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Enjoy! Cloth diapers ROCK!

You buy 'em when you see 'em, or they'll be gone. Thrift shop is the way to go. You would have gotten a rush buying after talking to that woman. Now, if you can get over your own embarassment over buying your own diapers in public, nobody has to KNOW you're buying them for you, and if you don't act like it's any big deal that you're buying diapers for you, no one will really notice and they really won't CARE. In fact, you'll probably get empathy and sympathy versus getting scrutinize or laughed at, or have attention drawn to you. It's diapers. They're legal and a legitimate product to purchase and use. 50 cents a diaper or less? Why pay retail? Even lesser quality diapers, like Attends, can be made to work well when you add boost pads or soakers to them. Thrift shops let you experiment economically!

Since I wear my diapers for long period, when it's "furry", the hair tends to hold the urine odor. I trim close with a moustache trimmer on a regular basis and it makes keeping things clean and comfortable much easier.

I am adopted. My adoptive parents ARE my parents. I am grateful I was available for them and they chose me. I really could care less who my biological parents are, as my bio mother knows I was the product of an affair between a boss and his secretary. I would not try to find my bio parents - in Michigan, my original birth certificate is sealed in the state capitol - and I have little desire to delve into the situation, which would require a court order to unseal the records. Doing that would hurt my adoptive mother deeply. My sister found her birth mother living just 2 miles from her, and ended up being the only one adopted out out of ELEVEN children, total. The end result was only "fair". Actually, it's a female thing in most cases to do the search and find birth parent(s). Good luck if you do search. There was a reason your father is not there now. All of us have hopes and dreams for "warm and fuzzy Kodak moments" and a "Norman Rockwell life". Even in families that are whole, and total bio, things don't always go well. What adoptees find, at times, is less than what they had hoped. There was a fable regarding "Pandora's Box". For me, I choose to leave it alone. Again, good luck to you if you can't leave it alone, and appreciate what you DO have. Just my .02 cents...

When I can swing it, diapers and a t-shirt are my weekend, around-the-house wear. While I call myself a DL, I don't know what this outfit, and preference for it, especially with a nice full load added to increasingly dampening cloth night diapers from overnight still on, makes me, if anything - except lightly dressed? LOL Since I love to be in diapers and use them when in them, I guess this outfit is way better for me than pajamas, and a lot more fun than just being naked. It truly is freeing and stimulating. It's the way I toddled around at one time, so choosing to do that now, pad around the house in diapers and a t-shirt isn't so obtuse or abnormal. I especially love going out the back door, on Sunday morning, and leisurely retrieving the newspaper, even stopping to briefly scan the headlines. Of course, were there anyone around to actually SEE me "showing off", I'm sure my retrieval would be made more quickly! LOL

Google Baby-Fresh Scent and buy it direct. I think it's available on E-bay or from the producer. There is a "disposable diapers" scent and a powder scent. Both aren't too bad, and unless you wet heavily and your urine odor is strong, you can continue to smell it for a while. Like anything, however, including real powder, after your nose gets used to it, you'll stop smelling the aroma shortly after you get used to it.

Because there are so many feelings that can arise out of a return to diapers - especially when it's not a generally accepted (by "normal" society) "kink" - a person, getting beyond the guilt and self-loathing - especially for those who choose diapers and don't need them, and then find pleasure in actually using them - can greatly benefit from AB and DL activity. Finding your own balance, and where you want to be, can be an interesting journey. Be patient. Enjoy yourself and what you enjoy. The AB/DL community is filled with some really great people - um, and a few "trolls" and types you wouldn't want your mother to meet and end up being stupid and in the news making all the rest of us look bad - and the wisdom, information and advice that is available from the spectrum of experience and ages of members is incredible. Your membership and diaper life will be what you make it. Good luck! I hope the baby boys don't scare you off and overwhelm you. They may be insistent, but they are tame and harmless...

