Diaper References

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Wow. You're really back. And writing a new book? This is amazing. It took me some time to read this long chapter, but now we want to see Oskar home. And Sally being busy... I hope you are going to give her some actual fun for what's left of the summer!

Chapter 16 — The Flight Out We flew north on a bright cold morning in the middle of June, the height of the long northern summer we were sailing into, where the further we went the less the sun would bother to set at all, and the day began with the thing I had been dreading for a week, the airport, the security, the machines and the strangers, and it began going wrong in exactly the way I had feared and then refused, as everything now refused, to become the disaster I had cast it as. I had dressed that morning in what Ellen laid out, the comfortable travel trousers and the soft shirt and, under it, one of the plain bodysuits, the ordinary buttoned kind, snug over the thick travel diaper so that nothing rode up or showed, smooth and contained and invisible. I felt, dressing, oddly armored. I did not yet know how much I would be glad of it. The scanner was the modern kind, the booth you stand in with your arms up while it looks through you, and I stood in it with my arms up and stepped out the other side and was almost past, almost clear, already exhaling, when the officer on the far side, a young woman with a serious face and a screen, raised a hand and said, "One moment, sir," and I felt the whole old terror come up in me at once, cold and total, because she was looking at her screen and then at my waist, at the place where the screen had shown her something it did not expect, a shape, a density, an anomaly in the smooth expected outline of a man. "I'm just going to check your waistband, sir, is that all right," she said, already reaching, professional, neutral, and she put the backs of her gloved fingers to my waist before Ellen, two steps behind me still collecting her tray, could say a word, and she felt it, felt the unmistakable thick give of it under the bodysuit, the padding the machine had flagged, and I stood there with my arms still half raised and my face going crimson and the whole queue behind me and thought, here it is, here is the one I don't get out of. And then Ellen was there, at my shoulder, calm as a Sunday. "He wears continence protection," she said, to the officer, clearly, not lowered, not ashamed, the bank-clerk voice. "Full-time. That's what your machine's found. He's incontinent, it's medical, he's wearing an adult diaper and a bodysuit over it. If you need to check it properly I'd suggest you do it somewhere private, for his sake, not because there's anything to hide." The officer's face did not change, did not flicker, registered the information the way the pharmacist had and the travel agent had and all of them had, as simply a fact that adjusted the procedure. "Thank you," she said. "That's helpful. We'll do it in the room, then, it's just here, it'll take two minutes." And she walked me, not unkindly, to a small private side room off the security hall, Ellen coming with us, and there a second officer, a man, older, equally unbothered, did the brief thorough pat-down that the flagged anomaly required, and confirmed with his hands what the machine had seen and Ellen had said, a man in a diaper, nothing more, nothing of interest, nothing of concern. "That's all fine," he said. "Sorry for the to-do, the scanner flags anything bulky, it doesn't know what it's looking at, it just sees a shape. We have to check." He was already stepping back. "All done, sir, you're fine." And then they checked Ellen's carry-on, because it had gone through with us into the room, and the woman officer opened it and went through it with the same neutral efficiency, and near the top, because Ellen packs sensibly and keeps them to hand, were two spare diapers, the thick ones, folded, obvious. The officer lifted them, looked at them, established they were what they plainly were, and put them back exactly where they had been, and zipped the bag, and handed it to Ellen. "All good," she said. "Thanks for your patience. Have a lovely trip." And that was the whole of it. That was the disaster. A flagged shape, a private room, two strangers' gloved hands, my own diapers examined by an officer of the state and folded back into the bag without one word of comment beyond have a lovely trip, and we walked back out into the bright airport. And then, as we left, I glanced back over my shoulder, the way you do, and I saw the two of them, the young woman and the older man, standing together by the door of the little room, and the man said something to her and she laughed, a real laugh, her hand half to her mouth, and he was smiling too, and I will never know, to this day, whether they were laughing about us, about me, about the diapers folded back into the bag, or about something else entirely, the weather, a colleague, a joke from that morning that had nothing to do with us at all. I could not tell. There was no way to tell. And the not-knowing, which a year before would have eaten me alive, which would have convinced me utterly that they were laughing at the ridiculous man in the diaper and would have soured the entire holiday before it began, did, that morning, almost nothing to me. I looked at the two of them laughing, and I thought, perhaps it's us, and perhaps it isn't, and either way I am about to get on a ship and sail to the top of the world with my wife, and let them laugh if they're laughing, it costs me nothing. And I turned back around and kept walking, and I was, I realized, free of it, free of the thing that had run my life for a year, the certainty that every stranger's amusement was aimed at me. Maybe it was. Maybe it wasn't. I was on holiday, and I would never know, and I found that I genuinely did not mind. I was still shaking slightly with the adrenaline of a fear that had, once