) Responsibilities: Can do regular chores independently Clean room, laundry, dishwasher, vacuum, dust Help with meal prep, pet care, trash Follows chore chart Takes pride in completion Needs acknowledgment: "Good job cleaning your room!" L-4 (LEAST LITTLE) - DETAILED PROFILE Height Range: 3'6" to 4'0" The bridge between Littles and Neutrals PHYSICAL CARE NEEDS Diapering: High awareness: knows well in advance Enough control for pull-ups to be viable during day Can use toilet for bowel movements Pull-up vs. Diaper Choice: Pull-up Option: May choose pull-ups during day Can recognize need and reach toilet for BMs Messy pull-ups still happen (not extremely rare) "I thought I had more time" Try to avoid messy pull-ups when possible Night: usually diapers (sleeping control different) Diaper Preference: Some L-4s prefer diapers full-time and being changed Both options equally acceptable Personal preference based on comfort/convenience/relationship/routine No judgment either way Communication Style (NOT direct): Uses understatement/minimization "I'm kinda wet" (actually soaked, about to leak) "I think I might need a change soon" (needed one 20 minutes ago) "I might be a little stinky/messy" (obviously is) "I maybe pooped a little" (definitely loaded) Caregiver Response: Usually already knows (especially messy situations) Waits to give L-4 chance to speak up first Responds with loving/affectionate teasing: "Kinda? Sweetie, you're soaked!" "A little? Come on, let's get you cleaned up" chuckles "Just kinda, huh?" Doesn't shame, just gently honest L-4 Response: Might blush/be sheepish Small embarrassed smile "Okay fine, a lot" Cooperates without grumpiness Change Protocol (if using diapers): Usually goes to separate room for privacy during elimination (standard) Seeks out Caregiver proactively Gets all supplies, prepares changing area Caregiver still handles cleanup Frequency: Every 5-6 hours with proactive self-advocacy Feeding: Bottles never (unless sick and requesting comfort) Regular cups exclusively Can prepare complex meals independently Full cooking including stovetop, oven, sharp knives Meal planning and grocery lists Can cook for others Regular table and chair Manages own nutrition Nursing: Does not occur at this level L-4s seek other forms of comfort and reassurance   Bathing: Fully independent Showers or baths by choice Complete hygiene routine Caregiver not involved unless asked Dressing: Completely independent with all fasteners including laces Selects entire wardrobe independently Weather-appropriate without input Well-developed personal style Shops for own clothes Professional dress for work Dresses efficiently COGNITIVE/EXECUTIVE FUNCTION Plans long-term: weeks, months ahead Complex decision-making Makes major life decisions with Caregiver as advisor Excellent memory and organizational skills Uses calendars, planners, apps independently Adapts to change and unexpected situations well Problem-solves complex issues independently Time management on par with Neutrals Handles abstract thinking and planning EMOTIONAL REGULATION Anxiety similar to typical adult levels Handles routine changes and disruptions well Meltdowns extremely rare Self-soothes effectively Seeks Caregiver like adult seeks close family Can be away from Caregiver multiple days comfortably Misses them but not distressed Video calls/texts sufficient Identifies and communicates emotions maturely May seek therapy independently SOCIAL FUNCTIONING Communication: Fully articulate, adult-level communication Expresses complex thoughts, feelings, arguments Can advocate in professional settings No simplified language even under stress Understands all social nuance Caregiver Bond: Important but not central to daily functioning More like adult child with parent Can go days without in-person contact comfortably Seeks advice and emotional support, not permission Caregiver's opinion carries significant weight Doesn't require approval, but getting it is very important Will think seriously twice if Caregiver advises against something Example: L-4: "I'm thinking about changing jobs" Caregiver: "I know you're feeling unfulfilled, but moving to an entirely new company means new routine, new people—that might be overwhelming. Just because it's different doesn't mean it will be better. Maybe a different role at the same place?" L-4: Takes this very seriously, reconsiders Why It Works: Caregiver knows L-4's limits, patterns L-4 trusts Caregiver's judgment Guidance from love and knowledge, not control Might still make own choice, but with fuller information "They know me better than anyone—if they're concerned, I should listen" Physical Affection: Like typical adult-parent relationship Hugs hello/goodbye, comfort during crisis Less frequent but still meaningful Initiates when needed Friendships: Full range with all Classifications Navigates all social situations independently Can mediate conflicts for others Maintains friendships entirely independently