As with most questions like this, there is, obviously, no empirical data to provide an accurate answer. While I voted what I voted, I believe the real answer is closer to zero. When you say "model", and the assumption is that the "model" is similar to an actor or actress - meaning "paid" to provide a visual "portrait" for the viewer - they are not necessarily "into" it. They are "painting a picture". While there may be some models that find some pleasure - and like was said by Daily Di, wanted to take diapers home after the shoot - it doesn't mean they were AB/DL or will begin to indulge to the point of becoming AB/DL. While many of us in our AB/DL community and world already live in a fantasy world - "OMG. What would happen if someone SAW my diapers or diaper bulge when I was wearing them?" Answer? NOTHING - this is another example - and please, do not consider it a slam, I'm just an older guy who's observed our world over the last 40+ years, include PRE-internet days - of "what we'd like to see" or have happen. Reality is, it's one of those pipe-dreams we'd like to see be a reality, and then have a snowball's chance in Hades to hook up with one of those cute hotties and live happily ever after! I'll stick with my third wife. She accepts me the way I am, is pretty okay with my nearly 24/7 diaper wearing and using - which is a CHOICE and not a need - and, while it's not often, I CAN get her into diapers every once in a while, and she becomes the hottest real-life adult woman wearing a diaper that I have ever had diaper play with. Of course, since she's the ONLY diapered woman wearing in front of me, I'd say that makes all the difference in the world! LOL That said, I'm a very lucky old man!

Diaper fetishism is something that is NOT "mainstream" or considered "normal" in our so "holier than thou" society. Those who do not reveal their kinky side BEFORE any amount of time and emotion are invested into a relationship - because of fear of rejection - are bound to have the revelation blow up on them when they finally get the balls to share. It is THEN too late! Only in a very small amount of cases is the revelation taken in stride and diaper fetishism accepted. Better to part ways early on, and face the hurt of that type of break up than to get married, have kids, and stay in the closet with this forever. You do what you want to do, I'm just sayin'. You're beyond the point of no return, now. You have two choices. 'Man up and 'fess up, and face the music, especially if your revelation blows up in your face - and the relationship - or you can zip your lip, crave fulfillment, but only diaper out on the sly when you're alone. Read the threads posted from forever. You control your diaper fate and destiny, and could have better controlled it earlier than now. Just don't be surprised if in revelation, it blows up in your face. There are not a whole lot of liberal-minded, kinky women - as compared to males - and even then, mood and attitude toward your diaper side/life/world CAN change over time. After all, we're talking about women whose hormones already give us males a rollercoaster ride in a relationship as it is! Sorry, Ladies. Am married a third time, now. There are some constants in life, and the rollercoaster ride in a relationship due to female hormones is a fact, which, for some women, is more pronounced than in others. No slam, just fact... LOL

You can make a thinner diaper, like Invacare, or even Attends, last a lot longer with cloth diaper soakers, even boost pads, as well. It keeps the disposable from leaking with heavy wetting, and you can feel your wetting, kind of a delightful feeling. Depending upon how much you are in your diapers, yes, it CAN get aggravating or even whip up some diaper rash or the beginnings of rash. However, if you don't stay in messy diapers too long, and get a shower or bath on a regular basis, and to enhance your skin's ability to hand wet diapers for long periods, a regime of either skin cream, diaper rash cream or powder is helpful until your skin toughens up and can hand wet diapers for longer periods. Too, if your urine becomes more acid, you need to up your hydration with water, and not alcohol or coffee. It will keep the PH of your pee more neutral, which makes it easier to tolerate! Also, it extends the use of the disposable and you cut down on number needed per day, cutting cost over time, and with cloth baby diapers costing as little as $1 each, new, the upkeep - washing, etc. - is very cost effective. I think it's a very practical and excellent answer for diaper wear and use for those who choose to do so. True incons may not agree, depending upon their need and use of the diapers THEY choose.

