Cloth Diapers & Panties

Hey I'm looking to get back interesting roleplaying on here and would like to play a little kid who is about 9 and starts to have potty accidents for whatever reason. You would hopefully play his mommy or daddy.

@Slomo: While this may be correct in some states,  it is NOT true in ALL states.  The ballot / voting process is controlled by each individual state’s laws per the federal constitution.  I can’t comment further without giving away more details on where I am or have been located within the US. I believe a moderate CAN win a party’s primary at any level. Some states, and the District of Columbia, have alternate ways of handling primary voting relative to who shows up on the second round, general election ballot. One example is Washington D.C. has a ranked voting ballot. I admit that states that have these alternate ways of handling primaries, get forced into a change for the presidential primary vote.

I just took a closer look at these dual-balloon Foley catheters: turns out that they only have drainage holes in the sides between the balloons, not the tip (where you need it if it's not going into the actual bladder). And if you'll have to make your own hole there, you may as well start with a conventional Foley catheter (which is also 1/10 the price).

I'd try controlling,your washroom privileges...(Or the lack there of), and tell you when you can change and wear diapers(safely of course)  

You are coming across an issue based on the way the diapers/nappies are packed. Nappies / diapers are over compressed to fit into as small a packing as possible. This causes multiple issues for the user which include padding breaking into bits where there is space in the nappy/diaper without padding. As a result, when they get wet (or if they are already wet) urine can leak into the space without padding and either leak out the leg gathers while standing/walking. Also urine tends to disolve the seal between the plastic backing and the backing of the diaper which allows the padding to work its way out at the edges. When one soils the diaper, the strength of the diaper is now limited to the thickness of the plastic backing, which can tear. The solution is to open out the nappy/diaper fully - ie open it out flat and roll it front to back and then side to side. This tends to 'fluff up' a nappy/diaper as it allow the padding to expand a little. Next is to leave the nappy/diaper open backwards on a hanger for a few days - then the padding can expand back to its designed thickness. Rather than fold the nappy/diaper over the centre of a hanger, it would be better to use clothes pegs, and hang the nappy/diaper from the end plastic (where there is no padding). Even baby nappies/diapers are over compressed, so care givers unpack them from the original bag and place them on shelves / in drawers within a changing table. This is done without thinking and it is these expanded nappies/diapers that the parents change their baby into before bed and first time in the morning. During the day, the nappies/diapers are taken from a changing bag where they have been for the past few days. It is the experienced care takers that figure this out after dealing with leaking nappy/diapers and a fussy child. This concept of taking nappies/diapers from the bag and being placed in a drawer / shelf is used in day care centres etc. where a the child taker dropping the baby off does not leave a full unopened pack of nappies/diapers, but the add 2-3 nappies/diapers that the child might use.   After all, the padding plus the SAP only works where there is time for the urine to absorb... and having air inbetween the padding allows urine to be absorbed fully and the nappy/diaper to do its job. It seems that in your job, you walk most of the time - which breaks the padding. The more padding in a nappy/diaper, the more likely it is to break the padding and create the clumping problem. At times, even with the best intention, my own nappy/diaper will break the padding between the rear and the centre so when I soil the nappy/diaper, the soiling goes into the breakage point and the nappy/diaper is likely to split and leak poop. The only 100% solution to this is using cloth nappies/diapers. This raises the issue of absorbancy level, where a cloth nappy/diaper needs multiple layers to increase absorbancy. Hemp and/or bamboo is the most absorbant, where multiple layers can be thin, but for comfort, one always needs something like terry-cloth or similar closest to the skin. Also, with cloth nappies/diapers, there is the addition of plastic pants as cloth has the re-wet issue - when one sits on cloth, the urine can be squashed out, and without decent plastic pants, it means wet seats. To protect the skin, nappy/diaper liners are used, but can be difficult to obtain in adult sizes. A comprimise is to take a prior wet disposable nappy/diaper, shake out the padding so it is empty, and replace the padding with multi-layers of hemp or bamboo cloth. If you are using nappies/diapers that have the two part tapes (i.e. one that stickes to the plastic (usually blue) and one that sticks to the blue (usually white) where on removal of the nappy/diaper, only the white tape