Often serves as mentor to younger Littles Community: Fully independent engagement Professional relationships and networking Comfortable with all interactions May explain Caregiver relationship when asked Often advocates for other Littles DAILY LIFE Sleep: Regular adult bed Own bedtime routine, fully independent Manages own sleep schedule Eating: Full food autonomy Might enjoy cooking with/for Caregiver as bonding Activities: Unlimited range (within physical limitations) Fully self-directed Can live alone in Little-safe apartment with regular check-ins Handles all errands independently Can drive adapted vehicles or use public transit Manages own schedule entirely Attends Playgroup (see Social Life section) Responsibilities: Full household management if living independently If living with Caregiver, equal household partner Professional responsibilities on par with Neutrals WHY THEY STILL NEED A CAREGIVER Many ask L-4s this question. Common answers: Emergency support: "If I'm sick, hurt, or in crisis" Physical assistance: "Some tasks require height/strength I don't have" Emotional connection: "They're family—why wouldn't I want that?" Practical help: "Everyone needs help sometimes; mine is just built-in" Legal requirement exists for a reason: "Having that safety net matters" It's partnership, not control: "They don't control me; they support me" Most L-4s living independently still: Visit Caregiver on weekends minimum Call/text regularly Include Caregiver in major life events Seek advice on big decisions Spend holidays together Choose to maintain close relationship CAREER AND CONTRIBUTION Littles contribute meaningfully across numerous fields: L-1: Creative arts (music, visual art, performance) Simple task-based work (with support) Remote/home-based roles Valued for emotional authenticity and creativity L-2: Skilled trades (with accommodations) Design work, technical roles Customer service in supportive environments Excel in detail-oriented tasks L-3: Most career paths open (with reasonable accommodations) Professional roles common Management positions possible Serve as advocates for other Littles L-4: Wide range of careers accessible (within physical and emotional limitations)   Physical Limitations Prevent: Firefighting, construction, military combat roles Anything requiring significant height/strength Emotional Limitations Prevent:   Patient-facing medical roles: Doctors, surgeons, nurses, therapists Requires clinical detachment Littles cannot maintain Too emotionally taxing   Lawmaking: Legislators, politicians Littles are not involved in creating laws   Violent crime legal work: Criminal defense/prosecution involving violence Too emotionally disturbing ACCESSIBLE Careers Include: Medical Field (Behind-the-Scenes): Pharmaceutical research (developing new medications) Pharmacy work (filling prescriptions, inventory) Medical lab work (testing, analysis) Surgical suite preparation (setup, sterilization) Medical records and administration Medical equipment maintenance Research and development Legal Field (Support Roles): Legal research for civil cases only Case law research and analysis Legal documentation and filing Paralegal work (non-violent cases) Contract review and analysis Legal library management Administrative support Other Accessible Fields: Programming and software development Design (product, graphic, industrial) Writing (technical, creative, journalism) Teaching (with appropriate support) Business and management Arts and entertainment Engineering and technical roles Research across various fields The Common Thread: Roles that utilize their skills and intelligence Work that doesn't require emotional detachment from suffering/violence Positions where empathy is asset, not liability Behind-the-scenes or supportive rather than crisis-facing Examples: Maya: Product designer and company mascot (technical design work) Gaming Little: Professional gamer and community development lead Research Littles: Using robotics and tele-interfaces for scientific work Creative Littles: Award-winning artists, bestselling authors Pharmacy Littles: Ensuring accurate prescriptions and medication safety Legal Research Littles: Finding precedents for contract disputes, property cases SOCIAL LIFE - PLAYGROUP What it is: Structured social time during the week Like poker night/recess for adults L-3s and L-4s attend (L-1s and L-2s have different arrangements) Activities: Catchapals (collecting/trading game) Kickball and other simple group games Tag, hide and seek, playground equipment Board games, card games Arts and crafts stations Snack time together Purpose: Make friends with other Littles Socialize outside Caregiver relationship Have fun in age-appropriate setting Build community connections Just play and decompress Setting: Community centers, parks, Little-safe facilities Adult supervision present but not hovering Safe environment where they can be themselves Regular schedule (weekly) Social Aspect: