Cissy Crissy

Yes that is me. not this year in these photos though. they are from several years ago. but I did go have fun but didn't get many pictures this year.

I was just wondering if anyone had any fun out this Halloween? I didn't see any posts from anyone on what they were planning or doing? I hope someone had some fun! Let me know if you did! Cissy Crissy

Thanks I'll try that out!!

I have a thing for the original scent Desitin diaper rash cream. Dose anyone know how to get some or a substitute with same scent? I would really like to find some! Cissy Crissy

I need to be clear on something. I have nothing against "Pride" events. Just this "Chant". I was inappropriate! I don't care if there was any sarcasm or other meaning behind it. The purpose of pride is to help people feel safe and that they have a place in society. To take away the hateful rhetoric that was used by haters for most of human history. I have attended many "Pride" events in many cities and several states. We need to build bridges! Not ignite flames! Saying we are coming for their children! has no possible positive outcome. And has already and will continue to feed fear, bigotry and Hate! Use your head before you do something so stupid! Thats why I started this message string in the first place!

Does the events at the "Pride parade" in NY City where people were chanting "We're here, we're Queer, and we're coming for your children!". And publicity that followed change your mind at all about appropriate behavior and places to let your little side show publicly? I know it bothered me quite a bit. Maybe we on the "Littles" "AB" and "DL" side of things are a bit more sensitive to this subject since people have consistently wrongly labeled us as Petitfils. I for one do not support any sort of grooming activity at all!! Not for sexual preferences, fetishes, Trans excreta. I would support children exploring themselves and their feelings and identities. But they can do that without adults giving them a push in one direction or another. Children these days have far more opportunities to find out information on things that interest them than I did when I grew up. It doesn't belong in our school systems as part of curriculum. Adults (Parents, counselors) should answer questions, not push suggestions! My belief is that "You be You!" "Don't let anyone else's opinion of you become your reality!!" I am always up for open and honest discussion on some of these difficult topics that society is facing these days. Sincerely, Cissy Crissy

I have done several costume contests as well. They are a lot of fun! but the big prize ones they have in Vegas at Night Club are typically won by regulars. Don't get me wrong they are usually very deserving. There are a lot of incredible costumes in that town, But regulars have bult in support. Usually done on applause from audiences. I was in one once at a night club and took second place. First place was won by a couple who were in very great pyhisical condition. They had body painted super hero costumes. The them was sexy costumes and they certainly hit the mark there! The contest was being MCed by Holly from "Girls next door" She was a bit surprised at how well the audience took to me in my baby dress. She had a good laugh and thought I looked good. Just didn't view it as sexy. No arguments from me on that. I found photos posted later in a national magazine. I already had photos but I was a little surprised to see it in the magazine.

I have been away from these boards for a while, but I have noted some very good conversation about what is appropriate and what is not. There have been lots of comments about people showing their diapers in public. As forcing your lifestyle or fetish on others in public. I must say I agree with these statements. We need to be very careful about not ever doing that! Having said that I think that there are some places where it is appropriate. These are all places and situations that we can be comfortable being ourselves. Places like Fremont Street in Vegas in the after dark hours, Marti Gra celebrations, Pride events, Halloween parties in night clubs. In short places that people expect there to be adult entertainment and activities. Places that are not likely to be attended by young families and people who are offended by that sort of thing. I was a good friend of Heidi Lynn. And was in many places with her in public. For those who don't know Heidi Lynn lived full time as a Sissy AB. Her outfits were short and not much fabric involved in them. as a result, it was obvious to everyone who saw her that she was wearing diapers and plastic pants. They were clearly on display to the point you could tell from a distance if they were wet or not. Not everywhere we went was a place people expected to see adult fetish type behavior. Many times, we were asked to leave because people were upset and asked to Managers to have us leave. On the other hand, we attended several Pride and fetish events without any trouble at all. The point I'm trying to get to is not all situations are created equal. Not all clothing is the same. And may even depend on who is wearing it. For example, if you are a cute young lady, you will probably get away with more than a 58-year-old male like me. So my sissy dresses are more elaborate and cover a lot more of me. Also, I wear very frilly rumba pants over my diapers. It leaves passersby, wondering if, and not knowing I'm wearing a diaper. They certainly couldn't tell if the diaper was wet or not. As a result, I have hardly never been asked to leave an establishment. Mostly that happened when I was with Heidi Lynn. If we want to get people to stop doing stupid stuff in the wrong situations and places. Making us all look bad!! Let's talk about what places and situations are okay! Hopefully people will seek out better situations and places and avoid the stupid. Have fun without offending. I will post a photo of me with people I met at Fremont St in Vegas around Halloween. May people I come across view it as a "Kodak moment" and ask to have their pictures taken with me. So, I have hundreds of photos like this. I look forward to hearing about places that are okay to be openly AB, DL, Sissy babies. Also feel free to share places that are definitely not okay! We can learn a lot from the stupid mistakes of the past.

A number of years ago I made a little sailor girl swimsuit to accomidate my diapers. But I have not found too many occasions where it would be appropriate to wear it!

I was unaware and felt all alone until a Psychiatrist told me about DPF. I too was so relived to find out I was not alone in my interests and desires. I will forever be thankful to Tommy and the other pioneers like Angela B, and Heidilynn who were brave enough to be the face of things in the beginning. Yes there were frustrations in the old snail mail world. But those are distant memories. Thankfulness for learning I was not alone I will never forget. I went onto meet and spend quite a bit of time with Heidi Lynn. For those who don't know Heidi Lynn was living full time out in the world as a Sissy Baby. I Pheonix AZ the local TV station did a whole segment on her and her lifestyle. It's titled "Baby Man". I moved to the area in 2005 and became acquainted. Heidi Lynn was really happy to have someone else who was willing to be out in the everyday world with her. I was not then or now living full time like Heidi Lynn was. But I had worn sissy baby attire out in public in selective settings like "Pride Parades" and Halloween events in Las Vegas before I meet Heidi Lynn. We attended many of these events together since that is where I was most comfortable being out in public. We traveled around to other States for these type of events and meet others as well. "Square Duck" in Long Beach then other events in San Diego and Las Vegas. If you are confused "Square Duck" This is "Tami". I was trolled by some well meaning but misguided people so I need to use a different handle. I think it was eye opening for Square Duck on that first occasion. Bri Guy was a bit panicked too when he meet us. I have had lots of great times. I hope for more. You newer generations are very lucky to live in a time of more tolerance and the many opportunities the internet provides. Heidi Lynn has been gone now for over a decade, it's hard to believe. back in 2008 so 15 years now.

I have worn sissy dresses out in public quite a bit. We need to be very careful about doing this though. Not all places and situations are appropriate for doing this. Please chose wisely where you go! I have had a lot of fun at Halloween especially in Las Vegas! Also fetish events and places like the Rocky Horror Picture Show. I was a good Freind of Heidi Lynn's and spent a lot of time with her. She wore all the time. Not everywhere we went together was accepting of her presence and attire. We were asked to leave many places because costumers were upset. Her outfits were simple and short and her diapers were always on display. I have very rarely been asked to leave. But my dresses are far more elaborate and diapers covered by petticoats and rumba panties. Most people guess I'm wearing a diaper but they have to guess. As a result people are very accepting. Most ask for pictures.