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I try to strike a balance between getting the most out of my diapers while being strategic and practical with 24/7 wearing. I don't leave the house in a diaper that could leak or fail in public and bring a my diaper bag (a backpack) for longer times away. Mostly I get 10-12 hours out of a night nappy. On a non work or school morning I like to stay in it and be lazy or have a poo in it.

I'm a bed wetter in training. I still wake pee sleep most of the time. Had a couple accidents with no memory of going and the feeling the next morning is indescribable. This new kind of accident is on the rise. While correlation doesn't equal causation, my friends IPA and red wine are often involved when I truly pee my diaper at night and don't remember.

Still in the very wet Abena pull up I wore in bed. I'm leaking and need to shower and change

Welcome. I love DL intro stories like yours. You mine as well make lemon aid out of lemons.

@oznl I value your further-along -experience then mine in this area. I'm at the stage of night nappies where they aren't an option anymore. I don't wet every night but treasure the nights I do without memory of going. I've found that the best way of looking at the situation is that any peeing my nappy in bed is good wether it be waking up at night and and going, going to bed already wet, or the holy grail of a wet nappy in the morning without remembering. Wishing and stressing for better or more sustained progress does something counter productive to my psyche and results in less true wet nights happen. This is all my personal experience and replication to others is tenuous at best.

Storage locker?

I love the Active Airs from Rearz. I went o a trip last summer to Toronto. The temperature was extreme and much beer was consumed they did remarkably well. They are my go to nappy for any summer wedding/ camping events .

I think it's part of conditioning when in diapers. I'm at the stage of leaking sometimes when changing. I have a limited time stop it before it happens on its own

I recall years ago trying a large style pad made by Tena. Obviously not as absorbing as a pull up diaper. Not sure if the style/ model is made anymore

As good as any non- parody song that passes for "pop county" on the radio these days.

Are you look for pads only for the daytime?

What a cool way to see the world. I feel like America (and Europe, for that matter have inner city and country- to -country rail down in ways Canada absolutely does not anymore. Enjoy your trip! Toronto has a really great brick and mortar diaper shop called Universal Diaper located on the Danforth. I went there for the first time last year and was pretty knocked out walking into what is basically a grocery store but for all manor of adult nappies. Enjoy your CFL experience. Not often do you hear someone from the U.S excited for Canadian football. Like others have said, if you get to Vancouver and feel the urge for a pint please reach out on here.

I don't double diaper but use boosters in high capacity nappies for longer cruising range. I find it works for me.

I can't speak for everyone but I consider myself a fairly social and down to earth person, except in the context of nappies. I had strong realization at a young age that whatever it meant to date or find love would be more complex for me then most people who didn't wear bulky toddler undergarments. Its hard to describe the amount of sadness in this story but it stood out is that the guy, for a while at least, found someone who accepted or put up with his kink. Dark path/end aside, thats something that many AB/DLs never find. I can't help but feel that the family was allowed to fall through the cracks of the mental health system leading to a tragic of tragic endings.

Plastic pants over diapers require no justification. I use them in public all the time.