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If anyone sees flexible grooved rod, that might work to let urine flow on the outside (which is thought to prevent infection and allow the sensation of the flow). If anyone finds it or thinks how to make it, let us know.

Constipation can cause fecaloma. Fecaloma can cause stercoral perforation Stercoral perforation is bad dodo.

To the few remaining nay sayers, not only is it psychologically beneficial, but phyically as well; it is now proven science. ac-2020-03-16.pdf (nih.gov)

Have you tried condom catheters? I like them better than indwelling. Diapers are OK, but the changing is more of a hassle than simply draining the bag. I had a lot of problems with the catheter coming off with leg bags, and leg bags are too small in my opinion. I use the 2 liter overnight bags as tummy bags held in place with a compression bodysuit. I also found that the silicone penis expanders or some type of wide rubber band helps hold the catheter on. They also prevent the catheter from ballooning, which makes it come off easily even with the adhesive (peeling force from ballooning is much more effective at defeating the adhesive).

Nothing beats tight rubber shorts to squish around in.

Sorry to hear they're painful. Mine are sometimes quite strong and almost make me double over, but they're only uncomfortable, not quite painful.

I thought it must be fake news if it's on Fox, but CNN has it, too. Maybe everything is fake now. https://www.cnn.com/travel/article/china-civil-aviation-administration-coronavirus-guidance-intl-hnk/index.html

Bladder spasms can be real. Sometimes mine almost make me double over. It's not a sharp pain like a leg cramp, but I often have to stop and concentrate on relaxing. Usually it stops when my bladder is half empty, but sometimes it keeps going for awhile after I'm empty.

When I was young, I had trouble with pee dreams. I started up again a few years ago, so I always wear protection. It started the same time as my bladder spasms, but after some nerve damage weakened my sphincter. I use a condom catheter and the elastic band that holds it on makes the pressure build a little, so it's like a mini orgasm when the spasm overcomes the resistance.

I've been using a condom catheter. After awhile, I believe the constant slight pressure reduced blood flow as my skin was becoming an unhealthy waxy grey that did not show good perfusion (blood flow). I started using a penile pump at least once a day (two or three would be better) to get blood into it and I notice a marked improvement in color. I remember seeing a medical journal article that stated manually encouraging blood flow daily helped after certain surgeries. Some days, it's difficult to get a seal started because it's so small, but overall, it appears to help.

You could also try anal dilation to get your sphincter to relax.

The original Lord's procedure used anesthesia (red flags if you can't feel when it's too much!), was done quickly, and is not standardized (i.e. some practitioners may dilate excessively). There are studies that point out the flaws of the original procedure and show that conservative stretching is not likely to cause incontinence. Wearing a large plug long term would logically cause the sphincter to adapt/atrophy and result in some degree of incontinence, but occasional gentle use is unlikely to and, as Dr. Lord found, may relieve hemorrhoids and fissures. This has been discussed earlier in this forum.

I answered a similar thread before (and admit I didn't go through all the responses to this one). We now know that time only exists for quantumly entangled particles. To an outside observer, the entire process is seen at once. Therefore, if God is the outside observer, he knows the end result. Did he decide how it would end or simply know what the result would be, but the writers couldn't understand all that (much like the illustration of John trying to describe modern technology in the Revelation of Jesus Christ with no idea what he was seeing)?

Moreover, it's only childish because we are taught to believe it is. What if children were not clothed and adults wore diapers?

Although I don't mind the feel of diapers, I use a condom cath for two reasons: 1) I have urge incontinence and often have rapid releases that don't absorb quickly enough, and 2) they're much easier to just empty than to carry diapers and change. I also wear some absorbent due to tubing disconnecting (thanks to anti-reflux valves there is limited leakage). There are a number if fixes I would make if I could design them, including barbs or clamps rather than friction fit tubes (the biggest cause of leaks for me), the tube would extend int the bag to reduce a stoppage there (rare, but it happens), bigger volume bags (I use a 2 liter night bag as a stomach bag because any bag seems FULL at half the rated volume and I don't like the feel of leg bags--fortunately I don't have a big belly and wear a safety vest to cover it.) I wear it all under a waterproof cover so a small leak will be absorbed by the absorbent and not show; obviously, a bag burst would be a show stopper. I do wear diapers at night.

I started having problems after hurting my back. I notice fecal leakage first, only when it was pretty soft. Gradually, my ability to hold urine also declined. I started having overactive bladder about three years ago, but don't know if that is related, however, the weakened ability to hold the urine back made it worse. I now use a condom cath in the day and a diaper at night. I also use a rectal cup and rubber pants to help with the fecal problem.

