Wanted to ask about diaper checking. Recently, my mommy has been keeping me in diapers during the day more frequently. I'm typically in thick cloth diapers and plastic panties. One of the things we are trying is incorporating more diaper checks into the scene. Now, as a wearer, I'm definitely quite adept at knowing the state of the diaper, but we are also trying to avoid me leading in this sort of way.
So far, it has been somewhat difficult for her to ascertain just how wet my diaper is, and i'm wondering about how others perform diaper checks, particularly on cloth. She has tried the squeeze, the reach into the waist both front and back. But seems to always think my diaper has much more room.