Alrighty, thanks for all the responses so quick, I'm still not sure what to do, because I've pretty much only lived my diapered life in the shadows as it is, so not telling one more person(whom i do not plan on marrying) shouldn't be too bad. also I'm headed to college within a couple months, so i won't see her for a while if it does go poorly. i think that I'll broach the subject not in relation to myself and see how that goes, obviously not representing the "people" who do this sort of thing in a negative light, that would be pretty self deprecating, that is unless it repulses her then i will have to deny a part of myself(for now.
idk if you guys can see the poll results but it was seven votes for number one, and one vote for two. crushing victory for honesty =D