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Usually lying down, for both cloth and disposable. For cloth pin the top first followed by the leg area. I then pull on or snap on my plastic pants For disposable, bottom tapes first and then top tapes. I then pull on or snap on my plastic pants If I am out in public, I will lean against a bathroom wall or stall and do the same procedure.

I've had my diapers and plastic pants exposed to other many of time in my backpack or diaper bag and do not worry about it anymore. I think I would have picked it up out of the bag and handed it to her, "here do you need one"

I have been 24/7 for over 25 years

Unfortunately, throughout the day.

I am a DL or diaper loving male sissy!

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Enduring or Loving a Diaper Change It doesn’t matter if your incontinent, a diaper lover (DL) or adult baby (AB) It's amazing how many emotions you experience when you’re having to endure a diaper change as an adult, especially for the first time. As a baby of course you don't know any different. But as an adult, you know exactly what's going on. To have your independence taken away like that, to be regressed against your will, to be bathed, diapered and dressed like a baby is so degrading and humiliating. When that moment comes when you're informed that you are going to have a diaper change the first emotion you feel is a sense of impending dread at knowing that any moment now you will be undressed, just like a doll. That you will have your clothes removed until you are naked. Then, while you are being undressed, you feel a sense of violation, that someone is physically removing your clothes against your will. Then you feel embarrassment as the last item is removed and you lie there naked and exposed. Your first instinct is to cover yourself, to look away or to close your eyes, as if that will block out the nightmare. Embarrassment then changes to humiliation, as you are cleaned and powdered, and you realize that the person changing you is able to look at your most intimate parts. And with this realization comes the sense that because they can see these most sacred of places, and that they have total access to them, that somehow, they now own you... You belong to them, and they can do whatever they want to you. Then once you're cleaned and prepared, those feelings of impending dread re-appear, because you know that any second now you will be wearing a diaper. A diaper is such a symbol of all things babyish. It's an enormous badge of shame which screams BABY at everyone who can see it. It symbolizes submission, it informs everyone that here is a person who has to be cared for, that they can't do the most basic things themselves. There is no other item of clothing that is as obtrusive as a huge cumbersome diaper, whether it be a crinkly disposable diaper or a thick cloth diaper with billowy plastic baby pants. They all rustle and crinkle loudly with every move, its bulkiness makes it impossible to walk without waddling, it's bright and shiny and is impossible to ignore. And as soon as you're wearing it, you feel like a baby. For you know that only babies wear them, therefore... you are a baby. So, you have two choices... you either accept it, or fight it. And for a long time, I did fight it. But my transition into a willing baby or even sissy took lots of twists and turns. So, did you endure or love your first diaper change? This entry is a re-write from an unknown author years ago

