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Congrats on the five years! I love the Solzhenitsyn reference, he's one of my favorite authors.

Wow they have a box for bladder control? Or you just wrote that in? I've never had to fill a form like that, but I've never gone to a corporate massage business. Either way it saves you the hassle of explaining it (although I enjoy that). Enjoy it, as I mentioned before nothing makes me feel better than a diapered massage.

I will admit I have a sock puppet account that regularly gets very positive responses in an incontinence support forum. I am obsessed with diapers and incontinence and I am pretty sure I know more about incontinence than a lot of nurses at least lol. I give good advice to desperate people, I enjoy doing it. They'd ban me if they knew the reality. So I keep these accounts separate.

I've been reflecting on myself and talking with friends and therapist lately. For this and many other reasons I won't go into here, I think I am probably autistic. I haven't talked about diapers with them tho. Diapers are an unexplainably comforting thing for me and it is a core part of my existence. It's kind of a somewhat hidden stim I guess. but I also get intense anxiety and shame at the fact that I have accepted it and wear 24/7, I know this isn't normal. But my goals are to be more resilient and apply my gifts more effectively, and work on social/life skills (im decent at masking which is why I've made it this far but I need help). I have an inability to regulate myself. It's like do I want to shut off this side of me or accept it. I tried shutting it off for years and it's so compulsive I can't stop really. It's too comforting lol

Urologists don't exist to fulfill your fantasies, if you go to them complaining of an issue they will investigate and treat it if they find anything wrong. If you complain of retention you may be instructed on catheterization, but they'll at least investigate and try to find a source. Its very possible they don't find a source (idiopathic is the term for this, and many urological cases are labeled idiopathic) and still treat you with a catheter. But if I were you I'd just say you can't pee and let them handle from there. No offense, but even as a layman, your understanding of urology doesn't seem that great. It's a red flag for doctors if a patient comes in knowing lots of terms and suggesting a treatment for a unlikely diagnosis.

If you say that to them, they will do a cystoscopy to check for a stricture. Have you had urethral surgery or catheters before? I think it's unlikely you would have developed on without a history of interventions. They won't just take your word for it and put a catheter in for no reason. It would be simpler and cheaper to buy some online and put a it in yourself. There's training videos on YouTube for the correct procedure.

A keen eye can spot several diapers not entirely concealed under the pants of older people, and sometimes younger people, in any busy enough public space. It's a habit/hobby of mine to scan my surroundings in search of other diaper users. Most people don't notice those other people. That said, people are more kink aware than ever, in part thanks to people with our interests going on daytime talkshows etc to "raise awareness" of abdl. I think this is almost always a counterproductive and self serving activity and would encourage any of us to not engage in that sort of activity. We don't need more awareness, if people want to live this lifestyle they will find it easy enough. On the other hand I'm all for disability inclusion/awareness, especially when it comes to incontinence. There are a few orders of magnitude more incontinent people than abdl. Society being "aware" of the fact some people have the need for protection is positive, it leads to destigmatizing it and increases the accommodations society provides. I would say the same about wheel chair users, stoma patients, etc. In general I think if you are hygienic and discrete, and only use medical diapers, and are always consistently wearing protection then people have no reason but to think you're incontinent.

To the person reacting with confused emoji, what's confusing about my response?

You are old enough to have an enlarged prostate. Do you have any symptoms? You could complain about it to your wife and go through the process of seeing a urologist, then just wear the catheter (easily bought online) and explain to your wife this is how you're handling the issue. Simple.

I've been putting sudocreme on acne for years. Not all the time but occasionally I will if my skin is extra irritated and it definitely helps soothe it. Zinc oxide is amazing stuff.

Yeah the spa is a case of a private venue being put on blast by moral crusaders. They were trying to make a private space for adults to pay for a specialized wellness service. Regarding the price, that actually seems reasonable. Similar prices to higher end day spas in major cities. This is a niche market, I don't think they're price gouging. I'd like to go to a place like that some day, I hope this controversy doesn't scare off other entrepreneurs from trying more low key variants in more open minded areas.

How often do you go to the toilet now? Are you using your diapers at work or are they just in case?

Thanks for the update! I'm excited for you. I was thinking, do you plan on returning to the referral urologist if you have issues after your next surgery? I imagine he will be even more confused when you tell him you had another procedure, after he recently saw you and noticed it all healed well. 😂I Please do continue to share anything you want, even if you feel it's mundane. ❤️

Amazing. I love the embarrassment aspect of it. They're always accommodating (it's not that unusual for someone to be protected I guess). The physical sensation of having your legs, back stomach massaged around your diaper is orgasmic. I have climaxed with no happy ending off that alone. They are none the wiser as my diaper contains my cum.

I haven't been to the Philippines but I've been to many other countries in the region. Diapers will be plentiful in the cities, supermarkets and pharmacy's stock them. In general in South East Asia you get a lot of Japanese brands (but they are the cheaper developing world stripped down models), Chinese brands, Malaysian (softex), Indonesian (sensi). Most of them are just diaper shells which are intended to be used with boosters that are sold separately. I was able to get diapers on Thai islands easily, but Thailand is a little more developed than Philippines. Cambodia, Vietnam I found it easy to buy western brands like abena and tena in the cities. Just remember there's old and disabled people everywhere in the world, unless you are on very under developed islands (like no electricity, shops etc), then there's a good chance you'll find diapers. It's worth checking whatever online shopping apps they use there (maybe shopee or lazada idk), and supermarket websites. I'm jealous I wish I was back in the region. I had so many diapered motorcycle adventures, diapered massages, etc. If there's a pharmacy in an island then there are diapers for sure. If there's a local community (schools, a couple shops, churches/mosques/temples), then there's diapers for sure.