Make plans: "See you at Playgroup!" Build friendships Share interests Normal social dynamics Complain about Caregivers making them eat vegetables (affectionately) BEHAVIORAL GUIDANCE AND DISCIPLINE Common Reminders Frequency varies by level, but all Littles may need reminders: Manners: "Is that how we ask for things?" (when demanding) "What do we say?" (prompting please/thank you) "Inside voices, please" "Gentle hands" Communication: "Use your words" (when whining/gesturing) "Tell me what's wrong" "I can't help if you don't tell me" These aren't because Littles don't KNOW better: They know manners exist They know they should use words In the moment (tired, upset, focused) they forget Need gentle redirection Consequences for Behavior Standard Consequences: Time-out: Brief separation to calm down/reset Not punishment, more regulation tool "Go sit in the quiet corner for 5 minutes" Lost Privileges: Natural consequences "You threw the tablet, so no screen time today" "You weren't listening, so we're leaving the park early" Apologies and Restitution: "You need to apologize to your friend" "You broke it, so you'll help fix/replace it" Extreme Safety Violations = Spanking: Reserved for serious safety issues only. Running into road after ball Touching hot stove after repeated warnings Putting self in genuine danger NOT for minor misbehavior Used when life/safety was at risk Immediate, brief, followed by comfort and explanation "You could have been hit by a car. That scared me so much. I need you to be safe." PERSONALITY AND TEMPERAMENT   Classification determines: Physical needs Cognitive capabilities Emotional regulation capacity Independence level Personality determines: How they respond to care Communication style Attitude about interruptions General temperament Examples: Cheerful L-2: "Okie dokie!" skips to changing area Still doesn't want to stop playing but handles it well Chatty during change Grumpy L-2: dramatic sigh "This is SO unfair" Cooperates but complains "Are you done YET?" Easygoing L-4: "Yeah, you're right, I should probably get changed" Sheepish smile at being called out Takes teasing good-naturedly Sarcastic L-4: "Oh wow, really? I had no idea" eye roll Still cooperates but with sass Personality traits exist across all levels: Shy vs. outgoing Silly vs. serious Compliant vs. resistant Chatty vs. quiet Anxious vs. confident Sarcastic vs. earnest KEY REMINDERS Littles are NOT stupid—they have cognitive specialization, not cognitive decline Physical care needs don't reflect intelligence—Maya designs products professionally while wearing diapers Cause-effect chains need reminders—not because they don't understand, but because impulse overrides in the moment Mental load redistribution frees energy—for creativity, skill development, professional work They're asexual and aromantic—relationships are non-romantic/non-sexual but deeply meaningful Crime is virtually nonexistent—they understand right and wrong Each Little is an individual—personality varies independent of Classification They contribute meaningfully to society—across countless fields and roles Classification changes capability, not potential.   Chrysalis is a gradual biological transformation that occurs between ages 18-25, lasting 24-35 months total. During this period, individuals undergo physical, neurological, and psychological changes that align their bodies with their innate predisposition. The process determines whether someone becomes a Caregiver, Little, or remains Neutral. Critical Understanding: Chrysalis is biological destiny revealing itself, not random change. The genetic markers and neurological patterns existed from birth—Chrysalis simply manifests what was always present. CULTURAL CONTEXT AND PRE-CHRYSALIS LIFE Coming of Age: Age Milestones: Age 17: Learning to drive Age 18: K-12 graduation Age of majority Voting rights begin Drinking legally permitted Age of consent The Gap Year Tradition: Rite of Passage: Following K-12 graduation, young adults are strongly encouraged to: Travel to exotic locations Experience the world before Classification Begin higher education or training Explore career interests Live independently briefly Take "the big trip" - a cultural tradition Purpose: Experience life before Chrysalis changes everything Make memories as full-sized adults Discover interests and passions Build confidence and independence Understand what they might be giving up (for future Littles) Appreciate what they'll become (for future Caregivers) Common Destinations: Mountain regions of Valsora Tropical islands of Hallorp Desert cities of Gatchfeld Historical sites across Ormin Cultural centers of Ormaj THREE STAGES OF CHRYSALIS   STAGE 1: ONSET (1-2 months) Smart Band Hormone Detection: Automatic Monitoring:   All citizens wear Smartbands from childhood Bands continuously monitor vital signs and hormone levels These Smartbands also come equipped with LifeNet, a monitoring app for families and Caregivers that