again, met the actual world and dissolved in it. "There," said Ellen, steering me toward the gates. "Flagged by a machine, patted down by a stranger, your spares inspected by airport security, and the sky's still up. Worst-case scenario, more or less, and it cost you two minutes and a blush. Can we agree now that the catastrophe lives only in your head? It's been very consistent on the point." "We can agree," I said, and I almost meant it. We had time before boarding, a good hour and a half of it, and Ellen, who believes that a holiday begins at the airport bar and not a moment later, steered us to a table with a view of the runway and ordered us each a drink. It was a strange and lovely interval, that hour and a half, the fear of the security hall draining out of me and the holiday seeping in to replace it, the two of us at a little table watching the planes go and come, a gin for her and a beer for me and then, when those were gone and boarding was still not called, a second round, because we were on holiday and the morning had been earned. I sat there padded and contained and entirely comfortable, a man having a drink with his wife before a flight north, and somewhere in the second beer I noticed that I was happy, simply and uncomplicatedly happy, in a busy public airport, exactly the kind of place my instinct, left to itself, would have had me hiding from, the kind of place I had wanted to refuse before Ellen refused the refusing on my behalf. "You're smiling," Ellen observed. "I'm on holiday," I said. "We're actually going. After all this. We're going." "We're going," she agreed, and touched her glass to mine, and we sat and watched the planes and let the drinks and the morning do their work, and when boarding was finally called I stood up dry and warm and ready, having had, I realized, the first genuinely carefree hour I had spent in a public place in longer than I could remember. The flight was where I crossed a line I had been walking toward for months, and crossed it on purpose, and felt it as freedom. It was a long flight, longer than the map suggested, the way flights are, and the seatbelt sign came on with a chime and stayed on, and the captain's voice said the thing about a rough patch and asked the cabin crew to take their seats, and the toilets at the front and rear went, with a series of small definitive clicks, locked, occupied, unavailable. And all around me in the cabin I watched it happen, the thing I knew so well from the inside and was now watching from the outside, the shifting, the squirming, the man across the aisle who had clearly waited a little too long and was now bargaining with the seatbelt sign with his eyes, the low collective discomfort of two hundred people with no access to a toilet and turbulence making everything worse. And I sat in the middle of all of it, in my thick travel diaper, and I felt the familiar pressure arrive, and I did not fight it, did not calculate, did not glance at the locked toilet and do the arithmetic of holding on. I simply let it go. I had done it calmly enough by now, at home, in a cinema, in a restaurant, that the letting go itself was no longer new to me. What was new, what I had never done before, was to do it here, thirty thousand feet up in a packed cabin, hemmed in on every side by strangers who had no such option and were visibly suffering for the lack of it. Calmly, deliberately, reading my magazine, with the plane shuddering around me, I wet myself into the thing made for exactly this, and felt the warmth spread and the diaper take it, and turned a page, and felt nothing at all of the panic that everyone around me was quietly enduring, only a deep and almost luxurious ease, the ease of a man who has, alone in a planeful of trapped and uncomfortable people, absolutely nothing to worry about. Ellen, beside me, reading her own book, did not look up. But she felt me settle, or knew, the way she knows, and her hand came over without her eyes leaving the page and patted my thigh once, twice, a small private acknowledgment, good, that's right, that's what it's for, and went back to her book, and I sat in the turbulence dry-trousered and serene and thought that I would not have traded places with a single other passenger on that aircraft. It happened twice more, the pressure and the calm letting-go, and each time the diaper took it, and each time I felt a little further from the man who had once driven home from a client meeting with his coat knotted round his waist. By the third time it had grown properly heavy, thick and full and swollen with the work it had done, and I noticed the weight of it, the way you notice a full bag on your shoulder, and a year before that heaviness would have set off every alarm I had, the old arithmetic, how much more can it take, how long till I can change, what if it goes. But the alarms did not come. There was simply nothing in me to sound them with anymore. I knew, without needing to check, without needing to ask, that it was Ellen's to worry about and not mine, that she had measured these and chosen these and would have me changed the moment we were off the plane, and that the heaviness I could feel was not the thing failing but the thing working, doing exactly what she had bought it to do. So I let the weight of it be just a fact, neither good nor bad, and I went back to my magazine, and I did not give it another thought, and that, the not giving it another thought, was the whole distance I had come, sitting full and heavy and untroubled in a shuddering plane while two hundred other people counted the minutes to the seatbelt sign. We landed dry, exactly as she had promised, and the proof of it came in the accessible toilet at the destination airport, where she took me to change before we met our transfer. It was a proper roomy accessible stall, and she laid out the mat and had me up on it and undid the bodysuit and the heavy diaper, and when she opened it we both looked, and we both saw the same thing, and Ellen