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For the grown-ups to discuss ABDL topics. No babies unless you're looking for a 'pankin!
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For some that's just how it plays out in so at least initially I'd say don't box yourself in, just explore being you taking things from there and if you find yourself in just one camp then that's obviously you. -
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There is something so fun about the idea of dressing up as a baby, with an actual diaper, for a halloween party. I don't think I could ever do it lol -
As per This, it is with regret dear fellow sissies I have to you inform you the site is closed for the reasons stated on the notice. It had been around for a long time, around mid 2000's I think and in that time much on the interwebs have change, some for the good some more problematic like they way keeping minors out of adult spots that doesn't leave us exposed to potential extortion but it was a broad place where you stepped over anything that wasn't you and used what was for stories, captions (loved Baby Butch's) or whatever. Anyway what's done is done so we need to use this place a bit more and if you know any members at SK who need a new home, do please invite them to come and post away in our bit of the forum. Regards Tammy.
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@Paladin: I can absolutely agree that carrying a bottle of talc or other powder, especially if a full bottle will get an additional inspection. I still carry such, but I (attempt to) always pull it out so it is available for the additional screening without TSA needing to go through my bag. It then gets the secondary chemical / explosives test and then passes. I’m guessing that no one from the US will respond as TSA agents get a level of security clearance and so won’t talk about this. -
@SoakedSheets Aquiring bed wetting is not so much as bladder capacity but more to due with vasopressing and convincing the mind to reduce and stop its production. This is done, as you and others have realized, by creating the scenario where it is better to stay asleep and wet rather than wake in the night to void. As a baby pre-toilet training, you voided at your bodies whims regardless to the state of your diaper - as it was not you call / or choice to change them. As a toilet trained individual, you learnt, and adapted, to wake to void. You have reverted to wetting overnight as have a lot of others. Now, to retrain night time control needs you to go through the same processes that trained you originally - convince your mind that is is better to wake instead of wet. That means going to bed without diapers, and waking up wet in the wee hours, being embarrassed and humiliated by a parental figure as they strip the bed while you shiver, and you washing the sheets the next morning by hand in cold water. It is all to convince the mind to intervene to enable a full nights sleep. As a child, the disruption to sleep routine did not effect you much, but as an adult, it can effect your job / career / interactions with others.... and this needs to go on until your body rebalances its overnight production of vasopressin. As a child, this usually took from age 2-3 until 7-9 years, which is a duration of 5 to 7 years. IMHO, it would be better to accept that you are now a bedwetter and as such, need diapers overnight. The best overnight diapers are multiple layer cloth combined with plastic pants, which when employed correctly, never leak. Many bedwetters hear have significant others who accept the bedwetting - but that, I see, is more due to the bedwetters level of organisation rather than the fact that they are a bedwetter. I have found that a SO will accept most parts of the ABDL lifestyle where the ABDL is at times, the adult, in control and organised. An ABDL that is a constant squalling infant or similar is draining and offputting - where even the mother of a chronological baby like that would loose their mind. An adult that wears diapers overnight is ok to most - as it can trigger a parental 'mothering' instinct - but that instinct can easily get overridden with disqust if the adult / ABDL is occassionally leaving wet diapers around / not putting diapers on correctly where they leak / not organised or focused enough to manage this part of their live. Yes, the ABDL life or the 24/7 diaper wearing life can be relaxing and rewarding to the ABDL, but unless there is a level of adultness in organising and managing this part of your life, a SO will leave. After all, some may want an actual baby of their own and expect their other not only to support them, but aslo be able to support and care for the chronlogical baby. @SoakedSheets it is now entirely up to you which way you go - either as a full time bedwetter as an adult with the level of focus to be able to manage this completely without annoying a SO or spend the next number of years attempting to regain control and then as a non bed wetter. Both options need the adult side of you to be fully adult - which is something that you need to work on - i.e. organise yourself at the level one would expect from a person in the military etc. The bed wetting is either fully accepted OR reversed, and once you reach that level of organisation, the bed wetting should not be a problem to a SO - after all, you are fully in controll and reliable as a person to / for your SO - and the bed wetting (if it still exists) is just a part of you. I wish you success - where the bed wetting is not the problem you make it out to be. Very few people are that callous and cold to leave a partner due to a difference such as bed wetting. It is usually a combination of events that they see stem from the bedwetting, or could be the bedwetting is the visual reminder of how infantile and dependent that you could be.
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