tracks location and vital signs and will alert if a Little or family member is in distress or out-of-bounds for small children and Littles. The device naturally grants more freedom/distance with age and this feature cannot be disabled without valid reason such as a medical condition. Tracking is disabled upon reaching age 18 unless there is a documented legal/medical reason and the device reverts to a standard interface device that will only alert in an emergency or if the “HELP!” feature is intentionally activated. This service is opt-in for Neutrals and Caregivers as well as parents. It requires Parent/Gaurdian/Caregiver override to disable and this cannot be done remotely. For the device to be removed from the network, it must be within 15cm of the parent/Guardian/Caregiver device. Detects increase in Chrysalis hormones automatically Starts 1-month countdown timer from Onset detection The Timer: Visible to wearer: "Chrysalis Onset Detected - Physical Assessment Required Within 30 Days" Sends notification to registered emergency contacts Alerts local NURSAID clinic Cannot be dismissed or disabled Enforcement: If physical assessment and Classification Exam NOT completed within 1 month: Bureau of Classification automatically notified NURSAID dispatches wellness check Legal requirement to complete assessment Ensures no one goes through Chrysalis unsupported Prevents dangerous delays in medical intervention Purpose: Early detection saves lives Ensures timely hormone stabilization Prevents anyone from hiding or denying Chrysalis Guarantees medical support from day one Tracks population-wide Chrysalis patterns Initial Symptoms: Common (Experienced by Most): Fatigue: Persistent tiredness, need for more sleep Coordination difficulties: Tripping, falling, dropping things Mild tremors in hands: Shakiness, especially when tired Hypersensitivity: Light (bright lights hurt, need dimmer environments) Noise (loud sounds overwhelming, need quiet spaces) Smell (strong odors nauseating) Texture (certain fabrics uncomfortable, tags irritating) Emotional instability: Mood swings, crying easily, irritability Mild depression: Sadness, anxiety about changes, fear of future Less Common: Low-grade fever: Slight temperature elevation Flu-like symptoms: Body aches, chills, general malaise Cold-like symptoms: Congestion, sore throat, headache Usually resolve within about 5 days What's Happening: Body preparing for transformation Hormones beginning to shift Nervous system becoming more sensitive Immune system adjusting Physical coordination beginning to change THE CLASSIFICATION EXAM When It Occurs: Administered within 1 month of Onset detection by Smart Band. The Smart Band's hormone monitoring ensures no one misses this critical window. Smart Band Requirements: Detects Chrysalis hormone increase Starts 1-month countdown timer Sends alerts to wearer and emergency contacts Notifies local NURSAID clinic If timer expires without exam completion: Bureau of Classification intervenes NURSAID performs wellness check Legal compliance required Why Timing Matters: Early intervention prevents complications Hormone stabilization must begin quickly Growth regulation treatment time-sensitive Psychological support needed immediately Medical monitoring essential from start Components: General Aptitude Assessment - Cognitive abilities, problem-solving, skills Complete Medical and Physical Evaluation - Overall health, genetic markers Bloodwork Analysis - Testing for Classification genetic markers and diseases Fitness Assessment - Physical capabilities and stamina Cognitive Examination - Memory, processing, executive function Personality Test - Temperament, preferences, behavioral patterns Psychological Evaluation - Emotional regulation, stress response, attachment styles Results: Determines Classification: Caregiver, Little (L-1 through L-4), or Neutral Bureau of Classification's determination is final Based on objective biological and psychological markers Internal perception does not override assessment Immediate Medical Intervention (For Littles): Same Day: Hormone Stabilization Injection - Prevents dangerous hormonal swings, reduces CHAD risk 3-4 Weeks Later: Growth Regulation Treatment - Ensures even shrinking rate, prevents CDRD risk STAGE 2: METAMORPHOSIS (20-30 months / 2-3 Kalvassan Years) The Core Transformation: This is when all biological, neurological, and physical changes occur to bring someone into alignment with their Classification. It is a gradual process that happens slowly enough for body systems to adapt safely. Physical Changes: Height and Body Proportions: Gradual height reduction (for Littles) Bone density adjustments Muscle tone changes Body proportions shift (head larger relative to body, limbs proportionally shorter) Coordination difficulties due to constantly changing height and proprioception "I keep misjudging distances" "I thought the counter was here, not there" Frequent minor bumps and trips as body