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Yup. You've been training youself to pee right after your key hits the latch. It's somewhat well known, jence theblatch key syndrome. And as you train for it more, the urge gets worse and worse, often before even getting to the door. Your options are to pee before you leave for home, or embrace your diapers even more. -
By Three Rivers · Posted
I have been at this for a minute or two, started around 30 years old and I will be 65 very soon. I have been fully in control of all functions for a long time, but 6 months ago I started to slip a little. I was fine for the most part, but if I was out driving for a while then coming home; as soon as I got to the front door the urge to pee was very intense. Some here have called it latch key syndrome, but I can tell you in the beginning I had several close calls. And then the fun started, as time moved forward I would have these little spurts and make a little wet patch in my underwear before reaching the toilet. Once or twice I wet myself fairly good before getting to the bathroom. So I started to make sure that on longer trips from home, like around a 100 miles or so I didn't have anything to drink before hand. And that helped for the most part, but occasionally I was still cutting it close to making it to a restroom. For daytime trips around town, I would preemptively use a restroom if out and about town as this would cut down chances of an embarrassing wet spot. And now flash forward to around 30 days ago or so, I am now experiencing some urge incontinence issues. If I am sitting down normally I am ok, but as soon as I stand up and the urge to go relive myself happens I have anywhere from 10 to 30 seconds to get to the toilet. And I can tell you I have made a few messes (Water works) on the toilet before getting everything into position and aimed correctly. Because when I go it's a full on flood and no stopping it. And also to that mix is the after dribbling, that most of the time I am not aware of and that causes wetting my underwear and pants or sweats as well. So I now stand at the toilet for a few seconds after the main event to make sure that I am totally finished. I have an appointment with my Doctor this coming week, and I will be bringing up all these issues. Could be prostrate issues or something different, and I expect to be referred to an Urologist for further testing. So as I am two weeks from turning 65 here we are. Now I have been a diaper lover for around 35 years now with zero issues and fully in control of everything, but I now have crossed that threshold of there may be a different chapter in my book to be written soon. And if so, I will deal with it. Yes it's true what they say, getting old sucks. But that's life........................... -
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Maybe people just aren't developing incontinence anymore. 🤥 Or better yet, they're embracing it more and coming here instead.🤣
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That answer is all over the place for me. I'm way better now than when I started out, but also getting a relapse. After my car crash atnage 18, I had to start wearing diapers 24/7. I'd get massive urges, but I also had a large bladder (500+ ml), so I'd majorly flood my diaper. Or if I was close to a toilet I'd still use it. Back in the 90's it was either Depends or Attends. They usually held one big flooding, but when they leaked they leaked bad. They wouldn't hold up to me peeing while laying down either, and the urges always made sure I was getting up anyways. Worse yet, in the 2000's my Detrusor Sphincter Dysynergia got really bad. Which meant I'd get an urge, then have to strain really hard just to get a small stream. By then I was using the still good Abena XPlus, so they usually held up ok. But when they leaked it was still enough to be noticable. When Confidry came out I had fewer leaks. Which was good because all that straining led me to develop IBS-D and an anal fissure that slowly bleed with every strain. In the 2010's I underwent a slew of surgeries. After them all, I was functionally incontinent. So yea, no more painful urges or straining! Instead, I would mostly have a continuous drip or small stream. I had no control, but could still feel when I was going. The only exception was if I was sitting on a hard surface or in my car. My urethra would get clamped off, and I could still end up getting an urge. And most nights I'd never wake up needing to pee. Throughout the late 10's and early 20's I started to get more times when my bladder would fill up again. So urges started to get worse again, as was waking up just to roll over so I could easily wet my diaper. I had also switched to Betterdry when it first came out. Their V1 was like a tank, and they never leaked on me. Even in spite of having to greatly increase my water intake. Eventually I switched to Crinklz. Unfortunately, Betterdry/Crinklz slowly got less and less reliable. That's when I started having to use a baby diaper booster with them. And when I lost enough weight last year, I ended up in between their Mediums and Larges. More leaks occured. And thanks to the clamped off urges I also started waking up most nights. Just so I could roll over or strain just a little bit to wet my diaper. In the last few months I've had to go through testing a slew of diapers. Eventually I switch to the new USA Megamax, which I nownget through the VA. They're great for during the day, but I had developed nocturia a while back (an increased wetting at night), so I easily overwhelm them at night. I've been pairing them with an Eternadry XL booster, and leaks have once again been far and few in between. I've also had a urologist re-evaulate me. We think my internal sphincter has regrown enough to occasionally clamp me off again. Hence the urges and waking up again. So I'm scheduled to have a bladder neck incision in late September. If all goes good it should widen my internal sphincter to be more like a funnel than a shut-off valve. But well see.
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