stevewet Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 Do you keep your bedwetting a secret or are you happy to tell people you still wet the bed? 1 Link to comment
bedwetter2 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 Only my close friends know that I pee the bed every night. Link to comment
WBxx Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 2 hours ago, stevewet said: Do you keep your bedwetting a secret or are you happy to tell people you still wet the bed? I don’t reveal my secret unless absolutely necessary. I more or less have had to be open with doctors in the past. However, as far as I know the only person that currently knows is my wife. How about you? Link to comment
stevewet Posted May 3, 2018 Author Share Posted May 3, 2018 6 hours ago, WBxx said: I don’t reveal my secret unless absolutely necessary. I more or less have had to be open with doctors in the past. However, as far as I know the only person that currently knows is my wife. How about you? My wife, close friends, family, doctor, diabetic nurse, continence advisor and the staff at the urology clinic all know I wet the bed. Link to comment
oldwetter66 Posted May 4, 2018 Share Posted May 4, 2018 My family knows.and A few friends and my girl friend Link to comment
rusty pins Posted May 4, 2018 Share Posted May 4, 2018 While some people are comfortable with their bed wetting and actually embrace it to the point they don't care who knows they wet the bed or wear diapers, I can't see any reason save for a few to just tell friends, coworkers or outside family that you wet the bed and wear diapers unless you want a personal thrill from doing so. It's none of their business. Immediate family such as wife or husband is one thing. Coworkers if you have to travel for your job a lot and share a room, and then only if you can't avoid them knowing. Friends the same if you go camping and share a tent or hunting for a week in the fall and share a cabin together, and again, only if you can't avoid it. I would never tell anyone I know if I had a bedwetting problem or if I had to wear diapers for it. None of their business and unless they sleep in the same room as I do, they have no need to know or find out. I would want to know what someone's motivation is for telling friends and other people that they wet the bed? What a conversation starter! "Did you all know that I wet the bed every night and I wear diapers to bed?" WTF? Link to comment
Diapered Dave Posted May 4, 2018 Share Posted May 4, 2018 Ok, I'm going public!! I'm a bedwetter!! (There, now the whole world knows... Well, if they come here they do. ) 1 Link to comment
Hookedondiapers Posted May 5, 2018 Share Posted May 5, 2018 I only tell people when there is a good chance that they will see me in my overnight diaper. I told my mother when she came to visit us a few years ago. I told one of my sisters when I went to visit her two years ago. I stayed with another one of my sisters for a week once and knew I could hide it because I had a private room. My other two sisters don't know (as far as I know). I managed to hide it from my stepdaughter and best friend on different occasions. My stepdaughter is pretty nosy, but will stay out of our bedroom. My friend is just clueless enough to not notice. Link to comment
1SissyAlice Posted May 5, 2018 Share Posted May 5, 2018 If it comes up some how, I have no problem telling someone that I have to wear diapers at all times Link to comment
Pampertimmy Posted May 6, 2018 Share Posted May 6, 2018 My family knows I'm a bed wetter and wear diapers at night. My mom also knows about my baby side and that I wear during the day. Link to comment
stevewet Posted June 6, 2018 Author Share Posted June 6, 2018 When I was growing up it was no secret I wet the bed. Most of my family and friends know I still do. 2 Link to comment
rubbersheetmike Posted June 8, 2018 Share Posted June 8, 2018 I dont really mind telling people or if they know it doesnt bother me. But I dont wear a sign advertising it. I guess there are limits. Link to comment
Rob110 Posted June 9, 2018 Share Posted June 9, 2018 my Family knows and a few friends and any one we have we have traveled with I really do not care who knows but I do not say anything untill they need to know or discover on thier own Diapers are a non issue. Link to comment
stevewet Posted June 9, 2018 Author Share Posted June 9, 2018 2 hours ago, Rob110 said: my Family knows and a few friends and any one we have we have traveled with I really do not care who knows but I do not say anything untill they need to know or discover on thier own Diapers are a non issue. I don't care who knows I wet the bed either. 1 Link to comment