Thanks to Munkey for starting this thread. and I hope this helps some people. I have written about this some in the past and after some research from some other sites into what other say such as Little Landing and here goes my version of how to wear diapers and make the best of it. About 25 years ago my life was severely altered after I had an accident while in the military. I was in and out of the hospital for the next six months having various surgeries. It was also during this time that I noticed two things, I was drinking 4-5 gallons of water or ice tea a day and actually starting to develop some incontinence both day and night. I kept thinking how embarrassing it would be to pee myself in front of all the cute therapists in the hospital, but then my primary nurse says to me, “you could wear diapers for a while, why we do some tests.” Those words sent a hot flush of embarrassment right through me, along with an intense excitement. While my embarrassment was screaming no way, my excitement made me say OK. After the doctors realized this was going to be a lifelong medical issue, the doctors and nurses suggested that I try condom catheters or catheters to control the incontinence and seemed surprised when I told them I wanted to stay in diapers as I feel they are easier to deal with. They then said as long as the diapers didn’t cause any irritations, it made sense to stay in them. But truth be told, I realized I was now actually happy that it was official that I needed to wear diapers. It was the first moment I felt there was a benefit in being disabled. Yea it does have inconvenient aspects, but I am so lucky to be turned on by diapers. Instead of feeling miserable over being incontinent, my disability was now forcing me to live my diaper fetish. All of my family knows I need to wear diapers and fully support me. I have now fully embraced my need for diapers and often wear Dry 24/7 disposables or thick cloth diapers and nursery print plastic pants everywhere I go. Usually they are only covered by shorts and a T shirt or when I am feeling real adventurous short shorts so that my plastic pants peek out of the leg band, but that is another story! Now that you have to wear diaper, here is how you do it and make the best of it. 1: Own It The majority of people become withdrawn, and self-conscious when they start wearing diapers. The most important part of wearing diapers successfully is not letting diapers stop you from doing any of the things you would be normally doing. One has to embrace the fact that they do in fact wear diapers, and realize that no one really cares. I reality no one can spot a diaper in most cases anyway. Most people are to self-absorbed to be staring at stranger's butts. Also, it is objectively hard to tell that a person is wearing a diaper. Most diapers are nearly invisible under clothes except if you wear thicker diapers and plastic pants like I do. Also, everyone’s anatomy is unique. Even if you notice how different you look wearing a diaper, no one has the standard of comparison to know what you are supposed to look like without a diaper. The diapered you is the new normal. It is just you with a little more butt. There are very few people who automatically assume that anyone wears diapers. Literally no one looks around thinking “I wonder if anyone is wearing a diaper today?”. Ultimately these people are extremely rare, and they are not going to make fun of you for it anyway. Again, virtually no one will know or care. The only way to get outed is to wear a super thin diaper that is inadequate and leaks on you. Remember, It is more discrete to wear a big poufy diaper than a skimpy one that leaks on you. Really though, you will have to perhaps reasses your view of what is acceptable behavior in the people you associate with. Needing or having the desire to wear diapers was not a choice on your part. If the people you are around are going to give you grief over your disability or identity, then they are probably terrible people. Lastly, you project the way you want to be treated to some degree. Stressing about your diapers just draws unnecessary attention to what is your own private business. 2. Stay Hydrated/Monitor Diet: When wearing diapers one can become extremely self-conscious about the way they smell. Diapers are usually one of the first things most people have come to mind when asked to think of something that smells bad. In reality, most adults who wear diapers can manage to make any odors non-existent. Urine normally should have very little to no smell at all. Some people try to drink less water when they start wearing diapers. Dehydration actually makes diapers smell much worse, and dehydration almost always aggravates bladder issues. In those individuals with bowel issues it is important that they eat a healthy balanced diet with plenty of green vegetables, and whole grains. One extra serving of vegetables per day can really cut down odor. There are also some commercially available orally ingested chlorophyll products meant to reduce odor. Ultimately the best advice is to stay well hydrated, and watch what you eat. Some foods like asparagus, and coffee can make your diapers reek. 3. Be Prepared: When wearing diapers one eventually learns to keep a few spare diapers on hand at all times. Invest in a diaper bag that you like. Perhaps a cute backpack? Ladies can rock a big purse. Always carry 3 spare diapers and plastic pants with you along with some wipes and lotion. Having a well stocked diaper back comes in handy anyway. There is nothing like the joy of going into a bathroom that has run out of toilet paper and realizing you have a bunch of wipes with you in your bag. Another good thing to keep in one's bag is a few empty bags to dispose of diapers in. There are bag dispensers for dog waste that are opaque and convenient for tossing diapers discretely. As far as other ways to be prepared, always keep a stash of diapers and spare clothes in your car in case your diaper leaks. 4. Use Skin Care Products: Odor can be cut down even further by remembering to apply certain products. Baby lotions and creams tend to mask the smell of dirty diapers very well. Children’s diapers are scented and smell great fresh out of the package. Very few adult diapers are scented and some do not offer the best odor control. A good way to smell better is big surprise, to wear diapers the way a baby would. Use baby lotion and diaper rash cream when needed. The only reason not to use lotion is if you are allergic. Most of the baby changing products out there do exactly what they are supposed to in regard to odor control... Use them. Alternatively, there are plenty of more masculine smelling products aimed at men, but who cares if you smell like baby powder, I don’t? 5. Choose The Right Diaper: Choose high quality diapers, not store brand. Store bought diapers are for people who only leak small amounts of urine. In general, adult pull-ups are not diapers. Pull-ups are for people who generally can make it to the restroom but want a little protection in case they don’t quite make it. Real diapers are tape on briefs. In America at least, they have pretty much stopped selling tape on briefs, and the ones they do sell are pathetic. The easiest way for someone to tell you have a diaper on is for it to leak. Choose thicker higher capacity diapers such as Dry 24/7, Better Dry, or Northshore to name a few. Better diapers are cheaper online than a lot of the store-bought poor-quality ones anyway. This is just my opinion, but I feel like a lot of incontinent folk are traumatized by store bought diapers. Seriously, you start having continence issues and you rush to the store to get adult diapers. Half of them leak on you, and you spend the rest of your life trying to scramble to the bathroom after every accident before your diaper leaks. That is a very stressful way of life. A good rule of thumb with diapers is to use it for one less wetting than it can hold. For example, lets say a particular diaper holds 3 good wettings. Let yourself void fully 2 times, and then change. With store bought diapers that only hold about 1 wetting you have no safety net. The whole point of incontinence is that you don’t have control over how much you wet or mess. It just happens. Put on a good diaper and move on with your life. Lastly, do not be afraid to wear some of the better printed diapers like Rearz, Crinklz, Bambino and many more. They are fun and absorbent and who cares what is printed on your diapers? 6. Test Your Diapers At Home: Always test your diapers at home. It is important to make sure that your diapers fit you properly and meet your needs before you go out in public. There is nothing like surviving an embarrassing accident. Everyone’s anatomy, and incontinence is unique. Some diapers just do not work well for some people no matter the price point. Not surprisingly there are even people out there who do not like high end diapers such as Dry 24/7, Better Dry, Abena, or the old Plastic Attends. I myself don’t tend to rate secure current attends, Depends highly because they don’t fit my body very well and leak relatively easily. With some people it is not a matter of leaking, it can be a matter of pain. Some diapers are too tight for some people and leave red marks on their thighs. It is important to remember that there is no standard sizes for diapers. Besides fit, you also have to learn the way each brand of diaper feels when they need to be changed. Every diaper feels different when it has reached capacity. Some feel squishy. Some feel lumpy or fall apart. Some just feel wet. The best way to do this is to test drive your diaper at home. Make a note of what you were doing when your diaper leaked, and how full it was. Where you sitting down? Lifting something heavy? Make a note of where your diaper leaks onto your clothes so you can easily check for leaks in public in a discreet way. 7. Lose The Hair: Another odor related topic is body hair. Bacteria like surface area. Body hair is a great place for odor causing bacteria to hide. A weekly shave with an electric razor or clippers will reduce smell significantly. It doesn't have to be a close shave. Even just lazily running an electric razor over the hair so as to leave a short stubble of a couple millimeters helps tremendously. In fact, a close shave can be irritating and even cause hair follicles to become impacted. With the high humidity, and friction of a wearing diapers, close shaves are a quick path to a rash. 8. Wear Plastic Pants: Plastic pants are a covering used with cloth diapers. They can also be helpful for people who wear disposables as well. They can be a last line of defense to protect your clothes, but they also control odor very well, and drastically reduce any crinkle noises that diapers make. The only downside to plastic pants is that they can be warm during the summer. They are also incredibly fun with all the cute prints that are available and I must say fun. Most importantly, one has to embrace the fact that they do in fact have to wear diapers, and realize that no one really cares. Wear color, patterns, prints and have fun, embrace it and wear your diapers and make the best of a situation that you cannot control.

