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DL4LIFE

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  1. Poke some holes in it then it'll be a booster
  2. I don't hate my parents. I've said my piece a long time ago and I'd come to terms with how I was treated growing up. They know my feelings on it but yet they continue to act like nothing had happened to we kids and refused to acknowledge it. My mother refuses to take any kind of ownership of it and thats fine with me. I just chose not to expose myself and my wife and kid to it. Plain and simple.
  3. I spent the last 20 years without talking to my parents. Not a single word. From 1998 to 2006 I lived about 5 miles away from them and I refused to subject my wife and child to my mother's mental and verbal abuse. My father did nothing to stop her so I avoided him too. It's now 20 yrs since I've spoken to them and I have no desire to. I am however in contact with 3 of my siblings, that's how I know my parents are still alive. But when the time comes you can bet I wont be flying back for their funeral. My sister and I were talking about our mother's demise and she ask me how I would handle her funeral arrangements and I said I wouldn't that I would just donate her to the body farm in Tennessee......lol! We both laughed as all of us were victims of our mother's mental abuse. Yeah rusty it was abuse, but back then it was considered a norm to treat your kids like this. No one intervened, even for the childs sake of welfare.
  4. No. I don't see a connection at all. I was born mid 60s and was well on my way of being a DL in the early 70s. Rug Rats debuted in 1990.
  5. Mine arrived yesterday and to be honest I don't know what all the hype is about. I'm not overly impressed with them. I guess apart from the prints there's nothing about these that really have no appeal for me. I especially don't like the tapes with that 2 part tape system, and no landing zone. God forbid you misjudge where you put the tape the first time cuz there's no way your detaching the blue tape without ripping the top sheet. I also got 1 bag Better Dry along with a pack of Northshore supremes. Not impressed with those either. I really need not listen to the hype at times. Last time I listened I ordered 2 packs of Kiddos from ABU. I dont like them at all. What a waste of money on all of the above mentioned diapers. Oh well at least I got ot out of my system. They'll go in storage for desperate times.
  6. Congrats on the pregnancy. I wish you well. Like Elfy said keep your kink separated from your children and parenting especially when they start talking. You don't want that awkward moment in front of friends and family....lol. The funny thing about kids when they're little and uncorrupted is they speak the God awful truth and we adults know it. Adults will believe a child before they believe a stuttering babbling adult trying to backpedal from what the kid just blurted out. They say if you don't want an honest answer then don't ask a child. Oh yeah, kids are also unpredictable. They get you when you least expect it. Children are great listeners. You may not think they heard you but believe me, they hear everything. Good luck and always keep your guard up.
  7. Sounds to me that your the kind of person that needs to work alone. There are plenty of jobs out there that can be obtained with very little effort. As far as drama in the work place it's only drama if you allow yourself to get wrapped up in it. And drama causes so much unnecessary stress in the workplace. Ignore it. You'll be better off and much happier. As far as the music goes, good for the company. One type of music cures all. Technically they have the right to eliminate music all together. That's something that they are allowing the employee to do hoping for more gainful production. Apparently that didn't work so they stepped in and took control of the situation. As far as the whistling at work. Man I would have snapped. And it's not because of the whistling it would have been the distraction it would have caused to the other employees. You have to understand from an employer's point of view you are not the only employee. Maybe the guy who complained about the whistling has an issue with background noise. It can be very frustrating to try and do your job to the best of your ability when you have a piercing, distracting noise going through your head. It's like putting a strobe light next to an epileptic and demanding they be productive. It's just not gonna work. From what I read in the past your a line supervisor, that means your supposed to conduct yourself in a different manner than those of which your in charge of. You as a supervisor should be gaining production and eliminating distractions, but you seem to be the distraction or the cause of the distraction. You've been complaining about this job for months now, this post and a few others. Why are you still there? This country is made up of 48 lower states, you work in 1. Move on already. After reading this post, If I were you, I'd do it before they do it for you. I know you feel like your stuck in this job doing menial tasks but really your not. There is so much more outside of the little world your living in. It's time to explore!! From your profile your 26 yrs old and you have so much life ahead of you it would be ashamed to waste it at this one place and if allow yourself to get stuck at some dead end job for the next 10 years than you only have yourself to blame. You have options.