Due to the proximity of the genitals, males get more stimulation by virtue of a diaper being worn and contacting the genitals. Too, males tend to be more sexually active and aware of their "sexuality" long before women do. And,given the female view that diapers can be far too similar to products used for menstral issues, hence there may a natural aversion absorbent products, especially when they're utilized without a legitimate need. I'll get off my soap box, but reality is that there are more males in our community since more males are willing to and have the need of "reaching out" and "connecting" to and with others and "going the distance" regarding the degree of desired connection with others. If you can come to grips of your feelings and wisdom, you're in a good situation and to overcome that is still a person by person endeavor. Given a diaper can create a continual stimulation, working an the inner self first is a priority but then, Watch Out! Diapers are more likely to be stimulative for males, and while it might be nice to have someone else care for me, it, also, is not very practical at times. And, I'm just going to stay the course as it currently is.

It took me a while to get there, but I came to the realization that while those who consider themselves strictly DL generally do not involve themselves in or indulge themselves with AB things, ABs can, indeed, be DLs as well as ABs. There are so many variants in the AB/DL "world" that it's tough to categorize a person as a strict DL or AB. I mean, I've come to enjoy a Nuk 5 adult pacifier from time to time and having had the experience, if it were every offered to me again, I would breastfeed from a full breast needing to be relieved from the pressure deep within - in a heartbeat. Otherwise, it's wearing and using diapers for their intended purpose, discreetly, in my normal adult world on a daily basis. As far as I'm concerned, every one of us in the AB/DL community are unique personality types and for an overview, we all are "special". I could care less that and how hairs are split in the "diapers by choice" world. I could care less about splitting hairs. I'm comfortable with who I am and how I am. As far as I'm concerned, I see and acknowledge there is a tremendous amount of varience in our "community". And, there's nothing wrong with that...

Forcing someone to have diaper rash, and use that as a punishment, seems kind of cruel to me. I mean, when I've not been careful, and gotten close to a full-blown rash - mostly, I get a substantial dose of skin irritation - I take a break from diapers or spending time in wet or messy diapers. And, actually, the irritation comes more from urine, and not messing. If it begins to burn, I get out of messy diapers PDQ! To force someone to have to endure a full-blown diaper rash would be terribly uncomfortable, if not painful, for too long a period of time. But, then, it depends upon the scope of the dom-sub relationship and what activities that includes. If it's just a part of diaper domination, I guess you simply have to buck up and deal with it. Not for those with a low threshold toward diaper discomforts...

How totally kewl to legitimize the need for diapers! You can't get to the toidy in a timely manner, though pewping in the diaper, with a cast on, might make cleanup tougher. I usually hop into the shower at those times. Can't really do that with a plaster cast.... And, a cast would really necessitate the need for snap-on style plastic pants if you use plastic pants! I guess I've had a very infrequent fleeting thought about the immobilization-bondage aspect of a leg cast or double leg cast, but that's about it. However, needing to change a hawt young thing, immobilized by a leg cast or leg casts, and needing to be diapered for practical reasons definitely is a schwing thing! Glad the thread was started!

How totally kewl to legitimize the need for diapers! You can't get to the toidy in a timely manner, though pewping in the diaper, with a cast on, might make cleanup tougher. I usually hop into the shower at those times. Can't really do that with a plaster cast.... And, a cast would really necessitate the need for snap-on style plastic pants if you use plastic pants! I guess I've had a very infrequent fleeting thought about the immobilization-bondage aspect of a leg cast or double leg cast, but that's about it. However, needing to change a hawt young thing, immobilized by a leg cast or leg casts, and needing to be diapered for practical reasons definitely is a schwing thing! Glad the thread was started!

In some of the stalls at casinos, there is a little covered garbage can next to the toilet. Yep, even THEY know peeps are going to be diapered going to casinos and need to get a change of "dribble pads", especially for the older gents with prostate wetting! Me, I just keep my Molicare soaking up my bladder contents, unless I wimp out and don't risk leaking every other voiding! And, we worry about what it may mean if our choice of diapers, and using them, if it is discovered. Diapers are absorbent underwear and a legitimate product with a legitimate use. Those of us that get stimulated by our choice of underwear get a double benefit. We need to wear and enjoy!