adjusts Biological Systems: Bladder and bowel control diminishes progressively Metabolic shifts (appetite changes, energy needs adjust) Cardiovascular system scales appropriately Respiratory adjustments for smaller lung capacity Reproductive system changes (sterility occurs, sexual/romantic attraction fades for Littles) Sensory Changes: Vision: Becomes more sensitive Mild to moderate improvement in visual acuity May see details more clearly Bright lights more bothersome Hearing: Becomes more sensitive Mild to moderate improvement in auditory perception Can hear quieter sounds Loud noises more overwhelming Touch: Significantly increased sensitivity Can feel textures more intensely Develops aversions to certain fabrics (scratchy, rough) Develops affinities for others (soft, smooth, fleece) Tags in clothing become intolerable Temperature sensitivity increases Smell: Improves slightly Can detect scents more easily Strong odors more overwhelming Taste: Palette becomes less refined; preferences shift toward simpler foods Complex flavors less appealing Capability to appreciate complex flavors remains - they CAN taste the nuances, just don't prefer them Comfort foods become more appealing Proprioception (Body Awareness): Becomes less accurate Difficulty judging where body is in space Minor clumsiness even when height stabilizes Fine motor tasks become difficult: Writing with pen/pencil requires intense concentration Handwriting becomes markedly less neat Can still be done, just harder Drawing, detailed crafts, small manipulation challenging Physical Discomfort: Joint Pain: Mild to moderate aches, especially in: Knees and ankles (bearing weight during height changes) Hips and spine (structural adjustments) Shoulders and elbows (proportion shifts) Similar to "growing pains" in children Manageable with pain medication Gastrointestinal Distress: Changes in GI sensitivities May experience: Nausea (food aversions develop) Vomiting (body rejecting certain foods) Diarrhea (system adjusting) Constipation (metabolic changes) Usually intermittent, not constant Dietary adjustments help Neurological/Psychological Changes: Executive Function: Redistribution begins gradually "I used to plan everything, now I just... don't think about it" Decision fatigue decreases as Caregiver takes on planning Mental energy redirects to other pursuits Emotional Sensitivity: Increases progressively Cry more easily Overwhelmed by emotions more quickly Need comfort and reassurance more frequently Stress Tolerance: Decreases gradually Things that didn't bother them before become stressful Need more support managing daily challenges Attachment Patterns: Bonding instincts strengthen toward Caregiver Separation anxiety may develop Need for physical closeness increases Relationship dynamics shift naturally Sexual/Romantic Attraction (for Littles): Littles do not generally experience sexual feelings even before Chrysalis. They go through puberty normally, but their sex drive is essentially nonexistent and they are sterile after Chrysalis anyway. Made sterile by Metamorphosis Littles have an asexual and aromantic orientation Cognitive Specialization (NOT Decline): Intelligence remains intact Processing style changes "Caregiver handles X → I don't think about X anymore" Mental load redistributes Frees cognitive resources for creativity, skill development, interests STAGE 3: STABILIZATION (3 months) What's Happening: Body systems are no longer changing. Final adjustments occur as systems stabilize at new baseline. This phase is almost entirely mental - learning to live in the new body and accept new reality. Physical Stabilization: Height finalized Organ systems settled Metabolic rate stabilized Sensory changes complete Coordination improving as brain adjusts to final body Psychological Adjustment: Common Challenges: Accepting new limitations Grieving loss of previous capabilities Adjusting to dependency Processing identity changes Learning new self-image Accepting Classification CTSS (Chrysalis Transitional Stress Syndrome): Anxiety about future Depression about losses Identity confusion Fear of judgment Difficulty accepting needs Treatment: Counseling, support groups, medication if needed Therapeutic Support: Therapy Options: Individual counseling for acceptance Family therapy for relationship adjustment Group therapy with other new Littles Caregiver-Little paired sessions Identity work and grief processing Occupational Training: Available to help Littles learn to live within new capabilities: Adaptive Technology Training: Robotic manipulation systems for fine motor tasks Voice-controlled interfaces Adaptive keyboards and mice Smart home systems Communication devices Industry-Specific Qualifications: Certification programs in Little-appropriate fields Skills training for new careers Portfolio development for creative fields Technical training for remote work Practical experience with accommodations Life Skills: Managing daily routines with