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For the grown-ups to discuss ABDL topics. No babies unless you're looking for a 'pankin!


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    • There are few things that make me feel as babyish as having a real baby diaper inside because nothing quite makes me feel like a baby when I'm peeing my Pampers than actually peeing my Pampers . And when I'm feeling a little naughty I don't cut any slits in my baby diaper so that when I flood it, it will overflow out of the leg openings of my big diaper without having to flood out my adult diaper before it will leak in my pants. 
    • While having my triple bypass surgery I developed a bed sore on my back. Today I saw the Wound care Nurse Practitioner at the VA. While asking about what I was treating my back with, she brought up that zinc was great for diaper areas, she didn't like it for my problem.  @NorthShoreAdamLater after she was done treating me I brought up that Veterans could get NorthShore Adult Diapers, then shared some stories. Especially the one about the young lady that was the only one of a dozen without a UTI, and that you could replace 10 changes with just 3. She thought getting rid of UTIs was the best thing since sliced bread, cutting down on the number of changes was great too.   This was for long-term patients in the hospital, which is unfortunately a more financial problem. They do plan on researching a proposal based on cost and care benefits.
    • And me peeing and pooping in my diaper while she does it.
    • As it happens, there's a link to that "12 month program" thing posted as a sticky at the top of this subforum: But, as they say on the 'net, YMMV... There are a number of us who have carefully chronicled our own respective journeys' for various lengths of time and the consistent feedback has been that the 12 month time frame appears to be wildly optimistic. To be fair, most (myself included) have NOT pursued any kind of bowel incontinence: the social and logistical challenges are, intimidating.  Perhaps this invalidates our experience but I suspect not. For many of us it remains an open question as to whether true incontinence would ever be achieved this way.  What many of us DO report is a kind of diaper dependency that derives from urinary urgency/frequency that does seem to manifest from prolonged diaper usage.  You get to the point where it's just impractical NOT to wear a diaper.  Overlaid on top of that is that you become so habituated to just "going" in your diaper that you find yourself doing it without truly realising.  It becomes automatic, desperately easy even but even then, you could prevent it if you thought about it (although not for long).  This happens to me sometimes now.  I find myself wet and can't remember doing it. One of the unexpected outcomes that both myself and some others (notably @Little Sherri ) have encountered is that bed-wetting can develop.  Again, I suspect this is largely mental (although potentiated by that urinary urgency/frequency) but the effect is the same.  We regularly wake up wet without specifically intending to.  This behaviour is no respecter of time or place.  It happens when it happens and if you're not diapered, that's bad luck for your bed. According to the "12 month program", bed-wetting is the LAST domino to fall in acquiring continence.  Our experience is that it's the first objective behaviour to emerge.  In my case, it probably started happening (rarely) after several months but gradually became more common over the years.  I've been 24/7 for approaching 8 years now. I'm not saying you won't be successful.  Some people seem to be more susceptible to falling than others but I'm saying you may need to accept that it could take a very long time and the sequence of events may not follow that program. ps:  We say we have preserved bowel continence and the most part we have BUT in my case at least, this is now slightly degraded (despite my intentions to the contrary).  If I have an upset stomach it's possible I will have an "accident".  This NEVER happened in the "before" days.      
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