is peeled back, that can work as you are affixing the white tape back on the blue backing. However, if your nappies/diapers have only one tape that tear the backing on removal OR velcro type cloth backed disposable nappies/diapers - they are designed for single use only. You may have to tie the nappy/diaper on at the hips similar to the old tie on plastic pants. Another option is to get one of those 'all in one' cloth nappies/diapers - that include the backing. Look for one that is as thin as possible and that can take inserts, and place 2-3 hemp or bamboo inserts into it. That might give you the protection you require while in work. These are a little more bulky than disposable nappies/diapers, but when one compares to the thickness of a Megamax, the multi-layer cloth nappy/diaper is thinner. You may want the bulk, so why not use the flat fold or fitted cloth diapers. Matching bulk for bulk, the cloth nappy/diaper works better and usually faster than a disposable. After all, the disposable is a cloth nappy/diaper that is compromised for the convenience of the care giver. The advertising blurb of 'better' and all it variations are all supposed to be selling points for disposables, where over time, each have been disproved. The only real benifit of a disposable compared to cloth is that a disposable does not need to be washed.  The ultimate choice is yours :- Do you want the bulk and the protection > then select multi-layer cloth. Do you not want the bulk > then select disposables, but the thicker they are, the less able they are to stay together to handle a mobile wearer. If it is for the longevity - not having to change for a term > then select cloth as cloth always beats disosables in absorbancy and longevity Cloth does not fall apart while moving, disposable padding does, and the more compacted and/or thick it is, the more it will fall apart. A disposable nappy/diaper was originally invented as a way to change a baby when out, where one would not need to carry soiled cloth home - Mills from P&G invented it, and it was a square sheet of padding covered by nappy/diaper liner material on both sides. It was pin on and required plastic pants. Next generation included the plastic backing, where it took multiple design iterations to get the tape, the hour glass shape and the elastic legs and then the inner leg guards. When accounts took over design, padding was located to the inner core and removed from the sides, which means that the nappy/diaper leaks when a baby lies on its side. To address that issue, absorbancy was increased with SAP plus others, which means that the baby nappy/diaper has capacity way above what is required by the wearer, and where the laws of physics dictate that if the nappy/diaper is that full, the weight of the fluid is heavier than the tensile strength of the fixings. Baby nappy/diaper fitting means that on a baby, the nappy/diaper goes from the belly button to almost below the knee. This gives the nappy/diaper the space to absorb wetness. An adult nappy/diaper is more form fitting which defeats that space, so we are dependent on the space between the top layer and the padding - i.e. the air space. A cloth nappy/diaper has this space between absorbant parts of the cloth made into the weave. The original name for the pseudoname diaper was nased on the name for the weave pattern for cloth, and not the name of the item. This grew in USA due to the multiple languages of imigrants purchasing bolts of cloth from trading posts, where care givers knew diaper as the weave, and would order lengths of diaper. The change from noun to verb (from diaper being an item (i.e. being an item fixed to a baby to contain waste) to diaper being an action - (i.e. diaper a child) is probably based on the usage being associated with the item where the language is broken i.e. the phase 'change diaper of childs name' to 'diaper childs name'  The name nappy came from the behaviour of French aristrocrats to cover the genitalia of their infant children when in view with a piece of cloth as a way to protect the child's modesty. It was some English elite that used the serviette or table napkin as mimic of the French aristocrats... and anglisied and infantilised the napkin name as nap-nap and then later, nappy. It is strange, considering the history of the word nappy and diaper, that in USA with such many imigrants, that the diaper name stuck. Even the native tribe people used to wrap the genitalia of their infants in leaves etc as a way to contain the young childs waste... but that was more to do with the native tribe's connection with nature, where the leaves would be discarded and buried. The whole concept was so the tribe, when moving from site to site, would not leave traces for others to track them, where an infant leaving trail of urine every few minutes would be easy to track. In some places across the world, an infants genitalia is not wrapped, and is trained by their care giver to void on command OR to fuss when they require to void. Science refer to this as 'Elimination Communication',. This very process proves that the infants / babies that are placed in nappies / diapers are being trained to use the nappy / diaper. From a