minachan16

crawling, I haven't seen anyone here scold you for your thoughts, but rather your actions. We all agree that dumpster diving for used baby diapers is wrong. Your thoughts are best remaining that - your thoughts. I have fantasies all the time about pooping my diapers and being changed with excessive amounts of baby wipes and baby powder, but I don't seek out other peoples' diapers, especially those of children. You are bringing your desires into a public space when you do that. That's what's wrong. I would advise writing out these desires and fantasies privately as a means of therapy. I find when I have a very strong fantasy that I cannot act out for whatever reason (for example, most of my poopy diaper fantasies because my daddy has a hard limit on those) I write them out and get them out of my head. I usually hold onto the written-out fantasy for a few days, and soon I'm bored of it and it's no longer clamoring around inside my brain. I suggest you try that.

I'm confused what any of the current "safety pin" movement has to do with ABDL. People are genuinely terrified they are going to be rounded up and locked away for who they are. This is a much bigger and serious issue than "I hope these same people will accept that we like to wear diapers". If I am understanding this correctly, that's entirely inappropriate. If I'm misunderstanding this, please clarify - if you would - what exactly you're trying to get across with this post.

Just like any aspect of your lifestyle, you're only going to find what suits you, your likes and dislikes, and how you identify yourself through experimentation. Nobody can tell you what you are or are not, only you can do that for yourself. If dressing up in frilly dresses and wearing your hair in pigtails seems like something you might want to try, then try it! You're never going to know what you like until you try these things. Take it at your own pace; there is no deadline for discovering yourself. I would say if you like diapers, that's part of the battle right there. Now ask yourself what else do you like? Do you want to try a pacifier? Do you want to try wearing really girly dresses or onesies? Do you want to try drinking out of a bottle or sippy cup? Do it! Your limits are only the ones you set for yourself!

I think it's pretty natural to go through the five stages of grief when it comes to the election cycle. I finally made it to acceptance a few days ago, realizing that neither candidate is going to be good, but that I could prioritize what I think this country needs most by voting for the candidate who will do that, while swallowing my pride on the parts of that candidate I despise. The only consolation, I would say, is really look at your state and local candidates as well. Those people will effect you more than the president will, so if you find someone in your state or local elections that you do wholly support, make sure you vote for them. Me personally, I'm going to see Trolls tonight and avoid all the election night TV coverage. I advise everyone else also watch or do something positive that makes them happy tonight and get a good night's rest. You can't do a thing to change the result after you cast your ballot so don't put yourself in a position to worry about things once you've voted.

Did it first thing this morning. Vote the way you want this country to be run! You only get this chance every 2-4 years! Make the most of it!

I have a trauma of dental care since I was a toddler and my parents tried to forcefully brush my teeth with the most awful-tasting toothpaste imaginable. It left a big mental scar so I know all about the fear of people sticking dental instruments in your mouth. If I give my dentist enough notice, they will often prescribe me a tablet of Xanax to take prior to my appointment, and that has been helping so I don't miss appointments like I used to. You may wish to ask your dentist if they can do something similar, or just give them advance notice that you have dental care anxiety. You are not alone!

The Rearz Princess, with the ABU Lavender as a close second. There is no more perfect adult baby girl diaper like the Rearz Princess!

Even if your fetish here is solely connected to the object, the association the object has with a child is going to get you in trouble one day if someone vanilla catches you. If you really do have a fascination with poopy diapers that smell like baby wipes and baby powder, I'd advise buying your own diapers, pooping them yourself, filling them up with wipes and powder, and smelling your own messes, and do it exclusively in the privacy of your own home. That way, you remove the association the object ever had to a child and it remains your own private business. Now, you do still need to be very careful because this is a good way to get yourself sick, but it sounds like you're already taking precautions when it comes to that. Stop dumpster diving though, and while you're at it, burn the photos and get rid of the folder you have of pictures of the diapers you've already collected. That's super-creepy and you will get in trouble if you keep doing these things.

Nobody has said "don't bother voting". Of course everyone should vote, but we're all sick and tired of hearing about our awful, awful choices and their race to the bottom. And if people want to vote third party, they should. That's their right.

Yay! I think we could all use a safe space to hide from election talk for the next few days. Me personally, I plan to go see Trolls Tuesday night so I can fill my head with happy things and not anything that has to do with the real world. Then I'm gonna take a sleeping pill and get LOTS of sleep for Wednesday. I have no intention of finding out who won until Wednesday morning.