Part of my gratitude list includes being thankful my wife is totally acceptant of my DL side/life/world and pretty much finds it strange when I'm NOT in diapers. While I have to prove to her, from time to time, that I don't HAVE to be in diapers to be stimulated and for us to be intimate, the BEST, of course, is being intimate while WEARING diapers! Better than wet, for me - the ultimate - is with messy diapers. My wife has even been able to overcome the "aroma" of my diaper being full, but always ends up reaping the benefit of my enhanced stimulation. And, she's been wet, herself, when we've pulled down one side of HER diapers - snap-on plastic pants - and been intimate. Woo-hoo! I'm a lucky man, and for my age, kept pretty aroused on a regular basis!

I feel contained, confined, aroused, compliant, content. I live a "forced diapering" fantasy every minute I'm diapered. I feel fulfilled. I feel special. I feel unique. It's my choice to be diapered as much as I am, my wife doesn't seem to be too bent out of shape about it, and I don't impose my DL side/life/world onto anyone else. I choose to be diapered as much as I want to be the rest of my life. I like the way diapers look on me, I could care less if there is any bulk obvious to others or if they notice - no one has EVER pointed it out or made any comment - and I like the way diapers feel, and how practical and useful they really are. At times, my wife even wears because of the comfort and practicality of diapers at certain times. We all are probably our own worst enemies when it comes to our paranoia over being "discovered" and beating ourselves up for our diaper "urges" and giving in to them. We all just need to chill out, wear and enjoy!

I am amazed. Your FIANCEE has told you she would rather that you wore cloth diapers... Let's see. She IS your fiancee. She knows about your diaper side/life/world. She accepts your diaper side/life/world. She is INVOLVED in your diaper side/life/world. OMG. And YOU are going to make a deal out of what TYPE of diaper she would PREFER that you use? Are you kidding me? Have you read nothing about what other people crave here, especially just a smidgeon of acceptance to be free to WEAR - ANY type of diaper - by a partner? And, you want to begin an issue about ecology and soundness of the TYPES of diapers available to wear? I guess I'll never get it. Some people just don't know how good they've got it with WHAT they already have! So, she PREFERS that you wear cloth diapers. Let's see. You'll need plastic pants. You'll need to procure a supply of cloth diapers - ready made or have HER help you MAKE your OWN cloth diapers, to YOUR specification to YOUR comfort level/zone. Get used to cloth diapers, and how to utilize them instead of disposables. Pretty simple, even if there ARE some "convenience"(or lack thereof) issues. If you can't get over your preference for disposables, while you have a partner that accepts your diaper side/life/world ALREADY, it makes you look damned selfish and self-centered, when most males would give body parts to have an acceptent partner of ANY kind, to ANY degree. More than my 2 cents. Just that most people don't know how good they've already got it until it's gone away...

Diapers can be used if one is lazy. However, I find diapers convenient. I find having to stop what I'm doing, if in the middle of a project, for instance, to go to the bathroom, INconvenient. Um, needing a bowel movement might be another story... Not always a good thing to be loading your pants out in public... At night, I find I don't sleep well diapered, and end up waking up with a full bladder. It's the bulk with cloth diapers and it's worry about flooding and lack of absorption with disposable diapers. However, when in cloth diapers and plastic pants, and there's plenty of absorption left, it's kind of nice to wake up enough to drain my bladder and then drift back off to sleep relatively quickly. That's lazy. However, as many of you kiddies will find out, with onset of diabetes or for the males, onset of prostate problems, more frequent urge to pee will be upon you, and you all may just find that diapers are darned convenient, especially since you already are used to them and being in them and using them doesn't bother you!

