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I'm liking the dynamic between Arinae and Devri. So far there seems to be a fairly high degree of understanding on Devri's part. More respect for where Arinae is coming from seeing as she doesn't immediately treat her like a child. Especially with how she's handling Arinae's incontinence. Eventually, Arinae is going to have to come to terms with needing protection. It looks like she's going to need diapers, and Devri is being good about easing her into that. I have overactive bladder myself. I don't often have accidents, but my bladder gives me anxiety and I feel pretty insecure with it. I have been getting occasional random leaks increasingly as I age, and on occasion full void accidents. There are a lot of times that feel like close calls, and I've been experiencing that for many years. Wearing diapers helps me with that. Arinae's response to this seems to be to fight it and run to the toilet. Her incontinence is more defined as worsening over time, an inevitable fact of life, and permanent. she lacks longterm experience with those feelings of urgency. For some people with Overactive bladder, incontinence and wearing diapers can become a desirable outcome if it becomes bad enough. I'm thinking that Bayla and Devri's backgrounds in psychology are going to be very helpful for her to overcome her past. Especially when it comes to her developing incontinence. She lives in a world where a large minority of the population is incontinent. Im imagining they will help her to a point of acceptance. -
Thanks for the note, notes, I understand your thoughts! I have already done this, as I use these overnight pull ups when we travel, and try to get up in the night to use the bathroom to be safe. I offered these originally to my wife as well, and they are available in the bedroom if needed. See still see's these as "diapers" even as I point out the differences to what I use on regular basis. Eventually I would expect her to come over to my logic, but she has to do it in her own time, as she is a very independent woman, and I can't change that, and wouldn't want to. -
Over time, I have come to understand that if you are wearing diapers to bed (for the right reasons) you should not take half measures. I have learned that it is not good for a night of uninterrupted sleep to go to bed with any thing other than what is sure to contain what ever you put into it. As I moved from occasional night wetting to expecting to be wet in the mornings, I also started to anticipate more than one wetting each night, and after upgrading my protection to something that will allow for that with no concern for leaking, my sleep improved tremendously. These days when I prepare for sleep, I use enough layers to do the job overnight, and enough insurance covers over that to insure no leaking, so sleep "like a baby" as they say with no concerns about my diapers doing their job, and a happy wife in the morning!
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By widdlemikey · Posted
Welcome aboard. As you browse about, I'm sure you'll find others to connect with at many levels. Although I'm not a moderator, the folks here run a great site and respond quickly so don't hesitate to speak out if you have an issue (you can contact them privately if you prefer). We all have one thing in common, we either wear diapers ourselves, or have someone in our life that does. All we ask is we treat each other with the kindness and respect we want for ourselves. Enjoy life, be happy. -
Wow! This is so good. I just found it only a few days ago, and it's quickly become one of my favorite stories here. Your description of lila disassociating was particularly helpful to me; I didn't understand the concept much until then, and it let me realize some things about my past. (like how it feels, but also what it looks like) And, it's just a nice and pleasant thing to read. ....You write from a position of genuine love, and acceptance, and care. I like reading about nice people getting treated nicely Thank you for writing this. I wish you a wonderful and relaxing vacation, and I look forward to reading more when you are able to keep going 💚
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