diaperguy85

mine stink after they've been used and sitting around for a few days before i toss them.

support the independent film makers! and don't listen to the critics on review sites, either!

@diaperwearntigger and @AbabeBill, i'm sorry for the diagnosis and i hope everything goes/went well for all. for me, i like the j&j aloe and vitamin E, with the blue label, 100% cornstarch. it just smells nice, light, fresh and clean to me. plus with the aloe and E it should help the skin be healthy after and during diapering. i recently tried their "baby" powder, i don't recall the specific name, but it has a pink label, also cornstarch, and smells more flowery and sweet, more feminine, is the best way i can describe it. it definitely smells nice, but it is a more intense smell than what i want. because of the same concerns, and her own opinion/tastes, my g/f told me she doesn't care for the smell of baby powder in general. plus she has the same concerns about talc and her health, the possibility of transfer and it getting *ahem* right up in there. so in doing some research, i've found that alot of people on the web are using just straight-up cornstarch from the super market in lieu of other options. no dyes, no fragrances, no additives of any kind that could irritate or anything. just something neat i found that i wanted to share.

not too sure how those channels move liquid as they do, but then there's alot about fluid dynamics i can't even begin to imagine. if they work as well as they seem, they would be a cool addition to a diaper for wicking, if they could get by the copyright/trademark/possible patent.

i'd like to see a pull-up with high absorption, good leak guards, and a snug, non frilly waist band! as for actual diapers, current advancements have kind of gotten to where i like. just some little things. absorption is up where i like it, with the megamax's and simple ultras, maybe a bit higher capacity, but that's just me. one definite thing is better moister wicking! especially an issue for guys, urine can just stay up at the front of the diaper, and before it can go anywhere else, it can leak. i can't count the number of diapers i've used that were saturated to capacity in the front, wet enough in the crotch, and totally dry in the back! just annoying that i can't get full capacity. another one i'd like to see, is better odor control and neutralization. the longer you wear a diaper, the more it's going to smell (obviously). i know some diapers have something along those lines of odor control, but i'd like to see something stronger for the higher capacity diapers. and lastly, just some nit-picking. longer/bigger/more tapes, higher leg gathers/guards, and perhaps move along to some sort of biodegradable outer shell/backing.

usually that's what i wear in warmer weather! g/f's ok with me doing that, but i still normally put on gym shorts over my diaper when she's home. also onesies and footie jammies when it gets chilly out

i don't think i've ever had that issue. i cover diaper area, front, back, all over with a thin-ish layer of calmoseptine cream, if it's within my diaper, it gets covered. then i apply a layer of powder until no more powder sticks. next i diaper up taping the bottom two tapes, putting in another small squirt of powder front and back. i shake the diaper a bit to distribute the powder, then i tape up fully and get dressed. calmoseptine is thick, sticky skin cream that is a pain to get off your hands, even with soap, so gloves are a must. haven't ever had a sticking issue, and haven't ever had a rash.

heavy, saggy diapers feel great! i usually just wear at home, so saggy is just kinda fun. it's something cool when you're sitting for a few hours and you sat down in a dry, fluffy diaper, then when you get up, it's heavy, bulky and sags. the once light, fluffy diaper then hangs off your hips and you really feel it. i've worn and used them long enough that the tapes gave out! i forgot what the brand was, but i'm pretty sure it wasn't a premium brand. only bummer is i've leaked more with saggy diapers than not-so-saggy diapers, so that kinda sucks. also on the flip side, i love the feeling of a heavy, supported diaper in a onesie or pants. the weight is still there, but you feel it more in other places, like your shoulders when a onesie is worn. plus they seem to leak less and possibly hold more.

varies depending on the day. usually boxer-briefs and the standard stuff. as for diapers, it varies on the situation. usually however, a megamax with a booster or two, plastic pants, and either my pj's, t-shirt and gym shorts, or a onesie. for a lighter diaper, i like semi quattros and abena L4s, sometimes with a booster, too.

i remember an article about the writers/directors/producers whomever a year or so ago and they were saying they just wanted to do three or four seasons and call it done. since apparently season four is slated to start filming soon, lets hope they wrap it up like they said they want to.

