pampers212

I don't post here much anymore, not that I used to much before, but I figured I'd share my experience I just had sharing this part of me with my girlfriend of 4 months. She took it well. To give you some idea of where we both are in life; she holds a masters degree in counseling psychology. She isn't my therapist, she's my girlfriend, but still that is an asset for both of us to understanding of each other's journey in life and our mental health struggles. I came into this relationship having done 3 years of therapy to resolve a lot of issues from my childhood. I haven't really brought up this part of myself with my therapist, as I felt no need to do so. I shared this with her, and told her how the desires came out of my childhood and how they have always been with me. I told her that I felt shame over it for many years but have come to accept it as part of myself that will never go away. She told me that she understands how things like this can come about, and that it isn't a dealbreaker for her at all. She is at this point uncertain how comfortable she would be if I wore around her, and I let her know I have no need to involve her in this, but that I'm concerned about a future where are more committed than now, and that we will need to revisit this in that context. She is glad that she doesn't know much about our community so that it hasn't colored her perceptions, and that she can learn about it from me and what it means to me. There is much that we will still discuss down the road, but I am fully confident that she wants to be supportive and that we will be able to communicate openly and honestly about this without bringing judgment, shame or criticism into it. So that's just it, just wanted to share that. Feel free to ask me anything.

OK, so this isn't diaper related at all, but it's something I've wanted to ask but only on an anonymous forum like this. For many years now I've resigned to just sit on the toilet when I pee. The reason for this is kinda weird. Often times when I pee, the stream of urine builds up a strange surface tension on the head of my dick, and I get 2 streams shooting off at an angle. If I stand at the toilet, it goes all over the floor. Now it isn't painful or anything, and I've never had a UTI or any other medical problem down there. I am cut as well. What gives with this? Is this a common thing for us guys? I really wouldn't know.

What a fucking idiot. Hire a fetish friendly escort and negotiate a role playing agreement. Maybe a little more money but you don't hear from the cops about misleading someone into participating in your fetish without informed consent.

This is irresponsible exhibitionism and should not represent in any way the ABDL lifestyle. Unfortunately few people outside the community will make the distinction, and this guy clearly doesn't or he wouldn't be throwing our image under the bus like that. People have a hard enough time telling their SO about this side of them without this perception in the public eye. SMFH.

I used google translate images to determine that the string of characters below the hearts reads something like "not for resale" in Chinese. Seems reasonable enough if these were made to order for a medical facility or something. Probably will be impossible to get a brand off these...

So I found this pack of what I assume are diapers in the local Value Village. I'm not sure of the brand and want to research them before I consider buying, because I hate cheap quality diapers. Problem is I can't read what I assume to be Chinese. The best I can do is search everrich, the only English on the pack, and I get the website below. Doing my best with google translate I wasn't able to find any info. https://www.everrich-group.com/ Can anyone help me with this?

For me it was a little underwhelming at first. I was 29 and decided to order ABU SDK for my first try. My most vivid memories of diapers from childhood were sneaking into places like a nursery to handle one and pretend to put it on. Or taking one out of a pack of diapers in the bathroom when aunts were staying over with baby cousins. That sort of thing came with a risk factor of being caught, which really amped up the excitement of diapers for me. So being 29, living alone and putting one on didn't have the same feeling for me. But after a little bit of time wearing, something happened that I didn't expect. I began to really relax down there, to the extent that I thought I might wet or mess uncontrollably. It was an amazing release of pelvic floor tension and I cannot create that feeling any other way. Once in a while I will change in a public toilet stall just for the feeling of risk, or go to a dark field or wooded trail at 3am, but I don't push that too far.

Here is a quick review of them: I ordered a case last week from Age comfort, I placed the order Friday and was surprised they arrived today. My initial reactions was that they are on the thin side, not as bulky as a Safari print diaper that I've had many of. They do seem to fit a bit bigger than the Safari, a little higher on the waist, which I prefer. They feel a little closer to a 24/7 in this regard. I've only wet once, and they hold fine. I don't find there to be a prominent fragrance as they claimed, but I also don't smell urine either. I may not be able to wear this one long enough to judge capacity, but I don't feel like they are going to leak. They absorbed everything quite well, and I don't feel wet or uncomfortable in them. The standing leak guards are taller than I'm used to, which is good, I do hope that helps with flooding. I recently had a case of Rears Seduction, and after a 2nd flooding, long after the 1st had had time to absorb, they would often leak over the standing guards. I have the same problem with the City Print. Getting a snug fit with these isn't difficult, and doesn't result in the leak guards or elastic leg bands digging in or being uncomfortably tight. The padding seems to be more gel than fluff, as opposed to the Safari. When wet they feel very gel like, much like a Tranquility ATN or an ABU SDK or Cushies. That has me somewhat worried about quick absorption, as I find the polymers are slow to absorb while the fluff is quick. The plastic on these is loud, much more than other Rearz diapers, and probably the loudest I've worn. I did find though that wearing boxer briefs over them and then jeans I was confident to go out in public without hearing it myself. But if you like to wear discretely under shorts or a skirt, with or without underwear or some sort of compressing undergarment, these might be a problem for that. My one major complaint is the tapes. They don't seem to hold up well to refastening, with the adhesive seeming to be transfered onto the landing panel on the front of the diaper. I haven't slept in this at all (the true test of tapes), and have only done a couple adjustments to the top tapes while putting it on, and removed both tapes on the right side to go #2. As I type this, both right tapes are letting go and won't stay on again, so it is either reinforce them with some better tape or time to change. I would suggest making sure that the tapes fasten in such a way that the material they are holding is only at tension along the lengh of the tape, not twisting. But for my first try, these need much better tapes IMO. Perhaps this was a compromise for a lower price point, but that to me is an unacceptable compromise. I've been in this one for only 3 1/2 hours and it doesn't hold well any more. I give these 3.5 out of 5. If the tapes worked as well as the Safari it would be a 4.5, easily. The lack of fluff is the other 0.5 point, as I feel a good ABDL diaper needs fluff to handle flooding. That rating might change with more use as I get used to them and test their capacity.

From the article: “We believe the adult male needs professional psychological help,” wrote Roth in an email. “The case is about his behaviour, the imposition of his fetish on non-consenting women at the university and the inadequacy of the university’s response to the concerns of those women.” I'm glad that they see it as a problem with imposting his fetish with non consent. There seems to be no judgment of his fetish or association of his fetish with mental health problems. This, unfortunately, is in my neck of the woods. To the male who behaves like this at VIU, if you are reading this, I'd like you to PM me here. You are on my turf buddy and you are making a bad name for people like us. I'd like to talk with you about appropriate expressions of your fetish lifestyle.

Does anyone feel that the ABDL diaper market is just saturated with options? I look at sites like Rearz, Bambino, ABU, and there are just endless options, most of them are pricey too. It kinda makes me indecisive about a purchase. It was much simpler when there was just Bambino and the medical ones. Thoughs?

Wow, that was really harsh of her.

Saw this clip on Youtube of Aubrey Plaza comparing a harness to a very tight diaper.

It is not uncommon that while a child is being potty trained that diapers are associated with shame or guilt, and the child is taught that they are a big boy/girl and shouldn't need them.

Well today I just ordered a pink woman's bikini off Amazon.

Did anyone else get the Magnifico teaser shot in their inbox today?