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I use the swim mates as well. They hold maybe one wetting before getting in the water. I use the Pool Pal covers over them, or just in lieu sometimes: https://www.mypoolpal.com/store/Reusable-Swim-Diaper---Navy-(Adult)/171 or https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00WRC156M?ref=nb_sb_ss_w_as-reorder-t1_ypp_rep_k1_1_10&amp=&crid=2GNDUUGKE4LWB&amp=&sprefix=my+pool+pa. Again, just a little protection. Leave the pool immediately after an accident. Walk slowly to the bathroom. There is no ace solution.

This is what I use. My doctor suggested them. I take them in the morning with the rest of my supplements: https://www.walgreens.com/store/c/walgreens-fiber-therapy-caplets/ID=prod6007209-product

So last night I was able to dress up fully for the first time. My wife was a bit in shock but she was happy for me. She encouraged me to get dressed finally after I had been talking about doing it for so long. Then, once the dress was on I told her it was part 1. She said, well continue to part 2. Then came the wig, bows, lipstick, shoes etc. We were both nervous but it was a joyous moment! Hopefully more to come. I want to be sure I don't throw too much at her at once. We've been together for 15 years and this is sort of a new revelation, so baby steps.

When are you just going to give it up and let go? ??

The absorbency does increase with size for most all vendors. Same absorbency per square cm, but more area = more absorbency. I sized up my nighttime diapers. I find the larger ones aren't effective for my daily use (sitting down, walking around a bunch), but if I am just walking around my house or lying in bed, size up to the belly button helps. So, for active diapers, I go true to size or maybe size down a bit. For inactive, size up. True to what the nursing home might have done. They could have just been out of the smaller size or it was a mistake.

This happens to me as well. Fiber pills seem to help keep me more regular, but I have multiple BMs in the morning as well.

Did you go through with this? How so?

When, how often, how long, etc will you be wearing? I personally like the Incontrol Elite Hybrids and NorthShore Supremes. Contact NorthShore for samples of a few. They are free. You can buy many samples for $100 from other places and see what you like, so you arent spending a bunch more on boxes of diapers that dont fit that well. Guilty here!

Medical supply catalogs! ? ? That special grocery store aisle!

She was supportive; just a lighthearted eye-roll. It wasn't a sad moment... it was fun!! ? My wife mentioned she may put some lipstick in my stocking ?

Anyone use a stand-up desk at work? Helps get things going...

Not sad. It was a fun time!

Diaper.

I have natural man boobs! But I love my hairy chest. I just wear a shirt...

Went to get a pedicure with my wife today. I ended up asking for pink polish as my wife rolled her eyes. The first one was wow, too pink. The tech went and got another shade that was more subtle. When finished, I picked up the bottle and saw the name of the paint was "It's a girl!" How perfect, right?

Curious about how many sissies in here aren't into other's dicks. Curious after seeing some titles on swallowing etc.

Yea I have some princess diapers, safari, etc. I find after wearing 24/7 I like to go with the white or solid colors. They are the same diaper. The Barnyard diaper is the same as the hybrid. I would buy the hybrids from Incontrol Diapers, because they are more affordable and are the same company. They charge a premium for ABDL, or rather a discount for incontinent diapers which I like.

In what way(s) have you become incontinent? Bedwetting a few nights a week; messing once a month. Wetting without noticing, if standing mostly. BM occur at regular intervals. Sometimes without effort. Sometimes pushing. How long did it take you? ~1 year How long have you been incontinent? If it's been a long time, would you say your memory of being continent is in any way unclear? mixed incontinence for years to a degree How was your continence before you decided to become incontinent? See above. I am not striving for incontinence. I had a few BM accidents, some at night prior. I had problems holding my urine and had to go every 30 mins sometimes. Got to be annoying. Did people tell you anything about it before you did it, for example by encouraging you, warning you off, dismissing it as impossible? If people told you things, to what extent do you feel those things have been borne out? Confirmation bias saw me seek only advice I was looking for. I try my best to not listen to negativity and meditate to help me. Have you tried to regain your continence? Were you successful, fully or partially? If partially, to what degree? <<Does not compute>> JK but no I just don't care anymore. Why would I go back? I am happy If your answer to the above question is "yes, partially," why would you say it was partially and not fully? Since you reached the point of partial recovery, have you found your control backsliding at all or has it remained stable? n/a I dont care either way How do you feel about your incontinence? After developing it but before the present, have you ever felt very differently about it? Do you feel differently from how you expected to when you started out? Feel great! I am really happy to be where I am. Incontinence was tough to deal with, but thankfully I don't mind diapers and have grown to really like the security of them. My pants and bed are dry, and if I mess, I just change my diaper and not my pants! I am satisfied with my life. No looking back. I am happy to be diapered :). I love how I feel about myself. I am confident now, but sometimes get a bit nervous, like when changing in a large bathroom. Thank God my workplace has private bathrooms with good sized trashcans!