new limitations Communicating needs effectively Self-advocacy training Understanding legal rights and protections Building social support networks GUARDIANSHIP AND LEGAL STATUS When Guardianship Begins: Immediately after the Classification Exam In the vast majority of cases, a Little will already have someone close to them willing to take on the Caregiver role: Close family friend Romantic partner (relationship will need to shift as attraction fades) Trusted mentor Legal Little Status   Note: Classification is determined at the Classification Exam Legal Little status is given, but restrictions like not being allowed to drive or limits on type of employment, employment industry, etc. don't occur until 4'8" height, which generallyhappens about 1 year after Exam.   Why the 4'8" Threshold: Driving Requirements: To drive, one must be able to: Sit in vehicle seat Reach the pedals See over the dashboard All without external assistance This ensures safe vehicle control Once below 4'8": Cannot drive standard vehicles Must rely on Caregivers/public transit/community transportation Legal Little protections activate Guardianship transitions to Caregiver status (If Type A) and becomes legally binding Guardianship Period Purpose: Tests compatibility between Little and Caregiver Allows relationship to develop Both parties assess if bond works Trial period before permanent commitment Guardianship happens anywhere from immediately after the Classification Exam, to 1 month post-Exam, depending on circumstance. Continues for 5-10 months once established. Type A License: Automatically converts to official Caregiver adoption after period Provided both consent Streamlined process Type B License: Requires formal adoption before judge More involved process Both parties must explicitly consent and appear in court Critical Rule: Littles cannot be compelled into guardianship Must be voluntary Can refuse if relationship doesn't work RECESS assigns alternative if needed MEDICAL SUPPORT AND MONITORING NURSAID Services: During Chrysalis: Regular monitoring of transformation progress Hormone level tracking Shrink rate assessment Psychological counseling for CTSS Emergency intervention for complications Family education and support Pain management GI distress treatment Coordination with Guardians Post-Chrysalis: Annual mandatory checkups Private abuse screenings Bond stability assessments for the first 3 years, reassesed if needed after that Ongoing medical care Medication management Occupational therapy referrals Medical Conditions and Complications CTSS (Chrysalis Transitional Stress Syndrome): Psychological difficulty adapting to transformation Anxiety, depression, identity confusion Treatment: Counseling, anxiolytics, family support Common and manageable with proper care Historical Complications (Pre-Stabilization Era): Before hormone stabilization and growth regulation protocols (pre-2320 KY), Chrysalis was unpredictable and dangerous: CDRD (Chrysalis Development Regulation Disorder): Irregular growth patterns Organ stress and potential failure Skeletal deformities Significant pain and disability High mortality rates CHAD (Chrysalis Hormone Adjustment Disorder): Severe mood instability Dangerous emotional swings Violent outbursts and self-harm Social isolation and fear High suicide rates during transformation Population Impact: Early Little mortality rates were catastrophic Families feared Chrysalis Many chose CHITs to delay indefinitely (with eventual fatal consequences) Society nearly collapsed from population loss Modern Era: These conditions virtually eliminated through medical intervention Hormone stabilization prevents CHAD Growth regulation prevents CDRD Chrysalis is now safe and manageable Mortality rates near zero with proper care EMERGENCY PREPAREDNESS Emergency Littles Kit (ELK): Required for all Caregivers and prospective Caregivers Pre-packaged, store-available bag for unexpected Chrysalis onset or newly classified Littles. Contents: Anxiolytic Chews (Color-Coded by Classification): White chews: L-1 dosing Purple chews: L-2 dosing Green chews: L-3 dosing Yellow chews: L-4 dosing Used during early transformation to manage anxiety Before shrinking phase begins Comfort and Care Items: Bottles (multiple sizes) Pacifiers (multiple sizes) Disposable diapers (various sizes) Pull-ups (various sizes) Soft blanket for comfort and warmth Stuffed animal Classification-appropriate clothing (various sizes) Information: NURSAID emergency contact card Quick-reference guide to Little care basics Classification identification chart Purpose: Assists anyone experiencing unexpected Chrysalis onset Provides immediate comfort and safety Ensures Caregivers are prepared Reduces anxiety for both Little and Caregiver during critical early period CHITs (CHRYSALIS HORMONE INHIBITOR TABLETS) Legitimate Medical Use: Purpose: Delay Chrysalis for individuals with degenerative diseases Prevents transformation while body is already