Kinky_Wheels25

Any chance I could play a side character. I’m not asking to be diapered, just help out as a caretaker

That sounds freeing! I’m never quite sure until my boy has already made the decision for me, but when it’s a big one I have a decent amount of heads up time. To get somewhere private. The relief is second only to sex, which is why diaper sex sounds 0.0

Thank you for sharing! I for one discovered the ABDL community at 14-15, so I completely empathize, though I’m a little jealous of what a wide variety of diapers you’ve tried out. They’re 24/7 for me becayse of Medical reasons, but they’re both a comfort and a kink, so I’m glad to hear you have an understanding partner ?

I think Marilyn and Miley absolutely have had ABDL tendencies, same as Aubrey Plaza or Sarah Silverman, but I don’t think it extends far beyond that. The rest sound more like exaggerated metaphors for being spoiled brats lol. Not that I don’t wish it was the case. If Miley admitted it on Ellen or Oprah, this kink would EXPLODE with newcomers.

How do you feel it worked? Were you more or less embarrassed by that preemptive explanation? I could honestly see it going both ways.

I’m so sorry! I can’t get over how much that upsets me. That’s such an unnecessary burden to be made to carry.

It wasn’t prom, but I have a similar story that might or might not be just as bad. Our first year of high school my class took a traditional week-long trip to Gettysburg in order to do the full historical tour. As a "reward" there was an 4-6 hour stop at Hershey Park on our way back, and everyone was allowed to group up so we could explore somewhat independently. Being 100% incontinent I did all the necessary prep, felt confident, and was ready for the roller coasters. Unfortunately, after a week of junk/hotel food, my stomach was pretty backed up, so the combination of high speeds and chocolate took quick effect. Following my group of friends, crush included, I felt agonizing cramps that gave me a ten second warning to duck into privacy and lose ALL control. When it was all over I was a total mess, and wound up having to have a friend flag down both my private nurse and the school nurse. They helped me to the nearest bathroom, cleared it, and locked it while they helped me clean up... Only for me to walk out first and learn that it was a Women’s Restroom and there was now a long line of girls waiting, including my classmates. Whoooole lotta shame to live down after that one.

I get your confusion, truly. When I first discovered fetishes I told myself that I was strictly a DL with a taste for Medical play... Then I added Enemas and Suppositories... Then I added AB and Potties... And finally Toilet Voyeur, at which point I had to stop and really think about it. I had to admit that I am a coprophilliac, with the smells and sounds of any kind of BM having an undeniable affect on me. It took time to get over, but I feel much much better now that I’m honest with myself about what TRULY turns me on.

That is an amazing and encouraging success story, Three Rivers, and thanks for sharing it. I’m currently in an on-off relationship, and while she knows about my NEED for diapers she has no clue about my love for using them. I have only ever discussed it with a potential partner twice, and it has been the kiss of death both times. It’s hard to admit that my own mess, and the changing process, does something undeniable to me - and all I want is someone to explore that with. Reading about you and your wife gives me, and I’m sure many others, hope that there will be someone understanding enough to let me open up that door.

While I agree, I think the better solution would be MORE time together with her ‘big sis’ than less. They’re both bratty only children, so Mommy should give them shared activities so they can get to know one another. I’m sure Pammy would like a playmate/sister if she gave it a try.

County, but there’s a massive mall in the center of it also called ‘The Westchester’

I’m looking to meet up with some local AB/DLs and maybe even form a sharing group that could meet and just discuss our lives in diapers together. That said, I’d rather have a genuine conversation on site before any face-to-face meeting. I also have a car, so if Westchester is not as convenient as some place else, feel free to drop a suggestion.

Lmfao "FACTS" ?

It was a while ago, but one time I was driving back from a movie with a car full of my buddies when I felt lunch disagree with me. We were on the backroads close to home, and it was nice out, so I rolled down my window and took in the fresh air just in case the inevitable happened. It did. While it was quiet enough so only I could hear, there was no hiding this for long, and thankfully the driver knew me well enough to open ALL the windows at my ashen expression. When one of my buds in the back finally noticed, he gets all mad and asks "who farted", and I was terrified I was gonna have to fess up. Instead, the driver just quoted the ol’ "He who smelt it, dealt it" rule, and from then on he’s been labeled the Hotbox culprit. Do I feel guilty? A little. Did I enjoy the schadenfreude? You bet!