pschycological perspective, this is setting up the child for trauma that could be avoided. The trauma is the shock of learning that the very people that the child implicitly trusted lied and misled the child. We call this toilet training, and it is a form of child abuse for the benifit of the parent / care giver. The adult that do that to their own children are lucky enough that the child is too young to remember the details of toilet training, and in my humble opinion, it is the mind rejecting this trauma that is the source of many ABDLs in the world. This trauma, has been proven to be the root of doubt in ones mind, where our ability to accept and learn at the same speed as an infantile mind is severely curtailed. You are coming across an issue based on the way the diapers/nappies are packed. Nappies / diapers are over compressed to fit into as small a packing as possible. This causes multiple issues for the user which include padding breaking into bits where there is space in the nappy/diaper without padding. As a result, when they get wet (or if they are already wet) urine can leak into the space without padding and either leak out the leg gathers while standing/walking. Also urine tends to disolve the seal between the plastic backing and the backing of the diaper which allows the padding to work its way out at the edges. When one soils the diaper, the strength of the diaper is now limited to the thickness of the plastic backing, which can tear. The solution is to open out the nappy/diaper fully - ie open it out flat and roll it front to back and then side to side. This tends to 'fluff up' a nappy/diaper as it allow the padding to expand a little. Next is to leave the nappy/diaper open backwards on a hanger for a few days - then the padding can expand back to its designed thickness. Rather than fold the nappy/diaper over the centre of a hanger, it would be better to use clothes pegs, and hang the nappy/diaper from the end plastic (where there is no padding). Even baby nappies/diapers are over compressed, so care givers unpack them from the original bag and place them on shelves / in drawers within a changing table. This is done without thinking and it is these expanded nappies/diapers that the parents change their baby into before bed and first time in the morning. During the day, the nappies/diapers are taken from a changing bag where they have been for the past few days. It is the experienced care takers that figure this out after dealing with leaking nappy/diapers and a fussy child. This concept of taking nappies/diapers from the bag and being placed in a drawer / shelf is used in day care centres etc. where a the child taker dropping the baby off does not leave a full unopened pack of nappies/diapers, but the add 2-3 nappies/diapers that the child might use.   After all, the padding plus the SAP only works where there is time for the urine to absorb... and having air inbetween the padding allows urine to be absorbed fully and the nappy/diaper to do its job. It seems that in your job, you walk most of the time - which breaks the padding. The more padding in a nappy/diaper, the more likely it is to break the padding and create the clumping problem. At times, even with the best intention, my own nappy/diaper will break the padding between the rear and the centre so when I soil the nappy/diaper, the soiling goes into the breakage point and the nappy/diaper is likely to split and leak poop. The only 100% solution to this is using cloth nappies/diapers. This raises the issue of absorbancy level, where a cloth nappy/diaper needs multiple layers to increase absorbancy. Hemp and/or bamboo is the most absorbant, where multiple layers can be thin, but for comfort, one always needs something like terry-cloth or similar closest to the skin. Also, with cloth nappies/diapers, there is the addition of plastic pants as cloth has the re-wet issue - when one sits on cloth, the urine can be squashed out, and without decent plastic pants, it means wet seats. To protect the skin, nappy/diaper liners are used, but can be difficult to obtain in adult sizes. A comprimise is to take a prior wet disposable nappy/diaper, shake out the padding so it is empty, and replace the padding with multi-layers of hemp or bamboo cloth. If you are using nappies/diapers that have the two part tapes (i.e. one that stickes to the plastic (usually blue) and one that sticks to the blue (usually white) where on removal of the nappy/diaper, only the white tape is peeled back, that can work as you are affixing the white tape back on the blue backing. However, if your nappies/diapers have only one tape that tear the backing on removal OR velcro type cloth backed disposable nappies/diapers - they are designed for single use only. You may have to tie the nappy/diaper on at the hips similar to the old tie on plastic pants. Another option is to get one of those 'all in one' cloth nappies/diapers - that include the backing. Look for one that is as thin as possible and that can take inserts, and place 2-3 hemp or bamboo inserts into it. That might give you the protection you require while in work. These are a little more bulky than disposable nappies/diapers, but when one compares to the thickness of a Megamax, the multi-layer cloth nappy/diaper is thinner. You may want the bulk, so why not use the flat fold or fitted cloth diapers. Matching bulk for bulk, the cloth nappy/diaper works better and usually faster than a disposable. After all, the disposable is a cloth nappy/diaper that is compromised for the convenience of the care giver. The advertising blurb of 'better' and all it variations are all supposed to be selling points for disposables, where over time, each have been disproved. The only real benifit of a disposable compared to cloth is that a disposable does not need to be washed.  