About three years ago I was dreaming I was in the bathroom and wet the bed for real. I had that problem as a kid. I've come close several times since then, but wake up before it happens. That was about the time I started having overactive bladder issues. I don't trust myself now, so were a diaper to bed. I tried using the diaper for a few days so I wouldn't wake up several times, but my wife thinks it is terrible to use a diaper (even though she noticed I slept much better). I use a condom cath during the day; it's much easier to empty than to change diapers several times. I found I can attach the cath with properly sized wide rubber bands (I use pieces of bicycle inner tubes, but a softer rubber might be better) and reuse the same cath and bag for a long time. I can't use the bands 24 hours because the skin needs time off. I have found that the cath can to balloon if there is a constriction which makes it come off, but a rubber band on the glans stops that from happening. Also, kinks and tubing disconnects are causes of leaks. Why no one has made a clamp or more positive connection is beyond me; they'd have a real competitive edge.

I ran across this topic and thought it interesting. It's similar to piercings like the Prince Albert (which is a urethral reroute near the distal end of the urethra). Other reroutes are above and below the scrotum. While these do not make a person incontinent (they are after the urinary sphincter), they change where the discharge occurs. I thought the perineal (below the scrotum) reroute interesting as a possible form of contraception by placing a T tube (again similar to some Prince Alberts) with a cap or valve so the person could change where the discharge occurs. If I were going to try it. It might even help maintain the piercing to have the catheter exit the piercing. I might have tried it when younger and interested in a reversible contraception, but I see little reason to do it now except for the novelty of it. Medically, it's called PERINEAL URETHROSTOMY and is used for urethral strictures and other issues (it could also be the start of a gender change). A diagram is shown at http://www.urethralcenter.it/English_version/Risultati_uretroplastiche/uretra_bulbare/Perineostomia/Perineostomia.html

Anyone tried a spermatorrhea ring? Although a medical device, that was before prescriptions were required.

I posted previously about drinking more so I can pee more. Here is a fair use excerpt about why you should not hold your poop: from https://www.gutsense.org/gutsense/sensitivity.html Once out of diapers, our bowels become captive to an endless variety of circumstances incompatible with health — we simply can‘t respond immediately to an urge to defecate while in the middle of the highway, halfway through the meeting, presentation, concert, date, and similar circumstances. Inevitably, we learn to suppress and defer involuntary reflexes for considerable stretches of time until the circumstances are just right — and that‘s dependence. Alas, that valuable social asset (the ability to hold in one‘s gases or stools) eventually becomes a liability, and a precursor to irregularity and an inevitable dependence on fiber to fix it, for the same reasons other repetitive deeds turn into a predictable fate — diminished anorectal sensitivity. Civilization comes with a price: a disruption of the rhythm and harmony of natural living. ... By the teenage years, the ability to control the anal muscles without crossing one‘s legs becomes stronger, the nerve plexus less sensitive, and the anal muscles more tense. Unfortunately, the seemingly harmless habit of suppressing defecation eventually creates gut-wrenching problems that are the hallmark of irregularity and chronic constipation: increased size, mass, and weight of stools, fecal impaction, nerve damage, colorectal distention, and hemorrhoidal disease, caused by muscular tension inside the anal canal, which is applied to suppress defecation. Because the defecation urge is as innate as thirst or hunger, there‘s really no “healthy” way of dealing with suppression, except avoiding and preventing situations when you actually need to suppress the urge. ... [To induce a movement] Relax for a moment, and slowly drink a glass of warm water. Soon, you‘ll do it. ... If the damage hasn't gone far, don't suppress stools, and you'll be fine.

The real solution is to ban homo sapiens as an invasive species, which the government would love to do (yippee, more laws!) except then they would have no one to tax.

I feel for you. Changes are often hard. Try to do things you like and someone fantastic will come along. Maybe you'll bring out the baby in him.

As we now know and have done ourselves, time only exists for particles that are quantumly entangled. To an outside observer, everything is seen to happen at once. God, being outside time, saw it all, but we are having to take our time to get through it. So, we can have free will, but God already saw what our choice would be.

I used to be chronically dehydrated because I drank when I was thirsty, which wasn't often. Now I drink so I can pee, so I drink an order of magnitude more. That should help me be healthier. Every time I pee, I drink so I can pee more. Why doesn't someone advertise diapers for a healthier lifestyle?

I'd try the duette type--seems much better having a blunt end poking around your bladder.