diaperguy85

i've started using plain cornstarch from the supermarket it's easy to imbue it with your own custom smells, too! i dump about 2/3 a pound (give or take, no science here) into a quart mason jar, you need room in the jar. then add either 6-12+ Q-tips or a few cotton balls that you sprayed/dipped/dampened in your preferred scent-liquid. i have a beard oil that i like, but you can use essential oils, cologne, perfume, etc. so throw the cotton balls or q-tips in the jar, lid up tightly, and shake the hell out of it. do this once or twice a day for at least a week. then apply as usual!

i know that equate brand rash/barrier cream has a bit of a "low tide"-kinda smell to it. read the ingredients, it contains cod liver oil. not an awful smell, but not exactly a nice one, either. kind of reminded me of an islay style scotch lol but not in a good way. calmoseptine is my go-to brand, to me it just smells clean and kind of medicinal, sort of like a nurse's office at school or maybe a doctor's office. much better and nicer smell than the funky fish undertones of equate lol. @dyperbole, that hard to place smell is probably calamine. used for treating skin itches/irritations, like big bites, poison ivy/oak/sumac and chickenpox. it's a darker, almost tan-ish shade of pink and has the consistency of heavy cream. it's the #1 listed ingredient on the inactive ingredient list. i love the stuff!

honestly... not an awful lot lol i'd simply wear more often and wear a lot more out and about. hang out in my diaper more on the porch, around friends, family, go to work, i'd get the mail in just t-shirt and diaper, hang out by the firepit, drink beer, do pretty much what i do usually, just in a diaper but all said, i think this world might see it as a "whatever and who cares" kinda thing, but some modestly and boundaries are still encouraged. going out to dinner in just a onesie (even if it is a polo shirt one!) and diaper would be frowned upon, kinda similar to going to a fancy place in just an old t-shirt and torn, ratty jeans or strolling down the street in your underwear. i feel that diapers would be considered a form of underwear in this world, and strutting about main street in nothing but a diaper would be considered indecent exposure. of course, as autie said, there would be places where you could enjoy said activities (honestly, shooting skeet in a t-shirt and diaper is a dream of mine! lol) while clad in simply your diaper and shirt (if desired), like nudist resorts/colonies/beaches/etc only with diapers, toys and blankies. escorts and ladies/men of the evening would regularly give caregiver and caregiver-dom services. the seemingly quite desperate, emotionally and sexually frustrated/horny online population would more than likely shrink significantly, if not nearly vanish entirely. incontinence and diaper dependency cases would probably rise significantly, straining disposable diaper manufacturing to keep up with demand, and filling our landfills with literal bio-hazard waste. as a result, cloth diapers would probably be as popular, if not even more popular than disposables, especially in today's more environmentally conscious public. washing machines and dryers may be designed larger and more powerful to handle the loads of cloth diapers, and detergents would rise to meet new expectations of cleanliness and fabric preservation. everyday fashion would change to accommodate the significantly more absorbent underwear, and not just in an AB kind of way of bright colors and fun prints. pants would have a more fuller cut around the crotch region to facilitate bulk, hell, men might widely adopt the classic and wonderful kilt in this world! pants, kilts, dresses, etc would probably be treated with scotch guard or other moisture repelling additives to protect from leaks and stains. infrastructure would be different. in addition to men's and women's and family bathrooms, changing rooms and/or stalls would have to be added to buildings and codes. certain cosmetics, powders and perfumes/colognes/body sprays could be more geared to odor neutralization, instead of just a cover up (those would be still around, too, but perhaps just stronger and differently scented aimed at the ABDL crowd). i could really go on and on, speculative thought and design intrigues me so much

my warm weather "day time pajamas" consist of some loose lounge shorts, an over sized t-shirt, diaper, and a pair of PUL pants. of course my roommate (girlfriend) knows i wear and supports me wearing. so honestly i could go in just a t-shirt and diaper and it would be fine. night time jammies are a boosted megamax, PUL pants, and long night shirt. i recently got a new night shirt (and ordered a few more!) that are so soft, and breathable and comfy! might order enough to make them my day time pajamas too! lol

yea, actually i wouldn't be surprised if she could have gotten two or more hands in both at once, i was surprised nothing else was falling out! as for the type of porn: fetish - stretching. it's a thing, and there's a fair bit of it lol honestly, it's amazing what the human body can do.