totally agree! a while ago i listened to the "love in brief" podcast (pretty good, btw, all about ABDL love and lifestyle topics and questions. if anyone cares to listen https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/love-in-brief-resonantyes-roadnottaken-Q6Hnz_KZULS/) and one topic they had was about vanilla partners. the guest they had on was an ABDL married to a vanilla partner, and he talked about his past relationships and his current one. so run-down is, his first fiance was super straight-laced, very few - if any - kinks, obviously no diapers, and that relationship ended (badly) before they could tie the knot. another g/f a few relationships later was a full ABDL, they liked each other alot, he moved across the country to be with her, had alot of fun with her, but still felt unfulfilled and that relationship ended in a couple of years. his wife is not into diapers, but lets him be himself and enjoy them. my belief is his ABDL relationship was a single interest relationship, centered around their enjoyment of diapers, and had very little else to go on and grow with. to me, this was obviously a little bit of a rebound extreme going from the super-vanilla to all the colors and flavors of the ABDL rainbow that quickly. he went into more detail about it and how he introduced is wife to his diapers, found a balance and is happily in love and loving it all. my g/f isn't a diaper girl, and recently i found out she never was. she was one of those kids that as soon as she figured out her thumbs she took her diapers off lol. but i digress. she did wear some diapers a ways back when i first bore my soul to her about them, but she said that while comfortable, she probably isn't getting the same out of them as i do (doesn't help she tried some thin little tena ultras lol). she doesn't wear, has little inclination to wear, but will never tell me i shouldn't wear diapers. she knows they are a comfort thing, as well as a fetish, and is supportive of me.

i don't think it ever made me not want a g/f. it did make me slightly apprehensive and kinda nervous, but never to the point of i don't want to look. we found each other on a vanilla dating site in early 2011, talked for a few weeks over the site, then texting, met up one day finally, and the rest is history she accepts my diaper wearing as simply another part of me, doesn't wear them, says she doesn't get what i get out of them, but won't tell me i shouldn't wear my diapers and she knows they make me happy and feel good. she did however tell me i should cut back on powdering a bit lol i do tend to go a little overboard with it, and she isn't the biggest fan of the smell. guess i need to find a new powder now lol

i disagree to an extent. i believe that the ratio of male-to-female is less, nearly 60% male to 40% female. it's just that the guys are very pushy and desperate to be with someone, they basically dog-pile anyone within the community that says "i'm a girl and i like diapers". and then barrage the poor girl with wet/messy diaper crotch shots, dick pics, endless "will you be my mommy?" or "will you change me?" messages. i'm almost positive that there are many women within the community that just list themselves as "male" on their (second) profiles just to be left be to try and enjoy the community. i agree with pampersboy121. go to events and meetups to find others into diapers. at least there everyone there has at least one common interest. there are also several diaper dating sites out there. perhaps try one, some or all of them for your search. and if anything, get a g/f, and then introduce her to the ABDL fetish/lifestyle. many people on here and other places have gone about it that way and every possible outcome has come of that, many positive, so prepare for anything. good luck!

i think there will be one day. it's just a lower demanded product compared to the super/ultra/mega/ultimate absorbent plastic-backed diapers, sometimes with a cutesy print. and the bambino pull-ups were/are crap! they felt great, possibly the softest and most comfy pull-up i've ever had, the print wasn't too over-the-top (i'm more DL, not AB, i don't care for the cutesy prints personally). but the damn things leaked on the second wetting! and it wasn't even a big wet, either! total let down! also, i sort of think that diapers are an easier thing to engineer and put together than pull-ups. diapers are less stretchy, custom fitted with the tapes, plus the tapes help hold it all up and together. pull-ups are quite more stretchy, have less of a custom taped fit (since they have no tapes), and rely entirely on the stretchy waistband to hold the thing up and together. too tight of a waistband, and it's uncomfortable, in the least. to be tight enough to hold up a fully loaded ABDL variety/style pull-up, your circulation would be cut off! two pull-ups have come close to the proper answer. the abri-form/foil/flex pull-up is very nice, holds a good amount, takes a small booster nicely, and is comfy. but it could hold more, have higher leg guards and padding, and could have a softer waistband. the other (oddly enough) is depends adjustable underwear... basically a pull-up with tapes! i don't remember much of it, having last worn it back in my early 20's, but i remember it fit well, didn't sag much because of the tapes and was comfy . maybe i'll get some more one day and refresh my memory. maybe one day some manufacturer will combine the comfort of the bambino, leg guard, larger padding and capacity of a quality diaper, and the tapes of the depends (and a spash of color/patterns, if you wish!) into one, magical, wonderful ABDL uber pull-up!!