  8. Just made my order. 1st time customer with Northshore. I figured I'd give them a try and seeing how ABU is out of stock of almost everything. The only thing I ask of Northshore is to not inundate with emails. That's definitely a turn off for me.
  9. Agreed here. It's a crap shoot when ordering online, especially clothing. And I've noticed that the websites that sell onesies the size carts differ per websites. It took me ordering from 2 different places to get the right size and now that I know the site I won't gamble anywhere else. Babypants.com. XL is big on me at first but they do shrink to the proper size after a few washings. The only thing I would like different is the snaps, they're plastic and tend to stick to the inner thighs when I sweat, but otherwise they are super soft and comfortable.
  10. You could have continued this in the thread you already started. Would have been a good follow up.
  11. Time spent in the bathroom would increase exponentially. Actually it wouldn't be called a bathroom but a changing room.
  12. Expectation of privacy my ass. There's cameras all over the place. The days of expecting privacy is long gone, get used to it.
  13. My mother was the offender here. I wet the bed till I close to 7. I believe her cure for my bedwetting was to humiliate it out of me. One was when I was around 4 or 5. My father worked nights and my mother had this group of her so called friends that would come to the house. Well one night before bed she had 4 of the guys grab and strip my clothes off hold me down on the bed while she diapered me. I know I was small and quite young but I gave those bastards a run for their money. Coincidentally it was right around that time I started having an attraction to diapers. 2 was when I was close to 7. We used to go to this swimming hole to hang out and swim. Well my mother came up with yet another ingenious yet humiliating way to cure me. While at the swimming whole she decided a good scrubbing would cure me. So she scrubbed me with a wooden bristle floor scrubbing brush. For those of you here of the older generation you know exactly what I'm talking about. When she was through I was left with brush burns all over my body including privates. All this being done around my 4 siblings. Coincidentally it wasn't long after that that I quit bedwetting. Other fucked up things she done... Rubbed my pissy underwear in my face. Wrapping a baby bottle in a box at Christmas and having me open it in front of all my cousins, aunts and uncles and siblings. But she played a fucking mental game.."like here we got you something special" and built it up to make me feel all special in front of everyone only to get her rocks out of seeing how humiliated I was. Telling all friends and family about my bedwetting while I was present. It was really fucked up growing up in that house.
  14. dl- ashlee. Your answer of you don't know why you like wearing diaper is probably as honest as your ever going to be able to answer it. In truth all of us here don't really have any concrete evidence as to why we enjoy wearing, using, and sexually gratifying ourselves through diapers. Sure one can speculate the reasons. They were forced into a diaper, they were sexually abused, they were potty trained too early. The list and why's are similar but different from person to person but know one knows for sure why or what triggered the desire. Unfortunately this affliction is a little studied field and those that did study and wrote about it had some very interesting theories but again no scientific evidence or proof as to why this fetish or really any fetish including sexual deviants, pedophilia, bdsm, beastality, or any sexual desire is triggered in us. So really anyone who answers I don't know to the question of why they wear diapers is really telling the truth unless they can scientifically prove beyond a reasonable doubt that they know what triggered it. Until then the answer is "I just don't know."
  15. There's visible stains. One can clearly see from the outside of the bag that the product could have been compromised. Sad you wasted your time and money. Sometimes one just needs to walk away.