my first "diapers" were old towels stuffed into my undies lol no plastics, no pins, just towels stuffed into my underwear. they leaked right through, but i loved it lol my first diaper was shortly after. i discovered an open bag of toddler diapers, maybe goodnights, but i do not know. they didn't fit at all, but they were great compared to the towels. my first adult diaper was some sort of depends, i think. or maybe attends... i honestly don't remember lol and they were another great upgrade my first premium adult diaper was i think a bambino. and then i knew i was in trouble lol no turning back to cheapo diapers after that lol

agreed on the pull-ups. i'd love to see a good highly absorbent pull-up! the bambino ones were/are garbage, i got a sample when they came out. while they were quite possibly the most comfy thing i've ever worn, they were also the most disappointing. they leaked during the first wetting. not like a little leak out the leg, like i was barely wearing anything more than a light-use depends. but i digress. as for the sizing issue, i do agree that sizing would be an issue to get a proper fit. people come in so many different shapes and sizes, it would be nigh impossible to make everything needed. however, i do feel that depends has already answered this question. granted, they pale in comparison to...well... basically everything as far as diapers go lol but their adjustable adult protective underwear is the answer, or at least the proof-of-concept/prototype. basically, it's a pull-up but with tapes. sounds odd, but it seems to be the answer. i used them in college when i had few options, the tapes are a velcro/hook-and-loop type. you pull the garment up, then tighten the fit with the tapes to get the perfect fit! i remember then being quite comfortable, and stayed put with no issues. it's been years since i've used them, but i did like them. and i feel that design is the answer! also i would like to see more in the way of "japanese style" diaper covers. fuubuu/nicediaper.com is so far the only manufacturer that i've found that has them. i know a few british sites have them, but they get them from fuubuu lol. anyway, at least a few more colors. they make them in pvc in a few colors, and in PUL in three or four colors. the british sites have them in a few AB patterns. but i'm more DL, and more colors would be great.

hey there, fellow jersey dweller! welcome to the site! hope you enjoy yourself! my PM is always open

saw a woman's page on tumblr (before the purge) who was extremely stretched, and i mean extremely! i won't go into much detail, but it was crazy how loose she was, easily able to take two hands with plenty of room to spare. i think she signed up with some porn studio after that... can't remember her name, sorry. anyway, she got a question from a viewer(?) who asked if she could still keep anything in or have any accidents. she replied something along the lines of everything works fine and she has no problems with messing or any accidents. like @foreverdlsaid, everyone's anatomy is different. just don't hurt yourself.

agreed. people that call footie jamies onesies need to do some more research lol i own two footie-less footie pajamas, but i call them my "flight suits" or "fuzzers" because of how they're cut and since they are a fleece material. my g/f also has one in a koala motif lol she loves it, but only wears it in cooler weather. i want to try these so much!!! but i'd prefer a non-abdl print, and just a solid color. from what i hear she does do custom work. so maybe just give her a message, i plan to one day once house projects finish up. babykins has rompers too, but they're only in baby blue, baby pink and white, so a bit of a bummer for me. i much prefer rompers to traditional onesies. i've found that the crotch of traditionals slides up into my diaper causing leaks. plus i like the greater coverage on my legs.

now.... when you say "onesie".... do you mean the often snap-crotch, longer t-shirt kinda thing or a zip-up fuzzy body/jump suit often (but not always) in the shape of an animal often called a onesie by the non-abdl public? because both are great with diapers!! t-shirts and diapers are fun, too, but it's got to be the proper temperature to be comfortable. my upper legs get chilled if it's too cool, and i don't like being too warm, so there's a funny little goldilocks zone for me lol

i used to put them in a spare bedroom closet. i had them all stacked up on the floor and the top shelf, some in a little block shelf shelf, and my onesies and stuff on hangers off to the one side. it was great to have that finally! but we're close to using that room as a guest room finally, so my stuff needs to go elsewhere. so now i got some totes that fit under the bed that i'm using. funny thing is, they're all still in the spare bedroom, and a bunch of other stuff is still in the closet. plus i have some drawers in my dresser for some stuff, too. and finally (yea, they're kinda all over the house) the bulk of my stash is currently tucked up and away in the attic. i want to get some large totes for everything up there, but everything in time.

machinist here! just take that money you'd spend on the machine itself (either purchasing or making it yourself), all the needed raw materials (including shipping), maintenance costs, the facility to put all this stuff, electricity bills, and and and all other bills and use it to set yourself up with top-shelf diapers and all other paraphernalia for the rest of your life!

glad i could help out! btw, also look at what babykins and littleforbig have in stock. i have a romper from babykins, and it is my favorite cut! feels like a t-shirt, keeps everything together and up, plus some more coverage on the hips, and no chance of the crotch sliding up into my diaper, but the colors are limited (for me, personally). littleforbig has some adorable onesies! also they're made of possibly the softest fabric i've felt. they're more geared towards a feminine clientele, with more feminine cuts and patterns. so there's that. also there are several stores on ebay and etsy that are worth a look. happy shopping!

woohoo!! bummer that i bought a bag of size large blue ones a couple of months ago. maybe it's time for another purchase

simple enough- just put your onesies in a different spot/hamper! when i still lived at home, i had a meager stash of diapers, as well as a pair or two of plastic pants and a lousy homemade onesie. i think i only washed the onesie a few times, but i never wore it much (wasn't too comfortable and looked like hell). but i kept it all stashed away in a non-descipt box tucked back a bit in my partially cluttered closet. best to my knowledge, no one else besides me (and my g/f) ever went in there, and even if they did, all they'd see was a box among other boxes and other random stuff. does your mom go though your stuff? your closet? dresser? if she does, then maybe it's time for a little privacy chat with her. if she just grabs what you give her, then get your onesies! but keep them tucked away somewhere else until it's laundry day, and do them on your own.

