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The more discrete, the less practical for long term wear for sure. They simply don't have the absorbancy for active use over extended stretches of time, we're talking a single, moderate volume wetting is the max for most diapers that could be genuinely called discrete. As Little Christine already pointed out, adjusting to extended wear that way also comes with increased risk to your skin, and the increased cost. Better diapers cost more money, and they seriously aren't cheap. On the flip-side, people really don't notice often if you're not being deliberately obvious about, because they're just not looking. The only people consciously looking are usually members of the community in the first place! Also, even if most people do notice, they simply assume the most logical answer, which is medical, not AB/DL, and most people would never comment on it.

I'm just curious as to the reasons people wear their diapers. I made the poll anonymous and multiple choice. I would love for everyone who votes to give a brief explanation of their choice(s)! I just realized that I posted this off the wrong tab, it was meant to be in the surveys. Can a moderator move it?

I think I would feel much the same on this. Having someone involved that was only doing it for me, not because of a desire to participate, just wouldn't be the same I don't think. I want to find someone that would be interested in actively joining the play. Don't get me wrong though, nothing wrong with a little begging before getting what you want, for those of us that are into that!

"Not angry bees, that's for sure!" *shakes box* "Well now they're angry."

I've never had a partner I felt I could be open with this about. I just got out of a 12 year relationship with a partner who was in general FAR from vanilla, but who generally referred to kinks that went past their limit as "pee on people kinda freaky". That didn't encourage me to think this was something I could open up about. As a result, I didn't even start to explore this until we separated. I'm REALLY hoping in the future I can find a partner who not only understands, but wants to participate!

To all those saying to post this in rainbow diapers, I don't see why, I think that this is a a perfectly legit question from a sissy, especially since both swallowing and being a sissy are often seen inherently (though not necessarily accurately) as submissive acts, and therefor many actually just assume that a sissy SHOULD swallow, though such assumptions should never be made. I prefer to swallow myself; all that effort, what a waste otherwise. Some people sucking love the feeling of someone cumming on them, some people being sucked love to see themselves cumming on another person. Likewise, some of us who suck (like myself) genuinely enjoy swallowing, and some being sucked (also me to be honest) prefer the feeling of the person continuing to suck them right through the orgasm, and find hot the knowledge that the other person took it all.

I've been thinking of trying this. Does plug material matter? I'm worried that softer materials could be damaged by prolonged exposure to the uric acid

Wetting my diaper always makes my hard right after. I love rubbing myself through the wet diaper until I cum and just continuing to wear it as long as possible, feeling the wet from the diaper, and stickiness from my own cum.

Unless it's a trimmer designed for body trimming; and even they aren't honestly the greatest for down below, you're just going to catch skin and hurt yourself. I recommend trimming short with scissors or a guarded electric if it's too long to make a razor very effective, and using a good razor (like a Gillette 5+1) and a soothing shave cream with after-lotion. I personally prefer just a short trimmed above, and smooth below. I'm hairy enough in general that unless I want to remove ALL my body hair; which would be practically a full-time job for me, a clean shave down there actually just looks kinda out of place.

Lego never stops being amazing to play with. I honestly don't even really go into little space with it the way I do other activities, because lego is just fun regardless of age!

If this is already on here, I'm sorry if I missed it in the boards! My little is basically me when I was younger, based on a combination of of fuzzy memories and stories from my parents. I'm a slightly bratty, and highly intelligent 6yr old who is potty and nighttime trained, but still wears pull-ups during the day because I get too distracted by games, shows, playing, etc. and either don't notice or don't want to stop what I'm doing and end up wetting. When I just didn't notice I get really upset and embarrassed to have anyone find out, and like to be comforted about it after. When I just let it happen I can get a little bratty about not wanting to admit I need a change. I have really good vocabulary and conversation skills for a 6yr old, but can get really shy and drop into much younger speech patterns if I'm put on the spot or embarrassed. I usually try to please mommy and daddy, but I have a devilish streak and when I'm not looking to cuddle and play games, I sometimes pull little pranks and try to sneak snacks when I'm not allowed.

I'm looking for someone interested in being either a Mommy or Daddy. I'm very new to all this, but the more I read the other threads on here, the more the idea of having another person help me to explore my little space is something I know I want to do.

I've tried this in slightly fitted jeans. The feel of the material getting wet and starting to stick was really a turn on.

Hiya everyone, I'm 29, and just starting to explore an interest in ABDL that I've always had, but have never felt comfortable exploring before. There's just something so comfortable about wearing and using a diaper, and I would love to find someone to play a daddy or mommy role with me at some point, just to explore more. Having a somewhat stressful management position at work, the entire idea of ABDL makes me feel like I can step away from the responsibilities and pressure of my job in a way that nothing else offers. I'm a techie and sci-fi/fantasy nerd; they make up 90% of what I like to read (I own a small library) watch on TV or movies, as well as the computer games that I play. I'm also just as happy turning off the technology to go for a hike or a camping trip; I don't even mind (too much) if my cell phone doesn't get reception out there!