The ultimate choice is yours :- Do you want the bulk and the protection > then select multi-layer cloth. Do you not want the bulk > then select disposables, but the thicker they are, the less able they are to stay together to handle a mobile wearer. If it is for the longevity - not having to change for a term > then select cloth as cloth always beats disosables in absorbancy and longevity Cloth does not fall apart while moving, disposable padding does, and the more compacted and/or thick it is, the more it will fall apart. A disposable nappy/diaper was originally invented as a way to change a baby when out, where one would not need to carry soiled cloth home - Mills from P&G invented it, and it was a square sheet of padding covered by nappy/diaper liner material on both sides. It was pin on and required plastic pants. Next generation included the plastic backing, where it took multiple design iterations to get the tape, the hour glass shape and the elastic legs and then the inner leg guards. When accounts took over design, padding was located to the inner core and removed from the sides, which means that the nappy/diaper leaks when a baby lies on its side. To address that issue, absorbancy was increased with SAP plus others, which means that the baby nappy/diaper has capacity way above what is required by the wearer, and where the laws of physics dictate that if the nappy/diaper is that full, the weight of the fluid is heavier than the tensile strength of the fixings. Baby nappy/diaper fitting means that on a baby, the nappy/diaper goes from the belly button to almost below the knee. This gives the nappy/diaper the space to absorb wetness. An adult nappy/diaper is more form fitting which defeats that space, so we are dependent on the space between the top layer and the padding - i.e. the air space. A cloth nappy/diaper has this space between absorbant parts of the cloth made into the weave. The original name for the pseudoname diaper was nased on the name for the weave pattern for cloth, and not the name of the item. This grew in USA due to the multiple languages of imigrants purchasing bolts of cloth from trading posts, where care givers knew diaper as the weave, and would order lengths of diaper. The change from noun to verb (from diaper being an item (i.e. being an item fixed to a baby to contain waste) to diaper being an action - (i.e. diaper a child) is probably based on the usage being associated with the item where the language is broken i.e. the phase 'change diaper of childs name' to 'diaper childs name'  The name nappy came from the behaviour of French aristrocrats to cover the genitalia of their infant children when in view with a piece of cloth as a way to protect the child's modesty. It was some English elite that used the serviette or table napkin as mimic of the French aristocrats... and anglisied and infantilised the napkin name as nap-nap and then later, nappy. It is strange, considering the history of the word nappy and diaper, that in USA with such many imigrants, that the diaper name stuck. Even the native tribe people used to wrap the genitalia of their infants in leaves etc as a way to contain the young childs waste... but that was more to do with the native tribe's connection with nature, where the leaves would be discarded and buried. The whole concept was so the tribe, when moving from site to site, would not leave traces for others to track them, where an infant leaving trail of urine every few minutes would be easy to track. In some places across the world, an infants genitalia is not wrapped, and is trained by their care giver to void on command OR to fuss when they require to void. Science refer to this as 'Elimination Communication',. This very process proves that the infants / babies that are placed in nappies / diapers are being trained to use the nappy / diaper. From a pschycological perspective, this is setting up the child for trauma that could be avoided. The trauma is the shock of learning that the very people that the child implicitly trusted lied and misled the child. We call this toilet training, and it is a form of child abuse for the benifit of the parent / care giver. The adult that do that to their own children are lucky enough that the child is too young to remember the details of toilet training, and in my humble opinion, it is the mind rejecting this trauma that is the source of many ABDLs in the world. This trauma, has been proven to be the root of doubt in ones mind, where our ability to accept and learn at the same speed as an infantile mind is severely curtailed.