compromised Allows treatment of primary condition first Compassionate medical intervention Administration: Prescribed by licensed physicians only Regular monitoring required Cannot delay indefinitely—transformation will eventually occur Carefully calibrated dosing Illegal Use: Why It's Dangerous: Chrysalis is biological destiny—fighting it causes harm Long-term use without medical supervision causes organ damage Eventually fails, causing rapid uncontrolled transformation Can result in death Legal Consequences: Possession without prescription: Criminal offense Distribution: Severe penalties Use on another person: Assault charges   RECLASSIFICATION   When Reclassification CAN Occur: Only after extreme psychological or physical trauma that fundamentally alters neural or hormonal baselines. Example Cases: Severe traumatic brain injury with permanent neurological changes Extreme psychological trauma causing permanent regression (torture, prolonged captivity) Catastrophic medical event fundamentally altering brain chemistry   SOCIETAL AND RELIGIOUS ATTITUDES General Acceptance: Mainstream Views: All Classifications equally valued Each serves essential purpose Chrysalis reveals divine intention Biological reality to be accepted and supported Religious Variations: The Circle (Mainstream): Chrysalis as manifestation of Esvyra and Improtoa's gifts All Classifications sacred expressions of divine balance Littles embody Orati's teaching about caring for vulnerable Caregivers embody Improtoa's protective strength Neutrals embody balance and wisdom The Trellis (Strict Sect): Look down on Littles View neediness as weakness Believe strength and self-sufficiency are highest virtues Teach that dependency is shameful Littles from Trellis families often struggle with intense shame "Service is virtue, and we all must tend our own fields" Create significant psychological harm for Little members Mainstream Circle criticizes this interpretation as heretical  Sectarian Views: Trellis: Uses Little vulnerability for manipulation Jutian Orthodoxy: Weaponizes Little status for political control Symbolists: View Classifications as psychological archetypes Civic Harmonists: See Classifications as practical social organization COMMON QUESTIONS "Can you choose your Classification?" No. Classification is determined by genetic markers, neurological patterns, and psychological predisposition that existed from birth. Chrysalis reveals what was always there. "What if someone doesn't want to be a Little?" Biological reality doesn't change based on preference. Wanting to be different doesn't make you different. Eventually, acceptance is the only path forward. "Can you delay Chrysalis forever?" No. CHITs can delay temporarily for medical reasons, but transformation will eventually occur. Attempting to prevent it permanently causes severe health complications and eventual death. "Is Chrysalis painful?" With modern medical intervention, physical discomfort is manageable—mild to moderate aches, some GI distress, coordination challenges. Psychological adjustment varies. NURSAID provides support throughout. "What happens if Chrysalis starts unexpectedly?" Smart Band detects hormone increase and starts 1-month countdown. Emergency medical response is immediate if needed. NURSAID clinics are everywhere. Caregivers keep ELKs on hand. Society is prepared for sudden onset. No one goes through Chrysalis alone or unsupported. "Why can't Littles just 'grow up'?" Because it's not about maturity—it's about biology. Littles maintain full intelligence and capability in many areas. Asking them to "grow up" is like asking someone to change their height through willpower—biologically impossible. "What about the gap year tradition? Do people rush back if Chrysalis starts?" Most return home immediately when Onset symptoms begin or when Smart Band alerts trigger. Some finish their trip if symptoms are mild and they're close to returning anyway. NURSAID has international clinics for travelers. Missing the Classification Exam isn't an option—Smart Band enforcement ensures compliance. KEY PRINCIPLES Chrysalis reveals, not creates - The patterns were always there Medical support is essential - Modern protocols make transformation safe All Classifications have equal value - Different roles, equal worth Classification is biological, not choice - Acceptance is necessary Reclassification is extraordinarily rare - Only extreme trauma causes it Society supports the process - No one transforms alone The result is authentic self - Living according to biological truth Three stages take 24-35 months total - Onset (1-2 months), Metamorphosis (20-30 months), Stabilization (3 months) Legal Little status begins at 4'8" - About 1 year after Exam for most people Religious attitudes vary - Some sects cause harm through judgment Smartbands ensure compliance - 1-month timer from hormone detection Gap year tradition is sacred - Last chance to experience life before Classification