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Designing and Decorating your AB/DL Nursery You’ve decided to take the exciting leap that all Littles dream about, and you want to build a nursey of your own. As someone who has done just that I decided to write this suggestive guide to help give you some ideas and learn from my mistakes and benefit from my successes. Before getting started, I suggest picking a central theme. The theme should be something that is close to YOU and makes YOU happy. That being said, I highly recommend writing down a few themes to brainstorm. After you have a few ideas, I suggest doing a google hunt for products and items that would be a wish list of items to realize the theme. Aside from the ABDL furniture, you need to think about paint, lighting, flooring, wall hangings/decorations, and things like storage. For this run through, I’m going to use my nursery as an example. I’ll cover each aspect of the design and what I ended up doing. My Theme For my nursery I chose “Space/Rockets” as my nursery theme. I knew from repeated google searches there was a ton of products both baby and adult that made the theme ideal. One method you may want to try in testing/deciding on your theme is can you find a bedding/comforter set for your theme. Walls For my personal nursery, I decided not to paint the walls of my nursery. My house is over one hundred years old, and I like the unique/original woodwork and the neutral eggshell color, but that didn’t hinder me from decorating the walls. I started off with several wall hangings: a NASA flag, a massive technicolored tapestry of an astronaut floating in space, a tapestry of the solar system and a final hanging of the ABCs that was space themed. On the practical side of wall hangings I installed some small space themed shelves above my changing table that contains my wipes, powder, lotion etc.… easily within reach of a changer but more importantly I can easily reach them as well when I’m on the table so it helps when I’m changing myself. I suggest looking for corner shelves, stuffie hanging hammocks and other little things that can help tie the room together. Remember, this is your room and a safe space, so your opinion is all that matters. The last piece I highly recommend is a fun and cheap little project that you can do and that is making and hanging your name, ABDL, BABY, or some other cute phrase in large letters. You can get large letter blanks at any hobby or craft store or even Walmart. Floors Carpets are ideal for a nursery/play space. If you are anything like me who loves their tummy time, carpets are necessary, but you can also get things like playmats and also large foam puzzle pieces to your floor. I have two playmats in my nursery. One by my changing table and the second larger one is in my main play space that also doubles as an ABDL Baby Gym. Like I mentioned in picking a theme, I found several space themed playmats in my brainstorming google search and bookmarked them when I got to the phase of the nursery build. I personally try to keep most of my floor play space clear when I am not playing, but a large corner stuffie or Stuffie pile, bean bag chair or one or two large toys that can occupy a corner out of the way that won’t present a tripping hazard are also great for the nursery space. My advice is to try and find the happy medium between cluttered and spartan. The nursery floor should look welcoming and an inviting place an ABDL would want to lay down or sit to play with easy crawl access to nearby stimuli. Ceiling This is an area that many overlook, but I highly recommend not neglecting this aspect of your nursery. Ceiling decorations and hanging stimuli such as a mobile, baby gym, glow-in-the-dark stars are many common stimuli found in nurseries. What I did for my nursery was a number of things that kept with my space theme. The first was I replaced the ever common “salad bowl” light for a large LED “Moon” light that was remote controlled and featured various lighting settings. I’ll discuss that item more in the lighting section, but changing the light to a moon dramatically changes the space when laying on your back and staring at the ceiling. The second aspect I added for the ceiling was I purchased a laser star/nebula generator. These nail the space theme for me, but I recommend looking into light show generators for your nurseries as they are cheap, often remote controlled, and require no installation or room modification. The third ceiling modification I recommend is ceiling hangings. This is an easy way of adding more stimuli but does require minor room modification. What I did for my nursery is I built several Nasa Lego sets, such as the Space Shuttle, ISS, and the Hubble telescope, then using strong monofilament fishing line and a few small eyelet screws, I secured the models to the ceiling upside down and a various angles to imitate them floating in space. These three additions have made lying in the crib or on the nursery floor a stimulating and wonderful experience no matter where I look. The hangings don’t have to make sense like an imitation of space… You could fill the ceiling with floating squish mellows, dinosaurs, barbies, flying superheroes… let your baby imaginations run wild. Hanging a mobile from the ceiling, adding designer light or even ceiling stickers are also a possibility. My childhood room my parents painted the ceiling to look like a sky with clouds and the ceiling fan had images of fighter jets on the blades. Be Creative! Be You! Lighting As mentioned in the ceiling section there are several creative main room lighting options available. The main room light fixture can be an expensive option but really can really help you mentally make that leap from a room to a nursery. The standard salad bowl or “Boob” light just doesn’t have the same feeling as a colorful lighting option. Some suggestions when making a lighting selection: Look for an LED option that is adjustable. Many lighting options today can change colors, intensity, and are dimmable. Another suggestion is to look for something that is remote-controlled. The “Moon” lighting that I installed in my nursery has a remote option and I can’t tell you how nice it is to be in the crib and be able to adjust the lights to my liking. If buying and installing a new light fixture isn’t a possibility… no need to build a blanket fort to cry in… do build a blanket fort though… A creative option for lighting a nursery and also adding more fun elements