Suzie

I am single, love sex but now wet myself constantly and on several occasions have peed whist having sex. Are there any ladies who have had the same experience and can offer any advice?

That was how things began for me. I wore diapers for pleasure for many years but gradually began to find that I couldn’t make it to the bathroom in time, especially during the night or first thing in the morning I had pee running down my legs as I attempted to make it to the bathroom.

I have been totally urine incontinent for several years and over the past few months have begun messing myself accidentally. It doesn’t happen very often but I do feel that my ability to control my bowels is diminishing to the point where as soon as I get the feeling that I need to poop I can’t hold it.

Frequently until I was in my early teens. Recently started happening again so I now wear diapers.

I now dribble constantly without even being aware of it but I do occasionally completely flood surprisingly soon after changing

I began having urge incontinence several years ago, finding that no matter how hard I tried I would start to dribble before reaching the bathroom. This gradually developed to the point where I was having frequent accidents and also wetting the bed, at which point I began wearing protection 24/7 and I now have no bladder control.

My son is in his late thirties, also wet the bed until he was in his early teens, and is now having regular accidents again.

I wet the bed constantly until I was in my early teens. After that it only happened very occasionally but I began having urge incontinence and regular nighttime accidents again in my fifties and am now totally reliant on diapers.

Woke up messy this morning and feeling the need to go again....

I have had several daytime messing accidents recently but for the first time last night woke up to find I was messing my diaper. I’d be interested to know if this happens to anyone else and is there anything I can do to prevent it happening again.

Same for me. I rarely soil my diaper but it does happen accidentally sometimes, usually when standing or walking.

Just happened again!

Hi Jilly, I had very similar problems at your age and it never occurred to me that the two could be linked, but it could well be. Like you, my periods were so heavy and completely disrupted normal life that I consulted my family doctor and was prescribed a drug, the name of which I now unfortunately can’t remember, which help enormously. Unfortunately the leaks still continued. I do hope you find a solution.

My incontinence varies considerably from one day to another and often for no obvious reason. Most days I find myself wetting a little but often whereas as other days I seem to flood constantly and as soon as I change into a dry diaper I’m soaking wet again. I wake up wet to some extent every morning but then occasionally I need to get up during the night to change as I’ve peed so much my diaper has leaked.

My bladder incontinence has developed gradually over the years to the point where I now wet myself constantly. I’ve messed myself accidentally a few times recently but do try to control it and make sure I head to the bathroom as soon as I get the first signs that I need to poop.