Mindylou

I am afraid Im at this stage as well. I don't normally like going #2 in my diaper but my body now has other ideas.. it pushes out a little bit all by itself at most inopportune times despite my efforts at making myself try to go #2 both morning and evening daily. Like right now at work... I've been 24/7 for 2 1/2 months so far,this time around and this time it's permanent as my control over #1 has now weakened considerably.

LOL 😆 at all these responses! Now I'm going to be conscious of how I look when I pee in public 🤣 It's great fun to just be able to let go whenever the urge arises!

I wear Betterdry also at night and I have not noticed the change between my last case and the one I just got. I love them! I sure hope I don't have to find another alternative. I was wearing Abena at night but they got thinner and now they are my daytime diaper (used to use North Shore Lite or Tranquility ATN for day)

It's great to be able to wear at work, I know just how you feel! Wearing to work helps me feel calmer, more confident and certainly more productive! Hope you continue to enjoy your diapers anywhere you can!

I get my Betterdry from XP Medical. A case at a time and free shipping. They are my overnight diapers

I like Abena for day use. I use Betterdry for overnight use.

I've been on Tumblr for years.. I'm not sure there is any new content, just a bunch of resharing, but I'm all the time finding profiles I've not seen before of abdl. My content is all ABDL and I've not had a problem with anything there. I'm secret passion flower there.

If you have no form of incontinence then you should have no trouble with retraining for not wetting at night. Wearing diapers to bed for a long period of time and getting used to wetting laying down or in your sleep (even if you wake only partially) will probably lead to weakening signals at night. If you experience any kind of incontinence (like me, urge incontinence-i can't Wake and make it to the bathroom without an accident) it will be more difficult, as I've tried it myself, taking a break.. two accidents later and I'm back to diapered! I'm 24/7 by choice.

Although I'm female I understand your question.. feeling of 'not quite empty ' which is aggravating.. I push it out which is like a reverse kegel, meant to weaken the muscle. Holding it in would be defeating your purpose, to me. I enjoy wearing and never having that full bladder feeling anymore.

I am a diaper lover with a vanilla husband. He has gotten used to it over the years and he cuddles me in bed, pats my diapered bottom, tapes up my night time diaper (I have it situated and pulled into position) and puts on my plastic pants. He has only totally changed me once (wet only, middle of the night leaky). I'm thankful for what he does and don't expect much more. Your SO will come around eventually. Just don't hide and act normal.

In my experience, the bladder does shrink and mine became super sensitive.. like when I try to go without a diaper an hour or so between evening and bedtime changes. I haven't had an accident yet but the bladder is really sensitive to any amount of liquid in it and wants it out ASAP. I would not trust myself to go out without at least a thick pull-up because I guarantee it's going to get wet.. simply stopping what im doing to go to a bathroom is unheard of now.

Good quiz! Mine will be a little different from others 1. Moderate 2. Squirts and small releases (keeping bladder empty, no urges) 3. Vague awareness 4. Heavy wetting at night with infrequent/no dreams 5. Permanent IC 6. Mild/occasional bowel IC 7. No toilet confusion / still will need for bowel IC

I had some really weird ones when I went through my undiapered at night phases. Most involved looking for a bathroom and either not finding one, finding one and they were all dirty or finding communal bathrooms where we saw each other.. now I'm diapered and sleep soundly all night with no dreams.

Congratulations to you also! Nothing to be scared of.. just pad up with pride! You need them, like me... Goal accomplished!

You are very lucky that your hubby understands the "little" side of you! My hubby diapers me too and is great with that but he can't quite grasp why i need onesies and pacis.. I use pacis without his knowing now (he used to know but probably forgot or thinks I quit) and I haven't asked to be put in nto a onesie since I went back to wearing at night.

You make a lot of great points, @DAQ!! Keep those sphincter muscles relaxed even if you have to check yourself several times a day.. they will eventually forget how to clench . And experiment (buy bags, not cases) of two or three varieties of diapers at a time to learn what works for you.. which ones are comfortable, less detectable (or more, whichever your preference), how long they last and hold the smell in.. key is finding a few brands you absolutely trust to wet in, poop in, and not leak. And find the same trustworthy ones in different thickness diapers for different purposes. It's a long process but definitely doable.