is to get a basic smart home device and some smart lightbulbs. Many smart bulb options offer color changes, dimmability, and can be controlled through a phone app. You can also link smart bulbs with a smart home device to add a voice control option to your lighting. Other creative lighting options to think about are things like: An end table Lamp, night light, LED strips, and wall or ceiling light projectors. There are tons of themed options for each of these lighting options. One option I want to touch on is the LED lighting strips. Creative installation of LED lighting can really make your nursery unique and a wonderful place. I placed LED lights along both the top rail and underside of my crib and also on the underside of all of the shelves of my changing table and diaper storage. The lighting not only adds mood to the room, but it also is a functional improvement as it lights all my diaper storage. Storage Having a place to store toys, packs of diapers, clothing, changing supplies, and other play gear is a must have for any nursery space. It also can offer tabletop space for various décor items like a night light, lamp, stuffies, toys or even offer more storage. When I was looking at storage for my nursery, I first accessed the majority of my toys so I could have a better idea of what my needs were so I could get the ideal toy storage. I have a lot of blocks, toy RC construction toys, wooden train sets along with some hand puppets and large wooden playsets. I want something that would both display some toys but also could hold all the blocks and smaller toys that had lots of pieces. I found the perfect large toy box/shelf combo on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0DJM552C2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 My advice when selecting something is get the dimensions of the furniture piece and make sure that not only does it fit in the space in the room, but that it also can fit the toys that you want to place. All dimensions should be listed on websites. Other storage ideas can be under your bed/crib… most bed frames are fourteen inches off the ground which is the standard height of a diaper pack. Something else I have done is I purchased two large Rubbermaid containers designed to go under the bed. I can place loose diapers and boosters inside for storage. Small hanging shelves by the changing area are great for diaper changing supplies and a stuffie hammock are great for babies with a lot of little stuffed friends. Amazon and Ikea are really solid places to look for storage options if you are looking for something in particular. Thrift stores are another great budget option that offers great DIY potential. Toys What AB doesn’t love their toys? Well, toys can be used in more ways than just playing. Some ideas to try: Stuffies strategically stationed in special areas of the room to protect you, wooden alphabet blocks spelling out fun phrases, Toys hanging from the ceiling, completed Lego models, maybe a wall full of Funko pops, action figures, my little pony, troll dolls, barbies, squishmellows… Your nursery, your imagination, your dream manifest! Make it happen!!! Furniture AB/DL nursery furniture like a crib, changing table, baby gym, play pen, rocking, and highchair are what a lot of folks may dream of having. I can tell you they are all possible, and I plan on writing articles on every single one of my DIY build ones for each. I will include the links to the base items I used for those builds in the meanwhile if you want to try to design your own. More to come on those article, but I suggest if you plan on one day adding these elements to your nursery to account for them if you are making a nursery space. Crib For a crib I recommend a canopy steel bed frame. The rails offer great support for rails and the bed frame is absolutely solid and you will avoid some of the issues when you try to convert a standard bed frame into a crib for my crib. Link: Amazon.com: ZINUS Patricia Black Metal Canopy Platform Bed Frame, Mattress Foundation with Steel Slat Support, No Box Spring Needed, Easy Assembly, Full : Everything Else The frame is under $200 and comes in single, full and queen. I have built cribs in all three sizes, but my personal crib is full. I built the wooden rails four inches apart with a swinging gate. A box spring and mattress will place the crib bed at the perfect height. Changing table A changing table is something I use every day, and it was actually one of the easiest additions to my nursery thanks to inspiration I got at CapCon. I purchased a massage table which was available as changing tables at the Age player’s Convention. I have included the link to the one I used but I wouldn’t recommend it if you aren’t planning to rebuild the table. It is a good table, but since it is a travel table for around $100 it isn’t the most solid unless it is rebuilt. I took the original legs off the table and built new legs with a shelf out of six 4x4s and some plywood. Amazon.com: BestMassage Massage Table Portable Massage Bed Lash Bed 2 Fold SPA Table 24 inch Wide Adjustable Salon Bed with Non-Woven Bag for Spa Footmassage Facial CareSpa Tattoo,Black : Beauty & Personal Care Highchair Right up front I will say that my highchair build was pretty expensive, but that is because it is not the first time, I have built a highchair and there were serious issues with stability, and I want to create builds that others can replicate. For this build, I purchased a garden bar chair from amazon. Amazon.com: POLYWOOD® Traditional Garden Bar Chair, Black The cost was $350. I then cut a tray from a sheet of MDF. The tray clips on to the chair with genuine highchair clip hardware from amazon. Amazon.com: Highchair Tray Hardware, baby toddler kid child seat stool antique vintage old retro : Baby I also added a go kart harness for baby’s safety. Amazon.com: Yakitoko Universal 4 point Safety Harness Set 2" Fits Go Kart,UTV,ATV,Racing Blue : Automotive and I used seat cushion foam, fabric, and a staple gun to add some padded upholstery. The last two things weren’t really necessary, but the fabric was space themed to tie into my nursery and it was a challenge I thought I could accomplish. Baby Gym The Baby gym build was entirely from scratch, but I have already written that build article so I will include the link to my article below: Building an AB/DL Baby Gym - Product Reviews and Info - [DD] Boards & Chat Happy Padded Life to All – J.p. Designing and Decorating your AB Nursery article.pdf