  16. So of it were scientifically proven that God didn't exist would the believers stop believing in God? People believe God created the universe and all that exists in that universe, if it was scientifically proven that multiple universes exists does that mean there's more than one God or is there only one God the "All Almighty"? Things just seem too complicated to be created. Too intricate and too vast. I was raised Roman Catholic, but from a very early age I saw the hypocrisy of that religion. I was force to go to church and Sunday school every Sunday. When I was 13 I told my mother I had had enough. We fought over but I stood my ground and that was that. Other than weddings, baptisms, and funerals I hadn't been in church for a Sunday service since. I feel for one to believe one doesn't have to interrupt there lives to do so. Why to I need to go to a church to believe in a higher power when I can do in the comfort of myself? I guess I kinda straddle the fence on this. I'm neither a believer or a nonbeliever. Maybe I'm just keeping my options open.
  17. Those are My Diapers. Rearz sells them.
  18. I grew up in a generation where women weren't consider fragile and frail. This perception I have now is what I experienced and learned once I left small town USA. Up until that time I saw women as strongholds of the family dynamics.(btw i stll do) There was nothing fragile or frail about the women in those days. They ruled the roost. They were the glue that kept the family together. Even the men didn't deny them this. Oh sure they argued with the wives but they knew in the long run without them they'd be shit. Men were the wheel and women were the spokes. One missing spoke and the whole wheel is off balance and the dynamics of that family fell apart. I couldn't imagine a man of my generation and up bringing revealing to his wife that he wants to wear diapers. Omfg! It took me almost thirteen years to reveal to my wife, not for fear of her killing me, but for fear of her rejecting me and telling others about my diaper desires. Looking back I wished I told her sooner but that is water under the bridge. I was brought up with the preconceived notions that a man is a man and he needs to be a man, not some diaper wearing weirdo who associated himself to the likeness of a baby.
  19. Fair enough. Your right and I actually stated that you were not looking for comparisons, just made a statement that I was now showing an example of comparing which I really dont want to do. Never thought of such a thing as the "sandwich generation". I can clearly see your point. I learned something new today so I say thank you. Yeah it was hard not understanding why I was afflicted with this. Still can't figure it out to this day. Don't know how many times I beat myself up mentally and verbally over it. Couldn't tell you how many times I ask myself " why me!!!". Truthfully I'm glad those days are behind me and I have some understanding, although no clear answers, as to why. I'm glad to have communities like this as I know I am no longer alone. It's just a shame so many of my years were wasted trying to come to terms with it.
  20. Surely as a man of 50+ you can relate to growing up with no internet or social media. A time when social interaction was not only neccessary but often forced upon you. And you are so correct that in todays world yes it's way more acceptable. But we have to admit that women would receive less grief if caught wearing a diaper. Like you said you keep it in your residence as do I. We're not going to flaunt it and why is that reason? Because we know how we could be judged and ridiculed by our peers and society in general. Women have been getting away with this for a long time(and I don't mean getting away like its some crime they're commiting).They can go to a straight bar and dance with each other and many will never bat an eye but those that do view as sexy or cute. But what happens if 2 men were to dance with each other in that same bar? Women have been wearing mens clothing for as long as i can remember but take a man who wears womens clothes. Ridicule all around. A woman can walk down a busy street wearing nothing but a diaper and a t-shirt with little fear of being ridiculed or judge harshly. Sure she's gonna get some looks,but what if some hairy, potbellied middle aged guy was to do the same? What do you think the public's reaction/perception of the guy is gonna be? So yeah I agree that women in todays world have it the easiest when it comes to ABDL. And straight men have it the hardest. Now we're comparing.
  21. I don't believe the OP was asking us to compare or looking for comparisons . The OP simply asked the question of who we think had/has it harder being afflicted with ABDL. Now if we decide to debate the topic then we will be the ones comparing.
  22. I would like to add that the word "psychopath" referring to men and being DL is a little strong here. I've never considered myself a psychopath with the affliction of being a DL. Something's wrong with me, yeah I must have some sort of mental disorder, but never had psychopathic thoughts or tendencies.
