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Another reason why diapers are better
SiliconeSpandex replied to ValentinesStuff's topic in Scoop The Poop
Constipation can cause fecaloma. Fecaloma can cause stercoral perforation Stercoral perforation is bad dodo. -
To the few remaining nay sayers, not only is it psychologically beneficial, but phyically as well; it is now proven science. ac-2020-03-16.pdf (nih.gov)
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Have you tried condom catheters? I like them better than indwelling. Diapers are OK, but the changing is more of a hassle than simply draining the bag. I had a lot of problems with the catheter coming off with leg bags, and leg bags are too small in my opinion. I use the 2 liter overnight bags as tummy bags held in place with a compression bodysuit. I also found that the silicone penis expanders or some type of wide rubber band helps hold the catheter on. They also prevent the catheter from ballooning, which makes it come off easily even with the adhesive (peeling force from ballooning is much more effective at defeating the adhesive).
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Sorry to hear they're painful. Mine are sometimes quite strong and almost make me double over, but they're only uncomfortable, not quite painful.
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My Journey of 24/7 and Incontinence
SiliconeSpandex replied to Hannah YMS's topic in Incontinent-Desires
Bladder spasms can be real. Sometimes mine almost make me double over. It's not a sharp pain like a leg cramp, but I often have to stop and concentrate on relaxing. Usually it stops when my bladder is half empty, but sometimes it keeps going for awhile after I'm empty. -
When I was young, I had trouble with pee dreams. I started up again a few years ago, so I always wear protection. It started the same time as my bladder spasms, but after some nerve damage weakened my sphincter. I use a condom catheter and the elastic band that holds it on makes the pressure build a little, so it's like a mini orgasm when the spasm overcomes the resistance.
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I've been using a condom catheter. After awhile, I believe the constant slight pressure reduced blood flow as my skin was becoming an unhealthy waxy grey that did not show good perfusion (blood flow). I started using a penile pump at least once a day (two or three would be better) to get blood into it and I notice a marked improvement in color. I remember seeing a medical journal article that stated manually encouraging blood flow daily helped after certain surgeries. Some days, it's difficult to get a seal started because it's so small, but overall, it appears to help.
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Help With Urgency and Going in Diapers
SiliconeSpandex replied to I'm Not Here, shhh's topic in Stinky, Squishy & Proud
You could also try anal dilation to get your sphincter to relax.- 2 replies
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Anal dilatation causes fecal incontinence.
SiliconeSpandex replied to username's topic in Incontinent-Desires
The original Lord's procedure used anesthesia (red flags if you can't feel when it's too much!), was done quickly, and is not standardized (i.e. some practitioners may dilate excessively). There are studies that point out the flaws of the original procedure and show that conservative stretching is not likely to cause incontinence. Wearing a large plug long term would logically cause the sphincter to adapt/atrophy and result in some degree of incontinence, but occasional gentle use is unlikely to and, as Dr. Lord found, may relieve hemorrhoids and fissures. This has been discussed earlier in this forum. -
Predestination: An infallible argument?
SiliconeSpandex replied to Wannatripbaby's topic in Littles of Faith
I answered a similar thread before (and admit I didn't go through all the responses to this one). We now know that time only exists for quantumly entangled particles. To an outside observer, the entire process is seen at once. Therefore, if God is the outside observer, he knows the end result. Did he decide how it would end or simply know what the result would be, but the writers couldn't understand all that (much like the illustration of John trying to describe modern technology in the Revelation of Jesus Christ with no idea what he was seeing)?- 118 replies
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Moreover, it's only childish because we are taught to believe it is. What if children were not clothed and adults wore diapers?
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For Those Who Are Bladder Incontinent Not By Choice
SiliconeSpandex replied to rusty pins's topic in Incontinence - Medical
Although I don't mind the feel of diapers, I use a condom cath for two reasons: 1) I have urge incontinence and often have rapid releases that don't absorb quickly enough, and 2) they're much easier to just empty than to carry diapers and change. I also wear some absorbent due to tubing disconnecting (thanks to anti-reflux valves there is limited leakage). There are a number if fixes I would make if I could design them, including barbs or clamps rather than friction fit tubes (the biggest cause of leaks for me), the tube would extend int the bag to reduce a stoppage there (rare, but it happens), bigger volume bags (I use a 2 liter night bag as a stomach bag because any bag seems FULL at half the rated volume and I don't like the feel of leg bags--fortunately I don't have a big belly and wear a safety vest to cover it.) I wear it all under a waterproof cover so a small leak will be absorbed by the absorbent and not show; obviously, a bag burst would be a show stopper. I do wear diapers at night. -
Anyone have back issues that caused their problems.
SiliconeSpandex replied to plasticpj's topic in Incontinence - Medical
I started having problems after hurting my back. I notice fecal leakage first, only when it was pretty soft. Gradually, my ability to hold urine also declined. I started having overactive bladder about three years ago, but don't know if that is related, however, the weakened ability to hold the urine back made it worse. I now use a condom cath in the day and a diaper at night. I also use a rectal cup and rubber pants to help with the fecal problem.