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Not sure. Just stretching for now. It depends on whether I have the resources to get the surgery and learning more about risks and potential complications.

Now that I got that out of the way, some good news. My medium hollow plug went in yesterday and spent hours making me feel full and stretched in a healthy, non-injurious way. The small one went in later on to continue the effort but not as extreme. The two weeks of recovery did wonders and my body was ready for it again, more than before. I'll be cautious but just as determined. I'm hoping I can go back to a daily regimen. If so, I should be functionally bowel incontinent at all times before long. It was just a false start! Never give up. I suppose everyone is different, but this is my ideal plug, and the one I'm using and will continue to use. Doc Johnson Platinum Premium Silicone - The Stretch - Hollow Butt Plug - Medium - Black I have all three sizes shown below here, but I only use the small and medium. The large seems literally too big for my skeleton size. It's BIG. It's not even a goal of mine to try it. I'd need bones removed. So the medium is my ideal one. Here's why I like it • Rounded/bulbous enough to stay inside. If it's too straight, it just falls out. It needs to have a rounded bulb so it can find a position and stay in. • Straight enough so that the anus still stays very stretched when it hugs the narrow part. Most plugs are much more narrow at the anus so the plug stays in more easily, but your anus isn't being held open. This holds you very open at all sections. • Firm enough to hold its shape. • Hollow. The idea of a hollow plug is not to let poop through. The tunnel will never be wide enough for that to work reliably. Even if it is, the poop just fills the plug and stays there. When you poop, you have to deal with it and then put the plug back in. The true benefit, in my opinion, is the pressure equalization. You do not build up gas. There's release. It makes a big difference in comfort, and it also makes a big difference in being able to keep the plug in for longer periods. Gas goes out, so that the plug can stay in with comfort.

Yeah, and it's not just generalized pressure on the prostate, although that alone is enough to cause serious movement and stretching of tissues. Here is a little visual exercise if you want to understand why what happened to me makes sense, or if you've never had urethral irritation from something in your butt. Hollow plugs have sharp edges (relatively speaking) compared to non-hollow plugs. A regular, solid plug is just a mass. A hollow plug is like a fruit corer. Imagine shoving a fruit corer up your butt. And then visualize where your prostate lives, and how easy it is to access it from inside your butt. And then remember where the urethra travels through and near... the prostate and bladder and everything else that resides right where you shoved it in. And then imagine having had a surgery or two with damage and scarring of the urethra and partial removal of the prostate. And then imagine that this fruit corer-shaped device, while rubbery, is quite firm in shape, and it is applying specific and pointed pressure to these areas with its thin lip-edge. And it's applying this pressure at maximum tissue stretch levels, because it's as big as you can take. Is anybody wincing yet?

I'm still dealing with the urethral damage I have from using the butt plugs two or three weeks ago. I've had blood in my urine, pain, and difficulty emptying my bladder for weeks. It's really demoralizing having to deal with all this when I was simply trying to stretch my anus. I want to try again, but it feels like such a setback and I'm even more wary now. Not a good start to what I was hoping would be a consistent butt plug routine.

Ohhh that makes sense. I think I was dehydrated at that time and needed to start drinking more water. So maybe my pee was way too strong. I guess that's another reason for me to keep drinking tons of water at all times. Normally I am always sitting in a wet diaper, every moment of my life, with no problem. So I hope drinking water will protect my skin.

I didn't know they have home test kits for UTI, that is pretty cool. Wow I guess I am really lucky. The only other times I had problems was when my whole butt was upset from being wet all the time, that one went away. And another time I used nair to get rid of hair but it burned my whole crack from my lower back down so it hurt on my back between my cheeks, it was really raw and sore. Diaper rash cream finally made that feel much better so it healed. I never had this problem with my balls burning until now. I thought my pee went suddenly radioactive and the only thing I could think of is, I hope my pee goes back to normal and stops burning my balls soon. But I guess I just needed to cream my balls and maybe my pee was normal the whole time? Weird.

What is the antifungal called? Maybe I need it. The cream helped a lot though. And it was only from pee not pooping but I was bedridden all week.

My balls were killing me the past few days. It was really bad. I wasn't feeling good and had to stay home from work and sleeping on and off, but every time I woke up my balls are killing me, it's all burning. I was too tired but finally put baby diaper rash cream all over my balls and it helped a ton. If you are ever back in diapers you have to keep diaper rash cream on hand all the time. It helps everything.

Lol I put it in the correct spot but it pushed on my bladder and urethra and caused all the pain. It used to happen to me when I had pain without a plug, once something gets irritated inside, it makes the urethra hurt and it makes the tip hurt really bad even though it has nothing to do with the tip. The body decides to feel the pain there I guess. But it's from the big size pushing on all my inside parts so forcefully, and it still hurts today. It will get better and I will keep going but I guess I'm no surprised it happened from the sudden ramping up.

I'm taking a break for a few days, my urethra and tip of my penis hurts from the plugs bothering me so I am letting them recover.

This is a good push for me, thanks. Some good news, only 3 days into seriously trying to stretch with my butt plugs and I made this progress. Day 1 - could keep small one in for 1 hour Day 2 - could keep small one in for 4 hours Day 3 - could keep medium one in for 1 hour My goal is to be able to keep the medium one in overnight, every night.

It was good and I'm going to put it in again now. Probably for longer time this time. No I haven't been but hopefully I become totally bowel incontinent soon enough.

Tonight I have the plug in and I'm keeping it in for at least an hour. My goal is to put it in every day, eventually use it all night overnight every night, and then switch to a larger one.

That's a great tip. I'm gonna try to resume taking psyllium as much as I can. Thanks! Sometimes this happens. More often, I am just worried about it. I feel close to running out. Or I am visiting someone and I start to worry I will run out of diapers.

I fixed my mailbox, there was a while last year where a conversation was making a new conversation for every reply so my box was full. I deleted a bunch of those and it's working now. It doesn't very much escape because the tunnels aren't quite big enough for a whole poop, but some goes in I have worn them for more than 24 hours, I am really out of practice lately but I will be wearing them again. Sent DM Sent DM 👍