TammyG

If I'm to be given a spanking, then I prefer it on the bare not least cos it's easier to ensure its made the impact without causing severe bruising and the like. People did try using tickling on me when I was younger but then I often felt as if I needed the loo!

Any complaint regarding how a child is treated is taken seriously and there will be investigations and depending the seriousness protective measure will put in place around children during that period. The source may be a healthcare professional, school, a report of what a child *may* of said, reports from neighbours so yes things can happen and it *may* include spanking as at least in the UK it leaves marks then it will fall foul of UK legislation although spanking per se isn't outlawed in Northern Ireland and England although in Wales and Scotland it is. A concern that parents can run out of options while one the one hand held in law to be responsible for children's behaviours but often feeling that they can and will be overruled in other measures can be corrosive in terms of discouraging parental responsibility but there's no excuse to to leave a child black and blue.

More NB but sissy which wouldn't surprise a certain person here I guess. I don't think in terms of gender so much as gravitate towards more girl-like things but don't have a gender seeking rocket in me set to land in Girl World totally transformed and just treated exclusively as a girl. We've all got identities but we're all very a part of the bigger thing - the human race - and sometimes being a little less centred around identities and more into just play nicely with each other, learning to live with our differences might be more what we all need as much as we feel respected by others.

For some reason I'm stuck in 1974, unable to escape where I'd play with female cousins dollies but they'd play with my Action Men, we had the same musical tastes (Osmonds, Mud, Leo Sayer and the Bay City Rollers) and loved Lamb Chop, Basil Brush, the Wombles when not watching Newsround, Tomorrows World a popular science show), Jackanory and Blue Peter. I'd go to school in grey shorts but dress more like a girls when the folks were out and someone would pop in or at my nan's as she was okay with that but otherwise play with mates on the street or in the grassy recreational squares between parts of the estate as people only had one car and some still had none and you'd ask your friends if Mummy hsd a telephone as again not everyone did. Of course you use the stuff of now - like how could this be posted in the age of the telex and airmail - and you do watch some modern children's tv shows like Operation Ouch and the scrumptious remake of Malory Towers on the BBC but I'm looking in the room and it stills feels like 1974.

Quite. Just be you and go for it!

It depends really what you mean by "being a little girl" or gurl. If you don't really get anything in *any* context from the more full on adult sissy thing that's quite understandable because you've mentally gone back to being more of a child and well we don't do that kind of stuff but you may love the more satin frilly kinds of dresses you might associate with a special party with pretty socks and underwear. You may like, seems to be fair thing for it in the UK for wearing schoolwear and maybe having something like school or infant class role playing drifting back to a classroom situation or just wearing more girls play clothes enjoying playing with dollies or playing games. Sissy isn't all grown up stuff it's real more enjoying being more like girl but knowing deep down you're not,you may be "too sugar coated" for the actual girls but happy to join in as you really hated that all boy stuff. Some girls may call me a"fairy" but at least I've a pretty dress and magical wand!

Just the "fact" you're being AB, VLG/B or Little changes the dynamic as the "adult" is in charge just as they were when you were younger with them telling you what you were going to be doing as much as you might think you know what want to be so really that's not of itself a kink thing although it can be played as such where obviously more sexual humilations like sph are (You might not get off on it but those that do enjoy it). Having your underwear spoke off publically can give you real embarassment as play that you might enjoy without going down the other route, indeed as kids sometimes we'd do stuff like that to bring someone down a peg or two.

The other thing is "In what way are any sites different?", are they about "the look" in so much you can say there is any one single one, a sense of gender based identity that isn't around being transsexual whatever limits individuals may have with achieving all that means or is it routed around more "adult" things or more younger (as you call it AK) and so on. Just a short description can help. Sometimes just being you and some toleration of how you may label yourself by others may appear to a better way forward than narrower focuses.

I'm a bit wary of adding another sub forum although it can be hard to resist when so many have been created cos it further divides sub sections of "the community" on here although I am autistic myself and am understanding of how we can (and are misunderstood) by folks in the "real world" and the virtual one. Sometimes on this form you're approaching the junction, trying to find the exact right lane to get into and post even if at the time those present felt they needed all these turnings.

I would of thought having to be change in front of *anybody* that just had present when it was needed although whiffs aren't by any means nice at all

Welcome Emily. This site is a bit big so you may wish to get to find all the different bits so you know what goes where but this bit is the mainly Sissy only related stuff tends to go, however you see yourself as the classical more "adult" sissy or more a Little who's more frilly and super cutesy than almost any girl or anywhere along the way as the definitions games is riddled with "But I do this too" bits you just might as well forget matching them and just get on with being you. And while I'm about about, don't pay the Sissy Tax or just look for stuff marketed as there is much we can wear as we wish, even alter if sowing is your thing so don't be spending tons of money on mediocre finished clothing just cos they've put the world "Sissy" in the description. Regards Tammy.

It may surprise you Christine that as much as I loved the pop music of my own era I did like Teresa Brewer and Debbie Reynolds.

We are totally totally scrumptious dear, refined and always wanting to look our very best. Perhaps folks would like love to write this twenty-five times: My name is (insert) and I thoroughly love being a sissy gurl from head to toe. Onwards we go and go. With delightfully girlish manners, I put down the spanners and play with my dollies with excellent manners being the best gurl I can instead.

Maybe but I'm sure you'll remember the "That's a dogs name" put down and yet quite a number of modern children's name were associated with dogs so how is the modern child going to react when they discover that? I remember a Deborah would would go into a rage if you ever called her Debbie no matter the circumstances.

The last time I looked at manties.net the site was kind of broken with links not working and no obvious updating for what in internet terms at least ages. It's a pity because I did use them around ten years ago and they did to me at least get the shape right, the extra space but the very feminine looks without going into the lashings of lace unless you paid for extra helpings (I like some but don't wish to look like the roll got totally wrapped around me). There was some politicking in some sissy circles over the name - some wouldn't touch anything designed and marketed to genetic males - personally I'm more pragmatic. If it fits well, feels good and I feel good in them, that's a win.