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By rusty pins · Posted
You are the best! We often grumble about things but seldom give you the thanks you deserve for all your hard work! -
By giantessman · Posted
Fred looked down and could see he somehow was peeing himself. "No wait no I didnt mean to..." He said as he was placed onto the changing pad right where his mom had the toddler clothes and thick Pampers Cruisers diaper meant for a real baby. "Mom please I am sorry dont do this!" -
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By Sissy baby Jess · Posted
Hi Momopeaches Others may disagree, but for me ‘having a dominant partner’ isn’t about wanting them to harm you – in fact the opposite. For a submissive little, pain leads to pleasure – not harm. Yep, may end up with some red butt cheeks and tears from your little one, but it’s the power dynamic they really crave as that reinforces their inferior status either during play sessions, or just in general. True dom/sub relationships are often extremely close and caring because they require a lot of communication, trust, and empathy. That said, it has to work for both people. Adopting a dom role which you are not comfortable with is never going to work, and your little shouldn’t demand that of you or throw their toys out of the pram (pun intended) if you don’t play along. Suggest, as a starting point, explore the dom/sub dynamic with non-physical punishment. Write down rules you expect your little to follow which would be beneficial for you e.g. Doing certain or all household chores Using respectful behaviour/language at all times Having to put a request for ‘little time’ in babyish writing to you (which sometimes you agree to and sometimes you won’t) – which is totally outside their control Buying you little gifts each week/month – nothing expensive, just little expressions of love which show they really care about you Being a man when you need/want them to be Then, create a ‘star chart’ to record how well they are following those rules and when they don’t. For a sub, that’s a really stimulating dynamic. They now know and accept you are in control of the consequences of their actions and behaviours, and any punishment or reward they receive. I can guarantee 90% of the time they will want to please you. But they’ll also frequently ‘play up’ as they crave that punishment. To begin with at least, punishments don’t need to be physical. Using corner time, the naughty matt/stair, early bedtimes, denial of sexual pleasure etc can all create a stimulating dom/sub relationship for both of you. If you start to feel comfortable with this approach, you may then want to explore physical punishment to more fully satisfy your littles needs – but that should be on your terms, not theirs. As always, enjoying ‘kinks’ in personal relationships requires consent, honesty, and love. Hope this helps X
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