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It goes to the perineum. As I mentioned, it doesn't go to where I sit on it because that just squeezes the liquid out. It's mostly in front with a little between the legs. Everyone to his/her liking; I see some like to waddle. I used to wear a bag, but could only make a belly bag work and the doctor told me the extra pressure of making it go up would eventually damage my kidneys, so it's diaper time.

Below is a photo of the way I have found I like to fold a bath towel for people with an elephant trunk. Anything I sit on will squeeze liquid out; this minimizes that (I use a washcloth to collect potential anal leakage--they are easier to wash out than a whole towel). This fold keeps the absorbent where it is less likely to be compressed and does not restrict movement as much as some other folds. I use about 10ml of glacial acetic acid for odor control (do not let this touch your skin). I put it on the outside of the diaper but inside my rubber pants--this will not work for natural latex. If I am going out, I sometimes substitute with citric acid because it does not outgas, but is about twice the cost. 1. Fold in half lengthwise 2. Fold both sides in toward center (create a trunk channel) 3. Fold down in half (or slightly more if you prefer) 4. Fold top half up. 5. Fold corners to make triangles.

If anyone sees flexible grooved rod, that might work to let urine flow on the outside (which is thought to prevent infection and allow the sensation of the flow). If anyone finds it or thinks how to make it, let us know.

Constipation can cause fecaloma. Fecaloma can cause stercoral perforation Stercoral perforation is bad dodo.

To the few remaining nay sayers, not only is it psychologically beneficial, but phyically as well; it is now proven science. ac-2020-03-16.pdf (nih.gov)

Have you tried condom catheters? I like them better than indwelling. Diapers are OK, but the changing is more of a hassle than simply draining the bag. I had a lot of problems with the catheter coming off with leg bags, and leg bags are too small in my opinion. I use the 2 liter overnight bags as tummy bags held in place with a compression bodysuit. I also found that the silicone penis expanders or some type of wide rubber band helps hold the catheter on. They also prevent the catheter from ballooning, which makes it come off easily even with the adhesive (peeling force from ballooning is much more effective at defeating the adhesive).

Nothing beats tight rubber shorts to squish around in.

Sorry to hear they're painful. Mine are sometimes quite strong and almost make me double over, but they're only uncomfortable, not quite painful.

I thought it must be fake news if it's on Fox, but CNN has it, too. Maybe everything is fake now. https://www.cnn.com/travel/article/china-civil-aviation-administration-coronavirus-guidance-intl-hnk/index.html

Bladder spasms can be real. Sometimes mine almost make me double over. It's not a sharp pain like a leg cramp, but I often have to stop and concentrate on relaxing. Usually it stops when my bladder is half empty, but sometimes it keeps going for awhile after I'm empty.

When I was young, I had trouble with pee dreams. I started up again a few years ago, so I always wear protection. It started the same time as my bladder spasms, but after some nerve damage weakened my sphincter. I use a condom catheter and the elastic band that holds it on makes the pressure build a little, so it's like a mini orgasm when the spasm overcomes the resistance.

I've been using a condom catheter. After awhile, I believe the constant slight pressure reduced blood flow as my skin was becoming an unhealthy waxy grey that did not show good perfusion (blood flow). I started using a penile pump at least once a day (two or three would be better) to get blood into it and I notice a marked improvement in color. I remember seeing a medical journal article that stated manually encouraging blood flow daily helped after certain surgeries. Some days, it's difficult to get a seal started because it's so small, but overall, it appears to help.

You could also try anal dilation to get your sphincter to relax.

The original Lord's procedure used anesthesia (red flags if you can't feel when it's too much!), was done quickly, and is not standardized (i.e. some practitioners may dilate excessively). There are studies that point out the flaws of the original procedure and show that conservative stretching is not likely to cause incontinence. Wearing a large plug long term would logically cause the sphincter to adapt/atrophy and result in some degree of incontinence, but occasional gentle use is unlikely to and, as Dr. Lord found, may relieve hemorrhoids and fissures. This has been discussed earlier in this forum.

I answered a similar thread before (and admit I didn't go through all the responses to this one). We now know that time only exists for quantumly entangled particles. To an outside observer, the entire process is seen at once. Therefore, if God is the outside observer, he knows the end result. Did he decide how it would end or simply know what the result would be, but the writers couldn't understand all that (much like the illustration of John trying to describe modern technology in the Revelation of Jesus Christ with no idea what he was seeing)?