AB/DL Diaper Bag Packing List Going to your first AB/DL event? Starting your adventure of trying diapers 24/7? A diapered road trip? This article is what I would have liked to know when I started my adventure. This list is what I consider to be the bare necessities. Starting of the list… the diaper bag… it wouldn’t be a diaper bag list if you didn’t have a bag! A standard backpack with three main pouches, and side pockets on either side for a drink or bottle is my ideal bag. I personally have two bags… one for regular public use which is just a black military style pack and one for ABDL events and conventions that is covered in ABDL and other fetish affiliated pins, badges, and patches. Now that we have the bag we need to pack it. Starting off my advice is to pack things in the likelihood that you are going to need them, so I always pack my spare change of clothes. Jeans, shirt, socks, diaper cover in the bottom in the bag in the main pouch. Trust me, you would rather have them and not need them than need them and not have them. Next is diapers and boosters… if the bag has a laptop pouch, I like to put two of each in this section, so they are a quick and easy grab. It is up to you if you need it more or less. I also like to add a pack of diaper disposable bags in the same section of my diapers. Northshore is who I recommend for these. Their packs are small and deodorizing. The last item I place in the main pouch is my diaper changing mat. The mat isn’t always usable in all situations like in a toilet stall, but I like using it over the toilet to place my changing supplies and keeping a barrier between my stuff and a public toilet. (Just make sure you wipe it down with disinfectant wipes when you are done. Moving on from the main pouch of the bag and focusing on the outside of the bag. I always carry my water bottle on my public bag or a bottle or sippy bottle on my dominant hand side of the bag. In the front exterior bag this is where you want to carry your changing supplies, so you are not fishing around looking for them. I recommend investing in small bottles or going the easier route and getting several small travel sized bottles that you can just refill. If diapers are a sexual thing for you and you are planning on being active don’t forget to pack lube and protection! The last thing I always pack in my diaper bag is my noise cancelling headphones, a handheld gaming device, (I like rocking my old 90s Gameboy with Pokémon yellow as a conversation starter at events), a deck of playing cards or a Yugioh deck if I know others will have them, and an activity book and pencils. I hope you find this list and guide helpful to you. This is obviously not the only way to pack your bag or what you may need, but this is a good starting point. Make this check list your own! Happy Padded Life to All – J.p. Diaper Bag Check List o Diapers x2 o Boosters x2 o Changing Mat o Changing Supplies o Powder o Lotion o Baby Oil o Disinfectant wipes o Wipes o Lube o Condoms o Protection o Discreet Disposable bags o Deodorizer o Spare pair of jeans o Socks o Diaper cover o Spare shirt/onesie o Headphones o Gaming device/stimuli o Paci o Bottle Diaper Bag Packing List.pdf