I agree. The Hybrids are for me the best. I use the medium during the day. I use a large version at night. I wear Northshore Supremes in blue for my go-to work diaper under my suit and tie. I like how they are more discreet because I share a bathroom. I also wear a tykables onesie to keep things together. I need to change them every 2-4 hours but I drink ALOT of water. The hybrids are, for me 3-6 hours depending, though I can go for longer if I am dehydrated.

Just yesterday I attended an event at a major university. I could have brought a bag in, but didn't want to deal with the hassle of keeping up with it. I also parked close to the event ~10 mins, so if i had a BM, I could have just gone back to my car. If you are a commuter on a train or something, carrying a messenger bag or book-bag or briefcase is necessary. I dress professionally, a suit and tie (not too common these days). Dress nicer and look well groomed and people will suspect you less of shoplifting. I digress... I tucked a diaper in my jacket, under my armpit. I use a blue Northshore, so even if someone saw it, it isn't a white DIAPER, it is a blue rectangular soft edge thing. In this case, I was wet, so I just brought one Heaven Scent bag in my pocket. Walked through the crowd, to the bathroom, changed, carried the bag in my jacket to the trashcan and tossed the bag, put on my jacket. I have a range of jackets that can hide diapers if I am not changing immediately. ScottEvest is a great one. More trouble in the summer though. You can also carry a shopping bag, like you were just shopping somewhere else. Starbucks have private bathrooms, and they don't care about backpacks. Many places are like this. If you use a bathroom, you should be buying something. my $0.02... You are likely overthinking it, as we all tend to do!

My nighttime diaper is a Rearz Incontrol with a Liveanew booster. Maybe together they are 8500ml. I drink probably 3 glasses of water before bed to keep me hydrated. For me I need the extra capacity. If I dont drink much water I can go forever but I typically require lots of water. This does ensure I change more often (2 hours for a 6 hour diaper), but keeps the smell way down. I personally have no desire (or ability) to wear a diaper for more than 12 hours (and then only if I wear to bed). Too stinky, my skin is too sensitive.

I’m wearing a suit and tie and after my morning meeting ends and as I’m walking to my office the seat of my diaper starts expanding. I retreat to my office with a Covid air purifier that keeps the stink down and gives my body some time to produce a bit more. Nothing worse than changing into a clean diaper and then having another BM right after! I’m glad my diapers keep my pants clean. I wouldn’t be able to leave the house without them. If I didn’t love my diapers so much I don’t know what I’d do. What is misery for some is a joy for me. Ive even grown to love the feel of the mushy load against my bottom and the security that my diaper+cover protects me and all my things!

Brian - Thank you so much for your thoughtful words! I do feel truly blessed where I am now in life, and your words brought such joy and comfort to me! J Thank you! I am Hard Core! haha. Yeah I agree with the younger folks. Arguably I could be closer to 50 and I would consider it a no brainer to make the move to 24/7. Honestly though I thought I would do it around 70 up until the first of the year. But then I had some incontinence issues and just said screw it. Might as well be now! I am happy with that decision. The only real negative for me is I won't be able to go on overnight backpacking trips. Overnight camping trips sure. Backpacking trips no problem, but overnight trips (ski touring, hiking, mountain climbing) no. Oh well there are worse fates

Bliss!!!

Been 24/7 in diapers (using them damn near exclusively for everything) for 10 months now, only not using them if I am popping in our of the shower if I have to poo, or if I am at the beach or on my boat (no cabin) or the pool (where I wear swim diaper covers to all underneath a swimsuit). BM in the toilet once at a wedding back in April ? Been a great year and I am not obsessed over wearing them but I find I love my diapers more and more each day. I started the year off with incontinence issues and now I don't ever want to stop wearing. I'm a busy professional/ business owner as well as a father of two boys and a loving wife. I've done father son trips, camping trips, many business trips overnight / on site all day. No issues to speak of. I am just rambling here but surprised I've come to love diapers as much as I have. I thought I would maybe be tired of them but I love them more with each passing week. Anyone else have any similar experiences? After many "Careful what you wish for" comments early on, I wish I had started down this path years ago! Am I weird? Am I alone in this? XOXO - J