DaveeBEd Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 I'm still dreaming of that night when I wake up wet! 1 Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 Nothing i can do about so ive just accepted ,adapted and move on but i defenetly NOT Enjoy any of this IC Link to comment
incondl Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 6 minutes ago, Baby Girl Sarah said: Nothing i can do about so ive just accepted ,adapted and move on but i defenetly NOT Enjoy any of this IC There are some things a person cannot change so in many ways it's best to turn lemons into lemonade. I hope at some point you'll be able to do that. Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 Thank you dear and to be clear im not feeling bad about this i just dont LIKE it Link to comment
incondl Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 10 minutes ago, Baby Girl Sarah said: Thank you dear and to be clear im not feeling bad about this i just dont LIKE it How long has it been for you being incontinent? Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 Started as a we girl with MANY occasional both night and day " accidents from both ways " got that to calm down at say 10 then got diagnose IBS /and stress stummock at around 20 and roughly say 8 years back things began to down hill ever so faster and i had to start wearing when out on trip's and now 3 years ago when things REALLY went down hill FAST on fecal i had no chice then to start 24 /7 and this past year urine have picked up the pace as well with lightning speed to were i am today (cant say im surprised really considering al i have stacked against me for risk factors on both day and night IC ) Link to comment
incondl Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 10 minutes ago, Baby Girl Sarah said: Started as a we girl with MANY occasional both night and day " accidents from both ways " got that to calm down at say 10 then got diagnose IBS /and stress stummock at around 20 and roughly say 8 years back things began to down hill ever so faster and i had to start wearing when out on trip's and now 3 years ago when things REALLY went down hill FAST on fecal i had no chice then to start 24 /7 and this past year urine have picked up the pace as well with lightning speed to wear i am today (cant say im surprised really considering al i have stacked against me for risk factors on both day and night IC ) After I learned the management aspect of it I find that it's no longer a problem for me. It takes no real time out of my day to do the clean up & changing. It's just something that needs to be done and I don't mind it. Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 I used to get upset and frankly angry but nowadays i just accept it and clean up and change diaper and get on with it 1 Link to comment
rusty pins Posted January 6, 2019 Share Posted January 6, 2019 Yes, while many people actually love being a bedwetter or incontinent to the point they have made the personal choice to give up the toilet and make themselves totally incontinent, there are many who are incontinent by other means beyond their control. Many have accepted it, made lemonade and turned a negative into a positive since there is no alternative to their incontinence. That is a good positive way to look at things, but those people still don't have to like the situation they are in. They may even enjoy a good diaper now and then (such as I do), but it's different when you have the choice to enjoy a diaper for fun now and then rather than having to always wear them 24/7/365 for a need. You can do the best you can and have a positive outlook rather than mope around all the time and seclude yourself away from everyone and everything, but acceptance of your situation doesn't mean you have to like the situation life has thrown at you. 1 Link to comment
Needingababysitter Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 I have no regrets what life has thrown at me with having to wear diapers. And I very much like the situation I'm in, and having someone in my life who does except me for who I am. 1 Link to comment
oldwetter66 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 I day wet too how many of you day wet as well as wet at night Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 I guess im one of us as i wet day & night both nr 1 -2 Link to comment
stevewet Posted January 19, 2019 Author Share Posted January 19, 2019 7 hours ago, oldwetter66 said: I day wet too how many of you day wet as well as wet at night I wet day and night and wear nappies 24/7 Link to comment
WBxx Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 21 hours ago, oldwetter66 said: I day wet too how many of you day wet as well as wet at night Although daytime control is increasingly a struggle, at his point I wear and wet only at night. Link to comment
Angela Bauer Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 My bladder control problems both night and day are beyond my control. Therefore I am not ashamed or embarrassed. I simply put on the most effective kind of diaper whic is discreet enough for the situation. At home when we do not have visitors I prefer to wear pinned gauze diapers. For work I wear GoodNites Tru-Fit which are discreet and yet absorb enough they do not leak if I fall asleep when resting. Link to comment
Danielgartin6993 Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 On 8/19/2014 at 11:42 AM, stevewet said: Seeing there are a lot of bedweters using this site I wondered how do you feel about your bedwetting? For me it was a shock when it came back after quite a few years of totally dry nights. At first I felt ashamed and dirty but my wife who like me was a chronic bedwetter all through her childhood said I shouldn't worry about it and as long as we took steps to protect our bed and I agree'd to wear pads or nappies she wasn't in the slightest bothered by it. This did make me feel better. I started to do some reserch on the net to find just how common adult bedwetting is. This was before I saw a urologist. I was amazed to find there are lots of adults who wet at night and then with some deeper searching I discovered there were many who actually enjoyed it and the further I looked the more intruiged I was. It seems to me that many accept their incontinence and become DL as a way of coping with it. I quite liked this idea and started to explore sites like this and decided it was the way forward for me. I have now become interested in all aspects of bedwetting and incontinence. I like reading other peoples stories and posts and have come to enjoy wearing pads, pull ups, incontinence pants Honestly I’ve been wetting the bed a little bit occasionally for two years and I’m embarrassed because I don’t have any protection and I need it but nobody in my family believes adult bed wetting exists and that my bladder is damaged due to neurological damage that will never heal and it’s also very small for my age so I need to pee a lot in fact I’ve already peed three times tonight and I would have wet my bed if I didn’t run to a toilet On 1/4/2019 at 6:52 AM, Baby Girl Sarah said: Nothing i can do about so ive just accepted ,adapted and move on but i defenetly NOT Enjoy any of this IC You’re incontinent sweetie , I understand completely sometimes we can’t hold it when we need to go potty Link to comment
Danielgartin6993 Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 On 1/19/2019 at 10:00 AM, WBxx said: Although daytime control is increasingly a struggle, at his point I wear and wet only at night. I’ve started leaking a little bit occasionally at night I think I might have to wear a diaper to bed just in case Link to comment
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