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  1. I'm sorry you had difficult time. I deal with quite a number of couples with this kind of problem and what I find is that if the partner is willing to give SOME ground, a workable compromise is possible. The first step is always the hard part and I understand it, but it is still not fair.
  2. That's a nice idea but it is largely idealistic. My hubby did in fact tell me before we got married but told me what exactly? He couldnt explain it properly (not an uncommon problem) and I wouldnt have understood or accepted it in any case even if he could. That is how the real world operates. I have dealt with couples where the wive did know before hand but the AB drive increases and later on becomes a problem. You can promise the world to your would-be-spouse but that doesnt mean that you actually can fulfill it. AB grows over time and the ability to contain it reduces. It's a little easier now in that at least we know more about AB and that people arent 'alone' in it so we can give out prospective partners some information, but even now, it is still hard to prepare yourself for the AB partner experience. It has no equal and is hard to fathom, nevermind accept. What I try to do with partners is to get them to understand and accept how things are NOW and move from there. What happened beforehand can't be changed. I prefer to think that the committed love for another is enough to allow couples to move past it but alas, it is not always. Some are too self-centred to consider giving up some ground for their partner's deep needs. The same partner that would stand by their man if they were hurt and left in a wheelchair, run away at the sight of them wearing a diaper. Most times it is just sad. other times, it is pathetic. That is absolutely wonderful, Glennie. iI am proud of you both.
  3. Your approach of simply demanding your nappies may have been the correct one. My baby did the same to me and sometimes we need to be FORCED into making reasonable compromises.
  4. One of the things that happen to me a lot as a non-AB woman who has an AB business is that I get a LOT of people asking me for advice about how to bring it up to their partner. You see the same here as it is a very common problem. But what I get in increasing numbers are the non-AB PARTNERS (usually wives) contacting me for advice and support. The reason I wrote the book 'Coffee with Rosie' is that I wanted a short book that was an introduction to AB that was still pro-partner and not simply saying 'go and diaper him!'. It was intended as the opening conversation starter about a topic no one wants to talk about. Three times in the last month I have had wives at the end of their tether over their AB partners. They still love him and still want the marriage to succeed and in many cases these marriages are 25, 35 or even 45 years long. But AB has become more of an irritant and is now an active threat to both of them. They want a solution... but don't know what it is. I feel very sorry for them as I've been along that road as well. What I am finding out is that so often, the issues are largely the same, the frustrations the same and the advice is still a variation on a theme. The one thing that partners are generally NOT aware of is that by letting a strongly regressive AB partner indulge in it, they may in fact end up getting a MUCH BETTER partner as a result. As many of you will testify, holding back a strong AB drive is a nightmare and leads to anger, frustration, loneliness and distraction. I certainly saw that. Once I let my husband be a baby again, I saw truly dramatic improvements that made it a win-win situation for us both. One psychiatrist some years ago told the parent of a teen baby this simple advice: "Its just a diaper!" It is succinct and a bit of a slap in the face, but still very true. There is a lot more to it of course, but if letting your partner wear diapers - even 24/7 - restored your relationship and improved BOTH of your lives, you would think the decision would be easy, right? It isn't and never will be. But it still makes good sense. The fail point for some relationships is when either partner puts their own preferences and opinions about that of their partner to the exclusion of all else. This works both way. An intolerant and unbending partner is just as bad as the inconsiderate AB. I try to help some find a middle ground but sadly, I find some just aren't willing to work hard enough to make it work and reap the rewards. I don't speak from the cheap seats but I see some who value their relationships less than they do their own preferences and prejudices. But when it works.... it is a glorious thing. I hope most of you have it working properly for you at home.
  5. I'm a fan of real books myself, but the bible on my phone has the advantage that it is always with me. When I need to look something up or check a passage or pursue a thought, my phone bible is always there. I use a real bible for personal devotions and used to in church but now with low light levels and (ugh) poorer eyesight, I find the back lit phone preferable and easier to use.
  6. 'plastic' is a fairly generic term covering vinyl and anything remotely similar.
  7. Even now, some people call their waterproof pants as 'rubber pants'. Here in australia, they are called 'pilchers' and I still use that term here. I think it is what you are used to and the actual material is less important.
