rubbersheetmike

Managing night wetting isn't a big problem with protection but Im having a lot more problems with daytime control these days. I buy pullups and only usually wear them when I know Im going to be out for a while. But now going out even for 20 or 30 minutes is a challenge. Its now getting cold where I live - about 10 in Farenheit today - and I had to go to the store today after lunch to buy a few things. I felt fine when I left and so just had my cotton briefs on under my jeans. Once I got to the store and there was a long line for the cash I felt the 'pee dance' setting in an I tried not to be noticed. And almost no place has open bathrooms these days because of the pandemic. On the way home I wet myself, soaking my briefs and the front of my jeans and down one pant leg. I didnt even feel myself wetting until Id gone and knew I was wet. I have health problems including neurology and heart issues and take drugs for these and wonder if this is the main reason for the increasing pants wetting?

I constantly have a strong urge to go especially when Im not at home.

I went over to my best DL/BW friends place for New Years eve and the celebrate the end of a bad year and later enjoyed a very wet night. Hope all have a great and wet new year.

My father didnt usually get angry enough to do it in public. But I still remember the few times that he did. My mother tended to stick with a couple swift slaps when she lost her temper. My father's punishment was less common but more severe so that trip to the restroom wasn't a pleasant experience.

Don't worry about it. Your young and will figure out what you like as you try different things.

I am close to you in age and have many similar issues. I think that less bladder control is common as we age. I sometimes wonder if those of us who had bladder issues when we were growing up are also more likely to develop them as we age. Having to pee a lot during the daytime bother me more than wetting at night. It means always having to take precautions. When Im more relaxed at home I wet myself so often that Im often not even aware of it right away.

I havent been to a gay bar for a long time but about maybe 10 years ago when I was at one and wearing a pullup I got noticed. I went to the bathroom and there was one stall that was out of order so had to use a urinal and I had to go really bad so I knew the pullup wouldn't hold it. In order to not get my pullup and pants soaked when I'm out I sometimes just pull it down like I do to underwear. So I loosened my belt and unbuttoned my pants pulled down my diaper and started to go. A young guy then pulled up beside me and asked if I was wearing a diaper. He said it was cool but then when we were back at our tables I could tell he was discussing it with his friends where all looking over towards me. I felt very self-conscience about it. I think watersports are more accepted in the gay community than in the hetero community. I read a survey onetime about sexual practices that said something like 6 or 7 percent of gay men like it or would like to try it. I dont know the percentage for heteros but I suspect it isn't this high.

My parents are both gone now. I had a good relationship with my mother but not so much with my father. My mother was good about my wetting but my father not so much. It was an era when I was growing up before today's disposable products were available. My father refused to allow my mother to get diapers for me because he felt they encouraged me to keep bed wetting.

It was pretty common back in the day. I think the shame of having it done to me in public was more hurtful than the spankings.

I think pee dreams are really common. No big deal if you end up wetting the bed as long as you use protection. A wet mattress is a big hassle and expensive to replace.

My solution for this is to eat unsalted, de-shelled sunflower seeds - as long as your not allergic. I eat small portions a couple times a day and haven't had to deal with constipation for a long time. A 10 oz package lasts for about a week or so and costs about $2.50 to $3 depending on the store. It's a completely natural solution.

I wasnt babied or spoiled at all. I grew up in a big family and my mother was not very patient with us. And our father didnt believe in diapers for overage bedwetting at all. He thought it made it too easy and comfortable for me and my brothers to keep wetting the bed. Starting in our early teens we had to do our own wet laundry. It wasnt an easy or supporting environment.

Waking up with the "Urge" to pee when I dont really have to go is one of my biggest irritations. It could be caused by bladder muscle spasms. When I was in the hospital recently I was told as well that I have somewhat lower than normal bladder capacity. I also know Ive lost some control over my bladder sphincter muscle. Funny thing is that I usually dont feel the urge to pee when my bladder empties involuntarilly whether Im awake or asleep. Ive been told 'don't worry, your aging' so I guess its nothing to get too worked up about. Its no wonder adult incontinence products is now big business.

