TammyG

I'll switch the statement around which I think we can all agree probably is the problem and say if a person was to say "Dressing like a Girl is ridiculous" you still have the same problem because girls dress in many ways depending on what they're doing and can cover skirted or trousered included short as well as long attire with a variety of differing socks or tights. Now as individual you may associate the way you dressed back then as being for you what you see being dressed like a Girl is but the next girl doesn't but she's Dressing like a Girl as she sees it and so it goes. Dressing as she feels is never ridiculous as the girl she is. There is some common ground between how for me Dressing as a Sissy is, although I'd say it's more dressing as you like as it not a matter of making the statement "I am sissy", and perhaps some LG's in that I like some frilliness but don't like having my legs covered in forest worth of silky material where you'd struggle to find my legs and while I like a bit of satin, I have no interest in stockings and more adult gurl stuff.

I doubt if any one group just dresses in any one set way and personally see little mileage in looking for any kind of narrow definition. The "adult sissy" may do leather, sissy maid, little sissies might do pretty soft dresses, some may go with more puffed out things or at least in the UK school type uniform perhaps role playing being that girl (or gurl). Some adult sissies appear to be able to compartmentalize being one and on another occasion do the other and I share concerns around sexualizing childhood even though as legal adults naturally there's nothing to stop us having relationships with other adults (unless it involves "breaches of professional relationships"). Ikky is Ikky and being a sissy certainly doesn't have to go down that route.

I suspect sellers use labels as tags to reach customers but in the end the garment itself doesn't make you, it's what you bring to it. I'd agree the sort of dresses you are describing could be worn by sissies like me or lgs like you, they're not by design fetish items which I can easily see you running a mile from.

I hear you all. Sometimes I just shoot through a series of red lights and before you know it, it becomes a bit of habit, a habit that causes issues for others apart from letting myself down. I'd sooner someone would say "Tammy, you deserve a spanking" just getting on with it but it seldom happens although spanking me does help turn my attitudes and behaviours around. Faced with that I let that inner voice perhaps in the form of Aunt speak to me so I get a short range implement such as a hairbrush or short loop cane, bend over a chair and spank myself between six to twelve times firmly over my pantie. Visualizing her being there after crying, I apologize for my behaviour and ask to be forgiven. After a short period I readjust my attire, put the implement away and carry on as normal even though I can still feel my sore bottom. I find it helps me.

Tartan girls kilt with pin and white tights is my serious answer and yes I actually bought victoria spongecake and coffee like that with no issues at all with visitors and staff. With the right attitude a sissy can do it, just wear what's appropriate for the situation. In others I'd be a bit more frillified like a private party.

In a positively pink nightdress here.

Greetings from the North western tip of the West Midlands.

You do need to consider if it's a "you crossed that line Little One" spanking where it may happen. In the moment wherever it might be or deferred "until we get home" in say the bedroom and not just to spare you blushes.

I did do at a LG meet a dolly tea party and quite enjoyed it. I do have witnesses young lady.😉

Nods. I have know hair styling and nail care been arranged before now with someone who is "in" with Lgs or Little sissies like me and that's great.

It probably was a political comment (not that I'm going into that stuff here)

Really, the only person who gets a say in what anyone of us sees ourselves as as the one you see in the mirror. I have no need for any sissy to tell me if I'm sissy enough any more than one who isn't (which is fine, I'll stick up for you being you) to suggest you cannot be both Little and Sissy sat here with my dollies just playing without SPH being on my mind and with little more than the liking of a "That's not for little gurls like you" put down perhaps rather than a load of very adult humilation play. And done that for real with a bunch of LG's. What do I like in an event? Play - lots of it, farm yard sets, pastel colored trains, imaginary play in twos and threes with dollies making up stories Playing tag, anything involving firing water about catching people out A storytime session - something suitable young (not Y.A. fiction) Nail painting Crafts A Quiz "Movie night" Certainly nothing "tied up". Anyone like the idea?

Exactly!

Maybe Christine, but my 100% genetic female cousin quite enjoyed playing with boys action figures and still had enough of those traditional nurturing instincts to be a nursery nurse.

There's no harm in mixing things that may be marketed or historically associated with one gender cos you are just you, fabric is fabric and toys are fun comforting things to play with whatever it may say on the box. I like my dolls as much as my meagre collection of toy cars and both can be in adventures.