Mindylou

I am afraid Im at this stage as well. I don't normally like going #2 in my diaper but my body now has other ideas.. it pushes out a little bit all by itself at most inopportune times despite my efforts at making myself try to go #2 both morning and evening daily. Like right now at work... I've been 24/7 for 2 1/2 months so far,this time around and this time it's permanent as my control over #1 has now weakened considerably.

LOL 😆 at all these responses! Now I'm going to be conscious of how I look when I pee in public 🤣 It's great fun to just be able to let go whenever the urge arises!

I wear Betterdry also at night and I have not noticed the change between my last case and the one I just got. I love them! I sure hope I don't have to find another alternative. I was wearing Abena at night but they got thinner and now they are my daytime diaper (used to use North Shore Lite or Tranquility ATN for day)

It's great to be able to wear at work, I know just how you feel! Wearing to work helps me feel calmer, more confident and certainly more productive! Hope you continue to enjoy your diapers anywhere you can!

I get my Betterdry from XP Medical. A case at a time and free shipping. They are my overnight diapers

I like Abena for day use. I use Betterdry for overnight use.

I've been on Tumblr for years.. I'm not sure there is any new content, just a bunch of resharing, but I'm all the time finding profiles I've not seen before of abdl. My content is all ABDL and I've not had a problem with anything there. I'm secret passion flower there.

If you have no form of incontinence then you should have no trouble with retraining for not wetting at night. Wearing diapers to bed for a long period of time and getting used to wetting laying down or in your sleep (even if you wake only partially) will probably lead to weakening signals at night. If you experience any kind of incontinence (like me, urge incontinence-i can't Wake and make it to the bathroom without an accident) it will be more difficult, as I've tried it myself, taking a break.. two accidents later and I'm back to diapered! I'm 24/7 by choice.

Although I'm female I understand your question.. feeling of 'not quite empty ' which is aggravating.. I push it out which is like a reverse kegel, meant to weaken the muscle. Holding it in would be defeating your purpose, to me. I enjoy wearing and never having that full bladder feeling anymore.

I am a diaper lover with a vanilla husband. He has gotten used to it over the years and he cuddles me in bed, pats my diapered bottom, tapes up my night time diaper (I have it situated and pulled into position) and puts on my plastic pants. He has only totally changed me once (wet only, middle of the night leaky). I'm thankful for what he does and don't expect much more. Your SO will come around eventually. Just don't hide and act normal.

In my experience, the bladder does shrink and mine became super sensitive.. like when I try to go without a diaper an hour or so between evening and bedtime changes. I haven't had an accident yet but the bladder is really sensitive to any amount of liquid in it and wants it out ASAP. I would not trust myself to go out without at least a thick pull-up because I guarantee it's going to get wet.. simply stopping what im doing to go to a bathroom is unheard of now.

Good quiz! Mine will be a little different from others 1. Moderate 2. Squirts and small releases (keeping bladder empty, no urges) 3. Vague awareness 4. Heavy wetting at night with infrequent/no dreams 5. Permanent IC 6. Mild/occasional bowel IC 7. No toilet confusion / still will need for bowel IC

I had some really weird ones when I went through my undiapered at night phases. Most involved looking for a bathroom and either not finding one, finding one and they were all dirty or finding communal bathrooms where we saw each other.. now I'm diapered and sleep soundly all night with no dreams.

Congratulations to you also! Nothing to be scared of.. just pad up with pride! You need them, like me... Goal accomplished!

You are very lucky that your hubby understands the "little" side of you! My hubby diapers me too and is great with that but he can't quite grasp why i need onesies and pacis.. I use pacis without his knowing now (he used to know but probably forgot or thinks I quit) and I haven't asked to be put in nto a onesie since I went back to wearing at night.