My answer is B. I prefer to get a full night of sleep.

Careful not to ruin furniture or carpeting at least. Right? You cant ruin most clothes because they can be put in the wash.

I wet the bed regularly during the night until puberty but when it started to lessen I started to go deliberately so I could keep the rubber sheet on my bed. I then became more of a habitual bedwetter as time passed especially after I moved away from home after high school and was drinking alot. But from my mid-20s to mid-40s though I dont think I had more than two or three accidents after I stopped drinking and especially when I started dating regularly. But now Im getting older and having health problems and Ive lost control over it. I cant say that it bothers me a lot but it is more work. Im post-sexual now for ten years so its not a big deal.

I dont go in drips and dribbles throughout the day except after Ive urinated when the excess pee in my bladder flows out. The amount is sometimes a lot more than a drip or dribble. Ive been told this is called 'incomplete voiding' and is caused by weakening sphincter control. I usually ware a pullup if Im away from home during the day but if my bladder releases whether or not Im at home it usually does so all at once and I prefer this because my bladder usually completely empties when this happens. I dont consider myself to be incontinent during the day at least not yet because I can mostly manage to deal with my bladder issues for now. Maybe Im kidding myself about this but Im still trying to manage it. Whether or not I wear a diaper at night I have the same sensation as you when I wake up that I have to get up to pee but often cant produce much at all. And I keep on feeling the bladder pressure even after trying to go. Generally if Im waring a diaper I dont worry about it and try to get back to sleep and whatever happens happens which is what diapers are for. If I dont ware a diaper though I wake up more often and have a harder time sleeping but I pee in the bed just as much. I do consider myself to be mostly bladder incontinent at night as time goes on because I seem to have less control over it.

I used to consider myself politically progressive or even left wing but as I get older Ive become more conservative. Im totally against censorship or government interference in the everyday lives and lifestyles of ordinary people though so I guess I could be considered libertarian in that sense. I think anybody who isn't considered 'normal' by the standards of society is at risk under any political regime that wants to control our lives.

Back in the old days when some places still didnt have modern bathroom facilities we had to use the chamber pot. I remember having to use it when I stayed at my relatives farm in the summer. I wonder how many others on here remember chamber pots?

Daytime is a concern unless your prepared. I dont wear 24 hours a day and usually during the daytime only do if I know I'm going to be out of the house. Even then pullups sometimes just arent enough because I find theyre not enough for a full-on accident.

It will be interesting to see if you get any info on this. Years ago before the internet I used to scan newspaper personal ads and managed to make a few contacts. Some used words like "mellow yellow" and 'golden' in their ads to indicate their interests but it was pretty easy to figure out what they meant if you understood the terms. The problem with the internet is that people are often so far away. And there are lots of scams. I agree with you on that. But good luck. I'll watch this topic with interest.

Maybe. Or it might be that I'd had a couple cups of coffee, although thats pretty common for me. But I find that I'm wetting myself more often these days. I was diagnosed a while ago with a heart issue and was put on some medications for it and I have underlying older problems that I take some heavy duty drugs for treatment. When I use protection its usually okay but I find more often that I don't even realize I have to go before I wet myself. And thats when Im awake.

Ive long had the problem of not realizing that I have to go when Im sleeping but this is becoming a bigger daytime problem too. I have health problems including recently been diagnosed with a serious heart condition. This morning for example I got up and removed my diaper and put on white cotton briefs to have my morning coffee and clean the kitchen. When I moved away from the sink I thought I was stepping in a puddle of water but then realized when I felt my briefs that I had wet myself even though I didnt realize it at the time. I cleaned up and had a shower and then put on a pullup. I often dont realize anymore when I have to pee or have already gone. Has anybody else had this kind of issue?

Wonder why this topic doesnt get more responses? Its one of my fetishes for sure.

An interesting chastity belt. I wore a locked male chastity cage a few times when I was younger because of bad behavior but it was different from the picture in your post.