my usual summer diapered attire consists of a slightly over-sized t-shirt, a PUL diaper cover, and elastic wasted shorts. i've recently started calling this outfit this my "daytime pajamas" my nighttime jammies are simply a long night shirt, basically a t-shirt that goes down past my knees and a diaper cover. sometimes i put some oversized boxer-briefs on over my diaper, but not often, i wear shorts over my diaper for mostly three reasons. 1- my thighs and hips get chilled and that makes me uncomfortable (which is what diapers are all about!) and 2- i don't like flaunting my diapers in my g/f's face. she isn't ABDL, but she sees and knows that diapers make me happy and such, so she doesn't mind me diapering up one bit. and 3- the odd and dreaded knock at the front door! which was fairly sparse before, and nearly nonexistent in the current times. 99% of the time, the knock is a delivery guy for ups, amazon, usps, food, etc. but once in a while it's a neighborhood person, which my g/f deals with. friends and family call before coming by, and i extend the same courtesy to them. plus they're not ones to just invite themselves over, unless it's for some emergency. the last weekend i wore, the house was warm and very comfy. we have the air conditioners in, but that day it was just perfect t-shirt and diaper temperature. my g/f felt the same way, and instead of putting on her own shorts over her undies and heading downstairs, just went downstairs in her t-shirt and undies. feeling the same way, i put on just my daytime jammie shirt and headed down to the kitchen! it was a lovely morning! i'm hopeful it happens again!

for me: yes!! i love a good booster pad! they're not required for a good diaper time, but a wonderful addition to most any diaper. a northshore xxl booster in a magamax is a wonderfully bulky and soft experience!

...uuhhhh.... khakis?

i can pee standing, sitting, laying down (with a little difficulty sometimes) and walking (also with a little bit of difficulty). my favorite position for peeing is actually laying down. i really love the sensation and then the feeling of relaxation after and drifting back to sleep. plus then getting up and feeling how heavy the diaper is after i knew i went to bed in a fluffy, light and dry diaper. pooping i can go sitting or standing, i haven't had much opportunity for laying down, but i'm sure that won't be too bad. standing is just very easy for me, but i want to get better with going when sitting. but honestly, my favorite pooping position is sitting... on the toilet lol messing is, well, messy lol

of course! my house, my g/f's rules! lol she fully supports me and my diapers (she doesn't change me or wear diapers herself, bummer) so i can wear whenever i desire

for me, anywhere from medium to x-large, varying on the make and model.

the contoured boosters from totaldry are some of my personal favorites. they come in three sizes: moderate(small, about 500ml), maximum (medium, about 1000ml), and ultimate (large, about 1250ml). the ultimate is my favorite of the bunch. they flow-through nicely, don't swell too much, keep me feeling dry and comfy, and are a good size in my diaper. prices per pad are pretty good too. the most expensive and absorbent one (ultimate) per case of 104 is $63.80 or about .$60/booster. the northshore doublers are also good, i recently ordered the small, large and XXL contoured. all are good, but recently i've been enjoying the XXL contoured booster a lot! it's almost a diaper by itself.... if only it didn't flow-through lol. it's a little less absorbent than the totaldry ultimate, but still is pretty good at about 950ml. it's much larger than any other booster out there, and wicks really well considering it's size. and at .$75/each by the case of 120 ($89.99), it's not too bad. being larger than anything with large wings that fold out, it takes a bit of finagling (not an awful lot) for it to fit and position right so it can do what it does and not leak. once it's in right, it bulks the diaper up in such a wonderful way! i've gone nearly 24 hours in a megamax boosted with the XXL contoured (only changed because of #2). if i didn't have to poo, it probably could have gone for another few hours. xpmedical sells similar boosters, including a xxl contoured, but from what i've gathered and through some trials and tests the northshore comes ahead. i'm sure they're both very close, but i haven't bought the xp variety in years, so that might have an impact on performance. the info i've found from their respective sites, the xp holds about 24oz (give or take) while the northshore holds about 32oz. and yes, the xp5000 is a pretty awesome diaper!

i got a bag of these the other week and they do seem just a little bit small, but not bad, i definitely want to try the size xl. the velcro tapes are awesome! i've never been able to get a diaper taped as tight as these without duct tape! and they stayed stuck throughout the evening. absorbency is solid, haven't given them a proper test yet, they seem to take a booster pretty well, too, but i don't think they really need one. boosted they lasted about 10 hours, so un-boosted perhaps in the 6-8 hour range. they are a more low-rise variety compared to diapers like megamax, betterdry, abena and even seni. but they are definitely a contender and most likely a new addition for my stash.