Nyte Kitsune Posted June 9, 2018 Share Posted June 9, 2018 I don't advertise that I still wet the bed, however my mom, sister, nieces, uncle and grandmother know I wear diapers, as does one friend and his mother (she's a lpn) who understood that some people need to wear diapers. Also my coworkers know, but that's because I spent a week in the hospital a few years ago which led to me having to wear 24/7 (though I wore before that as I was a dl). Outside of those mentioned I am not aware of anyone else who knows I wear diapers, if someone else does they haven't said anything. I don't advertise that I still wet the bed, however my mom, sister, nieces, uncle and grandmother know I wear diapers, as does one friend and his mother (she's a lpn) who understood that some people need to wear diapers. Also my coworkers know, but that's because I spent a week in the hospital a few years ago which led to me having to wear 24/7 (though I wore before that as I was a dl). Outside of those mentioned I am not aware of anyone else who knows I wear diapers, if someone else does they haven't said anything. Link to comment
kimchikid Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 I wouldn't say I am happy to tell that I still bedwet, however I no longer am ashamed of something I have no control over and I don't hide the fact that I wear a diaper to bed, and when it is a necessity I will be open and honest about my situation. Link to comment
littlemiki1981 Posted June 28, 2018 Share Posted June 28, 2018 If I had I'd tell that I wet bed and myself just to my female friends Link to comment
sport Posted July 6, 2018 Share Posted July 6, 2018 I don,t wear a sign saying that I ,am a bedwetter but would tell someone if they ask most of the stigma is gone. Link to comment
Wet Knight Posted July 7, 2018 Share Posted July 7, 2018 As Sport says, in old age, the stigma has diminished enough for people not to wonder. For most of my life I have told hotel staff, and with almost all, the information is received gratefully. Link to comment
stevewet Posted July 7, 2018 Author Share Posted July 7, 2018 2 hours ago, Wet Knight said: As Sport says, in old age, the stigma has diminished enough for people not to wonder. For most of my life I have told hotel staff, and with almost all, the information is received gratefully. My wife contacted all the hotels prior to our recent U.S. trip to let them know I am incontinent and a nightly bedwetter. Some protected their beds others didn't seem bothered. 1 Link to comment
oldwetter66 Posted July 7, 2018 Share Posted July 7, 2018 In Hotels I tell them I wet so they can put some thing on the bed.and if I get the bed wet I leave a bigger tip 1 Link to comment
Qtip Posted July 7, 2018 Share Posted July 7, 2018 Not a bedwetter but an interesting question nonetheless. I probably wouldn't even think of sharing something like that in the first place, but having said that I wouldn't be particularly aversed to sharing that tidbit providing it was with somebody that i've developed a tried and true friendship with - a veteran of the trenches I guess you could say. Friends can be plenty, but true friends are rare earth elements. Link to comment
ppdude Posted July 8, 2018 Share Posted July 8, 2018 On 5/3/2018 at 7:39 PM, stevewet said: My wife, close friends, family, doctor, diabetic nurse, continence advisor and the staff at the urology clinic all know I wet the bed. Keep your fiends close and enemies even closer. Link to comment
Dougie1970 Posted July 27, 2018 Share Posted July 27, 2018 My family knows that I am a bedwetter and always has. One close friend also knows. She and I have always had an emotional connection. (She really reminds me a lot of my grandma) I have been able to talk to her about things that are troubling me. One night we were up very late and discussing my tendency to lack self-confidence....That's when I told her that I was a bedwetter growing up and a virgin until age 27. She hugged me and made me feel better. I later told her that I was still a bedwetter. We still talk often and as far as I know she hasn't revealed it to anyone Link to comment
stevewet Posted July 31, 2018 Author Share Posted July 31, 2018 I wet the bed so what! that is what I think these days. I don't really care who knows now. My friends and family all know and it isn't a problem. 1 Link to comment
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