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Has anyone had to pee their diaper in a crowded place before? If so how was the experience and did anyone notice you? 

 

I wanna wear diapers in public but I'm afraid too because I dont wanna be exposed! The only thing I do is wear my diapers around my house but that's about it! 

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I agree!  When diapered I pee.  I've been face to face with a salesman at a Sears store when in my 20's wetting my diaper as I was buying a VCR (that's how long ago it was).  He never had a clue I was wearing diapers, let alone wetting myself a foot away.  I go Christmas shopping in a Betterdry diaper at the stores and malls wetting my diaper under my jeans.  Last summer I took a trip to Wisconsin Dells and wore Abena L4 and Betterdry diapers under my short shorts the whole time and no one knew.  I was seated on the boats next to people so tight I could hardly move.  I went to the casino sitting next to people while playing the slots in my shorts and thick diaper.  Ate breakfast and dinner in coffee shops and restaraunts in diapers and shorts wetting as need be.  No one knew.

People just don't notice you unless you do things to draw attention to yourself like wearing wierd clothing or acting up and not acting like a regular normal person.  People are wrapped up in their own world and thoughts and the last thing they would think about is the person standing right next to them is wearing diapers and peeing themselves!

At first you are nervous wearing and wetting out in public.  The more you do it and find out no one notices or cares, the more comfortable you become, sometimes to the point where some people actually hope someone does notice and say something to them! 

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Peeing infront of people becomes a non issue after a while its just something you get use to when you deal with diapers and IC issues.  If you wear a diaper you can trust and pull pants as a just incase no one will notice as long as you don't react to the accident just let it happen snd carry on with your conversation or your task at hand. 

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Whenever I take Mom shopping, I usualy wear diapers and waterproof pants (cloth) because she makes a career out of shopping and I don't like to stop and find a restroom. No issues--i need to pee and I do. Then I change when I get home. Nobody notices.

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A diaper wetting in public should be a complete non-event.  I never think about it anymore.  Just don't mess a diaper in public and expect to get away with it ?

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2 hours ago, oznl said:

A diaper wetting in public should be a complete non-event.  I never think about it anymore.  Just don't mess a diaper in public and expect to get away with it ?

If my diaper is dry, I don't even notice.  But I do if I'm concerned about failure, I do pay attention.

I play golf with the same 3 men almost every single weekend, and have worn a diaper on those rounds for about 5 years.  I've lost track how many times I've peed in my diaper around them.  They are friends, so I'd have to explain.  But I don't test my diaper's capacity around them.

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Wetting in public will almost never be noticed. I have done it many times. That said it will be noticed if one makes a big scene out of it. For the most part though it's just wet your diaper and get on with it.

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Yup, I got over this pretty quickly. Early in my "career", I used to worry that someone would read it on my face, but once I got used to wearing diapers everywhere, all the time, it became a non-issue. I don't think much about wetting, it doesn't happen by itself (or very infrequently, anyway), but, the feedback loop has been abbreviated to the point where a "permission for emission" request is always granted, almost like I don't think about yawning, for example. It doesn't happen entirely involuntarily, but, I don't plan it out, either. Nobody has ever noticed anything. It's not loud and, assuming you're wearing the right product the right way, there will be no visual indication it is happening, aside from the slow expansion of your underpants, which advances at a pace below the motion detection threshold of the average human eye. 

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Wear a lot myself in public without the need to just for my own fun and risk! Have no problem any time I had a little urge I just let it flow! 
 

few weeks back I wore to a football game (soccer to alot if you) no where to change there so had to calm down a bit before, we’ll you know! No one around knows an diffrent. Just me lol 

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Wetting my diaper in public and even at work has never been an issue for me. No one knows, only one benign comment was made as I wet my diaper while at work. I had momentary glassy stare as I wet and enjoyed the warmth spreading in my diaper and a colleague asked if I was ok, to which I responded and apologized that I was thinking about something. There was once a Peanuts cartoon that went something like this: "Doing a good job is like wetting black pants, it gives you a nice warm feeling and nobody notices."  Same with a diaper.

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Been wearing diapers so much because I'm an adult baby, I wet and mess no matter where I am. It doesn't faze me or bother me if I poop, pee in my diapers whenever I am in public.