So, you are interested in buying your first ABDL gear? As a member of the community for over 20 years, let me make a few recommendations based on my experiences and expansive collection of gear myself. The Baby Set – Cost $100 - $150 · Diapers · Paci · T-shirt/onesie Diapers Firstly, every baby needs diapers… and although there are a ton of ABDL printed diapers on the market, all the cuts and measurements are not universal, and they are pricy… I personally recommend Northshore Megamax for all first timers. There is no better diaper for the price on the market. A pack of ten will run between $33.50 - $45 depending on where you get them. Northshore has an excellent website and quick shipping, but you can also purchase Megamax on Amazon at a higher price. The colors come in White, Black, Blue, Pink, and Tie dye currently. If you are into super thick diapers that last over 12 hours you can add an addition of boosters. They are diapers without an outer shell that will soak through. Northshore and various other companies sell boosters that slip inside the diaper that add more thickness and the “Waddle effect.” Boosters depending on the size and make can be around $17.00 - $35. Paci When it comes to Pacis, you could get a toddler’s Nuk 5 from any local baby aisle, but for a few bucks more you can get an adult sized paci. My recommendation is From My Inner Baby they sell several large sizes for various price ranges. My personal favorite is the size ten which sells for around $20.00, but there are larger sizes for additional costs. Adding a Paci clip is a fun addition that adds to an outfit. Onesie/T-shirt There is one company I recommend above all when it comes to a Onesie or Romper and that is Onesies Down Under. They sell some of the best onesies out there and the sizes are very forgiving as they can stretch quite a bit. It is important to use the size chart when ordering and I recommend adding an inch or two for the average diaper. Their prices are fair for the quality and there are frequently sales and items on discount and clearance. You can find a onesie for roughly $30-42.00. If you are a baby on a budget the easiest thing to do is wear a t-shirt and adopt the “Tommy Pickles” look. I recommend getting a smaller sized T-shirt than what you normally wear if you want your diaper on display. A solid color is one way to go, but there are also “nostalgic graphic T-shirt” options available at big name stores such as Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles or Sesame Street. Once you have your AB/DL basic attire there are always ways to improve your toddling look and add to the growing wardrobe. The Toddler Addition – Cost $170-$180 · Shortalls/Skirtalls · Knee high socks · Velcro Shoes Shortalls/Skirtalls The shortalls/skirtalls look is the classic in the AB/DL community. My personal recommendation are the denim shortalls or Skirtalls from Tykables. They cost $80.00, but the quality and the fact that they open at the crotch for diaper changes (Shortalls) the price is more than worth it. They also will not hide the onesie you are wearing but to the contrary will feature it. Knee High Socks Knee high socks are a great and yet cheap addition to the AB/DL look. They can be acquired anywhere clothing can be purchased. I am personally a fan of Amazon due to selection and options. Socks can be found for a few dollars or more depending on the make and quality. Velcro Shoes Shoes may not be an item many AB/DLs think about but for me my shoes are one of my favorite clothing items. Sure, any sneakers could complete the look, but if you want to feel really little, nothing will make you feel that more than Velcro only sneakers and I am not talking about your grandpa’s orthopedic shoes. Vans has Black and White or Blue and White Suede Canvas all Velcro Trainer sneakers that I personally am on my fifth pair and wear everywhere except the gym as my daily shoes. I have always ordered my shoes on Amazon, and they will run you about $80.00 depending on the size, but if the shoes are important to you these cannot be beat. Happy Padded Life to All – J.p.