So, now you see the objective behind the use of such product in disposable diapers to aid in absorption. Obviously, wood pulp fiber is not going to have a very quick absorption rate, so gel-type products have been tested and used to either replace or aid in diaper absorption. That's one reason you see an infant go into the water at the beach and they come out looking like they're wearing a balloon. The US FDA has total control over product content, and where European diapers seem to act and perform far more closely to infant diapers, for whatever reason, the FDA will not allow the same blend of materials HERE for adult disposable diapers. In a head-to-head "wet off", a diaper coming out or Europe or overseas will out-perform a US made diaper every time, in total absorption and absorption rates. That's one reason so many people tend to be disappointed with so many of the US-made diapers, with good reason. More example of our government "protecting us from ourselves", as though consumer demand - or lack, thereof - wouldn't take care of whether a product is accepted and survives or disappears. Obviously, if those crystals - which are left over and "in the environment" at the manufacturing facility - get onto the outside of the diaper or are purposely placed there, you'd still want to be wearing your plastic pants over your Eurobrief to make sure the gel is contained, rather than have the gel attach to your clothes and drag wetness to your outside clothing! LOL

While this might be a WTF moment for some, I think this is probably the definitive video for what those who consider themselves ABs would love to have the freedom to do, publicly upon whim, and be able to do to relive their childhood or satiate their "inner child". While some might find the whole thing distressing and ridiculous, this is what many in the AB world would like to be able to have, to be able to do, to be able to see. For me, it wouldn't do a thing for me and I really would be embarassed for the person "acting out". However, in this situation, except for "Grandma", the "baby" maintains real anonymity via the mask - which is so realistic and "to scale"! As to how it portrays those in "our community", and as to how it affects our "community" and public perceptions thereof, perhaps, with the mask, and the anonymity, it would allow a particular public freedom and an overall "whatever" attitude toward such a public display. As opposed to being "put off" or disgusted, or thinking it's just plainly silly, the more I think about it, this really isn't too bad a way to approach the "need to be out" or the "need to go public" aspect of AB, without imposing on other adults, especially unsuspecting others, who might truly be offended by such a public display! Thank you for posting this! I would have never found it otherwise!

It's wonderful that you are willing to indulge your husband. You are truly one of a kind, and are the type coveted by many lonely little boys. That said, it seems that you are indulging your husband, which is fine, but what about YOU? Does indulging him give you pleasure? Do certain things that you do give you more pleasure than other things? Have you asked him what things particularly humiliate him, and are you willing to indulge these desires in him, without humiliating YOU - like out in public? Do any of his suggestions kind of spawn other ideas in you, or give you a little twinge of "naughtiness", such that you might like to try something more or something a little more involved than what you currently are doing? And, is HE making sure that YOU are fulfilled and satisfied in ways that YOU like to be pleased, pleasured and satisfied? This thing is a two-way street when it comes to a couple indulging each other, especially when the indulgences may appear or seem to be "out of the norm" as perceived by "regular" society. Good luck, best wishes and thanks for posting here!

I find that my diaper fetishism, my addiction, my leanings and urges, can be very normalistic - just wear and use diapers, by choice - or, when the time comes or the situation calls for it, it can be very sexual. At this point in my life I like ME. I'm comfortable with who I am and how I am. I've reached a place of contentment and comfort, and glad I have. I can only wish the same for others...

And, everybody worries about being identified, being discovered, being "outed". It's diapers, for cripe's sake. They are legal and a viable product. If that's all the farther it goes, it's not much of a problem given the world of incontinence and its care. And, for most, "There, but for the Grace of God, go I..." were your diapers discovered ON YOU. As far as the other aspects of the AB/DL world, that may be another thing. But, it's diapers! We all worry way too much about too many things. The more comfortable we are with ourselves, the more comfortable we can become with other like-minded brothers and sisters in our "community", and to hell with what the rest of the world thinks! We can't control or change what other people think about us or what we do. We don't have to give 'em fodder for consumption and conversation, but otherwise, we can not care if they're uptight over what WE do, especially if it doesn't hurt them or impact them. Like I usually say, we, of our community, seem to be our own worst enemies at times...