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@ahappydl I very rarely read any of Slomo's posts, and usually refrain from commenting as in my humble opinion, he is so misinformed to be comical and pityful. The crazy thing is that this person is now going to disrail this thread and prove my point. FACT Diapers get wet and leak... and when is over loading / flooding them, there is very little one can do to prevent it... but babies diapers are changed enough times to prevent it. It was what was used to toilet train you - a fear that you would leak, be cold and uncomfortable - and in stark opposite to what you were told from birth. POINTS OF FACT (prior to toilet training) A baby does not have the logical mind to connect historic action with consequenses unless taught. A baby does not associate it pushing for relief to a bodys need / whim to its diaper getting full. A baby does not see its own diaper as different A baby does not link a full leaking cold uncomfortable diaper to itself sating an urge earlier. A baby does not care about the state of its diapers - it is focused on what it is doing, not what it is wearing. A baby, without wearing a diaper, will wet and mess on/in whatever it is, and think nothing of it. (during - post toilet training) A child is fearful of the consequences of wet / messy pants / bed / floor etc. A child is learning / aware of the link between acting to sate the voiding need, voiding, and the associated mess. The training program is NOT NOT NOT about avoiding leaks. That belief is all about the toilet training process, and what focused your mind to your voiding needs and controlling them to be placed in a potty. The training program is all about removing that level of fear in your mind, where when you leak, and there will be pleanty of times that occurs, it is not only expected, it is what you are to do - IGNORE THE LEAKS COMPLETELY. The program suggests added protection on chairs and bed, so that the leaks will be nothing to cause a problem. The mind, when it gets to the stage where it ignores the leaks since there is NOTHING it can do to prevent it AND, most importanly, nothing will be harmed / destroyed.... will then accept that there is no reason for the fear it is attempting to protect you from. When you get to the reflex voiding stage, one major result is that your voiding quanties will be reduced i.e. bladder voiding at 50-75ml every 30-45 minutes. These sizes means that a normal adult disposable diaper of 1000ml capacity can last you easily 8+ hours. Because the quantity voiding is so small, the diaper has the time to lock away the wetness where leaks get rarer and rarer. The pooping is as you eat / shortly afterwards, therefore that quantity is decreased. This all means that :- concering yourself / focusing on / adjusting your behaviour to prevent leak is COUNTER PRODUCTIVE to your goal. You want to remove the brain interaction completely from the voiding process so it can revert to become autonomic - triggered by the salt ions as urine enters the bladder, and bowel voiding without retaining anything in the bowels - by the anal sphincter and bowels pulsing with the perastatic action of the lower intestine. the other poster is again attempting to misinform people and contradict a proven process based on his opinions, lack of knowledege, and what is normally classed as arrogance, but is actually ignorance. Autonomic voiding / letting the body fully relax and void as it needs to is all about convincing the mind and not about the body. The body will adapt without a problem. -
Hello hello! 20yo from southern US. Pretty new to abdl scene, I’ve liked diapers for as long as I can remember, and recently found out about abdl, and agere! Ive met some really cool people so far, so decided to interact with, and learn more about this community! (And maybe make some friends). Glad to meet ya’ll! -Kauko -
By diapered_jeff48801 · Posted
I wonder if you have IBS-D. I have IBS-C so like the opposite problem, but diet definitely does help. -
By Personalias · Posted
“Mommy,” you whine pathetically up at her from the carpet. “Yes, baby?” “I need a day off.” “From what, sweetie?” “From bein’ a baby.” Mommy chuckles as if you’ve just said something very funny. “But baby, you can’t have a day off. Who else would be my baby for me if you weren’t here to do it?” Your face sinks. You really really need this day off. You’re mentally about to collapse from the exhaustion of it all. Day in and day out. You don’t hate being a baby. You just need to be yourself. “But I don’t waanna,” you start to moan. “I hate bein’ a baby!” Mommy leans over and cups your chin. “But you’re so good at it, baby!” You can’t tell if she’s trying to tease you or cheer you up. Both? Probably both. It is Mommy, after all. You feel you must plead your case. “But I don’t wanna complain and tell you that I’m a big kid!” Mommy blinks. “You don’t have to, sweetie.” “Or talk about how I’m potty trained right as you’re checking and changing my diaper.” She chuckles. “You don’t have to do that, either.” Is this a trick? “Or tell you my age again and again so that you can tell me that I’m still too little to grow up.” “That’s fine.” Mommy smirks. What’s so funny about this?! “And I’m tired of throwing tantrums every time you put me down for a nap,” you say. “Or pretending that I don’t like cartoons. Or that I’m too mature to play with baby toys. Or tryin’ ta run away when you’re not looking. I just want a day off from all that.” “Honeyyyyyyy,” the sound sound positively drips from Mommy’s lips. “None of that is your job, either.” Now you blink. “It isn’t?” “No!” she laughs. “It’s not. You don’t have to do any of those things if you’re a baby. Those things you do every day are your choice. Not mine, silly!” “So I can have a day off?” Your eyes glisten with hope. You fold your hands together as if in prayer. “I don’t have to fight it?” Mommy gives you a kiss on your forehead. “You absolutely don’t have to fight it. Just relax today. Enjoy yourself.” “Really?!” You screech. “I can?” Mommy draws you into a hug and rubs your back. “Absolutely. If anything you’d be giving me the day off, sweetie. You’d be helping me. Mommies need their rest, too.” You like the idea of helping Mommy. It makes taking a day off seem easier to you. “Buuuuut….I don’t have to give it all up, forever, right?” You ask. “Like, I can start talking about how I’m really a grown up adult…tomorrow, right?” Mommy shakes her head but she’s smiling. “If you must, baby. If you must.” “I must!” You throw your hands up to the ceiling. Then you remember yourself. “Starting tomorrow!” Mommy sighs and checks your diaper. “Alright kiddo. Go play. You’re just a little wet. Go play.” “YAAAAAAY!” You toddle back to your nursery, ecstatic for the truce you’ve just negotiated. “Better one day off than nothing at all,” you hear Mommy muse behind you. “Might as well enjoy it while I can.” End -
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