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Greg03

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  1. I’m the same. I use to wear more discreet protection during the daytime but I was always worrying about leaking or had the hassle of public changes and carrying nappies with me. Now I wear thick nappies all the time, usually betterdry and it just feels weird without them
  2. Most of the time I don’t feel anything, I just leak. Sometimes if I’ve been sitting in a way that stops the flow (usually when driving) I’ll feel a heavier stream once I’ve changed position.
  3. I started school in diapers as I wasn’t day dry until I was 10 or so. It was just normal for me, I don’t remember feeling embarrassed. My closest friends knew once I was a bit older, they never made a big deal of it. I wore pull ups until I was about 8, as they were easy for me to change then after that I wore proper diapers and then training pants until I was able to stay dry. I don’t remember ever having a noticeable accident.
  4. My situation is very similar to yours. I’m a lifelong bedwetter, so I’ve always worn diapers to bed but after wearing during the day (often through laziness than anything else) that started my declining continence. It started with having to go more frequently and feeling the need to go all the time. I began to experience post void dribbles plus not quite making it to the bathroom in time, I’d have a wet spot before I got my pants down. This affected my confidence in staying dry, so I was always in pull ups “just in case”. Around that time I got very down about it all, and tried to re toilet train but I was not successful, the stress and worry of accidents was too much. I also found that there were several things that were just impossible without protection. Cinema trips, long journeys, going any place where I’d be far from a restroom. At this point I finally accepted that I wasn’t day dry, and hadn’t been for quite some time. I’m now permanently in diapers. From what you’ve said, you are already incontinent. It’s probably habitual rather than physical, but that doesn’t mean that retraining will be easy. I wouldn’t risk at this point, being out in public without protection, you’re probably not very far away from your first accident. Use time when you’re home alone to “air out”. Use a chair pad or sit on your diaper, you’ll get a good idea of what your bladder is doing. Don’t worry about travel, I travel a lot and as a diaper wearer, it’s much easier than you might think.
  5. Thanks. I’ve always seen a urologist regularly due to being a lifelong bedwetter. He’s satisfied with my progress so far but he was also not surprised that I’d started to have daytime issues. At the moment I am having good days and bad. Today I stayed dry, yesterday I had an accident. What I hate is that my dry days are not dry. Yes I make it to the bathroom but I still need to wear a pad because I can’t stop dribbling. For some reason this affects me more than wearing diapers does.
  6. Thanks everyone who replied, it was really interesting reading your views. I can see both sides of the coin. For some of you, The stress of trying to stay dry just isn’t worth it compared to the security of wearing a diaper. For me, I am undoubtably more confident in a diaper. What I don’t like is the idea of being dependent on them during the day. What is getting me down is that after months of stress and hard work, I’m still not fully dry. On the other hand, I agree with those who said that it’s silly to throw away the progress I have made. I’m trying not to beat myself up about it, that’s it’s ok to still need a diaper from time to time. I am torn between believing I can become dry and maybe admitting that I probably do need diapers
  7. I haven’t been very active on the forum in the past 6 months, partly because I’ve been “toilet training”. I never been dry at night and have always worn a diaper to bed. I’m cool with that and realistically not something I could change anyway. About 2 years ago, my daytime continence started to gradually decline. In all honesty, this was down to my own “laziness”. I’d get changed for bed early in the evening, including my diaper. I began to notice that when I wasn’t in diapers, I was having to visit the bathroom more frequently. I began to wear diapers during the day with increased frequency. It got to the stage where I was in a diaper the majority of the time. I began to have the odd accident where I knew if I hadn’t been in a diaper, I’d have wet myself. Although there were still times where I could make the bathroom, I wasn’t reliably dry and I needed at minimum a “just in case” pull up. At the time I enjoyed the convenience and peace of mind and my girlfriend was supportive. The only thing I disliked was in public when I knew I was wetting my diaper. I didn’t have a problem wearing in public, but I felt ashamed the times I’d tried to hold it or make it to the WC but could not. Around 6 months ago, I started to feel differently, perhaps triggered by breaking up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I no longer wanted to be in diapers during the day and I also didn’t fancy the idea of having to be diapered during a date. Bedwetting at least doesn’t come up until you’ve had the chance to get to know each other. I spent months working on my daytime continence and got to the stage where I only needed a pad in regular underwear (post void dribbling won’t go away). But I do have to watch my fluid intake and generally make sure I am near to a bathroom. Recently a couple of activities have meant that I’ve used a daytime pull up (long drive and an especially long movie at the theater). On both occasions I needed to use my pull up. Whilst I was disappointed with myself, I also felt a lot more secure in a pull up. It was the first time in months I hadn’t had to worry about taking regular trips to the bathroom or not drinking too much. It got me asking myself the question- am I really day time dry if it takes this amount of effort and worry? I’m considering wearing diapers again during the day but part of me doesn’t want to “give in”. Apologies for long, rambling post. Any thoughts on this?
