Interesting observation of your wife's potential way of wanting to limit you.
My recent conversation was this....
Context: we recently moved to Texas and in that 3 months time I've gotten to indulge only once.
We were sitting in the car at sonic when she made a joke about her wearing the pants in the family and I sometimes wore pants. " by the way, it seems there are some places to buy diapers around here...heck I may even think about sending you to a momma-matrix" she said.
I was taken back by the comment. The fact that even though she's as vanilla as it comes, she is still considerate of my needs. Currently treading lightly on the subject but still searching