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    • It doesn't happen to me often, but a few months ago I was in the library. Desk space there is limited and I didn't want to lose my spot, so I tried to wait it out as long as I could before getting up to use the bathroom. Getting up would mean taking my lapotp with me, going to the bathroom, then going back and possibly having to look for another outlet that isn't occupied. I waited a couple minutes too long, and as I was packing up my laptop, I was starting to lose it. By the time I was within ten feet of the restrooms, I was already fully soiled.
    • It doesn't happen often, but it did happen a few days ago. Before that, I'd gone almost a whole month without a poop accident and I felt discouraged. Woke up needing to poop, tried to get out of bed but I was too slow. Even with my own bathroom that's close by, I wasn't able to make it.
    • I really look forward to my twice daily poo poos in my nappy. I love pooping!
    • Thank you so much, dear Littlebedwetterboy! Yes! Feedback feels very good. Besides, without this feedback, you have no idea whether you are being understood. Whether the characters and actions are being portrayed correctly. I am also interested in whether others find their own experiences reflected or, as you put it, were able to gain new perspectives on the affected characters. Tom's freezing up over his own helplessness is very typical. The fact that Tom encounters so many other bedwetters is a "literary" exaggeration. I personally only experienced this a few times myself. But it was always very important to me. "How do other parents deal with this?" "How do the affected children?" For Tom, it is a MIRROR of himself. Through this, he realizes how others perceive him in this situation. Because this is such an authentic experience, I repeatedly give in to the temptation to show Tom: "This is how you appear to others," especially to the caregivers. Poor Pia, for example. She might hope that nobody saw her diaper pants; except for her sister, maybe nobody knows. She lives in fear that it could come out tonight. In reality, for someone who goes through the day—and especially the evening—with a bit of interest and curiosity, there are far too many clues. Tom is not the only one putting two and two together here. But he won't say anything. We all know it. The other mothers might know it too. They won't say anything either, and that is an additional burden. For both of them! Tom realizes: "It is that obvious," and probably for me too. Mike surely knows already. Paul? Ashley? How do you behave correctly then? How ridiculous do I look right now? Tomorrow, my Superman pajamas will look even sillier to the others. Even without a diaper. It will happen more often that Tom is confronted with fellow sufferers like this in order to understand himself better. This realization is also part of his freezing up. So please forgive me if I deviate from the absolute truth from time to time. In the story, I mainly want to make the feelings understandable. The shame, the fear that you have yourself. The curiosity of others. The overwhelmed state of the caregivers. The malicious joy of other mothers. The arrogance of some doctors.     Thank you so much for taking the time. For my story. For Tom. And for your comments, which offer a glimpse into your soul.
    • I love all the range of Kiddo range of nappies. I'm excited to get them tomorrow. I kinda have a nappy addiction. I promsied myself I wouldn't buy any more nappies for 8 weeks but couldn't help myself again. I think I have too many lol.  
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