I postulated the theory that perhaps he was inserting it into the wrong hole, to which he replied that he wasn't... 😆
Possibly a more likely cause, is that the plug put to much pressure on his prostate (Which was involved in the original operation...) and injured it. (We all know that a doctor can feel your prostate by sticking his finger in your butt...) I think he should drop an e-mail to the doctor in Mexico and ask him his opinion on what is happening.
You've been incontinent for almost 2 years... I'm surprised you've made it this long WITHOUT diaper rash cream!! I've been wearing diapers pretty much 24/7 for the last 2 years, and I have to use diaper rash cream several times a week. And what roo said about bowel incontinence and diaper rash really rings true for me too.. In the few times that I've ever messed in my diaper, I start breaking into a rash in less than 20 minutes! (Maybe I should put milk in my cereal instead of battery acid...)
You might want to run a UTI test every once in a while too.. Since you now have an open route to your bladder from the surgery. You can get home test kits on Amazon.
Reddy...
As an older male, I believe I can give you some sound advice, based on my many years of experience.
If you want to stop ejaculating, stop touching your wee wee. 😂🤣😆
You've said that sometimes your diaper leaks at work. Have you considered what might happen if you have a bowel movement while at work? Even if your diaper totally contains it, the smell will quickly spread across the office.
I think MANY people who read this forum WOULD choose to have a stent implanted first, for the reasons you stated. The problem is finding a doctor who will do it. Do you know how to find one?