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  • Birthday 09/03/1969

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  1. Many of us have distinct memories when we were learned that we weren't the only ones who wanted to wear a diaper. Well, I had another one of those moments today today when I watched a You Tube video from a comedian. Aside from diapers, I'm a huge spreadsheet nerd. I have multiple spreadsheets, including a golf spreadsheet, college football rankings, and other things that serve no other purpose other than it's my form of relaxation. I'm sure there are other hobbies, or actiivities that we each enjoy that we think we are the only ones who enjoy them., but watching the routne brought back memories of that one afternoon when I looked up adult daipers on the internet.
  2. ABDL Or Medical Brand Diapers On Flight

    I travel enough that I got a TSA Pre-clearance, which means that I rarely go through the scanners anymore. When I do go through the scanner, my right shoulder always gets flagged, which is not related to any padding. But the pat-down is fairly routine and not a big deal.
  3. ABDL Or Medical Brand Diapers On Flight

    I typically wear a Pull Up style diaper. I don't have a full need, but tend to avoid using the bathrooms on the plane. The last time I flew from Hawaii and leaked a small bit. Nobody else noticed, but I may go to a diaper on longer flights. I have slight AB tendencies, but an AB decorated diaper isn't of high interest. I prefer the simple white diapers that are good quality.
  4. Banned members

    I think the sexual innuendo in television shows just how pre-occupied we are with the idea that sex is naughty, and therefore referring to it in an obscure way is funny. Truthfully, if done well it is. It's not really fair to place blame for society's ills on any of it. Maybe there is a relationship, but it's likely not the cause of terrible acts whether violence-related, or sexual harassment. The simple fact remains that the exposure of a nipple or use of 7 words will almost certainly get a movie an 'R' rating, while PG and PG-13 movies can be extremely violent. As a society, we don't have a healthy on sex in general, and maybe if we did- we could avoid some of the issues we have with respect, objectifying a woman, and treating sex as a conquest. In reality, that conversation takes us down a rabbit hole which doesn't pertain to a site like this being open to minors. It doesn't matter what the subject is, there are adults discussing adult subjects. Creating a place where adults and children could interact and not face a serious risk for either group is a nightmare, and there isn't a lot to be gained from that risk.
  5. Banned members

    I love your point. In my opinion, we (society) have created a strange obsession as sex being naughty and evil while blowing the heads off of people, or slicing them up is fine. Some of the PG-13 movies are extremely violent, meanwhile, the mere exposure of a nipple will end up getting an R-rating. My understanding is that the mere utterance of a word that rhymes with Firetruck will get an R rating as well. I don't understand why we completely disregard violence but treat sex as though it's the ultimate taboo. Unfortunately, I don't know if it coincides with letting minors on to an adult site like this.. Part of it there is the possibility for an adult to exploit a minor, and that's not right. There is also the possibility of a minor exploiting an adult because they understand that they are not fully culpable for their actions.
  6. Miley Cyrus SNL

    The more I've seen from Miley Cyrus, the more I think this is much more than just a show. This isn't like somebody seeing something that maybe looks like a diaper and selecting from there. There are multiple incidents that indicate some knowledge fo the AB community. Using the more likely than not standard, I would vote "Yes' she is. It doesn't matter, because barring a full public confession, there will always be posters thinking it's a show. Even if there were a public display and admission, some would say she is doing it for the attention. There will also be those of us who think she is 100% adult baby. Maybe having a celebrity into this as well validates it in some strange way, so it's important that we see her as an ABDL. Obviously, nobody would know for certain unless they know her personally and she has shared it. And she has shared this, I would hope they would have the good sense to keep it to themselves. This debate will go on.
  7. Diapers and emotions