Do you want to wear diapers more of even 24/7, but don’t only because of the cost? This article is my personal experience over the past two years (I've been 24/7 for 6 and live 24/7 in a nursery now as an AB/DL) and counting. It may not apply to all but if it helps just one person that wants to wear often or even 24/7 then I will consider it well worth my time. First a little backstory… I am a lifelong AB/DL. No joke, I was caught by my parents trying to wear my siblings’ diapers multiple times as early as three years old and the desire never abated or diminished. Throughout my life I would continue to “hide my kink life” while I lived at home with parents and throughout my military service. I was medically discharged from the military after some horrible stuff occurred and I really struggled just to find a reason to live. Multiple therapists and really powerful anti-depressants and I somewhat became a functional drone in society once more, but I wasn’t a person… this is where diapers saved me. I started to wear more and for longer periods… what used to be an hour or two became a whole day or several and thanks to the medication and lack of caring what society thought at that point I started wearing in public… and I started to feel that semblance of happiness and being myself started to creep back into my life. This is when I made the leap to wear 24/7 about six years ago, but that came with a cost. I had started at a great place of work a year before and had a decent career going for me, but 24/7 isn’t cheap. Enough said, here’s how I went about it: · First tip: Get a long-term heavy absorbency diaper · My daily diaper is a Megamax with a booster… both at home and in public. That combo will generally last over 12 hours. So, I would essentially change twice a day. A case of Megamax is 40 diapers and the 2XL boosters I use from Northshore also can be purchased in packs of 40. The order comes out to be about $220. Anything over $200 from Northshore has free shipping… So based on that you’ll have roughly 14-18 orders a year. That’s around $4k (On the high end) · Second tip: Investigate and invest in an HSA/FSA account · Many companies have a Medical Account option in their insurance plan. An HSA is a “Health Savings Account” and an FSA is a “Flexible Spending Account” They are both similar in a way but with some minor differences. The options and uses differ based on your insurance program but they can be used to buy quality medical diapers and even some AB/DL brands. (You need to check on this prior to enrollment and purchase because you will have to provide documentation to show this was an approved purchase.) So, in my example, my company limited HSA to only be used for prescriptions and doctor visits so purchasing diapers wasn’t an option. § What I did was set up an FSA account. How that works is I decide how much money I want to allocate and as of Jan 1st that entire sum is available to me for the entire year. Every paycheck, a small sum is taken out which is where that money comes from but that advantage of doing this is that it is not taxed so the benefit is you essentially have more money for diapers by doing this rather than using your regular paycheck (That is taxed). I like to think of it as a tax-free diaper loan. One downside is you have to use it or lose it… but that isn’t ever really a problem. · Tip Three: Adult Cloth Diapers are a realistic option. · Companies like Rearz has really been creating a lot of cute and viable AB/DL cloth diaper options. I have found and purchased several cloth inserts and diaper cover options off amazon recently as well and I highly recommend this option. There are obviously pros and cons to cloth diapers just as there are with disposable. In the case of cloth the initial cost is high, but after the initial purchase the cost is just laundry costs but as an individual who fully uses diapers I don’t want to handle the clean-up with a messy cloth diaper… so like I said… Pros and cons, but although I prefer disposable diapers I have gradually been adding several cloth and diaper covers to my collection because they are both cute, but also are a great option. · Tip Four: Find a career that allows you to live the life you want to live! · This last suggestion is for those naysayers and can nots who are gearing up in the comments to say that all of this is useless or impossible because of their job… Look, I have literally been there… The military actually has a bedwetting/incontinence policy that could be grounds for discharge. I was also worked as an armored car officer and that job would not have been a possibility for 24/7… I know that some folks have a dream job, and they can’t or won’t ever wear at their job… for others, diapers are sexual, and they can’t wear, or they’d just be humping their desk all day… This suggestion is for people like I was whose life was improved by wearing diapers and they wanted to make that leap. Wearing diapers 24/7 is a lifestyle change… so it might be beneficial to change jobs/careers as well. When I applied to my new job, I went in saying that I wore diapers 24/7 (This was only said to managers and HR) If you are not comfortable with that you can just say you may or may not have a disability that you don’t want to disclose and per HIPPA they can not discriminate against you. But my advice is to tell them because if a company will accept you for you then its already a good place to be. I hope you find these suggestions helpful to you. I plan on writing several more articles that I think might help others. If there is a topic you would like me to address or discuss, please let me know in the comments. If you have other ideas of suggestions let me know. Like I said at the start, I’m dedicating my time to discuss this to try and help that one person that needs this, so if that is not you or this particular topic isn’t helpful that’s fine, but please keep your naysaying to yourself and let me know what topic you’d like me to discuss, and I will. Happy Padded Life to All – J.p.

