Fontaine Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 I think you really need to talk to her about this. Tell her how you feel that she has been sending mixed messages and being inconsistent. Tell her that it's tearing you up inside and you can't get a handle on what she truly wants. Consider going to see a councilor of some kind Link to comment
vvp39 Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 She sounds to me like someone who is really into control.... 1 Link to comment
ELLIE52 Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 Hi Demon-hunter, I was noting in your profile that you live in a relatively small town. Link to comment
oznl Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 You are a package deal and your ABDL elements are an inextricable part of that package. That doesn 1 Link to comment
erevu Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 Why on earth would a pastor refuse to marry people based on ABDLism? Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted June 11, 2017 Author Share Posted June 11, 2017 1 hour ago, erevu said: Why on earth would a pastor refuse to marry people based on ABDLism? Link to comment
oznl Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 48 minutes ago, Demon-hunter said: she doesn't think this is morally wrong, but she said that she can see it bringing me down and preventing me from being someone better apparently. Mmm... Link to comment
Rob110 Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 I think you already know what you should do, you have stated you love her and leaving (breaking up is not an option) its time to let the diapers and ABDL life go. True love only comes around once in ones life time. Link to comment
rusty pins Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 On a separate matter related, the betrayal by your former ABDL friend was one of the worst things I have heard of! Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted June 11, 2017 Author Share Posted June 11, 2017 10 minutes ago, rusty pins said: On a separate matter related, the betrayal by your former ABDL friend was one of the worst things I have heard of! Link to comment
Brudda Voodu Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 If she cannot accept this part of you and you decide to stay in a long term marriage with her, you will have to deny yourself something that will never leave you. Link to comment
porter Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 I think the comments about seeing a counsellor are spot on. Love, and some open communication are the only way to find an arrangement that is mutually satisfying. Link to comment
DL4LIFE Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 32 minutes ago, porter said: I think the comments about seeing a counsellor are spot on. Love, and some open communication are the only way to find an arrangement that is mutually satisfying. Link to comment
Glennie Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 if you are anything like me.. you simply can't give up diapers.. in my case I know I am in diapers until they nail the coffin shut. If someone was to make me decided, them or diapers.. I know which way i am going. Link to comment
kimchikid Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 I wish I had a magic wand I could wave it and make it all good unfortunately I don't, I hope you can find a solution to your dilemma, good luck in what ever choice you make. Link to comment
DL4LIFE Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 18 hours ago, Demon-hunter said: Link to comment
erevu Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 21 hours ago, Demon-hunter said: Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted June 12, 2017 Author Share Posted June 12, 2017 Well technically pornography isn't the source of our problem anymore because I pretty much got over that, Now bear with me I can't remember all she said when we talked about this last timeShe said is toxic for a relationship because of all the problems and badges that came with itLike when I too into my little side all the time or around her and she doesn't have enough time for my big side which I understand and I'm trying my best control that, I would expose my little side out in public at times like if I see something like little related I get too excited , and also the fact that she's afraid that once I go little when we're having sex or something cuz when she's on top of me I do kind of feel a little, the idea of me wearing a diaper and using it kind of is disgusting apparently towards her but then again she was okay with it when we started dating and other times when I wore around her and it was wet, she doesn't like the fact that I got exposed twice luckily they weren't dramatic , one was from her former BFF cousin who she told her my abdl side right when we started dating so she can have someone to talk to about my abdl side to have opinions or second thoughts on things which I was upset at first but then I was okay with it cuz she was pretty nice person a very open-minded but then she end up getting jealous and envious about our relationship how I took her cousin way from her and then she told her mediate family about my abdl stuff and then try to expose me on Facebook then her mom found out which apparently her mom was okay with my abdl side she thinks everyone has a weird sides, and the second time was from my former abdl friend who emailed my pastor which y'all knew that story, plus she thinks it's so weird that I'm 24 and I still want to be a baby and stuff and she said she tried so hard to understand me and try to be in my shoe and stuff, and she thinks it's very unhealthy for me physically mentally spiritually and mature wise. Plus a few other things that I don't remember what she saidNow she base to the gaming ultimatum either her or my abdl side. Well obviously I picked her because I love her that much but it's going to be difficult for me to give up my abdl side pick up and doing it for my whole life and she thinks that is easy to get rid of but she doesn't understand at all.She said I should see a counselor and stuff to talk about my abdl side which I do agree with her. WE you need to see a counselor about my abdl side because I want us to find common grounds with it because this is not right I love her to death I really do and I will willing to get rid of abdl side if the counselor thing doesn't work but this is bullcrap I'm afraid to tell her that because I'm afraid of her leaving me because like I can have a broken feelings about my abdl stuff go away but if she left me I probably will not survive the night without her cuz I'm definitely scared for her to leaveBy the way I'm sorry if my post is disorganized a very fast pace that's we get with a very active ADHD brain LOL and you can talk to text is very helpful for one kind of brain LOL Sent from my SM-J320V using Tapatalk I'm sorry I might use this board to rant and vent because I have no one to talk to LOLSent from my SM-J320V using Tapatalk Link to comment
PullUpDiaperLover Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 To me I hear one of two things. Either; 1. She is looking for a way out of the wedding 2. The stress of the wedding has gotten to her. Asking you to give up your abdl side at this point makes no sense. Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted June 13, 2017 Author Share Posted June 13, 2017 She told me she wants me to be 100% done with it, if I sneak aroud she, wear and little out behind her back, if I ask her to bring it back, go online do abdl related stuff, even 30 year later ( I kinda doubt she would tho) if I ask to bring it back, she'll leave me.... And she said it hurts her. WELL IT'S KILLING ME And I know about the withdrawals, I've been abdl little time dry for 2 1/2 months since the pastor finding out fiasco. And I've been starting to have abdl little side dreams for the last 2 weeks I want to go to a counselor and see if they can help us, cause this is ridiculous. She wants me to go to a counselor so I can get some help , but I don't want to be brainwashed. I'm going to defined my self as much as i can, and help us both out. And I think the person that need more help her. Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 On 6/10/2017 at 2:36 PM, Demon-hunter said: Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted June 13, 2017 Author Share Posted June 13, 2017 @rosalie.bent I with I had a few of your books so she can read them. Your coffee with rosie book was spot on.... Heck you talk to her over a few cups of coffee about abdl stuff would be amazing Sent from my SM-J320V using Tapatalk Link to comment
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