  23. Or maybe the OP could just delete the whole conversation and debate like you do. You seem like a person who thinks its your opinion that matters the most and when things get rough you can't handle criticism. Note: last week you started a post about being involved in a product research on incontinence products. You willfully admitted you lied that you dribbled when clearly you don't. There was a nice debate going on about your integrity and your disigenuious means of being involved in such research for those who truly need the product. There was some going back and forth between myself and another member when all of a sudden the post disappeared which led me to believe that you deleted it. Now there are two individuals who are capable of deleting posts, 1 is the original poster and 2 is an Admin. Now I dont believe the debate was so hostile that the admins had to step in. The OP here ask a simple question and left it open for debate. I dont think there was an arterial motive for the post and I'm sickened how you can hijack the post without really giving any thought to other members opinion as if only yours matters. Now I've said my piece too. Now on to the OPs topic at hand. I as a man of my early 50s being a DL today isn't nearly as difficult as it was back before the internet and social media came along. I believe it is harder for men of my generation and older because back then men were expected to be men. Grow up, get a job, start a family. Be a man. I have no opinion of the LGBT community because I've never walk in there shoes. But again long before this little thing we call social media that whole community was largely shunned by society and if you add ABDL on top of that well I can only imagine. If you ask me today who has it harder I still say straight men. Especially those of the older generation that still interact daily with like generation, through work and social life alike.
  24. To all that are seeking professional help stop thinking the psychologist or psychiatrist are there to judge you. They're not. Years ago upon my wife's insistence to deal with my issues I went to see a psychiatrist. Yes it was scary to reveal this part of my life that I had never shared with another human being other than my wife but I knew if I didn't I would never have an understanding as to why I was afflicted with this desire to wear and use diapers. My psychiatrist was a man which I thought was gonna be even harder to reveal my secret. Boy was I wrong! Although it's almost 20 yrs past I still clearly remember that conversation to this day. Im not going into detail but I will say that I was more surprised by his reaction than he was to me revealing my secret to him. That session we delved into details about my diaper wearing. We discussed how I felt emotionally when wearing and the need I felt for them emotionally. Here's the one statement I remember clear as a bell. We were discussing things about me wearing diapers and I said to him that I just dont understand why I felt a need for diapers, its not normal for a full grown man to want to wear and use diapers and I totally taken back when he looked at me and said and I quote " whats the big deal". I said its not normal and his response was " whats normal?". So now that that was out of the way we focused on the dynamics as to how I got there. So long story short, after that session diapers were very seldom brought up. We focused on other more important issues like my fear of rejection, social outcasting, and my inability to stand up for myself. Understand this. That professional is not there to judge you. They are there to help you plain and simple. And trust me when I say this, a psychiatrist has probably heard far worse things in their career than you wanting and needing to wear diapers. Another thing is if the the professional your seeing has little or no understanding of ABDL then its your job to ask them to do some research on the subject so they can better understand you. One poster said they would have a hard time being honest with the professional. Well that's not gonna help either of you and you'd just be wasting their time and your money. If your worried the professional will discuss this with other ppl you need to get that thought out of your head because they can't. They are legally obligated under the Dr, Patient Confidentiality agreement. By law they cannot discuss their patients with others unless they have written consent and signed by the patient. Even if they wanted to consult with another professional they have to ask permission from the patient. IT IS THE LAW. The only time a professional is legally obligated without written consent is if the patient poses a danger to themselves or the public and ONLY then they are bound legally to protect the pubic or patient. I feel I'm a much better person today than I was 20 yrs ago. I feel good about myself. I am more socially adept. I stand up for myself and ppl will not shit on me anymore and if they do I confront them instead of crawling inside of myself. I no longer fear rejection. I now have friends, real friends for the first time in my life and to be honest it feels so good. I've learned to balance my DL side with my life. My home life is awesome and I couldn't be happier in life with my wife and kid. In closing I will say, get over your fears and seek professional help if you feel you truly need it. You will feel so much better in the long run.
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