  8. If I’m going to have an accident, it will almost always be when standing up after being seated for a while
  9. For me it's very much a mixture of ashamed/embarrassed and relief/relaxing. After battling to stay dry, diapers are a pleasant reminder that stress is no longer there
  10. Urinary incontinent, occasional bowel accident, usually when sick
  11. I find that a lot of the new technology used in "base layer" clothing is very breathable and keeps you cool. When it's warm, I usually wear compression shorts then normal shorts over them. Keeps my nappy hidden and in place and isn't as warm as it sounds. When I go on holiday, we rent somewhere with our own pool so that I can easily swim, change etc but if I'm in and out of the pool frequently, I don't put a nappy back on until I've dried off, not much point really!
  12. I've always been a bedwetter. My daytime control has declined gradually over the last couple of years. I've always struggled
  13. Aren't these one of THE most expensive diapers on the market?!
  14. My girlfriend has always been accepting of my need for diapers but there's a big difference between being ok with it and being comfortable and confident with it. For a long time I was very self conscious around her when it came to diapers and bed wetting. Now it's completely normal for both of us, we talk about it when it comes up and she sometimes helps me change.
  15. I'm the same, I'm in diapers full time but I wear briefs over the top. Helps to keep diapers from sagging and becoming more noticeable
  16. Yeah, it happens. I dribble constantly but if my bladder is full, it's more of a continual stream. It's not really an issue, you just learn to keep the old diaper in position until the new one goes on. The only time I really think about it is when coming out of the shower, my bathroom floor is tiled so it's easily cleaned up but if I don't put a diaper on, I will dribble all over the floor. I either get dry enough whilst still in the shower so I can put a diaper on immediately, or I use it as a chance to air out, and mop up once diapered again.
  17. I assume that since this is the adult bedwetters forum, the OP intended it to be a question posed to those for whom fetish is not, or at least not their primary reason for diapers. Things are very different when you need diapers
  18. I don't hide it, everyone knows I'm incontinent but I don't particularly have diapers on display. If you opened a cupboard you might see a packet of diapers or spot a used one in the trash but nothing obvious.
  19. My parents attempted to toilet train me at the "normal" age of 3 but I still needed daytime diapers until I was about 10. I've never been dry at night, there's something which affects the males in my family. My father has always been a bedwetter and my nephews who are 6, 9 and 11 are all still in full time diapers despite my sister not having any wetting issues.
  20. I do wear 24/7 now but part of me still likes to think I could get day dry or at least to the point where I don't need full protection. In reality though, I've little control now and mostly just dribble
  21. No. Is the short answer but for me, it's quite a big deal to admit that. Despite being a lifelong bed wetter, I only began wearing diapers during the day about a year ago. I began to have minor control issues during the day, largely caused by laziness if I'm being honest. I didn't like the idea of having to wear a diaper in public so I stopped wearing during the day and attempted to stay daytime dry. I quickly found out that I was unable to deal with the stress of trying to stay dry.
  22. Likewise, although I was caught out the other day and whilst I didn't leak, it became VERY obvious that I was in a diaper. Thankfully no one said anything
  23. If you've been wearing diapers most nights for an extended period of time then it probably has weakened your bladder slightly. Chances are, you probably are dribbling during the night but as you're wearing a diaper, it's not noticeable.
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