    My desires for diapers date from my potty training days. I remember being in diapers until I was four, and still having issues up until I was nearly five, but I don't remember having accidents after i was potty trained. I remember one when I was five, but I didn't wet bed or have accidents after I started kindergarten. My parents were supportive and valued respect. My dad and mom not only loved each other, but they respected each other. They also showed me respect and expected me to give it back. As a result, I had a comfortable childhood. There is absolutely no way I could accuse my parents of being abusive in any way. I can't even say they were afraid to let me grow up, since I was allowed to do things independently (like go to movies) before my 12th birthday. The desire was also there, but really manifested itself when I was nearing adulthood, especially after my 18th birthday. My mom passed away when I was 16, and that was a huge shock to my life. I literally went from a little child to a man the moment my mom died. And I mean that by saying, I went from my parents being responsible for me, to my dad just being an advisor to my life. My emotional connection to diapers is mostly a comfort to me. I'm a fully functioning adult who enjoys an independent life. I like social settings,, but value the times that I get to spend alone. I find diapers allow me to cope with everyday life. Since my 40th birthday, I've come to accept this part of my life. I couldn't imagine going without diapers, but they in no way control me.
  8. We obviously aren't seeing eye to eye on this. I apologize for my part, and let's move on.
  9. It may not have been intentional, but you certainly ended up being rude. You never accepted that I wasn't talking specifically about autism, and it was more about behavior, and have unwilling to change your perception- no matter how many ways that I told you. To be blunt, your initial assumption that I implied everybody had autism was almost the exact opposite of what I really said. No matter how I hard I've tried to explain that misconception to you haven't let your initial assumption go. So, no I'm not implying that everybody has autism, and I've never had anybody else who I shared this theory with has ever thought that. In fact, the theory has nothing to do with autism. The theory is that the polar opposite of an autistic person is not the normal functioning person, and those people on that side (I would use spectrum- but your assumptions won't allow me to use) also have difficulty functioning as a social being. In no way does that imply that everybody has autism, and you can either accept my explanation or let it go.
  10. I really wish you were able to express yourself a little better because it can be a fascinating conversation, but given that you just told me to go see a psychiatrist puts an end to this part of the conversation. Thanks for your contribution, but I respectfully disagree with your analysis.
  11. Do you realize that it has nothing to do with diagnosing? It is more about finding an understanding what is happening in all of our brains, and not just those that could be considered autistic.
  12. It's not worth getting into a professional argument but how does that developmental disorder manifest itself? And, we really don't have much of an understanding of autism at all in general, it The big idea is that if there are autistic people, there are people who are exactly opposite. However, that doesn't mean everything is super-easy for them either. They have social factors that manifest themselves in a variety of mental health issues. I've tried to explain that I'm looking at this with a broader stroke, and the spectrum that I'm talking about is much broader than the one you want to look at. At this point, it appears to be a choice and you're more concerned with arguing with me than actually trying to understand the hypothesis. Fine, it's not worth trying to convince you if you don't want to understand what I"m talking about in the first place. It's just a hypothesis that I use to help me get a better understanding of the issues that people face, I've shared with other professionals, who think that there is some merit to it, but I'm not the person who would do the scientific study to prove. If you go on to get your PHD, and specialize in research- go at it. Mind you the people doing the research aren't on the front line working with individuals on a daily basis, which is what I do. On that level we are much more focused on what to do on a day to day basis.
  13. In reality, I don't even know how you could even go about creating the scale. It's not like there is a blood test that you take and somebody test's positive for autism. It subject to interpretation, and the tests rely on the responses from the subject. It's difficult to be truly scientific because it's difficult to truly understand how we are thinking and all the inputs that we have going on in a single moment.
  14. You're stuck because you seem to be reading it as though everybody has some bit of autism. It also seems that you're getting stuck on the introvert vs. extrovert, which has nothing to do with spectrum disorders. Spectrum disorders have nothing to do with being an introverted. I've known many who are extroverted. In reality, it's more of a communication disorder. An autistic person is not able to pick up on the social information that is all around them, and have triggers that cause meltdowns. For HFA's, they have to deal with those triggers. My theory would include people on the other end of the spectrum. In that case, they get so much input that they have to learn how to moderate that input. Think of it like a rainbow, or the visible spectrum. The one end is the violet, and reaching down to ultra-violet. On the other end, we reach up to the infra-red side. But instead of being stratified like a rainbow, people tend to fall in the middle (yellow, green, blue) and the dispersion follows a bell curve.
  15. I think you misread my theory. It's not that everybody is autistic, or what we would consider autistic. The people we consider as autistic rest on the extreme end of the scale. The people we on the other end of the scale are at the opposite of things. I don't mean in Kristin Chenoweth sort of way. A guy like Robin Williams would be an example of the other extreme. He got so many social cues that his brain couldn't handle all of it. It helped him become a genius comedian, but he had addiction issues and huge depression problems. I know I use diapers to cope with anxiety. I have a very good who clearly has the same types of issues, but he smokes pots. He is probably more towards the HFA side of the spectrum As an adult, I've successfully maintained numerous friendships, and have zero issues with social anxiety (I adore small talk). At the same token, I require a lot of time by myself. I think I get a lot of social cues and it can become overwhelming. I seriously doubt my good friends suspect that I choose to wear diaper, but it's my crutch to keep me sane.