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I have wet in public before without a problem. I also don't think anybody has ever spotted me wearing a diaper. I think that the only time wetting a diaper might expose you, is when it's very full and or leaking or your not wearing clothes that properly cover up your diaper.

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@Sailor Snow

18 hours ago, Sailor Snow said:

I have wet in public before without a problem. I also don't think anybody has ever spotted me wearing a diaper. I think that the only time wetting a diaper might expose you, is when it's very full and or leaking or your not wearing clothes that properly cover up your diaper.

I have both wet and messed in public. I don’t like to do the number two in public unless it’s absolutely necessary, but I have peed my diaper while doing something or working at my desk, or being out somewhere. No one else knows the difference if you are properly attired as you said. Whenever you go out, you should be properly set if your intention is to mess your diaper or to wet it, because you don’t know what will happen should you spring a leak, other than the fact that they’ll be a huge mess, or someone will be able to tell that you’ve done the deed because they can either see it or smell it!

Brian

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7 hours ago, ~Brian~ said:

@Sailor Snow

I have both wet and messed in public. I don’t like to do the number two in public unless it’s absolutely necessary, but I have peed my diaper while doing something or working at my desk, or being out somewhere. No one else knows the difference if you are properly attired as you said. Whenever you go out, you should be properly set if your intention is to mess your diaper or to wet it, because you don’t know what will happen should you spring a week, other than the fact that they’ll be a huge mess, or someone will be able to tell that you’ve done the deed because they can either see it or smell it!

Brian

I'm like that as well. I wet and mess in my diapers no matter where I am. Even when I am out of the house as well.

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I had to walk 5 minutes from home with out a diaper this is the result 

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hope I don’t have to do that again 

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19 minutes ago, Cmp said:

I had to walk 5 minutes from home with out a diaper this is the result. hope I don’t have to do that again.

Yeah, it's best to try to avoid that situation whenever possible. but sometimes that can't be helped, and that's really a bummer.???☹️??

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3 hours ago, BabySpiderBoy said:

Yeah, it's best to try to avoid that situation whenever possible. but sometimes that can't be helped, and that's really a bummer.???☹️??

And that's why I am permanently kept in diapers and I am never ever allowed out of diapers. I'm certainly not even allowed to wear adult underwear as well.

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so am I permanently in diapers

 I was walking home  and my diaper was so full it exploded so I had to take a off

 

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2 hours ago, Cmp said:

so am I permanently in diapers

 I was walking home  and my diaper was so full it exploded so I had to take a off

 

And that's what led to that?!????? Then you need to get some stronger diapies my friend.? If I were you I'd try northshore diapers. Those are god tire level! Also losing some weight may help, Just because by that point it's easier for the diaper to fit your body shape and get more capacity out of it, versus if you didn't do that.???♥️?♥️☺️♥️????

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Or make sure that I change before I walk home from my friends 

that or don’t have a lot of adult drinks like I did that night 

every diaper has it’s limits I just maxed out and more 

lucky it doesn’t happen a lot but it’s annoying when it happens pat off my autism I get  distracted easily yes even down to changing my diaper 

I have to do it right away I try to focus on that task alone not easy to do when you have had a drink or two

 

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I tried, but I found that I have  to make an extra effort to do it and have to stop and stand still.  Oddly, in the morning at home in the kitchen walking to the fridge, I can wet.  If I hear water or other movement, no problem.  Maybe because I have jeans on outside and not used to wetting them?

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On 2/5/2022 at 10:51 AM, ToriPoponi1994 said:

Has anyone had to pee their diaper in a crowded place before? If so how was the experience and did anyone notice you? 

 

I wanna wear diapers in public but I'm afraid too because I dont wanna be exposed! The only thing I do is wear my diapers around my house but that's about it! 

I would advise you to just start wearing every now and again when you go out to take a walk or do errands like grocery shopping.  You'll have a shopping cart to help conceal you and any crinkle your diaper makes.

Don't focus on having to wet your diaper until you feel comfortable just wearing it out of the house.  After a few times of realizing that no one is looking to see if you are wearing a diaper, you will become more comfortable and then you can try wetting it if needed.

Movies are a great place to start wetting in public because you are seated most of the time, its dark, you are there for +/- 2 hours  and if you buy the super-sized beverage, you won't have to miss the good scene when its time to "GO."

Have fun with it.  I like to stroll through the Baby Dept. in Walmart when I wear/wet in public.

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