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The kinked hose issue - which, correctly as you have stated, does prevent emptying, but does not stop the voiding. It is all about the process and how it works - once the trigget to void is sent, the sphincters open and the bladder muscle constricts. A 1/4 full bladder (100ml as opposed to 400ml) when the muscle constricts, it increases the pressure in the bladder which triggers the stretch sensors on the the bladder wall, and this signals the brain of a need to void. This is the reason that when the hose is kinked that one feels that they can't void, BUT one still voids, but feels that they are voiding in small quantities. This is more prevelant with males adults as opposed to females due to the extension of the hose outside the core of the body, however, there is a solution - and this has been employed with babies due to the proportion of the babies diaper to their physical size, there is always space for the member to move / flop around. Solution When wearing an adult diaper, before putting it on :- fluff it out fold / roll lenght ways and then crossways to uncompress the fluff. fold it lenghtways to create a pocket / space for the member place on a pair of plastic pants as a form of confidence against leaks as with some disposble diapers, the SAP can be sharp and place micro holes in the rear plastic backing. put on a onesie to hold everything in place. when sitting (car etc) place an underpad underneath you this is for confidence and not to prevent leaks as with the above process, the diaper very rarely leaks, and that is from not changing rather than normal usage. The diaper should be on, taped at waist (upper tape above the hip, lower tape below the hip) where the member is poining downwards but not tightly squashed. As a result, when you wet while standing up, the wetness goes mainly into the front of the diaper, where when you are sitting, the wetness goes mainly into the centre of the diaper, and lying down, the wetness mainly goes to the rear of the diaper. The space allows the diaper to swell and expand without squashing the member / extra stress on the plastc backing. The usage of compression pants etc when wearing a diaper is never a good idea as it compresses the padding as it reduces the ability of the diaper to absorb. To disquise diaper wearing, I have used long t-shirts / shirts / tops that go down past my butt on the rear etc. so no one can actually see my butt or front. The loose fitting tops means that the 'panty' line from the top of my plastic pants are also hidden. As a result, when sitting, the kinked hose issue becomes less and less of a problem. The Kinked Hose Issue is more mental than actual since when the voiding process occurs, urine still passes the kink but you are informed that you need to void. Over time, this will become less and less of an issue since any trigger causes the bladder to void - i.e. standing, moving, water running, coughing, laughing, stretching etc. This is due to the sphincters becoming weaker as you are no longer closing them tightly to retain urine until you get to a bathroom. Therefore, movement of internal organs and/or shifting weight increases pressure on the bladder which triggers the voiding even at smaller volumes down to 5ml or less. When it comes to driving, moving the legs to operate the pedals etc. also trigger the release. This is where the sphincters operate in conjunction with other muscles / muscle groups, a behaviour from early childhood. Some have encountered spasms etc from these sphincters which are these muscles opening and closing without the bladder muscle contracting which allows release where urine drips out. Chronology The actual timescale from using a bathroom to complete dependance on diapers is only based on ones actions, wishes, belief. Since it is all within the mind, the sooner that you 100% accept that you are now diaper dependent, the more the mind makes it occur. The power and speed of the mind has been proven with the 'Lemon Test', first performed in 1900s by Pavlov, where one, with their eyes closed, imagines a lemon in their hand, expands that image to feel the skin of the lemon, the top and bottom of the lemon, and then the smell of the lemon. Make it as real as possible. Now, take a bite of the lemon, where Pavlov observed that the person taking a bite of an imaginary lemon reacts the exact same way as if they bit a real lemon, where their salivary glands react. Pavlov originally stated that the salivary glands can't tell the difference between a real lemon and an imaginary one, yet more modern research has discovered that the human brain can't tell the difference between an image it creates verses a real item. To some, this is an error in the brain processing, but to others, this is how the brain works - as it creates everything as real as possible. This action within the human brain shows how confused our brain can get when provided with the correct circumstances, and how it adapts using something that it knows - and this 12 Month Diaper Program does just that - but it needs partakers to fully embrase the belief from day one that they are diaper dependent. This is the reinforcement to control the brain to make the decision that the body voids without interaction / interruption - the exact same process the body did as a chronological baby and before toilet training - which also includes the associate mental behaviour of not giving it any attention either to the clothes you are wearing, whether you are dry / wet / messy / leaking, and if you have / have not leaked. This second part, not paying attention after voiding is to address the key item that was taught to you during toilet training - only babies wet / mess their pants & it is dirty / cold / uncomfortable & leaking pee / poop is wrong etc. This meme is so strong in some people's mind that they can't accept that a person other than a child under the age of 2 could be in a wet / messy diaper. Some think that chronological age may play a part, but age to the brain is just a number and nothing else, where numbers are just a way of counting. There is no real achievement reaching a certain age, and the act of celebrating the event didn't start until middle ages / 17th century, and was propagated by marketing - selling cakes / candles etc., and also to mimic Greek 'Gods'. This was the concept of following the fasion of the weathy at the time, but didn't really exist until late 18th century. Prior to that, most did not know their own age. The adult in us knows how to protect the area for a baby... and that we need to do, and then, like all security methods, trust fully in it. This allows us to feel safe in our homes, cars, places of work etc. where we do not analyse the security risk every second of the day. We accept that we are secure. Similar safety mechanisms we need to employ where we are in diapers 24/7/365 in all locations we might be - home, bed, car, place of work etc. Once that has occured, the next step is to convince / confuse the mind - wear the diaper(s) 24/7/365 and give ourselves the permission to use same in all places at all times. After that, it is just a matter of time before we are fully diaper dependent, and again, that time period is totally up to ourselves. -
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By cute little kokiri girl · Posted
Camilla thought about it but then had an idea maybe go with a carrot and stick approach, "maybe Emily could spend a few days with you and Alice and you give her spankings and a suppository before bedtime, also encouraging Alice to lend a hand is he promises to be a baby around Emily showing the little one how she supposed to act that way by the time Emily a bit more of a will be a baby and also miss her big sister, what do you think?" When Ana read that she was not entirely sure but then she looked at Alice, the girl had stopped playing and had closed her eyes and was grunting, but that wasn't concerned for Ana, in fact it put a smile on her face as Alice soon filled her diaper before letting out a sigh of relief and getting back to her playing.
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