I feel like I have maybe achieved my goal of urinary incontinence but I'm not sure. I'm female, been wearing diapers for 4 years with a few breaks .. training myself for urinary IC... most recently came off a total break of a couple of months, when I started wetting in my sleep or not making it to the potty in time before having an accident. Got put back in diapers for night but I also wanted to start day use again so I'm back to 24/7. My sphincter muscles were pretty weak but since last week and going 24/7 they seem to have forgotten to work at all. I can wet without thinking about it and feel it only sometimes. During the night I fall asleep and wake the next morning with a soaked diaper. I absolutely would not trust myself to go anywhere undiapered. Which is fine by me.. I just want to be sure I'm not just fooling myself. My love for diapers has not faded one bit in four years so I am over the moon if this is true incontinence.

My trick... Keep the sphincter muscles relaxed and open at all times. Check yourself many times during the day for clenching. They will eventually atrophy and wetting in your sleep will become the norm. I have wet diapers every morning and no waking up to pee, and I'm wearing all the time because of the lack of control I have anymore. . I know that is your goal too so good luck. Great to meet another female ABDL.

I started wearing first pullups then diapers in 2019. It was first at night only due to my urge incontinence. Then became weekend days then included Fridays.. eventually I went 24/7 for several months until COVID 2021 and a rash stopped me. I started back again a few months later 24/7 and wore for another several months (7-8), but then another rash again during summer made me only wear at night.. Back to 24/7 again and I guess I got burnt out because in March this year I started trying to wean myself off and just do night use, then eventually stopped all together around May. However my break was short lived when I started wetting the bed during sleep a couple of times, and having damp underwear and several accidents during the day,so I got put back in diapers real quick. I went directly back to 24/7 and it's like my muscle memory of not having to hold at all came back very quickly, so much so that I'm afraid to go without a diaper. I'm fine with all that .. just taking great care to not get another rash while wearing in this heat wave. This time it's permanent.

I have retrained myself from 24/7 to night wearing only then to not being diapered at all. Going without was especially difficult the first 2-3 weeks, my bladder was so sensitive. I've been retrained for a few months and getting ready to go back to night wearing due to a couple of accidents, I'm being put back into them (yay!!). Hopefully will be back 24/7 eventually.

I would say Abenas also. The security of plastic back and affordable. Good overnight diaper for me. I also like Betterdry, thicker and a little more expensive.

I take 12 mg HCTZ as needed for lower leg swelling and fluid retention.. on days that I do take them I usually overflow a diaper. I did yesterday because I didn't put on a thick one, my NS Supreme Lite didn't hold it all! I didn't knowingly pee that much I didn't think so I guess it must have just dribbled out.

My hubby don't mind my diapers and don't let it stand in his way when we do anything sexual.. he just removes it and is okay putting it back on afterward so I have gotten used to it now whereas I use to be shy about re-diapering in front of him or him doing it for me.

I have only recently begun to wake up during the night to find my diaper already a little wet! Success!! I'll still wake to pee sometimes though also. I have some kind of IC where I don't have enough time between when I get the signal I need to go and getting up and making it to the toilet before having an accident. I have just taken to wearing diapers every night and helps me sleep so much better. Even experimenting with cloth ones now too.

@joemama414The term "bed wetting" always throws me.. if you mean going to bed unprotected and wetting my pants and sheets, then no, I had no interest in that kind of mess to clean up! If you mean laying in bed and peeing in my diaper then yes I did. I found out by just doing it that I had not reached the level of incontinence that I thought I had, mainly... I couldn't reach as deep a sleep as before but I could sleep and wake up when my bladder told me it was full and get to the bathroom. I would have some weird dreams that not reaching full sleep produces... Now that I'm back in diapers those dreams have stopped! I lasted a couple of weeks without wearing st night before it got too much and now I'm back to 24/7.