Looking for help pricing these. I feel like the price should be a little lower compared to size 6's. I plan on selling these on ebay. Should I sell them as samples possibly? Would appreciate some help. They're super stretchy and suprisenly fit me, (34 inch waste). Feel free to give me some tips on selling these bad boys. 🫡

Looking for help pricing these. I feel like the price should be a little lower compared to size 6's. I plan on selling these on ebay. Should I sell them as samples possibly? Would appreciate some help. They're super stretchy and suprisenly fit me, (34 inch waste). Feel free to give me some tips on selling these bad boys. 🫡

My GF thinks that I should definitely NOT go to work diapered at my new job. I recently started a new job as a janitor in a warehouse. I'm constantly active and moving around and taking somewhere around 5,000-6,000 steps per shift. Which with my long legs, is probably several miles. 😅 At my last job, I wore twice a week because it was a fairly inactive position and it helped me to enjoy my days more. I was thinking about trying to do the same for this job, but my GF is adamant about it being a bad idea to wear at a job where I have to walk so much. She's afraid the friction will cause injury to a very-valuable part of my anatomy. 😳😱😅 So I wanted to pose the question here to the experts: are her fears accurate? I wouldn't have the opportunity to change if I had any sorts of issues. Does anyone here work an especially Active job and still wear during their shift?

Other than pattern, what should one look for in a diaper cover? Shortly after getting into diapers, I bought a cheep medical diaper cover on Amazon to try out (I have a bad habit of poking holes in the outer shell of my diaper during... Certain activities ?) and it has been SO helpful and comforting to have that extra failsafe that I will refuse to wear without it now. So I figure it's high-time I bought a spare. Problem is, I have absolutely no idea where to start in terms of finding what's good and what isn't. ? So I thought I'd pass the torch over to y'all for some guidance. ? Only stipulations I have are: -I'm not looking to spend a lot of money. Saw one review here for a pair that was like $80. ?? And while I'm sure it's worth it, I'm not looking to spend more than about $20-30 at most. -I don't particularly want one with a babyish pattern. A solid color (preferably not pink ?) would be preferred. Thanks in advance! ?

Just wondering if it’s okay to mess your diaper several times before removing it. I know people do it but, is there any cautionary advice to be offered? Any problems that people normally run into when trying to mess a diaper multiple times?

Hi, so I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He told me he was a DL just over a year ago. I am very accepting of this, and I don’t see anything wrong with it. We have pretty open communication when it comes to the topic. He tells me that it is a comfort thing and that he is not sexually attracted to it. He does not want to see me in diapers, he does not want me to change him, but he does wear them around me. A while ago, I found his tumblr page where he was posting videos of him wetting while I was doing some research and I brought it up with him and told him that it makes me feel a little uncomfortable with him wanting reactions from other people about his fetish. He then took down his tumblr page, but he has now made another one. I went through his phone (I know I shouldn’t have, and I regret it extremely) and I have found that he had photos of girls in diapers saved in his camera roll. Throughout our relationship he has always told me that it was not sexual, but now I’m starting to think otherwise. How do I approach this?

Hi all! Currently, I am in search of cheaper diapers to flesh out my padding stash. I am not too much worried about them having top notch absorbency either. It's somewhat preferable to me that I can actually use them up before needing a change! I've been looking at the tena ultra briefs so far, but the only medical brand diapers I've really tried have been the Northshores. I love Northshore, but I'm moreso in search of something "light" and that I can have MORE of for the price. Okay, with all that being said, they still need to be functional beyond 1 go. Those of you that have tried them, are Tenas worth the purchase? Do you have any other recommendations I could look into? Thanks for your time in advance! -Mew.

I am single, love sex but now wet myself constantly and on several occasions have peed whist having sex. Are there any ladies who have had the same experience and can offer any advice?

Save Express are now stocking these nappies/diapers. Has anyone tried them? Thoughts?