IN: i use calmoseptine cream, j&j powder a good shower and scrub with odor reducing/eliminating bodywash (if possible) between messy diapers and fresh diapers, and wipes between changes. also often enough i put a booster in! OUT: protective pants/shorts of some nature. right now it's a switch up between some PVC or PUL japanese style pants, and some gary active PUL pants. then over them some usual sized boxer-briefs help keep everything contained and held up, plus they help with any noise. then over that all, a pair of over-sized jeans. or after the protective PVC/PUL pants and put on gym shorts, lounge pants, footie jammies or a onesie

i know babykins.com has booties, they come in a few colors and prints, pink being one of them and their shipping isn't terrible. littleforbig has knee-high socks in cute prints and colors..... and thats about all i know. i've seen mittens and other booties, perhaps a google search would get some good places. good luck!

my big ones were the space theme ones! spyruis, space police, blacktron, ice planet, hmm.... i forget the others, the primarily grey and blue ones.... i have the monorail which is awesome! i know there is at least one more that i really liked, but i can't think of it right now. i had everything laid out in a big lego space city on some tables way back in the day. i also had the aquanauts/sharks sets, which were pretty sweet. unfortunately the aquanaut base got destroyed somewhere along the years. all the bits are still around, i just haven't put them back together. my brother collected the city sets, which unfortunately had our sisters go godzilla and mecha-godzilla on, and are no longer together. later on i got into the technic sets and a few star wars technic sets.

i have a few favorites that i keep on hand. over the years, i've tried out many types of diapers and have changed favorites many times as diapers have evolved and grown. my current favorites i have in my stash are abu simple ultra, northshore megamax, betterdry, seni quatro abena L4 and abri-flex premium. plus an assortment of boosters, mostly from total dry.

for me, i think it's the transition from the heavy, wet, huge , sometimes cold and smelly (usually just stale wee) diaper. to go from that and through the feeling of fresh air down there, then cool wipes getting all clean, followed by the oddly satisfying sticky and almost sweet smelling calmoseptine cream, the clean, all covering powder covering all the cream, and finally a fresh, fluffy, warm and so-much-lighter-than-before diaper is taped on nice and snug..... is almost magical to me lol. unfortunately, i haven't had the experience to have been changed by anyone. i've brought it up to my g/f , but she reacted as less than interested. oh well, self changes for me.

duct tape and a garbage bag scented garbage bag, if you want to be fancy cut leg holes in the bag and cut it shorter to fit your torso. then duct tape around and to your legs and waist. no real guarantee for 100% leak proof protection. and God be with you if you have any hair where the duct tape is applied. BTW.... don't actually do this!! this is a BAD idea!!

i'm looking to get some northshore megamax's, some seni quattro's, abena L4's and maybe some tena supers. not all at once, and just a bag of one or two varieties. i do have a budget to keep to.

Did forget, they do have a video! looks like a fun enough thing

Well, it's that time of year again! The day of fools is here! And with it, comes the annual Thinkgeek.com April "New" Products Announcement! They do this every year, they put out a phony announcement of new things, but none of them are serious. But sometimes, a few of the "products" mentioned in their newsletter actually get made into real things if they get asked for enough! I think they also do a vote of people's favorites to choose winners. But anyway! They came out with this bean-bag onesie! Looks like they have a MASSIVE loaded diaper.... that you sit on! https://www.thinkgeek.com/product/lgsr/ Practical? Not really. Comfy? Probably! Funny looking? You bet!

i remember i was in high school, and i think i looked up "adult diapers" on some search engine, either yahoo or google, i really don't remember, and it doesn't matter. and in the results was another site, adisc.com, and i found out there were other like-minded folk out there who were into diapers for the first time. after a few years on that site, i dug a little more and found this one! plus, i think adisc was more geared for minors or at least had minors on there at the time, and i was over 18, so i quietly left adisc and moved over to here! and here i am! also during that time of diaper discovery, i also found the sub-reddits, various other sites, several pay sites, videos, i think one or two other forums or at the very least sub sections of fetish forums (didn't join them), and online shops and suppliers. as a final thought, just thinking about it now, the community itself has grown drastically in the last 10-15 years! where 15 years ago, there were only perhaps a few niche/fetish suppliers for abdl clothing and paraphernalia, some medical supply places with meager offerings, and on some other *ahem* adult sites the choice of viewing media was really lacking. turn the clock to now, in my favorites alone, i have literally DOZENS of abdl suppliers saved, there are whole lines of diapers gears 100% towards our ilk. there are huge get-togethers of abdl folk all over the world now, and they're only growing in attendees! actual, physical, brick and mortar stores for strictly abdl's exist! the amount of places and things to go to and buy is light years beyond where it was at the turn of the century. will the abdl fetish/lifestyle ever be as "mainstream accepted" as say... bdsm (thanks to an infamous series of books and movies)? ehhh..... debatable, at best, right now. but it is growing! and it's amazing!

YES!!! people need to lay off Brenda! some people like their beavers as nature intended them!! lmao!