I started my unpotty training around 8 years ago, I am now 56. I have always loved to wear my diapers since I was 17, 10 years ago I started to wear 24/7 but I still wanted the choice to stop wearing if I needed. The more a wore the more comfortable and relaxed I felt in diapers, so I decided to unpotty train to wet only, took over 4 years to finely become incontinent. At that time my wife told me that if was going to be in diapers for the of my life might as well use them to mess also. So now I wet and mess when every my body needs, I have never looked back and feel at ease with my choice to unpotty train completely.