I too am 24/7 due to incontinence and I love me a good IPA. I have been trying a grapefruit IPA here in FL and it always makes its way to my diaper pretty fast!

I loved the recount of your adventures, thanks for sharing

I guess I look at the term "24/7" as you are in diapers all the time and wet and or poop them. I have no choice in my 24/7 as I am urinary incontinent. Yes, I can take it down or off to poop and then right back on. On another note, I do not have the option of saying I am not wearing today for any reason.

A Babykins DPF cloth diaper and a frosty white pair of snap on plastic pants

Loving the story as usual

I have been on many cruises in diapers. considering I have to wear 24/7 I am diapered all the time on the ship. I will lay out by the pool in diapers with shorts overtop or occasionally just a towel covering me. We would often get off the ship at the different locations, rent a car and go to a more private beach where I can lay out in just diapers and plastic pants. Quite a rush. They are easy to dispose in the trashcan by the elevator. I also went on a trip to a resort in Costa Rica and actually laid out by the pool and on the beach in just diapers and plastic pants, very fun.

I have to agree with Little Christine. It is the choosing to; I never have the opportunity to choose if I am going to wet my diaper or not, it just happens. I rarely ever get any warning to choose from before I start to pee.

Great story, thanks for sharing

About 25 years ago my life was severely altered after I had an accident while in the military. I was in and out of the hospital for the next six months having various surgeries. It was also during this time that I noticed two things, I was drinking 4-5 gallons of water or ice tea a day and actually starting to develop some incontinence both day and night. I kept thinking how embarrassing it would be to pee myself in front of all the cute therapists in the hospital, but then my primary nurse says to me, “you could wear diapers for a while, why we do some tests.” Those words sent a hot flush of embarrassment right through me, along with an intense excitement. While my embarrassment was screaming no way, my excitement made me say OK. After the doctors realized this was going to be a lifelong medical issue, the doctors and nurses suggested that I try condom catheters or catheters to control the incontinence and seemed surprised when I told them I wanted to stay in diapers as I feel they are easier to deal with. They then said as long as the diapers didn’t cause any irritations, it made sense to stay in them. But truth be told, I realized I was now actually happy that it was official that I needed to wear diapers. It was the first moment I felt there was a benefit in being disabled. Yea it does have inconvenient aspects, but I am so lucky to be turned on by diapers. Instead of feeling miserable over being incontinent, my disability was now forcing me to live my diaper fetish. All of my family knows I need to wear diapers and fully support me. I have now fully embraced my need for diapers and often wear Dry 24/7 disposables or thick cloth diapers and nursery print plastic pants everywhere I go. Usually they are only covered by shorts and a T shirt or when I am feeling real adventurous short shorts so that my plastic pants peek out of the leg band, but that is another story!

Its diapers full time for me, no other option

Great start and I do hope there is more!

I wear 24/7 so yes I will wet when napping, etc. I guess that is to be expected.

My incontinence is due to chronic neurogenic bladder as the result of diabetes insipidus with polyuria and chronic bladder dilation.

Great story, thanks so much for sharing

Cloth diapers and plastic pants or Dry 24/7. Although, I have been trying out the Mega Max recently

What an excellent story, thanks for sharing

Enjoying the story, thanks for sharing