I had the strangest reoccurring dream for what felt like years, and is probably the second longest running "nightmare" in my life. Here it goes! In the dream I’m driving to surprise my mother with a visit to her new house, which was a recent development after I left for college. We both have a long standing tradition of surprises between us, with her loving them and my hating them, so an early arrival for the summer should be a welcome shock. Yet, when I pull in, there’s a familiar looking Jeep taking up the only other spot in her tiny driveway. Parking on the street, my confusion doubles when I discover the door is locked. I make my way around back to try the sliding doors she never ever locks. Success! On sneaking in, however, I’m almost bowled over by the family dog who is all alone and eager to be pet. Figuring my Mom’s taking a nap, I try to stay silent, but the dog keeps leading me toward her room to say ‘Hi’. Getting close, I hear low voices and a rhythmic clapping sound, so I guiltily peak in through the cracked doorway to see what’s going on. Inside, my mom is standing next to her bed and using a hairbrush to spank some half-naked woman who’s bent over the edge of the mattress. Her cheeks red as roses, this woman was obviously trying to keep her squealing and kicking to a minimum, while my mom kept up a steady stream of spanks and scoldings. It was only when the dog walked right in that my cover was blown, but Mom just looked back and smiled as she greeted me with "Oh hi! We weren’t expecting you, but that’s no trouble. Are you hungry? I’ll be out in just a second after I finish with your Aunty here. Margie, be a good girl and say ‘hello’." The spankee turned her head around, revealing my mom’s youngest sister’s red and tearstained face, to whimper out a Litteish "Hewoo". That was when I noticed what was dangling between her thighs: an open, yellow stained diaper pinned between her and the mattress. I always stare at it, absolutely transfixed, and am pulled away by my mom saying "Someone leaked out on the sunchairs, but when I’m done here I’ll have her fresh and ready for lunch." So, I nod dumbly, and hurry out of the room. Its changed and morphed into different scenarios throughout the years, but this is definitely the original and most common rendition.

This is a fascinating discussion! Seriously, I have been on lots of Fetish and ABDL forums, and most if not all had far less nuanced and thought out conceptions of our shared fetish. That said, why all this hostility? Essentially, everyone seems to be in agreement, and it’s simply the terminology being used that is acting as a bone of contention. As with anything involving as diverse and dispersed as human behavior, nothing’s absolute. There are a mind boggling multitude of unforeseeable variables that even the most trained researcher will have difficulty taking account of, and that’s doubly so for psychology. It’s a constantly growing and mutating discipline that’s more of a sophist art than a science since it allows it’s disparate and conflicting concepts to be equally valid. Why? Each discipline’s conclusions and methodology are largely colored by the subjective emotions and experiences of every doctor and patient. I’m no psychiatrist or such, but it appears Rosalie is, and so I think it’s hard to argue the merits of the research and models she’s put forward. Do I like the simplified diagram? Yes. Do I completely agree with it’s conclusions? No. Either way, it’s more developed and realized than anything else I’ve read, so that needs acknowledgement. As with any branch of medicine - labels matter - so any pursuit to better define kinks is important. Which leads me to my main point: What is the distinction between AB/DL and Infantilism? I would argue they are not interchangeable because can apply to an Adult/Teen Baby, but not a Diaper Lover. Still, caeteris paribus. Since the majority of us in this community only have our personal experiences to draw from, that’s how we talk. There’s no way of verbalizing and coalescing our opinions on these subjects in public society because of just how TABOO anything relating to diapers is, so asking someone to keep their own story out of their argument is all but impossible. I, for one, have been incontinent my whole life and when puberty hit I became aroused during changes, so the discovery of DLs through a bit of Googling was a total eye opener. Even so, for a long time I only focused on the Medical side of the fetish, and was turned off by Infantilism specifically because of it’s emphasis on Regression. Now? I’m a Switch who enjoys both AB and DL play, but always with an emphasis on BD/SM. in that situation, which is the chicken and which is the egg? Either way, I feel like I’m speaking for the majority when I say that the idea of broadening our sexual fetish to include Pre-Teens is uncomfortable. Whatever the origins, distancing this lifestyle from the underaged is important, and sexualizing whatever latent interests that minority demographic may hold is a slippery slope.

That sounds absolutely delicious! Public accidents have been a part of my fetish since I discovered it, and since I’m incontient I don’t really have any social anxiety about it. It’s a fun, secret thrill that gives me an excuse to rush home and "take care of things" ?

I put Medical and DL (Sexual) because I had a medical mishap when I was 2 yo and have been 100% incontinent ever since. Growing up, I didn’t think about them or getting changed much b/c they were just part of my daily routine, but when puberty hit they took on a very different connotation. After a rather awkward change my school nurse, I ran home and went on Google, discovering the ABDL community and using it as an outlet ever since.