So here it goes again! The absolute love of my life has had this fetish since he himself was in diapers. I'm completely new to the scene and I need help with tips, advice, anything helps! We as a couple have just opened discussion into exploring this together. He's bought his preferred type and we've been through 3 nights of him being super comfy! I'm happy for him, now that he's comfortable with himself he's so much happier. But my dumb ass normie brain keeps getting her feeling hurt! How can I try learning about the desire for this when the community is so obscure!? I need a guru. I need links. I need friends who are going through this or wish to help me understand how my love feels and how to better make him comfortable. Also ya girl is a XXL and needs a site for cute sizable diapers to try this thing out!! Wish me luck, even if I get no responses airing this has kinda been therapeutic in a sense. Anyways, peace and love. Thank you for the time.

I’m in a great relationship with a wonderful guy and have been for over a year. Quite a few months ago, I found his stash. At first, I wasn’t sure why he needed diapers and pads but in digging further I have come to the conclusion that he is either an AB, DL or both. I would never leave him because he wants to be one but I also need to have him talk to me about it because it’s affecting our relationship. He’s been closed emotionally for the past couple of months and won’t let me get close to him. There are other issues and I know they stem from this secret. I think he feels that if I get close to him and he tells me, one or both of us will end up getting hurt. I’ve written and re-written letters about him opening up to me without mentioning it to him because I can’t imagine how hard it just be for him to keep this secret. He’s supposed to be viewed manly man who has a very opposite fetish that I’m sure, makes him most likely think If he tells me I won’t want to be with him anymore. Not the case. I would rather he tell me everything so we can have a very honest relationship that lasts. This is where I need help. I’ve read multiple articles on how to approach it and they contradict each other. Some say to tell him and others say to wait. What do I do? What would you want me to do if I was your girlfriend? I just want my boyfriend back to who he was when he didn’t have to worry about hiding the real him from me.

So here it goes. The absolute love of my life has had this fetish since he himself was in diapers. I'm completely new to the scene and I need help with tips, advice, anything helps! We as a couple have just opened discussion into exploring this together. He's bought his preferred type and we've been through 3 nights of him being super comfy! I'm happy for him, now that he's comfortable with himself he's so much happier. But my dumb ass normie brain keeps getting her feeling hurt! How can I try learning about the desire for this when the community is so obscure!? I need a guru. I need links. I need friends who are going through this or wish to help me understand how my love feels and how to better make him comfortable. Also ya girl is a XXL and needs a site for cute sizable diapers to try this thing out!! Wish me luck, even if I get no responses airing this has kinda been therapeutic in a sense. Anyways, peace and love. Thank you for the time.

So, my significant other knows I'm an adult baby. He's pretty accepting of it, but I'd like to ask him to maybe participate in it. We've done "daddy" roleplay a couple of times, but it didn't last, and I took on the role of a little girl rather than a baby. How do I go about asking him for this?

Hello ok today I went to my dentist's to get my dentures relined with temporary silicone lining I have connected sinus and mouth where teeth were pulled and when I bit down to let the silicone lining adjust to my gums/dentures the connection between my sinus and top of my mouth where my teeth were pulled got filled with silicone denture liner accidentally and my dentist's spent like an hour trying to remove it with no luck so my dentist's referred me to an oral surgeon and said to give the oral surgeon a slip of paper which said on it what needed to be done I will quote what it said "while doing a denture reline soft reline material was inadvertently pushed into sinus connection please remove reline material and repair sinus connection" my questions are as follows is this likely to cause problems if left untreated? and if so what could said problems be?how much is this likely to cost? I have no insurance so will be paying out of pocket and is it worth having the procedure done and what are the risks of said procedure Please note I am not taking the answers as guaranteed I would just like to have some rough and or general idea of the best and worst case scenario as well as a price range estimate and I completely understand prices and outcomes can and will vary significantly but currently I don't know if this going to cost in high hundreds of dollars or be up in the thousands or tens of thousands so even an extremely vague guess range will be very much appreciated fyi I am not going to be upset if your guess is way off and do not plan on using this post to try and negotiate a price with the surgeon I'm just really worried and have not the slightest idea of the effects or costs of getting this done Thank you have a nice day

