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For the grown-ups to discuss ABDL topics. No babies unless you're looking for a 'pankin!
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As someone who has had Detrusor Sphincter Dysynergia, I already know what the next steps are. @PeterLupus, your urologist is going to offer you several options. Option 1, a stoma diversion. It's where they use a section of your intestine to make a neo-bladder. They use it to completely bypass your bladder (and sphincters) by creating a stoma (a new pee hole just below your belly button). They connect the neo-bladder to the stoma. You will have to straight cath the stoma every few hours. And if you miss catheterizing it soon enough (or your body produces more urine than for a short while), then you will leak pee out of the stoma. From what I researched it WILL happen many times, and it WILL be a major mess. And diapers won't help because the stoma will be above the "waistband" of the diaper. Oh, and the resectioning of your intestines WILL cause intestinal problems too. I highly recommend against this procedure, but that's just me. Opion 2 is a sphincterotomy of the external urinary sphincter. This is where they go in through the urethra and use a cold knife to cut into and cauterize the sphincter. The surgery will help a little, but only a little. This is because they can only cut so far before bleeding becomes a problem (in spite of the cauterizing). So you WILL need 2 or 3 sphincterotomy surgeries to remove enough of the muscle so you can pee freely. Oh, and you'll be catheterized for a full month after each surgery. The recovery has lots of blood and comes with pain whenever you sit down for that first month. Except even that won't be enough. Everyone has an internal sphincter as well (which we have no conscious control over). So next you'll need 2-3 more sphincyerotomy surgeries to open that one as well. And more still, repeat surgeries tearing up your urethra will absolutely increase your risk for getting a stricture. It's basically just scar tissue that grows in response to trauma in that area. And that stricture has a high likelihood of completely blocking off the urethra. So, que even more surgeries to try and remove it as well. I personally went through all of that about 10 years ago, and also cannot recommend this. It took removing my prostate AND an additional inch of my urethra to get rid of my stricture. A lot of that was bad luck over the course of FIFTEEN surgeries in about 3 years. AND it seems my internal sphincter has grown back enough that my urologist is going to do a bladder neck incision too. Effectively making the internal sphincter at my bladder neck into more of a funnel. Option 3. A radical sphincter-ectomy. This is where they go in through the skin of your perineum and completely sever the external sphincter muscle in just one surgery. This surgery also comes with the option of completely severing the internal sphincter at the same time. Of couse, this type of surgery is more risky and comes with a harder recovery than any one sphincterotomy. But 1 "extomy" versus 4, 6, 8+ "otomies". You'd think choosing this method would be a no-brainer. Yet it was never even offered or mentioned to me before. And given the choice, I'd personally be laid up in bed for just one month than for a few days over and over again. Feel free to DM me if you want to ask about it any more, or I'm happy to openly post about it here for everyone's benefit. -
By rusty pins · Posted
Again, I was being facetious joking that he was out mowing his lawn and going to CVS in just a diaper with no cloths over it. He said, "normal day JUST in a wet diaper". I wasn't being serious that he would be out mowing his lawn and walking through CVS buying wipes in just a MEGA MAX diaper and nothing else. -
The downtime was for instalation of a new fiber line for the higher speed. Other than tht uptime has been excellent with AT&T for me. -
Good to see you Grey!
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By BitterGrey · Posted
Sorry about the short notice. I'm in Chicago till Wed (Sept 02) on a business trip. It has been fairly chaotic so far, including mostly late nights. I haven't made plans because of this. However, it looks like I might not have to work today and Sunday. If you would like to get together for food, games, etc., let me know.
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