made a small satisfied sound. "There," she said. "What did I tell you." Because it had held, easily, with room left, three wettings and the long flight and all, and the thing was heavy and swollen and thoroughly used but nowhere near its limit, nowhere near leaking, the gel still working, the gathers still dry. The thick ones she had chosen, the ones she had wanted to see on me for no reason but her own pleasure, turned out to be not only her pleasure but genuinely, generously capable, far more than the few wettings of a flight could trouble, and I lay on the mat in an airport accessible toilet looking at the evidence of how right she had been, and I felt the last of some old vigilance let go. "I'll know now," she said, taping me into a fresh one, brisk and pleased. "How much these take, what they'll see you through. That's useful for the excursions, the long days, the ones where we won't be near anywhere to change. Good to know they've this much in them." She pressed it flat. "There. Clean and dry and ready for a ship. Up you get." The ship rose over the terminal like a white cliff with windows, and getting aboard it meant the long slow business of funnelling four thousand people up a single gangway, and the queue for it gave me, unexpectedly, the same gift the worst moments kept giving me. There was a stretch of it, a good twenty minutes, packed shoulder to shoulder in a stationary line in a warm enclosed space with no way forward and no way back and certainly no toilet, the exact trapped slow crush that a year before would have been a waking nightmare for me, the scenario my whole anxious imagination had been built around. And standing in it, somewhere in the twentieth motionless minute, I realized I was not afraid, had not in fact given it a single thought until I noticed myself not thinking about it, that I was simply standing in a crowd, padded and secure and indifferent to the absence of a toilet, free to be bored like everyone else rather than quietly terrified. I had to look away, out through the terminal windows at the grey water, so Ellen would not see what was on my face, because what was on my face was too large for a boarding queue, it was the whole of the last year and how far it had carried me. She saw anyway. Of course she saw. She found my hand in the crush, and held it, and we shuffled forward together up the gangway and onto the ship. The cabin Ellen had booked had a balcony, a real one, two chairs and a rail and the harbour spread out below, and within ten minutes of our arrival she had it organized, the supply case open and its contents stowed in the cupboards, a changing station established on the left side of the bed, the whole apparatus of our days reassembled in a new room with her usual quiet efficiency, so that the strange cabin became, almost at once, simply where we now lived. And then there was Ari. He was the cabin steward, a calm compact man of middle age with the unflappable courtesy of someone who has spent fifteen years at sea looking after the private needs of strangers and being surprised by none of them, and he came to introduce himself within the hour, and Ellen briefed him in the same two clear sentences she briefed everyone. "My husband wears continence protection, and we've a medical bin arranged through the special-needs desk. We'll need it emptied twice a day, and discretion, and otherwise we'll be no trouble at all." Ari inclined his head, a small economical nod, entirely untroubled, a man who had heard a thousand stranger requests. "Of course, madam. The bin is already arranged, it will be here before we sail, lined and lidded as requested. I will service it morning and evening, and at any other time you leave the card on the door. You need not think about it again." And he meant it, and it was done, and before the safety announcements had even begun there was a discreet lidded bin in the cabin's bathroom, lined, ready, and a silent understanding established with a man who would, over the next week and more, become quietly essential to us, the keeper of the one practical detail that made all the rest of it effortless, and never once, in all eight days, anything other than perfectly, professionally, kindly matter-of-fact. We sailed at sunset, and we watched it from our own balcony with champagne, because Ellen had arranged that too. The lines came off and the great ship eased back and turned its bow toward the open sea, and the harbour and the city and the whole receding country slid away to port in the long gold northern evening, and we stood at the rail of our balcony with a glass each and watched the land let go of us, and I felt the particular lightness of a voyage actually beginning, the months of preparation resolving at last into motion, into wake, into north. Ellen raised her glass, and I raised mine, and she looked at me with the gold light on her face and that expression I had learned to read, the warm and certain and slightly amused expression of a woman who has decided something and is enjoying the knowledge of it. "Eight days," she said. "My rules. You've handed me the worrying and the deciding and all the rest of it, and I'm taking it, gladly, every scrap. So here's the whole of your job for the next eight days." She touched her glass to mine, a small clear ring of crystal out over the darkening sea. "Your only job is to enjoy yourself. Everything else is mine. Can you manage that?" "I think I can manage that." "Good," she said, and drank, and the ship carried us out past the harbour wall into the open water, north, toward the fjords and the cold bright top of the world and the thing she had decided and not yet told me, and I stood at the rail beside my wife with the land gone and the sea opening ahead, padded and cared for and completely unafraid, and understood that whatever the last year had been, this, now, was the holiday, and that it had, against every expectation I had carried into it, already begun to feel like the best one of our lives.