It's always scary to move, so I wish you the best of luck. Don't worry about us, we'll be here when you're finished

I LOVE THEM, but then again, I'm biased for a good cloth-backed disposable that lets air flow through. I've found they hold quite a lot even if they are marketing for "daytime" use. Obviously I wouldn't try to flood them, but they hold two good wettings easily. Haven't tried #2 on them and don't care to.

Okay, so I don't know how many people saw it, but I felt it was perhaps the most tasteful ABDL documentary I've ever seen. There was very little fetishy stuff, except some stuff where Mathilda has a dungeon (which I didn't really understand was there as it didn't contribute to her story) and at the end of Robert's story where he starts living with his new daddy, and naturally that stuff was pretty cringy to watch. However, that stuff was pretty much at a minimum. The main focus was these people reconciling this part of themselves with their relationships with friends, family, and significant others. It wasn't so much a "this is what ABDL is" kind of documentary as much as it was "these people are ABDL and this is how they live their lives". I was pleasantly surprised, to say the least. This, I feel, is the exception to the sea of exploitative ABDL programming. I recommend watching it if you have the means to do so.

Preview: http://www.mtv.com/video-clips/32gj1m/true-life-sneak-peek-robert-s-little-space

Welcome to DD, Mixy who is most certainly not a baby, not at all, not even the teeny-tiniest itty-bitty bit We're happy to have you!

Ah, diaper commercials... every budding ABDL's worst nightmare to see appear on a television as a child. You want to watch, but everyone's going to think you're weird for paying attention to a commercial for baby diapers so you try to distract yourself and not pay attention but really, you want to and you want to imagine yourself as the baby and tap into that "little side" of yours just for a moment, just for yourself, but you're afraid you'll give yourself away. Anyway~ My favorite diaper commercial(s) to pop up when I was a kid back in the late 90s were the Huggies Supreme commercials with the little animated star. There were a few they made like that where there was a sad baby and then a little star would pop up and give the baby Huggies Supreme diapers and the baby would be so happy. i don't know what it was about those particular commercials but they always triggered my budding "little side" when those commercials would play. As for that ABU Space commercial above... good gracious, I hate that one. There's something so wrong about using a child (even a drawing of a child) to advertise products intended for an adult audience. I mean, ABU stands for ADULT Baby Universe. It's right there in the brand!

I stopped hearing about this after the original callout for ABDLs for the show, so I thought maybe we had stood in solidarity and said "no, we are not here to be gawked at. take your reality TV somewhere else" Alas...

Let's talk about movies, anything and all about them! Because why not! Being Halloween, I'm in the mood for scary movies as of late. Last movie I watched was The Conjuring 2. Not quite as good as the first, but I liked how the Warrens connected to the haunting in this one, and that demon nun was something else... I also saw the new Ghostbusters movie and was kind of disappointed. It wasn't that good nor was it really that bad. Honestly, I'm having trouble remembering anything that really stood out. It was the most mediocre version of a Ghostbusters remake they could have made, and as such, it doesn't warrant even a fraction of the controversy it received, whether warranted or manufactured. Also, I just saw the trailer for Hugh Jackman's last Wolverine movie, "Logan", and boy does it look like it's going to be a feels-fest!

I do the exact same thing during diaper changes with my stuffies, especially when I'm exposed. I can't handle being looked at like that.

1. Daddy 2. Positive diaper reinforcement 3. Endless sippy cups of juice 4. Baby talk 5. Disney World 6. Public diaper checks 7. Lots and lots of baby wipes! 8. Dressed like Sofia the First 9. Smelling heavily of baby powder 10. Lots of embarrassing pictures taken

On the off chance you are not a troll, what real-life issues do you have that require you to find someone to play mommy to you who already has disposable diapers in your size, an adult-sized highchair and an adult-sized crib in your size? You do realize that adult-sized highchairs and cribs are very rare and the people that have them usually either made them for themselves, commissioned their construction for themselves, or own a for-pay nursery, right? I don't mean to burst your bubble here, but you're looking for a pig with wings. It's not going to happen unless you take off the rose-colored glasses. There are mommies out there, and people who will play mommy for you, but you usually have to get to know them first before they are comfortable offering you that service, and most mommies that aren't pay mommies don't have all the fancy gear you want them to have. Normally as an ABDL, you supply your own diapers and gear if you want to indulge in "little space". And as for that "last shot" bit? Don't be so melodramatic. You're 34. Unless you have a terminal medical condition, you will have more shots.