baby kalie

I recently ask my mother and she told me she'll think about giving me his name and his information. So i'm hoping to get an answer by the end of next week or the begining of the week coming up. =)

Tnx again everyone, especially babyvr6. I Made my decision and I'm going to ask my moher about him and hopefully meet him. I decided on this because I don't think I can keep going through life without knowing. I definitely don't want to wait to long and something unfortunate happens and then I will never get the chance to meet him.

I know Sarah, and that whats worries me so much . I don't want her to think she's a bad mother or I want to replace her in any way. I really don't want to harm anypne by doing this, especially if he was abusive to her, and now I starting to quetion is it even worth it .

I was born in the states and i wasn't adopted. As far as my birth certificate goes only my mothers name is on it. I havn't asked my mother yet I'm trying to muster up enough courage to do it. so, wish me luck.

Yea, I think theres more to the story then he just didn't want to be there. My mom told me one time that she had this sports car and some how it got wrecked by her boyfriend. I almost positive she was tlking about him. Thanks for the advice Honu

Thanks Rihaana I really appriecate the support and advise. =)

Th genetics backround is a good ideal but I'm not having any kids anytime soon and my mums knows that. So, I don;t know if I can get away with that. I have some other concerns to. I have a older sister and she seems to be content on not knowing our father. now I'm worried that I might hurt some of my family if I pursue this.

Thnx You guys I really apprieciate it.

So, for about a year now I been really wanting to know my birth father. I don't know his name nor have I every met him. My mother never spoke about him and pretty much pretends that he dosnt exist. I feel kinda silly in away because I feel like if he didn't want to have anything to do with me I should just leave him alone, right? But I can't. I'm not really expecting anything in return if I meet him, nor will I be disappointed if he turns me away. I just feel it's something I have to do. I don't know how to go about asking my mother about him. Any ideals on how to ask my mother or do you think I should just drop this? Thanks

K thanks guys