Alright. so i’m really new to this and i literally made this account less than 20 minuets ago because i really do not know what to do. before i start i just want to say i do not mean to offend anyone with anything that i say, what i’m going to be stating is my opinions. My boyfriend and i have been dating for quite some time now and he’s always told me that he’s had a kink/fetish kind of thing and i really didn’t think too much of it until he told me he enjoys wearing diapers. Now don’t get me wrong, i love him with my whole heart and i don’t want to hurt his feelings at all. when i first found out about it, i kinda just brushed it off and figured it would pass. yeah, no. it didn’t pass. and as time went on he became more open about his desires and it makes me uncomfortable. i really appreciate that he can trust me enough to tell me because i care deeply about him but i feel like this is something he can keep to himself. he wanted to have sex a few days ago and asked me if he could wear a diaper over with baby powder and such. i didn’t want to hurt his feelings so i said sure. i really wish i didn’t agree to it. long story short there is baby powder all over my sheets and i’m a little upset about that considering i had just washed my bedding 2 days prior to that. anyways. i guess what i’m looking for is something sort of either advice or any kinda of comments you could offer me. I really love him so much and i want him to be happy but it really weirds me out (sorry babe!) and i don’t know how to tell him it makes me uncomfortable. he suggested that i try wearing a diaper but i’m really not wanting to. i feel like our sex life is just at a dead end and i’d really like to get it back on track. Ive tried reading other people’s experiences with their spouses and their connection with diapers but i didn’t feel any relief. So yeah. I’m really new to this so any suggestions will be considered. i’m sorry if i offended anyone. It’s just a confusing time right now. Thank you

I've enjoyed pooping my pants for many years but now I've got the urge to try messing in a diaper/nappy & I'm drawn to the 'all in one washables'. Been surfing the net & found adverts for different makes, materials & designs.Was wondering who uses them & which they recommend me to try?

Hi! I’m new to this community and very happy to have joined! So I’ve been a diaper love for about four years or so and I’ve just gotten a hold of diapers themself a couple months ago, and let me tell you, it was good. That’s it. It sucks, because all these years I’ve been longing to try on a diaper but way to scared to ask my parents or tell anyone about this (still don’t plan on that) so i have a feeling of not knowing how a diaper feels really upped my standards of how they were going to feel. Although, I’ve built up the courage to tell my friend about it and they found a way to get me some diapers. I think they’re attends women (im male lol) and i don’t know what it is but i just didn’t expect it to be exactly like how they felt, again, probably because I’ve raised my expectations a little too high over the years. I’ll get used to it though. The thing is, I’m super conscious about them and I really do enjoy wetting them, or i think i could, but i feel like its too hard to actually let the pee come out, as if i have to push even when i have to urgently go, when as if i have to pee with the same urgency and go on the toilet, it comes right out. Also, is there anything else you guys suggest to do with diapers? Other than just wet and soil them? My expectations weren’t EXACTLY reached as you might assume, so maybe there are different things I can do to better please myself. Thank you all so much!

I'm relatively inexperienced when it come to add-ins (baby powder, baby oil, creams) when it comes to diapers. So I'm here for some advice regarding Desitin. As you can tell from the title I am uncircumcised, so I want to know if there are any ill effect from applying Desitin under my foreskin and if it is even recommended. Thanks in advance for any advice you may have!

Greetings and salutations my fine diapered friends. I just joined DailyDiapers a few weeks age, though I've been reading ABDL stories for a long time now. I have a few story Ideas bouncing around in my head, but I keep coming up with excuses to never type anything out. The biggest excuse I make for myself is: I don't have a computer. How am I supposed to write on a cellphone? the problem is not that typing a story on a smartphone would take longer than a keyboard. I've got time. What I really need is an App that would allow me to write on my own time & when I'm finished with a chapter I can just Log in, push the click to choose files button, and easily port the chapter to my story in an instant. I also need to be able to write in bold and italics. and the format should be compatible with DailyDiapers obviously. Oh, and it has to be free. Not because I'm cheep. I have my reasons. I would also welcome any other advice from seasoned writers (or readers.)

Hi! I thought I would write this post so that I could try and help anyone who thinks they might suffer from incontinence. Do you have uncontrollable urges to urinate? Do you leak urine when you cough, sneeze or laugh? Do you constantly urinate without any control whatsoever? These are all forms of incontinence. It is estimated that there are quite literally millions of people in the United States alone under 50 years of age that suffer from some loss of bladder control at present. So, it is not just an

Hi I'm very new all this, but my boyfriend is a diaper lover and has just introduced me to the basics. He