JazzyPazzazy Posted March 11, 2017 Share Posted March 11, 2017 On a scale of 1-10, (one being none, ten being completely.) how open are you with vanilla people or friends and family? I know a lot of people are super uncomfortable with others knowing, but I also know a few that are open. How do you feel about it? :3 Link to comment
nappies4me Posted March 11, 2017 Share Posted March 11, 2017 I would say 2. Apart from the good people on this site and the diaper suppliers that I use there is only 1 other person I have ever talked to about this side of me. Link to comment
Toyboy Posted March 12, 2017 Share Posted March 12, 2017 Same here a 2 as I have only told my wife. Sent from my SM-N910U using Tapatalk Link to comment
JazzyPazzazy Posted March 12, 2017 Author Share Posted March 12, 2017 I would say 2. Apart from the good people on this site and the diaper suppliers that I use there is only 1 other person I have ever talked to about this side of me. Ahh okay. Is there a specific reason? (If I may ask of course!)Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkSame here a 2 as I have only told my wife. Sent from my SM-N910U using Tapatalk Did she know before you got married? How well did she take it? I know some peoples SO's are okay and supportive, while others are fine with it but won't participate. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
Poobottom Posted March 12, 2017 Share Posted March 12, 2017 Has to be a 1 unfortunately, I would like to be able to talk to people about it but feel they would not understand. It's kind of a niche fetish to wear and use nappies in your fifties I'd say 2 Link to comment
DL4LIFE Posted March 12, 2017 Share Posted March 12, 2017 1 here. Besides being on this site anonymously 1 Link to comment
JazzyPazzazy Posted March 12, 2017 Author Share Posted March 12, 2017 I didn't remember to share mine >.Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 1 here. Besides being on this site anonymously Link to comment
Toyboy Posted March 12, 2017 Share Posted March 12, 2017 Did she know before you got married? How well did she take it? I know some peoples SO's are okay and supportive, while others are fine with it but won't participate. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk No she didn't know before we got married - I didn't really know ether. We have been together for about 29 years married nearly 24 years and I only came out about 2 years ago. It was hard on her at first (and me )but she is a very lovely lady and is fine with it now, she is not into it herself she will change me sometimes. I think the fact that I have had some incontinence and bedwetting issues for a number of years helped as she was used to seeing me in a nappy. Now she nows I like my nappies .our relationship is better than ever. Sent from my SM-N910U using Tapatalk 2 Link to comment
JazzyPazzazy Posted March 13, 2017 Author Share Posted March 13, 2017 No she didn't know before we got married - I didn't really know ether. We have been together for about 29 years married nearly 24 years and I only came out about 2 years ago. It was hard on her at first (and me )but she is a very lovely lady and is fine with it now, she is not into it herself she will change me sometimes. I think the fact that I have had some incontinence and bedwetting issues for a number of years helped as she was used to seeing me in a nappy. Now she nows I like my nappies .our relationship is better than ever. Sent from my SM-N910U using Tapatalk That's super cute!! I'm so happy for you!! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
nappies4me Posted March 13, 2017 Share Posted March 13, 2017 On ?12?/?03?/?2017 at 2:50 PM, JazzyPazzazy said: Ahh okay. Is there a specific reason? (If I may ask of course!) No specific reason Jazzy just to scared to meet others in real life. It has taken me a long time to accept that I like to wear diapers and that it's part of me. While I have gained the confidence to venture out in public a few times wearing, I pretty much still just wear around the house. 1 Link to comment
BabyJune Posted March 13, 2017 Share Posted March 13, 2017 Id have to go with minus 1. It is my deepest, darkest secret. All my life I've worked with young children--mostly very young girls--and it wouldn't go over too well if people knew that I was a diaper lover as well as (how to put it) a very youthful crossdresser. 1 Link to comment
JazzyPazzazy Posted March 14, 2017 Author Share Posted March 14, 2017 No specific reason Jazzy just to scared to meet others in real life. It has taken me a long time to accept that I like to wear diapers and that it's part of me. While I have gained the confidence to venture out in public a few times wearing, I pretty much still just wear around the house. Ohhh okay! I gotcha! That's good tho! Better safe than sorry! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Id have to go with minus 1. It is my deepest, darkest secret. All my life I've worked with young children--mostly very young girls--and it wouldn't go over too well if people knew that I was a diaper lover as well as (how to put it) a very youthful crossdresser. Oh yeah, I see how that could end badly. Though I have to say, I do work in a daycare, so I getcha! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 1 Link to comment
AbabeBill Posted March 29, 2017 Share Posted March 29, 2017 I would have to go with a 2. Only my wife knows. I never thought it would be a good thing to be known, to anyone. I always feared of being looked upon differently, once it was made known. And once 1 Link to comment
Kaliborio Posted March 31, 2017 Share Posted March 31, 2017 I'm open about my AB/DL to a few friends who are also AB/DL or otherwise have socially unacceptable kinks. Probably a few dozen people total know I'm incontinent, though - mostly authority figures who have responsibility in some scenario where my incontinence is relevant. Link to comment
Cute_Kitten Posted May 22, 2017 Share Posted May 22, 2017 0. It's part of my private life, and it stays private. Link to comment
diaperguy85 Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 1.5! yes, i have to be difficult lol i've only told my g/f after about a year and change of being together and she found my diapers one day. it was scary, an i kinda expected her to leave shortly after she found out. but she still loves and totally accepts and embraces it as another facet of the guy she loves other than that, my mom Link to comment
Little Crusader Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 I would say 4-5, I mean I dont ever plan on telling anyone I don't have to, but I am rather comfortable with friends knowing if needed or if it naturally comes up (and I know their reactions before the discussion) Link to comment
rusty pins Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 52 minutes ago, anned said: Family or friends Link to comment
daveindiapers Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 I haven't told any of my friends or family and probably never will. Link to comment
BBoy Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 2. I only give it a two because I told my wife and my therapist. Otherwise, NO ONE WILL EVER KNOW Link to comment
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