People discovering your diapers after you die...

[drynot]

I'm not concerned even in the slightest.

[d_drew12]

This topics been brought up in the past but anyway, my take is I'm dead, I don't care. I would only care about it embarrassing my family, but they'll be the ones, cleaning up so it's up to them to let the cat out of the bag. What they find, will surprise the, of mine. I'm sure, but whatever, I'm gone.

I'm sure, like myself having a big secret, I, we, are not alone. Plenty of fetishes, fantasies, magazines, adult toys, ect out there that I'm just guessing but I'd say the vast majority of estates, you're going to come across something and learn something you didn't know about that person.

Yup, grandma probably owned a vibrator!!

[painterfox]

That reminds me I need to make it clear I want to be buried in my footy pjs holding my diapered bear plush.

What was that about not wanting people to find things?

I'm dead, so either no worries, or probably going to have bigger problems on my plate.

[thickdiaperedbaby]

I've long thought that I am going to die young. If my parents should outlive me, I'd hate if they found my diaper stash. I feel that they are proud of me, and I know (since my younger brother recently died of cancer) that I am all that they have left. I don't want for them, or my colleagues to discover my diaper stash as it'd break there heart even more, and that is something that I feel is selfish and don't want to do. Short of not wearing diapers (I am incontinent in addition to being AB/DL), I don't know what the solution is as I don't have any real friends that I could call on to clear out the thousands of diapers that currently fill my home.

[feralfreak]

I've long thought that I am going to die young. If my parents should outlive me, I'd hate if they found my diaper stash. I feel that they are proud of me, and I know (since my younger brother recently died of cancer) that I am all that they have left. I don't want for them, or my colleagues to discover my diaper stash as it'd break there heart even more, and that is something that I feel is selfish and don't want to do. Short of not wearing diapers (I am incontinent in addition to being AB/DL), I don't know what the solution is as I don't have any real friends that I could call on to clear out the thousands of diapers that currently fill my home.

you know there is an easy fix for that, while you are still alive(unless you plan to be a zombie) leave a note where you have your stash that you are incontinent, and mention in it that you have baby items to help you accept incontinence, and I the event of your passing, when they go to clean out

[Dubious]

I have no babyish stuff and diapers are next to my bed so hopefully they just think I'm a closet bedwetter

[Dookey]

My kids know of my diaper use and my baby

[diaperpt]

I've done a big turn-around on my feelings about this. This is a fear I'd had for years; what am I going to do with all my stuff so it isn't discovered after I die?

There are many factors involved and a lot of them have been mentioned. If we are not in any particular relationship, we may not care who the heck knows because we'll be dead and gone. If we aren't married or partnered, we might want to designate someone in advance of our death as the one to take care of our estate and therefor be the one to clean out our personal belongings. That becomes a matter of do we want that person to know or not.

[mikej]

I don't care what they find when I die. I don't know if I end up at the corners office and they undress me and find a diaper on me. WTF. But, we never know when we go so it is what it is. Life is about taking chances. Even when you die.

[maly]

Of course this has already been covered.

[Loveable_guy]

I have thought about this also. In my case my better half knows but has no idea how many cases of diapers or other adult toys are hidden in the basement drop ceiling. My guess is should I kick the bucket before her and she sells the place the new home buyers are in for a real shock!

[MommyK80]

I haven't thought about that.. When my dad passed, my mom, my husband and I had to go through all his stuff and we learned all his secrets, some good, some not so good. Thank god my hubby found his porn stash and was able to get it to the trash without Mom knowing. I don't even want to know what was in there! So when I think about it that way, yeah I'd have to say Id prefer if my kids didn't have the added stress of finding out my kink at a time when they'll be overwhelmed with emotion anyway. Maybe when I'm older I'll tape a note to the box. "Some things are better left secret" or something like that. Or maybe will it to an abdl friend. If I pass before my bf, of course, he'll know what's in the box and handle it properly. Although I'd like for my husband to keep the actual box itself since my dad made it... Hmm, got me thinking now. Something I'll have to talk to my bf about. If he were to go first... Well I have all his keys including to his stash, so I'd high-tail it to his place and take the trunk, take the other key and idgaf what anyone would say about it. I'd mainly want it for sentimental purposes though, since it's a lot more than just diapers.

[Bettypooh]

If you want my true answer, ask me after I'm dead If you hear me say nothing then you will know that the question wasn't worth answering

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

OMG. I would just DIE!!

[Little Girl Milly]

OMG. I would just DIE!!

[Shawnie]

But you'd already be dead... so... if people found your stuff after you died you'd die again and end up in some further stage of death?

[diaperpt]

But you'd already be dead... so... if people found your stuff after you died you'd die again and end up in some further stage of death?

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

Well you see, the "Man upstairs" and the "Guy downstairs" have an agreement based on a common problem. They both know that whichever gets me first, I will be taking over his place and after that, I will be comong for the other one. So, until they can figure out a watertight solution, I expect to live for a long, long time. I already havve set aside a seat at the Restaurant at the End of the Universe. They will be sooooo disappointed when the end of the Universe is not

[Lee B]

Ok, so I started thinking about this. The chance of there being diapers left at the moment I kick the bucket are pretty great. Not to mention my onesie and pacifier.

[BabyGizmo]

I have it in my will to be diapered (Little known fact, all funeral homes diaper you anyway when you get prepped for casketing) and dressed in what ever sleeper i favor as i die. my wife knows this, and all my friends know i am AB/DL so it will come as a surprise to nobody. except maybe the funeral home. weird putting a paci in my mouth before they wire it shut.

[Hookedondiapers]

Since my wife knows about my fetish, I'm sure she would get rid of my diapers, or just say they were hers.

[2sail2]

Some things I have thrown out.

[Candy_Kisses_Mummy]

Ok, so I started thinking about this. The chance of there being diapers left at the moment I kick the bucket are pretty great. Not to mention my onesie and pacifier.

[anned]

I am 63 and have two or more neurological disorders.

[Lumia_black]