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@ReddyDo you know the medical name for the surgery you got done? Wanted to see if YouTube has a video of your exact type of surgery. And do you think that guy that wore catheters for six month and claimed he was incontinent might have some truth in it? And is anyone able to masturbate with a catheter in?

That would be even better! I've actually fantasied in the past if my spinal cord was partially damaged in some sort of accident but only the part that controls the bladder....but not worth the risk of paralyzing other parts I don't want to. But yeah I really think your onto something with the other nerves. Maybe we should try to find if there's any of those types of surgeries. Doc sign me up for the pelvic nerve surgery lol!

Thats great man glad everything went well! But until they offer a way to cause incontinence without messing around with the prostate, I'm out. Plus, my wife and I may want kids, if the world gets better that is. So, I don't want retrograde ejaculation either. I'm just curious which bladder sphincter is not near the pudental nerve and parasympathetic? It looks to me on this diagram of the nerves, that the internal sphincter looks safer to cut than external. And would be easier to access from going inside the abdomen through the side of the bladder and cutting the internal sphincter from the inside of the bladder. Avoiding the prostate and penis area. The external bladder sphincter from the diagram looks to have alot more nerves interfering. I think I would feel safer with just them cutting the internal sphincter than messing around with external sphincter and prostate. Again, I only care about partial incontinence not looking for leaking and dribbling constantly. In fact, I sorta had that experience already a couple times... when changing my diaper on a full bladder. Sometimes I couldn't hold it and that landed up soaking the fresh diaper and peeing all over the bed before I get all the tapes fastened. It was not really that nice of experience. I at least want to have time to change into a fresh diaper and close it before I start peeing all over everything. So again, be happy with just light incontinence.

Yes, its riskier to other parts of the body but I would rather risk my life, than lose my sexual functions. If I lost my sexual functions I'd probably commit suicide anyway. So, in my view I'd rather risk my life with the abdomen surgery rather than them going up the urethra possibly messing with erections. I'm not sure if your correct about them not being able to access the sphincters from the abdomen. I looked on a bladder surgery website and they talked about inserting suprapubic catheters directly into the bladder right below the belly button. If they can get a catheter in there than I don't see why they can't use their camera and micro tools there to cut the internal sphincter from inside the bladder rather than going through the penis. They do this in special cases. But I'm not a doctor, so I'm not sure on the details or exactly how much they can access. I must do more research on it. I'm also curious by them cutting into the prostate and irritating the urethra in the penis by sticking tools up there...... does that actually cause a higher chance of strictures to form and cause retention? Because if you only messed with, say the internal sphincter of the bladder, wouldn't you avoid causing unneccary swelling and irritation to the lower urethra that actually causes the blockages? And what kind of incontinence would you get with only messing with internal sphincter and leaving the external sphincter that sits on the prostate alone? Again im not looking for full incontinence persay, I just want some kind of it. Suprapubic Catheter | Bladder & Bowel Community (bladderandbowel.org) The prostate sits on two main nerves that control erections. When they start cutting around the prostate, you're at major risk of cutting them. if they went through the abdomen they also wouldn't be irritating the urethra and only be messing with the internal bladder sphincter. I also would not mind just the pain in my bladder but not my urethra in my penis area. Again, not judging anyone who wants no erections or wants to take the risk.

@BrownBobbyWhat are they going to do in the 2nd surgery just curious? And that's awesome I both wish you the best outcome and that they will not cause you guys any ED problems. If they aren't willing to cut my bladder sphincters by doing an incision in my abdomen I don't think I could go through with the surgery. Because I'm so paranoid about them cutting the erection nerves by going up into my urethra and prostate. I just want my bladder messed with, I don't want to take any chances with my sexual functions. And don't neccarilly have the need for full bladder incontinence, id be happy with any urine incontinence really as long it required me to need diapers even if just a pull up in the day. I thought about using catheters a lot and that possibly causing incontinence, but shoving a tube into my penis through my prostate kind of makes me tingle. If I did choose the catheter route though to achieve incontinence, am I at risk of damaging the nerves that control my erections?

Just be careful man when you tell him to be aggressive....... you don't want to lose your erections. I mean in my opinion the best part of diapers especially for us males are how good they feel on our parts. And diaper sex if you haven't already experienced, you don't want to miss out. I would be severely depressed if I couldn't have sex with my wife anymore. She wants me to be bladder incontinent but we both agreed the bowel is too much for the both of us. I just basically want some kind of urine incontinence. So like you said.... I feel like I need them rather than pretending. And not needing them and using them always gives me a shitty guilty feeling. I want my mind to be in balance with my physical body. I feel since I need them mentally why not complete what should of been done anyway. I'm slightly confused why they wouldn't do an external excision? Are they still liable for insurance or something or being extradited from US authorities? Also I thought of a much better cover story for your doctors in the US.....I mean it's too late probably in your case but I was thinking of telling my doctors that I went on a vacation to Mexico and had some sort of accident there and unfortunately the closest doctor was in a poor boonie town and they did not know what they were doing.....Like how would they know your lying? Some of those hick towns don't even have paperwork lol. @ReddyAnd is there anyone in Thailand or another country that would do this cheaper or some black market doctor maybe that was recently retired or something? And can you pay this surgery off in payments or do they want the full $25,000 up front? I'm sorry for all the questions but your journey fascinates me, and the topic has been brought up so many times in adisc but it's always banned.

Do you have to pay for the other surgery?

@ReddyI've always wanted to find a doctor that would make me incontinent but I have a few questions. Is there a way to avoid removing any parts of my prostate? Can I tell the Dr. to leave my prostate alone and only cut the bladder spincters? I have very good sex life with my wife who is also an abdl and sure as hell don't want to lose my erections. And because I also like anal play, I also do not want my prostate messed with. Also, instead of the doctor going up my penis to do the bladder surgery could I request him make an external excision instead? The scar on my abdomen wouldn't bother me in fact it sorta turns me on that it's a reminder I had the bladder surgery. I just really don't feel comfortable with them messing with my penis. I am also a little concerned the hospital is mainly for sex change surgeries. It would be a nightmare if they messed my paper work and woke up with my balls and penis missing lol. No offense to anyone here that wants that but for me it would be a nightmare.