  8. I'm not that critical of paraphases. But it is important to note that Jesus' words are translated from the original into another language so they technically aren't His words either and most good paraphases dont alter what He says to any degree. But good to discuss things like the Word of God.
  9. I'm glad you enjoyed it. We tend to publish mostly from AB men or partners of AB men so it was a refreshing insight into women. Melinda is the most regressive AB I know of.
  10. I have found myself over the years that babying an adult can be both a chore (and a messy one) but just like with a real baby, it can also be an act of exquisite intimacy. Melinda McMahon wrote an article on the topic that I would like to share with you all and I hope you like it and it leads to some meaningful conversions. https://abdiscover.files.wordpress.com/2020/06/babying-as-an-act-of-intimacy.pdf…
  11. I mostly agree with you. I use a NKJV and ESB as my main bibles, but also have an NIV. These are mainly stylistic considerations as I enjoy the majestic tone of the NKJV. I wouldnt say that paraphases are not 'real bibles' but I do think that sometimes they can leave the meaning a little strained or diluted. I've never understood the KJV-only movement. That sounds like just another conspiracy theory by people susceptible to them. I engaged with a number of them online at one stage and discovered one interesting fact - MOST of them dont actually go to church. So their claims become even less credible by virtue of their (non) actions.
  12. Yes, I often wonder at the design of adult diapers. I remember getting MOlicares that were so low in the front that i made me think that their idea of men were those with penises <2". Also, based on complaints from my baby, why is it that side-panels are not incorporated? The only reason that a side-sleeping bedwetter doesnt leak is if the middle section is thicke enough and absorbent enough to handle the initial flow. Can you imagine a different adult diaper where the front panel was padded all the way to the edges? Prob too expensive, but still a worthwhile idea.
  13. That is a wonderful story and while COVID19 sucks terribly there have been various stories similar to this. IN a recent email newsletter, we quoted this story: “I was very afraid of how being stuck at home in an enforced lockdown would work. I wear diapers quite a lot and my wife is okay with it but… there was a problem. With rare exception, I wore them when she was not around. If she was out of the house, I would wear. When I went to work, I would wear but take them off before I got home. It was a ritual we had that worked. I got my diaper-wearing and she didn’t get angry with me and it worked brilliantly - until the lockdown. We were both going to be home 24/7 and the thought of not wearing diapers for weeks or even months made me frustrated and apprehensive. On the second week, my wife suggested that I just wear them even though she was around. Her ‘not in front of me’ rule was years old and it worked and so we were loathe to alter it. But the world had changed. So, I wore a diaper around her under my clothes. She didn’t care at all. Then she suggested that there was no point in hiding since we were locked down together and so for the first time, she saw me in a diaper and… complimented me! I was shocked and so was she. Somewhere, over the past few years of mutual respect of boundaries she had subconsciously decided that diapers weren’t really a problem after all. I wore openly, including wetting in them around her. Then she suggested that I wear to bed if I wanted to. I was ecstatic and since then, have worn many nights but not most. We are still both finding our way but the enforced closeness has led us to discover that we care for each other far more than we thought. We also both discovered that diapers were not the big deal both of us thought. I wear diapers. She approves. It’s a miracle!”
  14. Reading some of your comments, I wonder sometimes if some medical diaper manufacturers have any idea what they are doing. We have found that much of the time their products are ill-fitting, leaky and low capacity while ABDL diapers are the opposite. I also suspect that the -non-ABDL diapers that are top quality like Northshore are designed with the ABDL in mind, understanding that non-medical wearers want performance capacity and protection. I do wonder what manufacturers are thinking with their products as they range from the simply terrible to the remarkably good. But if you are a heavy wetter and side sleeper, NOTHING beats a pinned cloth nappy and plastic pants. also, I personally think they look very babyish as well - if that is the desired efffect.
  15. Speaking as a publisher of pro-bedwetting books, I am constantly amazed by the level of interest in bedwetting. Publicly, people are averse to the idea and then privately read and enoy these books, buy the wet bed pic sets and more. Bedwetting has historically carried a greater shame than child abuse and I suspect that it still does.
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