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The problem with that is you can still feel the catheter, and for many it's actually quite painful. Especially when guys get those regular penis size changes throughout the day. And double so when erect or sexually active. A stent minimizes or eliminates all of that. Allowing you to experience almost true incontinence with any disruption. -
Yeah. Unfortunately this situation is just that common. It's really no wonder we both had the same thoughts on it. It usually only ends one of three ways. 1. You try to supress your diaper needs. All for staying with the wrong person you thought could have been right at that time. This can go on for years, but it WILL fail. Sometimes even in divorce with kids involves. 2. The two of you work out a "don't ask, don't tell" situation. You only indulge in your diapers when she can't see it. It's barely enough for you to function, but you find ways to make it work long term. You're not as happy as you should be, but it's a sacrafice you make in order to live your lie of hapiness and love. 3. The two of you come to an actual understanding. Usually it's a slow process that takes years. But eventually she realizes that diapers are just something you need. Maybe she tolerates it without ever participating. Or maybe you get lucky and she eventually embraces this vulnerable and innocent side of you. Or maybe she even finds she likes you in diapers after all, even in the bedroom.
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You said that like being gay is the result of a traumatic experience during childhood. Yet you couldn't be further from the truth. Ones sexual leaning is more than a culminationnof oir experiences. It also how were born to like or dislike certain things. I didn't even find out I'm bisexual until I was 19. And there was nothing I experienced in my childhood that led me to be this way.
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You have bigger problems than just a diaper fetish. Hypothetically, you "cure" yourself of this "ailment" tomorrow and go back to the love of your life and proclaim "I'm cured!" Will this change their opinion of you? I can't give you advice on the interpersonal relationship front. But after years of therapy, I feel like I can give this advice. Go find a therapist that you can discuss these feelings of inadequacy and feeling like you are nothing with. That level of external validation is unhealthy regardless of the reasons. I would also suggest some couples therapy. Because again, even if you somehow "cured" yourself. There are bells that cannot be unrung, this may be one of them to your partner. heh, I saw that you posted as I was typing my response. I decided that I would go ahead and make my post, because how similar could it be!? Pretty close, I think that should be enough confirmation for someone, that two people would have the same thought simultaneously. You may have put it more delicately than I though =/
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